Well, yeah...this is about the same Aquarius(born feb.14) from my other post which you guys can check out here: https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/aquarius/how-can-i-define-the-relationship-with-an-aquarius-3795793/ I never went to visit him, btw, haha.
Well we've been talking multiple times a day, everyday since February,he would tell me about his life, goals, his day, everything. One time he even cried and said he thought I had a "kind heart".But last week he texted me that he "just wants to be friends for now". I asked him why and he said "You've changed." I asked how and he said that I don't answer his calls and I don't call him. I moved last month and have taken more hours at work, and I explained to him that things would be a bit different, so how have I changed? I told him what was up. I always text him if I'm busy and return his calls, but then HE doesn't pick up. Now he wants to be friends and let things "cool down" between us. It's been about a week now, and we barely talk. He's constantly ignoring my texts(which I , absolutely HATE)or he takes hours to answer them. I take it personally.. He only calls once a day now or sometimes not at all. I tried to stop talking to him, but it's hard because I'm not even sure what to do. Why is this guy ignoring me? Is he not interested in even being my friend, or anything else? Should I ignore him back for awhile? What should I do? Help from Aquas would be great, but any help is appreciated. Thanks, guys!
I would ignore him back and go on about my business. He might or might not come back, but if you live your life and do your thing you will be too busy to dwell on it. Who knows. You might even meet someone better while you're out and about.
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Well we've been talking multiple times a day, everyday since February,he would tell me about his life, goals, his day, everything. One time he even cried and said he thought I had a "kind heart".But last week he texted me that he "just wants to be friends for now". I asked him why and he said "You've changed." I asked how and he said that I don't answer his calls and I don't call him. I moved last month and have taken more hours at work, and I explained to him that things would be a bit different, so how have I changed? I told him what was up. I always text him if I'm busy and return his calls, but then HE doesn't pick up. Now he wants to be friends and let things "cool down" between us. It's been about a week now, and we barely talk. He's constantly ignoring my texts(which I , absolutely HATE)or he takes hours to answer them. I take it personally.. He only calls once a day now or sometimes not at all. I tried to stop talking to him, but it's hard because I'm not even sure what to do. Why is this guy ignoring me? Is he not interested in even being my friend, or anything else? Should I ignore him back for awhile? What should I do? Help from Aquas would be great, but any help is appreciated. Thanks, guys!
Oh, and I'm a Leo(July 28)