@aquarius09
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Posted by KsamCancer
This was a pretty dumb thread. Dont come generalize them all just because you dont get along with one. Cancer Sun and Moon is prob too much for any male Aqua to handle.Also I wouldnt fret over someone you aren't in a relationship with, but you learn that from experience.
who says i dont get along with him? dafuq.
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Posted by KsamCancer
This was a pretty dumb thread. Dont come generalize them all just because you dont get along with one. Cancer Sun and Moon is prob too much for any male Aqua to handle.Also I wouldnt fret over someone you aren't in a relationship with, but you learn that from experience.
and honey. hes the one getting mad because i dont message him . not me
Posted by KsamCancer
This was a pretty dumb thread. Dont come generalize them all just because you dont get along with one. Cancer Sun and Moon is prob too much for any male Aqua to handle.Also I wouldnt fret over someone you aren't in a relationship with, but you learn that from experience.
and honey. hes the one getting mad because i dont message him . not me
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And you're the one dying to be with a boring man. So, what does that make you?
Posted by aquarius09
LOL. However, I think it's pathetic and lame for people to find other people boring. I'm not interested in your facts because you never wrote them to begin with. You just wrote a condescending comment and thought people would probe and entertain your pointless comment. As for me, when I came onto the cancer board, I wrote a long winded post explaining my story. I didn't just write one comment. Hell hath no fury if I had written one liner like you did in the cancer board. Imagine I came in there and wrote "cancer men are boring". We all know what goes on in the cancer board which is hypersensitivity. You didn't do me any favours by taking my side. I didn't say idiotic things to begin with. You took my side because you agreed with what I was saying. I never stereotyped on cancers. I go by astrology. If astrology finds you lame, then that's not on me. LOL. I never needed you to side with me. I'm not some defenseless cancer. I have my opinions which were based on astrology. Astrology, however, doesn't call aquas boring. So jokes on you.here you missed this ~
& THE PRIZE FOR THE MOST HYPOCRITICAL COMMENT GOES TOPosted by aquarius09
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Posted by aquarius09
.I don't hate you guys. Hate's a strong word and I've reserved that for one sign only and it's not you guys. Lemme guess: you got your panties in a bunch on my humorous post, which I was copy pasting. Chill out bud!
Wow! It's funny you mentioned that because I had a feeling you were CC. LOL. You're too sensitive. Saying something bad about a sign doesn't mean you hate them, it just means you don't like that particular quality about them.
I see you're as bat crazy as ever. If you think disagreeing or not liking certain qualities about a sign means throwing hate at them, then you need to get your emotions in check. And as I already mentioned above, go scroll up, I said I won't be ending up with him.
No, I saw your cute attempts to show hypocrisy where there is none. I responded to it already 🙂
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thats cute - is that the most you can say to defend yourself? - lol im simply done w you. just proves how blind some people are to their own faults.
Posted by KsamCancer
This was a pretty dumb thread. Dont come generalize them all just because you dont get along with one. Cancer Sun and Moon is prob too much for any male Aqua to handle.Also I wouldnt fret over someone you aren't in a relationship with, but you learn that from experience.
and honey. hes the one getting mad because i dont message him . not me
And you're the one dying to be with a boring man. So, what does that make you?
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LMAO - yes id love to cause thats basically the only flaw i see so far & thats why i came here for advice lmfaooooo
bye
Posted by aquarius09
LOL. However, I think it's pathetic and lame for people to find other people boring. I'm not interested in your facts because you never wrote them to begin with. You just wrote a condescending comment and thought people would probe and entertain your pointless comment. As for me, when I came onto the cancer board, I wrote a long winded post explaining my story. I didn't just write one comment. Hell hath no fury if I had written one liner like you did in the cancer board. Imagine I came in there and wrote "cancer men are boring". We all know what goes on in the cancer board which is hypersensitivity. You didn't do me any favours by taking my side. I didn't say idiotic things to begin with. You took my side because you agreed with what I was saying. I never stereotyped on cancers. I go by astrology. If astrology finds you lame, then that's not on me. LOL. I never needed you to side with me. I'm not some defenseless cancer. I have my opinions which were based on astrology. Astrology, however, doesn't call aquas boring. So jokes on you.here you missed this ~
& THE PRIZE FOR THE MOST HYPOCRITICAL COMMENT GOES TOPosted by aquarius09
Posted by aquarius09
Posted by aquarius09
.I don't hate you guys. Hate's a strong word and I've reserved that for one sign only and it's not you guys. Lemme guess: you got your panties in a bunch on my humorous post, which I was copy pasting. Chill out bud!
Wow! It's funny you mentioned that because I had a feeling you were CC. LOL. You're too sensitive. Saying something bad about a sign doesn't mean you hate them, it just means you don't like that particular quality about them.
I see you're as bat crazy as ever. If you think disagreeing or not liking certain qualities about a sign means throwing hate at them, then you need to get your emotions in check. And as I already mentioned above, go scroll up, I said I won't be ending up with him.
No, I saw your cute attempts to show hypocrisy where there is none. I responded to it already 🙂
thats cute - is that the most you can say to defend yourself? - lol im simply done w you. just proves how blind some people are to their own faults.
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Wow. That just means you didn't get it. No, I'm done beating my head against the wall and unlike you I'll stick to my word. Have a nice day 🙂
Posted by cosmicbutter
I felt too lazy to read the whole read before posting. Or maybe i was too impatient to post. Now i'll read the rest of it. I like reading aquarius09. I agree with a lot of what she says.
Aww! Love you too
Posted by KsamCancer
This was a pretty dumb thread. Dont come generalize them all just because you dont get along with one. Cancer Sun and Moon is prob too much for any male Aqua to handle.Also I wouldnt fret over someone you aren't in a relationship with, but you learn that from experience.
and honey. hes the one getting mad because i dont message him . not me
Im saying I wouldnt have even made a post about someone unless I was in a relationship with a person. Youre putting too much thought into this. If I dont like em, fuck em keep it moving got too much shit to do. If I do ill talk to them. Not go online and talk about them. Naw meen?
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well if im asking for tips to make him wake up , its because i care about the person & i dont want to go upto them and tell them "hey i find you boring, thats why i dont message you. sorry" -
Posted by cosmicbutter
Sometimes i don't say a lot of things that on my mind fearing the other person will be unable to comprehend or relate after having a good idea of their way of thinking or mindset .. i also sometimes don't say things in front of people i find a little weak minded in order to not intimidate them.
I just say it. People still don't understand what I talk about most of the time. I think I just fail at communication.
Posted by cosmicbutter
Sometimes i don't say a lot of things that on my mind fearing the other person will be unable to comprehend or relate after having a good idea of their way of thinking or mindset .. i also sometimes don't say things in front of people i find a little weak minded in order to not intimidate them.
What if its neither of them, i mean, we do sometimes have convos where hell tell me all his problems. So he likes mind opening up to me & telling me about his life and issues. But when he calls me, i have to sit there for an hour straight doing all the talk , while he sits there and goes "i love listening to you" . when i ask him to say something he usually takes ages to put a sentence together . I just want to know what i should do to have him talk more instead of just listening.
I dont think he feels uncomfortable, since hes the one initiating the conversations everytime. but if he did, what would you recommend?
I find Aquarius to be the most interesting people actually. This is just from personal experience though. My boyfriend is an Aqua so I guess I am bias lol
Posted by cosmicbutter
I have a feeling after going thru some pages that OP is just here to seek the attention of aqua men. Well if i find someone boring, that person wouldn't be on my mind mostly..going to dxp and posting about them? Nahh
——— - just lol
a lot of times im boring cuz i know the stuff thats on my mind is just way too crazy to talk about casually
or it is because im bored myself but i dont really like "taking charge" a lot idk why id rather just observe the other person lol it is more fun for us to be entertained rather than do the entertaining...its lowkey kinda self smh
u want him to open up just get him some drinks or some drugs almost all the aqua men i know are always tryna get hammered
Posted by cosmicbutter
I have a feeling after going thru some pages that OP is just here to seek the attention of aqua men. Well if i find someone boring, that person wouldn't be on my mind mostly..going to dxp and posting about them? Nahh
Probably is this. We aqua males are mysterious, thats what draw females in. OP is really sour that she cant get into same wavelength as that aqua dude haha 😆
Posted by BlackMamba
the butt hurt is very real.
From cancerians, that is 😉
Posted by cosmicbutter
Sometimes i don't say a lot of things that on my mind fearing the other person will be unable to comprehend or relate after having a good idea of their way of thinking or mindset .. i also sometimes don't say things in front of people i find a little weak minded in order to not intimidate them.What if its neither of them, i mean, we do sometimes have convos where hell tell me all his problems. So he likes mind opening up to me & telling me about his life and issues. But when he calls me, i have to sit there for an hour straight doing all the talk , while he sits there and goes "i love listening to you" . when i ask him to say something he usually takes ages to put a sentence together . I just want to know what i should do to have him talk more instead of just listening.
I dont think he feels uncomfortable, since hes the one initiating the conversations everytime. but if he did, what would you recommend?click to expand
Serious question.. is he perhaps mutli tasking while on the phone? is he playing a video game? I would do that when i was heavy into online gaming.. i was only half into the conversation and focused on what i was doing, not the person on the other end of the phone.
What's your merc and his? That has to do with communication more so than a sun sign.
Posted by flowingwater
^^ this is going to make me cry.
🙂 it's true for me!
For me, most Aquas and I just start to open up together. It's kind of like a natural conversation flow. It starts off very stereotypical but once we gauge each other, we talk about much more interesting things and have many deep conversations.
I only really had to pry one Aqua open, and I don't know why he was so closed off to begin with. He's like 50% fire and socialized with everyone except me. I was sick of it and tried joking with him once saying he couldn't borrow my pen and I thought he was going to explode lmao. He just glared at me. He'd listen in on my convos though. The day he actually started talking to me I was pretty baffled and caught off guard, but we've been friends since! He never shuts up now. Once he goes off on a tangent, there's no stopping him. He gets loud/excited/boisterous, but I enjoy his personality. It's vibrant.
It is smart of Aquas to gauge people before just diving into friendship/relationships. I try to do that, but I'm so open to meeting new people almost to a fault where I can easily get tricked. I admire Aquas for their great discerning quality.
Posted by cosmicbutter
I have a feeling after going thru some pages that OP is just here to seek the attention of aqua men. Well if i find someone boring, that person wouldn't be on my mind mostly..going to dxp and posting about them? NahhProbably is this. We aqua males are mysterious, thats what draw females in. OP is really sour that she cant get into same wavelength as that aqua dude haha 😆
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After being in a relationship with an aquarius, I will admit the mystery is quite attractive. It's the challenge that keeps you addicted. And when they do succumb, it's treasured and precious. Someone worth working for is a keeper!
I think I understand now why men like women who are a challenge.
Posted by cosmicbutter
I have a feeling after going thru some pages that OP is just here to seek the attention of aqua men. Well if i find someone boring, that person wouldn't be on my mind mostly..going to dxp and posting about them? NahhProbably is this. We aqua males are mysterious, thats what draw females in. OP is really sour that she cant get into same wavelength as that aqua dude haha 😆
After being in a relationship with an aquarius, I will admit the mystery is quite attractive. It's the challenge that keeps you addicted. And when they do succumb, it's treasured and precious. Someone worth working for is a keeper!
I think I understand now why men like women who are a challenge.
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Yep listen to her.
you wrote:
"so what I needed were tips on how to MAKE HIM talk instead of having him sit for a couple of hours on the phone while I do almost all the talking. "
"But when he calls me, i have to sit there for an hour straight doing all the talk , while he sits there and goes "i love listening to you" . when i ask him to say something he usually takes ages to put a sentence together . "
so...i seem to have got it right...you seem to forget what you write on here...
and now a piece of advice: if you want these people to be helpful, stop being aggressive to them... you come here for advice/tips, but you behave like you know them all...if you haven't got much advice so far is because you attacked everybody, including the man you are here for...
Posted by Impulsv
At first the mystery reeled me but after one date he was so no chillant I have changed my type for life. I need a man with a pulse n this controlled cold approach I used to be attracted to, that mysterious type is out the door
Thanks to this Aqua,
Yea aquas are not the cold type, probably capricorn man etc will suit you, we are easy going but we do not act mysterious purposely, its just natural for us.
Posted by mz
you wrote:
"so what I needed were tips on how to MAKE HIM talk instead of having him sit for a couple of hours on the phone while I do almost all the talking. "
"But when he calls me, i have to sit there for an hour straight doing all the talk , while he sits there and goes "i love listening to you" . when i ask him to say something he usually takes ages to put a sentence together . "so...i seem to have got it right...you seem to forget what you write on here...
and now a piece of advice: if you want these people to be helpful, stop being aggressive to them... you come here for advice/tips, but you behave like you know them all...if you haven't got much advice so far is because you attacked everybody, including the man you are here for...
I think the reason the aqua guy hasnt really confided in her because she cant get his trust enough to open up. Judging by her response, she must be a pretty tough, stubborn or intimidative person to begin with. I dont believe she has slowed down herself to lend an ear to his aqua friend, Without patience & understanding, an aqua will not open the heart out because its very tender inside & it can get hurt really bad by letting wrong person into it.
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I am feeling the love. my love goes to you too! @flowingwater @AquaMermaid
AM I was reading a post you had somewhere recently about your scorp having his earth moon in the 11th house. that is where my Virgo moon is. Could explain some things also. I found your post interesting. I forgot what the thread topic was or where it was but then I started researching it myself (naturally- can't help myself). it was an interesting evaluation and very accurate 🙂
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No, I saw your cute attempts to show hypocrisy where there is none. I responded to it already 🙂