He's presumably a straight man, he "liked" the photo of a topless chick.........what is the issue here?
Aquarius ex completely shut me out, will he ever forgive me?
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Who breaks up over "liking a picture on fb"?
Unless you are 18 and younger...if you are, then get over it.
Unless you are 18 and younger...if you are, then get over it.
what is your sign? you are probably being a little over-bearing for your particular Aquarian, if they feel overbeared they will retreat. Not that they don't care about you, it's just they won't tolerate that "temper-tantrum behavior" trust me I would know. I'm a Leo and I use to throw those tantrums like a child with my Aquarius ex, he would ignore me and acted like he didn't care, but I have since recognized my behavior and learned how to think logically and rationally before I react. When I would come to him and approach him rationally about my problems was when he would listen.
Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowI think the issue was that she was a ghetto black girl, not a model, and I felt like he wanted that over me.
He's presumably a straight man, he "liked" the photo of a topless chick.........what is the issue here?
I'm black but I'm nothing like other black girls, especially ghetto girls. It's my insecurities.
Posted by Leoqueen21I'm a Scorpio, just about the worst match for an Aquarius man. It's exactly how you say with the behavior. He'd do the same thing. I feel so bad because I know if I would've behaved better he wouldn't dumped me. You're very pretty btw!
what is your sign? you are probably being a little over-bearing for your particular Aquarian, if they feel overbeared they will retreat. Not that they don't care about you, it's just they won't tolerate that "temper-tantrum behavior" trust me I would know. I'm a Leo and I use to throw those tantrums like a child with my Aquarius ex, he would ignore me and acted like he didn't care, but I have since recognized my behavior and learned how to think logically and rationally before I react. When I would come to him and approach him rationally about my problems was when he would listen.
Posted by bumboklattYes, I intend to. Also, he blocked me on social media so I don't have a choice. I sent him a letter & he refused it. I know I messed up & it feels so bad.
Ooooo bad bad bad. All you can do now is give him space, perhaps forever...
If this is just a Neverending cycle then someones gotta take a step
Posted by -Flo-Posted by AerazoThat's 1 aqua telling you straight up, wait to the others come in..
Who breaks up over "liking a picture on fb"?
Unless you are 18 and younger...if you are, then get over it.click to expand
I didn't dump him, he dumped me over my reaction to it. I would've never dumped him over the photo. I'm not sure I'll just get over him though. I really liked him but my freaking insecurities.
You know what? You've done the right thing. I would have found his behaviour offensive too, advertising that he likes trashy women exposing themselves in public, while being in a relationship with me. "What's next?" I would have asked right there, on FB. "Advertising how much you paid her for a BJ?" That would teach him. Always call the shit out!
Was he ignoring you before, including your warnings? It looks like he did it on purpose, to justify ending the relationship. Was too coward to do it properly. Get yourself another boyfriend, who knows how to respect you.
Was he ignoring you before, including your warnings? It looks like he did it on purpose, to justify ending the relationship. Was too coward to do it properly. Get yourself another boyfriend, who knows how to respect you.
There is nothing to blame yourself for, sweetie. Otherwise you would be in the process of becoming a doormat. On/off relationships with immature men are not worth the trouble. They almost always end up badly.
Posted by UndineYes, he was ignoring me. I told him it was hurting my feelings. The WHOLE week because he was angry over something else. I know he was doing it on purpose because he already knew how I felt about it. Even his cousin told him it's wrong when you have a woman who carries herself to a higher standard.
You know what? You've done the right thing. I would have found his behaviour offensive too, advertising that he likes trashy women exposing themselves in public, while being in a relationship with me. "What's next?" I would have asked right there, on FB. "Advertising how much you paid her for a BJ?" That would teach him. Always call the shit out!
Was he ignoring you before, including your warnings? It looks like he did it on purpose, to justify ending the relationship. Was too coward to do it properly. Get yourself another boyfriend, who knows how to respect you.
Posted by aquanibI agree. 😢
Id never go like pics out of spite if things were serious. Just lame.
Posted by UndineI agree. I already felt like a doormat I just didn't have the courage to leave. He treated me like crap. Once, he ignored me for seven days & then lied about even after I gave him proof. He never use to treat me this way...I guess he just didn't love me anymore.
There is nothing to blame yourself for, sweetie. Otherwise you would be in the process of becoming a doormat. On/off relationships with immature men are not worth the trouble. They almost always end up badly.
Posted by NevermoreI take it you're a girl because you don't seem to grasp how guys work.
First of all.. how in the fuck would they go far for seeing topless pics at the public social media?
Unless it's at the group thing, but you can even see it!
And second of all. I do agree with Undine here. Of what he did is disrespectful (even he was a jerk to you!)
Posted by SeraphlightYah.......straight guys exist?Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowHe's trash. Lol hahahahaha EW!!! It's so sad ....some dude liking naked pics of women ...it's tragic...
He's presumably a straight man, he "liked" the photo of a topless chick.........what is the issue here?click to expand
I still fail to see what the problem is. He's just being a "bloke", a "dude". We "look", it's what we do. Doesn't automatically make us unfaithful or immature. As if women in a relationship don't giggle like schoolgirls in private over some new cute guy they've spotted. We're just more upfront about it. You hide it.
Pull the carrot outta your asses, gurls, and get over yourselves. OR post nudies of your own for him to "like".
Pull the carrot outta your asses, gurls, and get over yourselves. OR post nudies of your own for him to "like".
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I still fail to see what the problem is. He's just being a "bloke", a "dude". We "look", it's what we do. Doesn't automatically make us unfaithful or immature. As if women in a relationship don't giggle like schoolgirls in private over some new cute guy they've spotted. We're just more upfront about it. You hide it.
Pull the carrot outta your asses, gurls, and get over yourselves. OR post nudies of your own for him to "like".
"We "look", it's what we do."
Yeah, you're right...the thing is, "dude", that he was not only looking. He could have also wanked himself over her tits for what we care, but that's not the point!
By pressing "like", he projected her trashy exposure onto the timeline of his girlfriend, his relatives and his FB friends. It's like he "pimped" her to other males: "whoa, look what I found and like!" The first reaction of them would most likely be..."isn't he the boyfriend of...?" The girlfriend will be first one to see it, cause she is likely to have him on "speed dial" out of love. And perhaps her siblings, parents, girlfriends... all those people important to her may see it too.
How would you feel if your sister's boyfriend is posting pictures of trashy, naked women, for everybody to see? What would you tell her.....get over it, he obviously has only you on his mind? LOL!
Posted by UndineIf people actually let something so retarded like social media ruin their relationship, then they were obviously not worth the effort in the first place.Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShow
I still fail to see what the problem is. He's just being a "bloke", a "dude". We "look", it's what we do. Doesn't automatically make us unfaithful or immature. As if women in a relationship don't giggle like schoolgirls in private over some new cute guy they've spotted. We're just more upfront about it. You hide it.
Pull the carrot outta your asses, gurls, and get over yourselves. OR post nudies of your own for him to "like".
"We "look", it's what we do."
Yeah, you're right...the thing is, "dude", that he was not only looking. He could have also wanked himself over her tits for what we care, but that's not the point!
By pressing "like", he projected her trashy exposure onto the timeline of his girlfriend, his relatives and his FB friends. It's like he "pimped" her to other males: "whoa, look what I found and like!" The first reaction of them would most likely be..."isn't he the boyfriend of...?" The girlfriend will be first one to see it, cause she is likely to have him on "speed dial" out of love. And perhaps her siblings, parents, girlfriends... all those people important to her may see it too.
How would you feel if your sister's boyfriend is posting pictures of trashy, naked women, for everybody to see? What would you tell her.....get over it, he obviously has only you on his mind? LOL!click to expand
And my ex brother-in-law DID do it, to my sister, who he was married to. He'd taken a photo of WWF's Sable and had photoshopped himself into it grabbing her. My sister thought it was hilarious and they hung it on the pantry door in the kitchen.
Yeah they divorced a few years later but that's because they let the mother-in-laws have the run of the marriage.
Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowI would have found the photoshopping funny too. It was intended to be funny! Advertising your LIKING of half naked women to everybody that matters to you, while in a relationship (with someone who already told you off for it), it's rather sad though.Posted by UndineIf people actually let something so retarded like social media ruin their relationship, then they were obviously not worth the effort in the first place.Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShow
I still fail to see what the problem is. He's just being a "bloke", a "dude". We "look", it's what we do. Doesn't automatically make us unfaithful or immature. As if women in a relationship don't giggle like schoolgirls in private over some new cute guy they've spotted. We're just more upfront about it. You hide it.
Pull the carrot outta your asses, gurls, and get over yourselves. OR post nudies of your own for him to "like".
"We "look", it's what we do."
Yeah, you're right...the thing is, "dude", that he was not only looking. He could have also wanked himself over her tits for what we care, but that's not the point!
By pressing "like", he projected her trashy exposure onto the timeline of his girlfriend, his relatives and his FB friends. It's like he "pimped" her to other males: "whoa, look what I found and like!" The first reaction of them would most likely be..."isn't he the boyfriend of...?" The girlfriend will be first one to see it, cause she is likely to have him on "speed dial" out of love. And perhaps her siblings, parents, girlfriends... all those people important to her may see it too.
How would you feel if your sister's boyfriend is posting pictures of trashy, naked women, for everybody to see? What would you tell her.....get over it, he obviously has only you on his mind? LOL!
And my ex brother-in-law DID do it, to my sister, who he was married to. He'd taken a photo of WWF's Sable and had photoshopped himself into it grabbing her. My sister thought it was hilarious and they hung it on the pantry door in the kitchen.
Yeah they divorced a few years later but that's because they let the mother-in-laws have the run of the marriage.click to expand
Posted by Koniuchaayeah, people gonna look - always - if it's there - but to actual "like" the picture is going too far when you are in a relationship - straight up!Posted by UndineYes, I'm waiting for someone in a relationship to come here and say that they would be fine with this behavior. I won't hold my breath thoughPosted by HeavyEntertainmentShow
I still fail to see what the problem is. He's just being a "bloke", a "dude". We "look", it's what we do. Doesn't automatically make us unfaithful or immature. As if women in a relationship don't giggle like schoolgirls in private over some new cute guy they've spotted. We're just more upfront about it. You hide it.
Pull the carrot outta your asses, gurls, and get over yourselves. OR post nudies of your own for him to "like".
"We "look", it's what we do."
Yeah, you're right...the thing is, "dude", that he was not only looking. He could have also wanked himself over her tits for what we care, but that's not the point!
By pressing "like", he projected her trashy exposure onto the timeline of his girlfriend, his relatives and his FB friends. It's like he "pimped" her to other males: "whoa, look what I found and like!" The first reaction of them would most likely be..."isn't he the boyfriend of...?" The girlfriend will be first one to see it, cause she is likely to have him on "speed dial" out of love. And perhaps her siblings, parents, girlfriends... all those people important to her may see it too.
How would you feel if your sister's boyfriend is posting pictures of trashy, naked women, for everybody to see? What would you tell her.....get over it, he obviously has only you on his mind? LOL!click to expand
No offense, but I don't see where the initial problem was. Liking a picture on social media doesn't make someone the devil. Finding another woman's anatomy attractive aside from your significant other is natural. It's human nature. I'm sure you have noticed other males are attractive while dating him. Letting social media or the internet become so serious in your relationship is the source of your problem. If he isn't messaging/talking to someone trying to hook up, or physically cheating he isn't doing anything? And by the way you described the woman in the photo, you sound like you have jealousy issues that you yourself need to work out if you want to date a typical Aquarius. I have an Aquarius moon and I know when I want someone out of my life I do something that I know will cause a reaction bad enough for me to have a valid enough excuse to leave. Especially if I feel smothered.
I feel like there's something else going on here besides the "he liked a naked woman's picture"
so let me put more effort into helping you understand why he shut you off.
1. how long have you been dating for?
2. Are you actually dating? are you sure?
3. What do you mean by "he knows how I feel about liking pictures"
4. how's your relationship with him?
5. In my case, even if I'm in a relationship if I find a nice picture I'd like it. I follow erotic accounts, love, poets, arts, most of them have nudity, or some sort of sensuality. and if I Like the picture then I LIKE THE PICTURE.
it doesn't mean I'm gonna go find the person and cheat, or send nudes to them.. or ask for nudes...
I'd be upset if...he received the picture by Fb message, DM snapchat, or has a special contact with the person in the picture.
Now I'm a 29 yr old woman who was with a guy for over 12 yrs, never had cheating issues..
so let me put more effort into helping you understand why he shut you off.
1. how long have you been dating for?
2. Are you actually dating? are you sure?
3. What do you mean by "he knows how I feel about liking pictures"
4. how's your relationship with him?
5. In my case, even if I'm in a relationship if I find a nice picture I'd like it. I follow erotic accounts, love, poets, arts, most of them have nudity, or some sort of sensuality. and if I Like the picture then I LIKE THE PICTURE.
it doesn't mean I'm gonna go find the person and cheat, or send nudes to them.. or ask for nudes...
I'd be upset if...he received the picture by Fb message, DM snapchat, or has a special contact with the person in the picture.
Now I'm a 29 yr old woman who was with a guy for over 12 yrs, never had cheating issues..
Combine both Leoqueen21's answer with Undine's and that's what you go with.
It's both disrespectful to you and your relationship for him to do that, but IF you want to keep it, you need to slow your roll and not react so emotionally.
It's both disrespectful to you and your relationship for him to do that, but IF you want to keep it, you need to slow your roll and not react so emotionally.
Posted by JikanyotomareDo you know how many pics of hot people I l hit the like button on in a day? You would lose your mind. This was so silly. You're not the only person in the world he is attracted to. Figure out why it bothers you that he is human.
My ex blocked me EVERYWHERE on social media after I lost my temper over a photo he liked. The photo was of a topless ghetto girl. I said this to him:
"I can tolerate being ignored but I don't think I'll ever be ok with a man who likes these kinds of things. It's disrespectful to me & our relationship. It's childish. I give you my time body, & effort. I don't entertain other guys period. I've been stressed about you/us all weekend but this is where your mind is at"
"To me there aren't plenty of fish in the sea just one man I can build a future with. I overlook so many things you don't think I notice. It's just a photo to you but it's more than that to me. If you don't dump me over this in need a little time".
He knew how I felt about liking pictures of Facebook ho**. He was doing it out of spite, because he was angry at me over something else. He'd been a jerk to me all week and so I lost it over the photo.
He then blocked me. I even sent him a letter in the mail to apologize but he refused it.
I didn't want to breakup over something so stupid and I really miss him. I kind of blame myself because I should've just given him space. He would've came around like he usually did. I was just so angry! Now, he's gone & I'm hurt. This is our second breakup! He's never been so cut throats with me though.
Let him come to you if he still cares you'll know.
Not one single bit convinced.
One thing is to look. No one is blind.
Another thing is to actually express that to someone when you are in a commited relationship. By liking a pic, you are telling everyone you fancy that woman. Even the woman itself. You open a door for something else.
Go ahead and look. Dont make a move and tell that woman you find her hot. Online or offline.
One thing is to look. No one is blind.
Another thing is to actually express that to someone when you are in a commited relationship. By liking a pic, you are telling everyone you fancy that woman. Even the woman itself. You open a door for something else.
Go ahead and look. Dont make a move and tell that woman you find her hot. Online or offline.
This is a very nasty game. I bet he "like" the picture not because of liking it, he is smart enough to know that he is liking a trash that he is barely interested but also very smart in knowing the psychology of yours that you will get jealous and possessive with this and will make an issue so that he can end the relationship with you. So to his friends and family you are out from his life because of this picture but the real reason will be that you are controlling, possessive, clingy, insecure and sensitive even though you had a very good side of loving him than anyone. Sorry to tell you but don't waste your time on him he will play the same game again on you, he don't deserve your unconditional love.
Posted by NevermoreWell, he has a lot of thotish black girls who post revealing pictures on his Facebook.
First of all.. how in the fuck would they go far for seeing topless pics at the public social media?
Unless it's at the group thing, but you can even see it!
And second of all. I do agree with Undine here. Of what he did is disrespectful (even he was a jerk to you!)
Posted by aquarius_beautyI wouldn't have a problem if he were descrete about it. I even told him I'd rather he look at porn or like pictures of models than regular thots on FB because those girls don't respect themselves or relationships and they thrive off likes.Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowI agree with him. While I don't agree that he did it in a public forum, part of me still believes you'd still have a problem with it if he was discreet about it. Thing is, they're men. They're going to do it regardless, either behind your back or in front of you. Which would you prefer?
I still fail to see what the problem is. He's just being a "bloke", a "dude". We "look", it's what we do. Doesn't automatically make us unfaithful or immature. As if women in a relationship don't giggle like schoolgirls in private over some new cute guy they've spotted. We're just more upfront about it. You hide it.
Pull the carrot outta your asses, gurls, and get over yourselves. OR post nudies of your own for him to "like".
In his mind, he doesn't want problems which you are unnecessarily causing. I'm not defending him (for the record) but I'm just stating his side of things. In his eyes, he probably sees an emotionally unstable girlfriend who can't control her temper and throws a tantrum when she doesn't get her way.
Just let it go. It seems like you guys aren't on the same page.click to expand
I also sent him sexy pics all the time. If he asked & at random. My problem is that the photos he likes are literal trashy black thots! Not sexy models or women. I told him this as well & He agreed! For a while, he stopped liking those kinds of photos but whenever he got mad at me he'd do it again. I threw a tantrum because he was ignoring me while doing so. Before I went off, I calmly told him how it made me feel but then he liked the photo with her boobs out.
However, I agree, I'm terrible at controlling my emotions and it's why we've broken up in the past but we got back together he said he judged me too harshly. Then of course he did again.
I love my ex & he knows that. I tried to overlook the photos but that one was so nasty I couldn't. I'm sure if you saw it you'd agree. He knew exactly what he was doing, acting out because he was angry. I hadn't lost my temper in 3 months.
Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowPosted by UndineIf people actually let something so retarded like social media ruin their relationship, then they were obviously not worth the effort in the first place.Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShow
I still fail to see what the problem is. He's just being a "bloke", a "dude". We "look", it's what we do. Doesn't automatically make us unfaithful or immature. As if women in a relationship don't giggle like schoolgirls in private over some new cute guy they've spotted. We're just more upfront about it. You hide it.
Pull the carrot outta your asses, gurls, and get over yourselves. OR post nudies of your own for him to "like".
"We "look", it's what we do."
Yeah, you're right...the thing is, "dude", that he was not only looking. He could have also wanked himself over her tits for what we care, but that's not the point!
By pressing "like", he projected her trashy exposure onto the timeline of his girlfriend, his relatives and his FB friends. It's like he "pimped" her to other males: "whoa, look what I found and like!" The first reaction of them would most likely be..."isn't he the boyfriend of...?" The girlfriend will be first one to see it, cause she is likely to have him on "speed dial" out of love. And perhaps her siblings, parents, girlfriends... all those people important to her may see it too.
How would you feel if your sister's boyfriend is posting pictures of trashy, naked women, for everybody to see? What would you tell her.....get over it, he obviously has only you on his mind? LOL!
And my ex brother-in-law DID do it, to my sister, who he was married to. He'd taken a photo of WWF's Sable and had photoshopped himself into it grabbing her. My sister thought it was hilarious and they hung it on the pantry door in the kitchen.
Yeah they divorced a few years later but that's because they let the mother-in-laws have the run of the marriage.click to expand
Posted by leowwwI mind being feeling/ignored. I meant I can tolerate, especially if someone is angry and wants to take a step back before reacting.
You can tell a lot by someone's behavior vs social media.
He has no sense of discretion
Would that bother me, yea it would.
The problem here is that you're bothered by it, he doesn't care and you can't / shouldn't tell him what to do.
If a guy can't comprehend or isn't sensible enough that "liking" or interacting with inappropriate content for me to see... Is fucked up... then already we aren't compatible.
You voiced your feelings about the issue and his response was to block you everywhere?
No actual conversation... Just blocking you?
I wouldn't bother if I were you.
Stop chasing him.
No more letters.
Sorry you're hurting but he sounds immature.
Why would you say you don't mind feeling ignored?
I agree, my ex was very immature. He only Liked those pictures to piss me off. He was mad I wanted a few days to cool off after a previous disagreement.
Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShow
I still fail to see what the problem is. He's just being a "bloke", a "dude". We "look", it's what we do. Doesn't automatically make us unfaithful or immature. As if women in a relationship don't giggle like schoolgirls in private over some new cute guy they've spotted. We're just more upfront about it. You hide it.
Pull the carrot outta your asses, gurls, and get over yourselves. OR post nudies of your own for him to "like".
Yes but looking vs liking is two different things. I check other men out but I'd never show interest out of respect for my relationship.
Also, i don't want to share my body on social media. It was for his eyes only. I sent him sexy photos all the time.
However, the real issue is the kinds of girls he likings photos of not that he's liking photos. Ghetto thots! Not sexy models, pretty girls, or anything like that.
Posted by leowww
You can tell a lot by someone's behavior vs social media.
He has no sense of discretion
Would that bother me, yea it would.
The problem here is that you're bothered by it, he doesn't care and you can't / shouldn't tell him what to do.
If a guy can't comprehend or isn't sensible enough that "liking" or interacting with inappropriate content for me to see... Is fucked up... then already we aren't compatible.
You voiced your feelings about the issue and his response was to block you everywhere?
No actual conversation... Just blocking you?
I wouldn't bother if I were you.
Stop chasing him.
No more letters.
Sorry you're hurting but he sounds immature.
Why would you say you don't mind feeling ignored?
I never told him what to do, just how I felt. He used to take my feelings into consideration but he changed. I just think he wasn't ready for a serious relationship this time around so acted out. He wasn't liking photos until he got upset with me over something else, immature.
Yes, he walked away with no words, just shut me out. I am done chasing him. I don't want him to resent me more and I want to respect his feelings.
I just want him to unblock me eventually, maybe a few years from now. I'd hate to push anyone I cared about away forever, even my worse enemy, because people do change.
Posted by aquarius_beautyI know and it's hurts. I wanted my Aquarius man. He did love me once upon a time and it was great. He never walked away no matter how pissed he was. He'd go silent but always come back around. Howerver, this time He didn't want to be with me. He was settling because his other relationships didn't pan out. It feels bad that someone I love could feel this way about me.Posted by canceraquaThis! ?? OP
I have an Aquarius moon and I know when I want someone out of my life I do something that I know will cause a reaction bad enough for me to have a valid enough excuse to leave. Especially if I feel smothered.
I am guilty of purposely sabotaging my own relationship to have a valid excuse to leave. Thing is when an Aqua wants you, we want you. He's just using this as an excuse to walk away. The worst part is that he was already thinking about doing it for sometime, as Aquas don't usually breakup for the sake of it.click to expand
Posted by EveryOunceYes, were human but it's not hard to like more respectable things or at least women who are the same standard as your girl. He liked picture of thots, girls completely opposite of me. Weave, makeup, huge earrings, booty short, phat asses revealing shirts, etc.Posted by JikanyotomareDo you know how many pics of hot people I l hit the like button on in a day? You would lose your mind. This was so silly. You're not the only person in the world he is attracted to. Figure out why it bothers you that he is human.
My ex blocked me EVERYWHERE on social media after I lost my temper over a photo he liked. The photo was of a topless ghetto girl. I said this to him:
"I can tolerate being ignored but I don't think I'll ever be ok with a man who likes these kinds of things. It's disrespectful to me & our relationship. It's childish. I give you my time body, & effort. I don't entertain other guys period. I've been stressed about you/us all weekend but this is where your mind is at"
"To me there aren't plenty of fish in the sea just one man I can build a future with. I overlook so many things you don't think I notice. It's just a photo to you but it's more than that to me. If you don't dump me over this in need a little time".
He knew how I felt about liking pictures of Facebook ho**. He was doing it out of spite, because he was angry at me over something else. He'd been a jerk to me all week and so I lost it over the photo.
He then blocked me. I even sent him a letter in the mail to apologize but he refused it.
I didn't want to breakup over something so stupid and I really miss him. I kind of blame myself because I should've just given him space. He would've came around like he usually did. I was just so angry! Now, he's gone & I'm hurt. This is our second breakup! He's never been so cut throats with me though.
Let him come to you if he still cares you'll know.
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I know why it bothers me.
I'm the opposite of that, which makes me feel insecure. I'm a skinny, natural, black girl who is in college, loves white humor, bates motel, & anime.
I felt too white & skinny for my ex.
I would've loved if he liked pics of girls like me or even sexy models, not thots. Thots don't respect girls like me.
Posted by geminidudeI love your response. I agree 100% and I am all of those things. He's even said that to me before. That I'm too insecure, sensitive, & controlling & I don't love myself. He still stayed though but I guess it became too much and for that I don't blame him.
This is a very nasty game. I bet he "like" the picture not because of liking it, he is smart enough to know that he is liking a trash that he is barely interested but also very smart in knowing the psychology of yours that you will get jealous and possessive with this and will make an issue so that he can end the relationship with you. So to his friends and family you are out from his life because of this picture but the real reason will be that you are controlling, possessive, clingy, insecure and sensitive even though you had a very good side of loving him than anyone. Sorry to tell you but don't waste your time on him he will play the same game again on you, he don't deserve your unconditional love.
I don't think it was always a game for him. He did love and accept me once. Somewhere along the line he stopped caring & lost respect for me. I think it was after our first breakup and I begged him to stay.
I thought I was crazy until I saw this thread 😆
You keep emphasizing that they were "black trashy thots" or "ghetto girls". Ummm...does race really make a difference?! You sound kinda racist. And, that also is a turn off to all the Aquarius people that I know.
OP, the letter, where you wrote him " I gave you my time body and effort" sound very manipulative, like emotional blackmail....
I know, you are hurting, but please, stay put and calm
if the picture he liked was a public one (otherwise you wouldnt see it), it was an immature boyish reaction.... actually, maybe aimed at you, so you see it🙂
yes, he is immature, but so are you
he likes pictures of half-naked girls publicly, you write him a letter about giving your body... he blocks you.... drama 🙂 I wonder, what are your placements
sorry to say, you are quite similar in your reactions...
he is thinking of you, like you are thinking of him, dont worry.... but tone down your reactions, both of you
I thought you were right to dump his black ass over liking a pic! I've dumped guys for less! If a Mother fucker even looks at me sideways I'll kick is ass to the curb and he can wave to me from the gutter.....Some guys think they can just wave red flags like they're at a parade or something.
Look the one thing I have an issue with you OP is your commitment to keeping your descisions. You had it in the bag you could have walked out of this relationship with your dignity and pride but then you go as far as to APOLOGISE to this guy. Omg how could he ever respect you if you don't respect yourself?
Look the one thing I have an issue with you OP is your commitment to keeping your descisions. You had it in the bag you could have walked out of this relationship with your dignity and pride but then you go as far as to APOLOGISE to this guy. Omg how could he ever respect you if you don't respect yourself?
Posted by The_eleventh_sign_11I completely agree with the above. Not just that but I agree if they were models that he would never have a shot to even talk to its completely different if they are local girls or girls he knows and has as a friend on facebook. If they are random models on instagram will 1 million followers i wouldn't care but its its some random girl who lives down the street total red flag, you should not have apologized. My sister had the samething happen with her now husband and after she spoke to him, he never did it again. That is respect. He doesn't respect you and purposely is doing it to get a rise out of you then you go and apologize...
I thought you were right to dump his black ass over liking a pic! I've dumped guys for less! If a Mother fucker even looks at me sideways I'll kick is ass to the curb and he can wave to me from the gutter.....Some guys think they can just wave red flags like they're at a parade or something.
Look the one thing I have an issue with you OP is your commitment to keeping your descisions. You had it in the bag you could have walked out of this relationship with your dignity and pride but then you go as far as to APOLOGISE to this guy. Omg how could he ever respect you if you don't respect yourself?
Posted by JikanyotomarePosted by EveryOunceYes, were human but it's not hard to like more respectable things or at least women who are the same standard as your girl. He liked picture of thots, girls completely opposite of me. Weave, makeup, huge earrings, booty short, phat asses revealing shirts, etc.Posted by JikanyotomareDo you know how many pics of hot people I l hit the like button on in a day? You would lose your mind. This was so silly. You're not the only person in the world he is attracted to. Figure out why it bothers you that he is human.
My ex blocked me EVERYWHERE on social media after I lost my temper over a photo he liked. The photo was of a topless ghetto girl. I said this to him:
"I can tolerate being ignored but I don't think I'll ever be ok with a man who likes these kinds of things. It's disrespectful to me & our relationship. It's childish. I give you my time body, & effort. I don't entertain other guys period. I've been stressed about you/us all weekend but this is where your mind is at"
"To me there aren't plenty of fish in the sea just one man I can build a future with. I overlook so many things you don't think I notice. It's just a photo to you but it's more than that to me. If you don't dump me over this in need a little time".
He knew how I felt about liking pictures of Facebook ho**. He was doing it out of spite, because he was angry at me over something else. He'd been a jerk to me all week and so I lost it over the photo.
He then blocked me. I even sent him a letter in the mail to apologize but he refused it.
I didn't want to breakup over something so stupid and I really miss him. I kind of blame myself because I should've just given him space. He would've came around like he usually did. I was just so angry! Now, he's gone & I'm hurt. This is our second breakup! He's never been so cut throats with me though.
Let him come to you if he still cares you'll know.
I know why it bothers me.
I'm the opposite of that, which makes me feel insecure. I'm a skinny, natural, black girl who is in college, loves white humor, bates motel, & anime.
I felt too white & skinny for my ex.
I would've loved if he liked pics of girls like me or even sexy models, not thots. Thots don't respect girls like me.
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But he chose YOU so obviously you have everything he wants. A respectable classy woman he can take home to mom. Take that as a compliment. As long as he is not cheating on you what's the problem? I love to look at models but that is a fantasy not reality. I just like to look at beautiful people doesn't mean I want to be with them.
Posted by GeminiinphillyI emphasized that because I am black myself but I'm not like those women. I'm not racists. I felt like he wanted that over me.
You keep emphasizing that they were "black trashy thots" or "ghetto girls". Ummm...does race really make a difference?! You sound kinda racist. And, that also is a turn off to all the Aquarius people that I know.
Posted by EveryOuncePosted by JikanyotomarePosted by EveryOunceYes, were human but it's not hard to like more respectable things or at least women who are the same standard as your girl. He liked picture of thots, girls completely opposite of me. Weave, makeup, huge earrings, booty short, phat asses revealing shirts, etc.Posted by JikanyotomareDo you know how many pics of hot people I l hit the like button on in a day? You would lose your mind. This was so silly. You're not the only person in the world he is attracted to. Figure out why it bothers you that he is human.
My ex blocked me EVERYWHERE on social media after I lost my temper over a photo he liked. The photo was of a topless ghetto girl. I said this to him:
"I can tolerate being ignored but I don't think I'll ever be ok with a man who likes these kinds of things. It's disrespectful to me & our relationship. It's childish. I give you my time body, & effort. I don't entertain other guys period. I've been stressed about you/us all weekend but this is where your mind is at"
"To me there aren't plenty of fish in the sea just one man I can build a future with. I overlook so many things you don't think I notice. It's just a photo to you but it's more than that to me. If you don't dump me over this in need a little time".
He knew how I felt about liking pictures of Facebook ho**. He was doing it out of spite, because he was angry at me over something else. He'd been a jerk to me all week and so I lost it over the photo.
He then blocked me. I even sent him a letter in the mail to apologize but he refused it.
I didn't want to breakup over something so stupid and I really miss him. I kind of blame myself because I should've just given him space. He would've came around like he usually did. I was just so angry! Now, he's gone & I'm hurt. This is our second breakup! He's never been so cut throats with me though.
Let him come to you if he still cares you'll know.
I know why it bothers me.
I'm the opposite of that, which makes me feel insecure. I'm a skinny, natural, black girl who is in college, loves white humor, bates motel, & anime.
I felt too white & skinny for my ex.
I would've loved if he liked pics of girls like me or even sexy models, not thots. Thots don't respect girls like me.
But he chose YOU so obviously you have everything he wants. A respectable classy woman he can take home to mom. Take that as a compliment. As long as he is not cheating on you what's the problem? I love to look at models but that is a fantasy not reality. I just like to look at beautiful people doesn't mean I want to be with them.
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Yes I agree. My ex said the same thing in the past. I just thought if you have a classy woman you like photos of girls up to that standard not & not beneath it. I viewed it as, he's liking pictures of all these thots he must want that over me & that Im not ghetto or black enough. Also, those girls weren't models. Models model. The girls he liked pics of girls simply post their bodies on Facebook for attention & he gives it to them. I wouldn't mind if he liked pictures of models or watched porn. At least I know 9/10 theyre not going to be in his inbox. I know there are beautiful women. I like pictures of models too, male or female, but respectable ones.
Idk...the issue may be that I am insecure & have trust issues. I've been cheated on by two other men for thots. Im a nerdy, skinny but attractive black girl who likes anime, white humor, & all kinds of music in different languages. To a lot of black men I'm weird or not black enough. I guess I projected that onto him when he was a hell of a lot better & accepting than those other guys.
Posted by whatisthisallaboutDid you really have to call me crazy because that's what you basically did. Not that I'm saying I'm not....I know I'm coo coo for coco puffs at times, especially in relationships, but who isn't when they are in love?
I thought I was crazy until I saw this thread 😆
I know I acted crazy and I'm ashamed of it.
Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowOh fucking please with that cop out. So she can go like dick pics on ig too?!
I still fail to see what the problem is. He's just being a "bloke", a "dude". We "look", it's what we do. Doesn't automatically make us unfaithful or immature. As if women in a relationship don't giggle like schoolgirls in private over some new cute guy they've spotted. We're just more upfront about it. You hide it.
Pull the carrot outta your asses, gurls, and get over yourselves. OR post nudies of your own for him to "like".
I don't care if you're a man or woman, you should respect your relationship.
I don't give men passes because "they're just being men"
Nope.
Idk...the issue may be that I am insecure & have trust issues. I've been cheated on by two other men for thots. Im a nerdy, skinny but attractive black girl who likes anime, white humor, & all kinds of music in different languages. To a lot of black men I'm weird or not black enough. I guess I projected that onto him when he was a hell of a lot better & accepting than those other guys.
^^^^This is your problem. You're letting your past and insecurities dictate your present. A guy doesn't care if a woman is ghetto or not when he is checking them out you do. Just because he is into you doesn't mean he doesn't have other types.
Posted by JikanyotomareWhy does their race matter tho? You lost mePosted by NevermoreWell, he has a lot of thotish black girls who post revealing pictures on his Facebook.
First of all.. how in the fuck would they go far for seeing topless pics at the public social media?
Unless it's at the group thing, but you can even see it!
And second of all. I do agree with Undine here. Of what he did is disrespectful (even he was a jerk to you!)click to expand
Posted by JikanyotomareLol ok you're trolling nowPosted by EveryOunceYes, were human but it's not hard to like more respectable things or at least women who are the same standard as your girl. He liked picture of thots, girls completely opposite of me. Weave, makeup, huge earrings, booty short, phat asses revealing shirts, etc.Posted by JikanyotomareDo you know how many pics of hot people I l hit the like button on in a day? You would lose your mind. This was so silly. You're not the only person in the world he is attracted to. Figure out why it bothers you that he is human.
My ex blocked me EVERYWHERE on social media after I lost my temper over a photo he liked. The photo was of a topless ghetto girl. I said this to him:
"I can tolerate being ignored but I don't think I'll ever be ok with a man who likes these kinds of things. It's disrespectful to me & our relationship. It's childish. I give you my time body, & effort. I don't entertain other guys period. I've been stressed about you/us all weekend but this is where your mind is at"
"To me there aren't plenty of fish in the sea just one man I can build a future with. I overlook so many things you don't think I notice. It's just a photo to you but it's more than that to me. If you don't dump me over this in need a little time".
He knew how I felt about liking pictures of Facebook ho**. He was doing it out of spite, because he was angry at me over something else. He'd been a jerk to me all week and so I lost it over the photo.
He then blocked me. I even sent him a letter in the mail to apologize but he refused it.
I didn't want to breakup over something so stupid and I really miss him. I kind of blame myself because I should've just given him space. He would've came around like he usually did. I was just so angry! Now, he's gone & I'm hurt. This is our second breakup! He's never been so cut throats with me though.
Let him come to you if he still cares you'll know.
I know why it bothers me.
I'm the opposite of that, which makes me feel insecure. I'm a skinny, natural, black girl who is in college, loves white humor, bates motel, & anime.
I felt too white & skinny for my ex.
I would've loved if he liked pics of girls like me or even sexy models, not thots. Thots don't respect girls like me.
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Posted by Pandora101
OP, the letter, where you wrote him " I gave you my time body and effort" sound very manipulative, like emotional blackmail....
I know, you are hurting, but please, stay put and calm
if the picture he liked was a public one (otherwise you wouldnt see it), it was an immature boyish reaction.... actually, maybe aimed at you, so you see it🙂
yes, he is immature, but so are you
he likes pictures of half-naked girls publicly, you write him a letter about giving your body... he blocks you.... drama 🙂 I wonder, what are your placements
sorry to say, you are quite similar in your reactions...
he is thinking of you, like you are thinking of him, dont worry.... but tone down your reactions, both of you
Yes, I agree. It was manipulative and I'm very immature as well. I know I have tons of growing to do as a woman. I sent him this via text. After he blocked me I sent him a letter via FedEx to apologize for my toxic behavior but he refused it.
Also, I don't know if he's thinking about me. If his is they aren't good thoughts because I acted terribly. He's such a friendly & attractive guy he might already have a new girl.
Posted by The_eleventh_sign_11
I thought you were right to dump his black ass over liking a pic! I've dumped guys for less! If a Mother fucker even looks at me sideways I'll kick is ass to the curb and he can wave to me from the gutter.....Some guys think they can just wave red flags like they're at a parade or something.
Look the one thing I have an issue with you OP is your commitment to keeping your descisions. You had it in the bag you could have walked out of this relationship with your dignity and pride but then you go as far as to APOLOGISE to this guy. Omg how could he ever respect you if you don't respect yourself?
I agree, but I didn't dump him. He dumped me. I only apologized for my toxic behavior not my feelings over the situation. However, yes, I can't expect someone to respect me when I don't respect myself. I'm working on loving myself more because I don't want to go through this again.
Posted by AerazoPeople do worth things.
Who breaks up over "liking a picture on fb"?
Unless you are 18 and younger...if you are, then get over it.
Like...divorce...
Burnt here 2 apparently passed this point!
Hallelujah!
Aqua girl here, please leave him alone. You are already embarrassing yourself by sending him a letter. -_- The more you chase, the more we pull away. Give him space, I'm sorry you're hurting, but find other things to occupy your mind. And stop lurking, if you lurk, you will definitely find.
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Sun sign: Aries
Moon sign: Capricorn
Mercury: Aries
Venus: Pisces
Mars sign: Aquarius
Jupiter: Virgo
Saturn: Aquarius
Uranus: Capricorn
Neptune:Capricorn
Pluto:Scorpio
Him:
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Moon: Pisces
Mercury: Aquarius
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Sun sign: Aries
Moon sign: Capricorn
Mercury: Aries
Venus: Pisces
Mars sign: Aquarius
Jupiter: Virgo
Saturn: Aquarius
Uranus: Capricorn
Neptune:Capricorn
Pluto:Scorpio
Ascendant: Taurus
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