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Alice
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I understand that Aquas tend to 'choose' friends over their partners. I'd like to know if there is some way I can make him understand that I'd appreciate limitations (esp w old friends of opposite sex) or lines that cant be crossed simply because I am now in the picture. I acknowledge the fact that he has a life before 'us' but things have changed now that he is married. I'd hate to sound like a jealous cookiemonster but I gotta have my limits..

The girl grabbed my husbands collars and 'mimed' french-cheek kissing but in an unnatural way and when i asked, 'excuse me, whats going on?', the only explanation was 'acting' (from husband) and from the girl, 'he'll explain to you later' which he never did.
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Alice
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and that girl too, cause i'm barbaric like that.
frankly im just happy that im not the only one who thinks that hehe but the factors that I am supposed to be okay with (as aligned by him and i suspect, the girl to) : shes also married, the husband was sitting next to her but not engaging during this act. I only caught the tail end of it which forgive me, looked horrible which led me to ask the question..

after that incident, she also went out of her way to directly show me that shes into her husband.

in my defense, all i did was ask and i feel that i havent yet gotten enough explanation like..what sort of acting was that and why did it have to be shown physically?

should i just let this go?
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lisabeth
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and that girl too, cause i'm barbaric like that.
frankly im just happy that im not the only one who thinks that hehe but the factors that I am supposed to be okay with (as aligned by him and i suspect, the girl to) : shes also married, the husband was sitting next to her but not engaging during this act. I only caught the tail end of it which forgive me, looked horrible which led me to ask the question..

after that incident, she also went out of her way to directly show me that shes into her husband.

in my defense, all i did was ask and i feel that i havent yet gotten enough explanation like..what sort of acting was that and why did it have to be shown physically?

should i just let this go?
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nooo way you dont let it go.

you tell that bitch to stay the fuck away from your man.

and you tell your husband to step up.

and tell that girl's husband to keep his woman on a leash cause he can't control her ass.
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Alice
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Before we left, my husband wore this southern french beret..and the girl and another girlfriend (whom i suspect dont like me much) asked him something like, where is your 'southern french mistress?'..like right in front of everybody knowing full well i wouldnt know what it meant..

my husband said after i asked him to let the girls explain...which ofc they didnt, they just laughed it off

one of my husbands bestfriend actually told me that its not nice what they said...which i appreciated..however this seems to be lost on my husband
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lisabeth
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Posted by Diora_Capri
Before we left, my husband wore this southern french beret..and the girl and another girlfriend (whom i suspect dont like me much) asked him something like, where is your 'southern french mistress?'..like right in front of everybody knowing full well i wouldnt know what it meant..

my husband said after i asked him to let the girls explain...which ofc they didnt, they just laughed it off

one of my husbands bestfriend actually told me that its not nice what they said...which i appreciated..however this seems to be lost on my husband
i'm kind of "primal" soooo...i can't "think" when situations like that happen.



i dont assess anything. I just get pissed.

cause thats disrespect.
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saweetz1988
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Yike... Aqua men r just nasty lol... but yes I agree with bitter cupcake. Stand ur ground. Ignore him n eventually he will know what he did wrong. If he doesn't, he's just dumb ... disrespectful is horrible ESP in a marriage. Sounds to me like u r scared to lose him. Don't be. If anything he should be scared to lose you. Aqua seems to like having an upper control over their partner and from what I heard they treat their friends better than their partners.... just yike... but maybe u just happened to be with a very immature person... maybe I ask was there anything in particular u may have done subconsciously n hurt his feelings? I find they r not very good at straight forward convo so instead they go around and act up like that to Pay you back or to hurt u back.... this is what I found with the Aqua I was seeing .
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lisabeth
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Posted by lisabethur8

i would slap his face!!!


thus confirming how insecure you are. a strong woman doesn't resort to slapping. a weak one does

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lol i dont care how it looks.

ppfffttt.

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i still would go ape shit on her ass. 😆 she has the NERVE to go off on my man? i'll show her going off allright. 😆



if people call it weak and insecure...



how about they mind their own and stop going after other people's parnters? there wouldnt be much slapping then or getting bandaged up. 😆



then we can all be prim and proper and be nicey nicey.



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lisabeth
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Posted by lisabethur8

i still would go ape shit on her ass. 😆 she has the NERVE to go off on my man? i'll show her going off allright. 😆



if people call it weak and insecure...




and if she self-defends and breaks your nose? would it be worth it? if she punches you in the titties and pulls your hair? in front of everybody?

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i dont care. she should KNOW better not to mess with other people's SO. why should she feel like she's not going to expect it?

bitch shouldnt touch what's NOT hers. my rage will be stronger. because, that's my man and not hers. dumb ass bitch.
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lisabeth
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Posted by lisabethur8
plus she's got her own man.

her man can't even control her ass, so she disrespects him too.

someone should teach that woman a lesson.




you're really e-thugging it right now. maybe time to step away from the computer for a few minutes.
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wait.

you would just allow her to do that?



let's put a scenerio (IMAGINE it)



and this woman does this to your man, or woman (whichever your taste)

and you would allow it?

you just stand there and go, ohhh look cool.
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lisabeth
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Posted by lisabethur8

i dont care. she should KNOW better not to mess with other people's SO. why should she feel like she's not going to expect it?

bitch shouldnt touch what's NOT hers. my rage will be stronger. because, that's my man and not hers. dumb ass bitch.
your rage may be stronger but also dulled by years of marriage; her deep thirst for your man will only be quenched by your blood. i think it will be bone on bone. it will be tough. kids better not look. esp if she's the better fighter and beats the shiit out of you and steals your man who goes home with the one with the bigger titties

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lol what about HER man?



did everyone forget the little guy who stands in the background who is supposed to be her husband?



it sounds like he's a little wimp who allows this.
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Gemitati
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Posted by Diora_Capri
I understand that Aquas tend to 'choose' friends over their partners. I'd like to know if there is some way I can make him understand that I'd appreciate limitations (esp w old friends of opposite sex) or lines that cant be crossed simply because I am now in the picture. I acknowledge the fact that he has a life before 'us' but things have changed now that he is married. I'd hate to sound like a jealous cookiemonster but I gotta have my limits..

The girl grabbed my husbands collars and 'mimed' french-cheek kissing but in an unnatural way and when i asked, 'excuse me, whats going on?', the only explanation was 'acting' (from husband) and from the girl, 'he'll explain to you later' which he never did.
Why exactly you married him? Lol

That's ridiculous!
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lisabeth
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Posted by lisabethur8
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plus she's got her own man.

her man can't even control her ass, so she disrespects him too.

someone should teach that woman a lesson.




you're really e-thugging it right now. maybe time to step away from the computer for a few minutes.
wait.

you would just allow her to do that?



let's put a scenerio (IMAGINE it)



and this woman does this to your man, or woman (whichever your taste)

and you would allow it?

you just stand there and go, ohhh look cool.
i have had gilfriends where people stopped them on the street to tell him how beautiful they are and that they should model. then trashy guys disrespectfully hit on them like i wasn't even there. and i've had my girl flirt back. (because of connections and money reasons) and i wasn't insecure. i didn't blink an eye. i knew who she was with when she got home. i knew who she loved.

i had an ex who was a dominatrix. that was fine. i had an ex who was in a burlesque troop. and that was fine.

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well in those scenerios it sounds fine. because you sound like you both are OK with it.



but in the OP's scenerio, it sounds really bad.

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Gemitati
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Posted by lisabethur8
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and that girl too, cause i'm barbaric like that.
frankly im just happy that im not the only one who thinks that hehe but the factors that I am supposed to be okay with (as aligned by him and i suspect, the girl to) : shes also married, the husband was sitting next to her but not engaging during this act. I only caught the tail end of it which forgive me, looked horrible which led me to ask the question..

after that incident, she also went out of her way to directly show me that shes into her husband.

in my defense, all i did was ask and i feel that i havent yet gotten enough explanation like..what sort of acting was that and why did it have to be shown physically?

should i just let this go?
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Yep! Let it go and next time when you come home and some chick riding your husband and you like WTF - she'll say 'he will explain it to you later' ...
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Gemitati
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Posted by Diora_Capri
Before we left, my husband wore this southern french beret..and the girl and another girlfriend (whom i suspect dont like me much) asked him something like, where is your 'southern french mistress?'..like right in front of everybody knowing full well i wouldnt know what it meant..

my husband said after i asked him to let the girls explain...which ofc they didnt, they just laughed it off

one of my husbands bestfriend actually told me that its not nice what they said...which i appreciated..however this seems to be lost on my husband
I would very bluntly and in a straight forward way let him that is not ok. Seems that should be common sense, but I guess not.

If he keeps it up, I'd then stick my foot up his ass
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Just one? Lol
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LittleFairy
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Posted by Diora_Capri
I understand that Aquas tend to 'choose' friends over their partners. I'd like to know if there is some way I can make him understand that I'd appreciate limitations (esp w old friends of opposite sex) or lines that cant be crossed simply because I am now in the picture. I acknowledge the fact that he has a life before 'us' but things have changed now that he is married. I'd hate to sound like a jealous cookiemonster but I gotta have my limits..

The girl grabbed my husbands collars and 'mimed' french-cheek kissing but in an unnatural way and when i asked, 'excuse me, whats going on?', the only explanation was 'acting' (from husband) and from the girl, 'he'll explain to you later' which he never did.
That's horrible. He is a dick and she is horrible too. They both owe you an apology...and their friendship is over.

How is he so thick?
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Gemitati
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Posted by lisabethur8

i dont care. she should KNOW better not to mess with other people's SO. why should she feel like she's not going to expect it?

bitch shouldnt touch what's NOT hers. my rage will be stronger. because, that's my man and not hers. dumb ass bitch.
your rage may be stronger but also dulled by years of marriage; her deep thirst for your man will only be quenched by your blood. i think it will be bone on bone. it will be tough. kids better not look. esp if she's the better fighter and beats the shiit out of you and steals your man who goes home with the one with the bigger titties


lol what about HER man?



did everyone forget the little guy who stands in the background who is supposed to be her husband?



it sounds like he's a little wimp who allows this.
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HER man is not your problem!

YOUR man is your problem!

You need your head checked woman!
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lisabeth
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Posted by lisabethur8
Posted by edgelord
Posted by lisabethur8
Posted by edgelord
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plus she's got her own man.

her man can't even control her ass, so she disrespects him too.

someone should teach that woman a lesson.




you're really e-thugging it right now. maybe time to step away from the computer for a few minutes.
wait.

you would just allow her to do that?



let's put a scenerio (IMAGINE it)



and this woman does this to your man, or woman (whichever your taste)

and you would allow it?

you just stand there and go, ohhh look cool.
i have had gilfriends where people stopped them on the street to tell him how beautiful they are and that they should model. then trashy guys disrespectfully hit on them like i wasn't even there. and i've had my girl flirt back. (because of connections and money reasons) and i wasn't insecure. i didn't blink an eye. i knew who she was with when she got home. i knew who she loved.

i had an ex who was a dominatrix. that was fine. i had an ex who was in a burlesque troop. and that was fine.


well in those scenerios it sounds fine. because you sound like you both are OK with it.



but in the OP's scenerio, it sounds really bad.


she should simply let him know that if it happens again that she's gone. poof. and then if he does it again. then leave. and don't look back. if she feels she's being disrespected on that level then she SHOULD leave. and no relationship is worth your self respect. but if she's here just bitching about it and won't actually leave the that's her being pathetic.
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you can't really tell a man how to be, though.



unless you got one of those types that are kind of bowing down to the woman all the time and is afraid of the other women to hurt their feelings alot so they're trying to please ALL the women. gross.



plus, why does the husband have women he knows who do that kind of behaviour?? ewww.

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lisabeth
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Posted by lisabethur8
Posted by aquarius_man
Posted by lisabethur8

i dont care. she should KNOW better not to mess with other people's SO. why should she feel like she's not going to expect it?

bitch shouldnt touch what's NOT hers. my rage will be stronger. because, that's my man and not hers. dumb ass bitch.
your rage may be stronger but also dulled by years of marriage; her deep thirst for your man will only be quenched by your blood. i think it will be bone on bone. it will be tough. kids better not look. esp if she's the better fighter and beats the shiit out of you and steals your man who goes home with the one with the bigger titties


lol what about HER man?



did everyone forget the little guy who stands in the background who is supposed to be her husband?



it sounds like he's a little wimp who allows this.
HER man is not your problem!

YOUR man is your problem!

You need your head checked woman!

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lmao



i was placing myself in her situation..



and believe me, it's a yucky place. *cries***



😢
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Gemitati
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Posted by LittleFairy
Posted by Diora_Capri
I understand that Aquas tend to 'choose' friends over their partners. I'd like to know if there is some way I can make him understand that I'd appreciate limitations (esp w old friends of opposite sex) or lines that cant be crossed simply because I am now in the picture. I acknowledge the fact that he has a life before 'us' but things have changed now that he is married. I'd hate to sound like a jealous cookiemonster but I gotta have my limits..

The girl grabbed my husbands collars and 'mimed' french-cheek kissing but in an unnatural way and when i asked, 'excuse me, whats going on?', the only explanation was 'acting' (from husband) and from the girl, 'he'll explain to you later' which he never did.
That's horrible. He is a dick and she is horrible too. They both owe you an apology...and their friendship is over.

How is he so thick?
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Maybe he is just long...lol
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Posted by Gemitati
Posted by lisabethur8
Posted by aquarius_man
Posted by lisabethur8

i dont care. she should KNOW better not to mess with other people's SO. why should she feel like she's not going to expect it?

bitch shouldnt touch what's NOT hers. my rage will be stronger. because, that's my man and not hers. dumb ass bitch.
your rage may be stronger but also dulled by years of marriage; her deep thirst for your man will only be quenched by your blood. i think it will be bone on bone. it will be tough. kids better not look. esp if she's the better fighter and beats the shiit out of you and steals your man who goes home with the one with the bigger titties


lol what about HER man?



did everyone forget the little guy who stands in the background who is supposed to be her husband?



it sounds like he's a little wimp who allows this.
HER man is not your problem!

YOUR man is your problem!

You need your head checked woman!




lmao



i was placing myself in her situation..



and believe me, it's a yucky place. *cries***



😢

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And your place was...Yummy?

Why did you place yourself in HERs?

Why do you care about her husband?

You hurt and hiding behind LOLs.
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lisabeth
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Posted by Gemitati
Posted by lisabethur8
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by lisabethur8
Posted by aquarius_man
Posted by lisabethur8

i dont care. she should KNOW better not to mess with other people's SO. why should she feel like she's not going to expect it?

bitch shouldnt touch what's NOT hers. my rage will be stronger. because, that's my man and not hers. dumb ass bitch.
your rage may be stronger but also dulled by years of marriage; her deep thirst for your man will only be quenched by your blood. i think it will be bone on bone. it will be tough. kids better not look. esp if she's the better fighter and beats the shiit out of you and steals your man who goes home with the one with the bigger titties


lol what about HER man?



did everyone forget the little guy who stands in the background who is supposed to be her husband?



it sounds like he's a little wimp who allows this.
HER man is not your problem!

YOUR man is your problem!

You need your head checked woman!




lmao



i was placing myself in her situation..



and believe me, it's a yucky place. *cries***



😢


And your place was...Yummy?

Why did you place yourself in HERs?

Why do you care about her husband?

You hurt and hiding behind LOLs.

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gurrrlll dont you have the ability to place yourself in other people's shoes?



try putting yourself in her situation as yourself, not as herself. lol
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Posted by Gemitati
Posted by lisabethur8
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by lisabethur8
Posted by aquarius_man
Posted by lisabethur8

i dont care. she should KNOW better not to mess with other people's SO. why should she feel like she's not going to expect it?

bitch shouldnt touch what's NOT hers. my rage will be stronger. because, that's my man and not hers. dumb ass bitch.
your rage may be stronger but also dulled by years of marriage; her deep thirst for your man will only be quenched by your blood. i think it will be bone on bone. it will be tough. kids better not look. esp if she's the better fighter and beats the shiit out of you and steals your man who goes home with the one with the bigger titties


lol what about HER man?



did everyone forget the little guy who stands in the background who is supposed to be her husband?



it sounds like he's a little wimp who allows this.
HER man is not your problem!

YOUR man is your problem!

You need your head checked woman!




lmao



i was placing myself in her situation..



and believe me, it's a yucky place. *cries***



😢


And your place was...Yummy?

Why did you place yourself in HERs?

Why do you care about her husband?

You hurt and hiding behind LOLs.




gurrrlll dont you have the ability to place yourself in other people's shoes?



try putting yourself in her situation as yourself, not as herself. lol

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LOL WHAT—

Where is LOL taking place here?

She is ok! She has a cockhold for a husband and she gets to do whatever she wants with yours telling you to shut up and back off...and your husband feeling good, she is feeling good, her husband doesn't mind! One who feels like shot is you!

Lol— Really?
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lisabeth
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Posted by Gemitati
Posted by lisabethur8
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by lisabethur8
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by lisabethur8
Posted by aquarius_man
Posted by lisabethur8

i dont care. she should KNOW better not to mess with other people's SO. why should she feel like she's not going to expect it?

bitch shouldnt touch what's NOT hers. my rage will be stronger. because, that's my man and not hers. dumb ass bitch.
your rage may be stronger but also dulled by years of marriage; her deep thirst for your man will only be quenched by your blood. i think it will be bone on bone. it will be tough. kids better not look. esp if she's the better fighter and beats the shiit out of you and steals your man who goes home with the one with the bigger titties


lol what about HER man?



did everyone forget the little guy who stands in the background who is supposed to be her husband?



it sounds like he's a little wimp who allows this.
HER man is not your problem!

YOUR man is your problem!

You need your head checked woman!




lmao



i was placing myself in her situation..



and believe me, it's a yucky place. *cries***



😢


And your place was...Yummy?

Why did you place yourself in HERs?

Why do you care about her husband?

You hurt and hiding behind LOLs.




gurrrlll dont you have the ability to place yourself in other people's shoes?



try putting yourself in her situation as yourself, not as herself. lol


LOL WHAT—

Where is LOL taking place here?

She is ok! She has a cockhold for a husband and she gets to do whatever she wants with yours telling you to shut up and back off...and your husband feeling good, she is feeling good, her husband doesn't mind! One who feels like shot is you!

Lol— Really?
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what??

now you're not making any sense.



i'm already out of her situation.
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Shaymaci
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Posted by AquaNextDoor
Posted by Diora_Capri
I understand that Aquas tend to 'choose' friends over their partners. I'd like to know if there is some way I can make him understand that I'd appreciate limitations (esp w old friends of opposite sex) or lines that cant be crossed simply because I am now in the picture. I acknowledge the fact that he has a life before 'us' but things have changed now that he is married. I'd hate to sound like a jealous cookiemonster but I gotta have my limits..

The girl grabbed my husbands collars and 'mimed' french-cheek kissing but in an unnatural way and when i asked, 'excuse me, whats going on?', the only explanation was 'acting' (from husband) and from the girl, 'he'll explain to you later' which he never did.
Sorry but this isnt about astrology. He's a flirty guy who doesnt respect you or your marriage. Be straight up and stop worrying about being seen as jealous. His behavior is out of line and letting other girls act up on him like this is a no-go.

Good luck!
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