@Danistyle
6 Years
Aquarius with Aquarius
Shut up, Phantum. Just shut the fuck up.
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a lot of aqua men do offer resistance to commitment even when they really like you. They kinda like to be footloose and fancy free. He’s not interested in a relationship so just put your expectations in place.
Well he and I both have complications I live with a guy who Im not dating but he gets jelous. So I want that relationship but what I’m saying is do u think with time he and I could become close since we both are tying each other down
No,he is just looking for a good time, no string attached.
a lot of aqua men do offer resistance to commitment even when they really like you. They kinda like to be footloose and fancy free. He’s not interested in a relationship so just put your expectations in place.
Yea like I am the same way.. but I find his interest in me more than a regular hook up. The fact that we went so long with 0 affection and he would still be the first to ask me to hang out makes me wonder
Why are the baby mamas jealous if he's not with them? That deserves a closer look if you want a relationship at some point...
Because she’s immature and won’t let her see the baby if he has another woman in his life lol.. and yea I def don’t want a relationship I just want a long lasting hookup
...... I told him what would u do if I started liking u ?
he said well you will get your heart broken because I can’t be in a relationship rn (he has jelous BM issues I told him IDc.. I will def still do me.. then he basically said well as long as we can continue to chill and hook up..
He told you all you need to know.
This is not typical Aqua behaviour, it's typical FWB
Don't get your hopes up, unless you want your heart to be broken
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That’s the thing I WANT a FWB... but I was wondering if he just wanted to hook up .. but the fact that he wants to chill sometimes and not even mess around makes me think otherwise
Well he and I both have complications I live with a guy who Im not dating but he gets jelous. So I want that relationship but what I’m saying is do u think with time he and I could become close since we both are tying each other down
The fuckery. Seems like you should've considered that before banging. Dick makes some of y'all lose your mind and your sense.
With time, anything can happen, including him ghosting you. SMH
a lot of aqua men do offer resistance to commitment even when they really like you. They kinda like to be footloose and fancy free. He’s not interested in a relationship so just put your expectations in place.
Yea like I am the same way.. but I find his interest in me more than a regular hook up. The fact that we went so long with 0 affection and he would still be the first to ask me to hang out makes me wonder
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Interesting so the women are similar too. He likes you that is why he is still asking you out. Just go with the flow. You mentioned you are already have a live in roommate/ fwb. Does he know you live with a man?
Do you see this as a challenge where you win the guy over time?
YES!!!!!!! Thank you.... that’s exactly it lol!!!
a lot of aqua men do offer resistance to commitment even when they really like you. They kinda like to be footloose and fancy free. He’s not interested in a relationship so just put your expectations in place.
Yea like I am the same way.. but I find his interest in me more than a regular hook up. The fact that we went so long with 0 affection and he would still be the first to ask me to hang out makes me wonder
Interesting so the women are similar too. He likes you that is why he is still asking you out. Just go with the flow. You mentioned you are already have a live in roommate/ fwb. Does he know you live with a man?
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Yes he knows I live with a man also he shows me pics of girls he messages and likes and would sleep with , he even shows me his messages between him and females. He seems very comfortable with me! So that’s why I wonder about this
I'm gonna spill something. Aquas are the ones who do the bro code thing.
Do you think she's already put in a certain category hence his response to her? I have to think that men do it more often than not. They meet someone or have someone in their lives and they already know if the person is a friend, lover or potential lover, or someone they would marry.
This comment was in reference to something I said in another thread recently. I figured if anyone noticed that post and remembered it, this would make them laugh.
To answer your question, I do think that a lot of men put women in categories right away, but that's only because I read it here. Dating was a completely different beast when I was doing it.
Ooohhh I didn't see that thread at all.
I wondered about this because you mentioned "bro code" and it reminded me of a friend I have who's treating another female friend like they are really close and the girl was falling for it. However, he wouldn't take it further than friendship because he said he sees her as a friend and that's about it. He wouldn't cross that line.
I would say that's the opposite of bro code. That's a guy actually having a conscience. I was referring to the act of trying to convince a poster here on this site that the dude she's asking about is on the up and up, when he clearly is shady, because of some kind of sign loyalty.
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I mean I don’t know I don’t feel like I am in a category we literally hung out as friends for a month with no sex he would try to kiss me I wouldn’t even do that.. he still would just hang with me knowing my living situation. I’m going to just see where it goes. I feel like sexual bonds can lead to a strong FWB
a lot of aqua men do offer resistance to commitment even when they really like you. They kinda like to be footloose and fancy free. He’s not interested in a relationship so just put your expectations in place.
Yea like I am the same way.. but I find his interest in me more than a regular hook up. The fact that we went so long with 0 affection and he would still be the first to ask me to hang out makes me wonder
Interesting so the women are similar too. He likes you that is why he is still asking you out. Just go with the flow. You mentioned you are already have a live in roommate/ fwb. Does he know you live with a man?
Yes he knows I live with a man also he shows me pics of girls he messages and likes and would sleep with , he even shows me his messages between him and females. He seems very comfortable with me! So that’s why I wonder about this
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Wow he sees you as a friend, possibly because of your situation. He’s also testing his boundaries/ limitations with you by showing you pics of other girls. I couldn’t have these types of convos with a guy I’m attracted to or would considered dating, only one that I strictly see as friends. I’m just curious, would you still be cool with this if/ when the relationship turns sexual?
Hello all, so he and I both have February birthdays 16th and 12th. I have never talked to someone with the same sign as me?
We hung out, chilled he would tell me he liked my company he would lightly flirt because I wasn’t attracted to him at first. finally after a month and some we hooked up, I didn’t see him for an entire month after that but we would briefly talk. .
SO we hooked up again yesterday and I kinda felt something in me so I told him what would u do if I started liking u ?
he said well you will get your heart broken because I can’t be in a relationship rn (he has jelous BM issues I told him IDc.. I will def still do me.. then he basically said well as long as we can continue to chill and hook up..
Soo basically ?? Is this typical aqua man behavior..? I mean idc for the whole casual thing.. but something in me tells me I can make this man like me a lot more.. thoughts!!
It depends... how good are your powers of seduction. It's a lost art. Cause that's what you're asking us, can you seduce him. Only you can answer that.
What's your track record?
Can you dance, can you sing, can you cook... whatcha got in your deck of cards? (Rhetorical question)
Well he and I both have complications I live with a guy who Im not dating but he gets jelous. So I want that relationship but what I’m saying is do u think with time he and I could become close since we both are tying each other down
The fuckery. Seems like you should've considered that before banging. Dick makes some of y'all lose your mind and your sense.
With time, anything can happen, including him ghosting you. SMH
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LmaO i banged him because I don’t care what happenes now obvidouly i def don’t see getting ghosted ! And if he were to ghost me it’s fine but while I have him I want to see how far it goes lol I’m not the type of female to get upset over a guy I’m fooling with
Hello all, so he and I both have February birthdays 16th and 12th. I have never talked to someone with the same sign as me?
We hung out, chilled he would tell me he liked my company he would lightly flirt because I wasn’t attracted to him at first. finally after a month and some we hooked up, I didn’t see him for an entire month after that but we would briefly talk. .
SO we hooked up again yesterday and I kinda felt something in me so I told him what would u do if I started liking u ?
he said well you will get your heart broken because I can’t be in a relationship rn (he has jelous BM issues I told him IDc.. I will def still do me.. then he basically said well as long as we can continue to chill and hook up..
Soo basically ?? Is this typical aqua man behavior..? I mean idc for the whole casual thing.. but something in me tells me I can make this man like me a lot more.. thoughts!!
It depends... how good are your powers of seduction. It's a lost art. Cause that's what you're asking us, can you seduce him. Only you can answer that.
What's your track record?
Can you dance, can you sing, can you cook... whatcha got in your deck of cards? (Rhetorical question)
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I know it’s a rhetorical question but I can really cook and sing and Dance this guy is a music producer and that’s one thing he and I have in common is the music and smoking together 😂😂.. so hopefully I can seduce him 😛🔥🔥
...... I told him what would u do if I started liking u ?
he said well you will get your heart broken because I can’t be in a relationship rn (he has jelous BM issues I told him IDc.. I will def still do me.. then he basically said well as long as we can continue to chill and hook up..
He told you all you need to know.
This is not typical Aqua behaviour, it's typical FWB
Don't get your hopes up, unless you want your heart to be broken
That’s the thing I WANT a FWB... but I was wondering if he just wanted to hook up .. but the fact that he wants to chill sometimes and not even mess around makes me think otherwise
I wouldn't look into that. He probably just wants to have a good time.
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That’s the thing do u think a good time with additional chilling and texting can turn into something long lasting? I like his company and he said he likes mine.. so I wonder if he could be a POT long term friend
...... I told him what would u do if I started liking u ?
he said well you will get your heart broken because I can’t be in a relationship rn (he has jelous BM issues I told him IDc.. I will def still do me.. then he basically said well as long as we can continue to chill and hook up..
He told you all you need to know.
This is not typical Aqua behaviour, it's typical FWB
Don't get your hopes up, unless you want your heart to be broken
That’s the thing I WANT a FWB... but I was wondering if he just wanted to hook up .. but the fact that he wants to chill sometimes and not even mess around makes me think otherwise
Actions speak louder than words. If you really want just a hook up, why are you even wondering about his intentions? Is it because you're trying to save face for potential rejection? Just being honest. FWB does not mean you have to hook up all the time. Sometimes you're also friends. Just not in a relationship. So does it matter if he wants to just chill once in a while? That's why it's "friends" with benefits.
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No rejection is not what concerns me. I like to be fun and exciting and magnétic. So basically i just want to know can a hookup lead to a more casual friendship? I feel like he treats me like a friend right now which is diff than any regular hook up I have had
Do you see this as a challenge where you win the guy over time?
YES!!!!!!! Thank you.... that’s exactly it lol!!!
As an Aquarius yourself, do you think something like that can be pulled off with our kind?
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Yes I really do because we tend to draw people in when we are ourselves. Like this guy I didn’t even like him at all and he kept reaching out to come hang out, he would call me at 9 am just to smoke that’s it.. so it has me feeling like I can possibly ??
...... I told him what would u do if I started liking u ?
he said well you will get your heart broken because I can’t be in a relationship rn (he has jelous BM issues I told him IDc.. I will def still do me.. then he basically said well as long as we can continue to chill and hook up..
He told you all you need to know.
This is not typical Aqua behaviour, it's typical FWB
Don't get your hopes up, unless you want your heart to be broken
That’s the thing I WANT a FWB... but I was wondering if he just wanted to hook up .. but the fact that he wants to chill sometimes and not even mess around makes me think otherwise
What's the difference between an FWB and just a hook up to you?
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A hook up is when you literally text them when you want to hook up , no hanging out no smoking before you have sex, no texting how was your day either ! And FWB Has more meaning.. you text , you hang out, u might buy him a gift (I tend to do this ALOT) you might make them food like you basically show them u love their d*ck LmaO.. but still no strings attached. He said he liked how relaxed I was and how he can be comfortable around me so I want to continue that
Do you see this as a challenge where you win the guy over time?
YES!!!!!!! Thank you.... that’s exactly it lol!!!
As an Aquarius yourself, do you think something like that can be pulled off with our kind?
Yes I really do because we tend to draw people in when we are ourselves. Like this guy I didn’t even like him at all and he kept reaching out to come hang out, he would call me at 9 am just to smoke that’s it.. so it has me feeling like I can possibly ??
Idk why you or anyone else are entertaining this.
You can tell it’s a troll.
The wording used is like someone clearly read the threads on dxp and concocted a thread to fuck with people.
This can’t be real. No one is this much of a dimwit, no one.
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Hello all, so he and I both have February birthdays 16th and 12th. I have never talked to someone with the same sign as me?
We hung out, chilled he would tell me he liked my company he would lightly flirt because I wasn’t attracted to him at first. finally after a month and some we hooked up, I didn’t see him for an entire month after that but we would briefly talk. .
SO we hooked up again yesterday and I kinda felt something in me so I told him what would u do if I started liking u ?
he said well you will get your heart broken because I can’t be in a relationship rn (he has jelous BM issues I told him IDc.. I will def still do me.. then he basically said well as long as we can continue to chill and hook up..
Soo basically ?? Is this typical aqua man behavior..? I mean idc for the whole casual thing.. but something in me tells me I can make this man like me a lot more.. thoughts!!