HopelessRomantic2017
@HopelessRomantic2017
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Attemping to reconnect with Aqua
You're asking all these questions but you broke your phone and have no idea whether she has contacted you at all. I don't get it.
You should send a text as soon as you get your phone and say "Hey, just checking to see how you've been. My phones been broke the last couple of weeks and I just got it replaced."
Waiting around when you don't even know if she's contacted you at all is not gonna help your situation one bit. Things will get back on track faster if she did like you and you ease her mind with what actually happened, instead of what she is assuming, which is always the worst, unfortunately.
Be friendly and casual. Don't wait. She will either ignore you or answer right away. If she ignores you, then move on, if she answers right away then keep being friendly and hold back on the romance.
Save it for later when you know she likes you and you can bombard her with it and make her uncomfortable but she will have no where to go!!! 😆
You should send a text as soon as you get your phone and say "Hey, just checking to see how you've been. My phones been broke the last couple of weeks and I just got it replaced."
Waiting around when you don't even know if she's contacted you at all is not gonna help your situation one bit. Things will get back on track faster if she did like you and you ease her mind with what actually happened, instead of what she is assuming, which is always the worst, unfortunately.
Be friendly and casual. Don't wait. She will either ignore you or answer right away. If she ignores you, then move on, if she answers right away then keep being friendly and hold back on the romance.
Save it for later when you know she likes you and you can bombard her with it and make her uncomfortable but she will have no where to go!!! 😆
BTW, you wont get much help from the Aquas when it's stuff that's common sense, lol- FYI.
They answer when it seems intriguing but then when all the details come out and it's just typical common sense or shit that's easy to figure out, they wont really bother with it.
This is my opinion of course. But as a fellow Sag, I'm just giving you what my take has been. Your best bet is to read through the Aqua forum and read lots of posts. Typically the same questions are being asked and sometimes an aqua will grace you with the presence of an answer. 😄
They answer when it seems intriguing but then when all the details come out and it's just typical common sense or shit that's easy to figure out, they wont really bother with it.
This is my opinion of course. But as a fellow Sag, I'm just giving you what my take has been. Your best bet is to read through the Aqua forum and read lots of posts. Typically the same questions are being asked and sometimes an aqua will grace you with the presence of an answer. 😄
I did put my sim card into a loaner phone and I did not get any text msgs or voice mails from her. I have a temporary phone I am using where I can receive calls / texts but I do not have any of my contact info. I would need to login into my Google Account and right now I am using an Iphone. Due to a delay in shipping and my international trip tomorrow the earliest I will have it is 11/13.
Posted by saggurl88I read a lot and understand why she broke up with me.
BTW, you wont get much help from the Aquas when it's stuff that's common sense, lol- FYI.
They answer when it seems intriguing but then when all the details come out and it's just typical common sense or shit that's easy to figure out, they wont really bother with it.
This is my opinion of course. But as a fellow Sag, I'm just giving you what my take has been. Your best bet is to read through the Aqua forum and read lots of posts. Typically the same questions are being asked and sometimes an aqua will grace you with the presence of an answer. 😄
Update - So I finally get my new phone but there is some sort of problem with restoring my contacts. I got 0 contacts synced up and therefore I do not have her number. I wasn't planning on contacting her but now I don't have any way to contact her other by sending her a letter.
I will stick to my original plan and not contact her and I'll try to look for someone else after my birthday next week. If I'm still single and think of her in February, when her birthday is perhaps I will send her a present by mail.
Update2 - while I was not able to restore my contacts I was able to get to my call logs and got her number. Still not calling her.
I will stick to my original plan and not contact her and I'll try to look for someone else after my birthday next week. If I'm still single and think of her in February, when her birthday is perhaps I will send her a present by mail.
Update2 - while I was not able to restore my contacts I was able to get to my call logs and got her number. Still not calling her.
Just call her already!!!
Today is actually has been 30 days since she broke up with me.
Good job waiting 30 days.
That’s the rule. Call her now.
That’s the rule. Call her now.
Posted by pinkbird03Its actually just a coincidence. She broke up with me on 10/15 and on 10/16 my phone died, my temp phone didn't have any contacts and new phone just came in today also without any contacts. I was able to recover call log that went upto 10/12 (4 days before previous phone died) and I got her number out of it & will scan to find some other numbers to recover.
Good job waiting 30 days.
That’s the rule. Call her now.
I've decided not to contact her for various reasons.
Posted by saggurl88Tell me about it. I think with Aqua , they move on if they think u r no longer interested. n I think she cud now be thinking if u truly did have special connection with her u wud have not let her walk away so easily . So just put ur pride aside .
Just call her already!!!
Posted by HopelessRomantic2017I know u pm me but I will get back on it soon.z what's ur sun again?Posted by pinkbird03Its actually just a coincidence. She broke up with me on 10/15 and on 10/16 my phone died, my temp phone didn't have any contacts and new phone just came in today also without any contacts. I was able to recover call log that went upto 10/12 (4 days before previous phone died) and I got her number out of it & will scan to find some other numbers to recover.
Good job waiting 30 days.
That’s the rule. Call her now.
I've decided not to contact her for various reasons.
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Posted by aquarius_manPosted by HopelessRomantic2017wait for her to call first
Update2 - while I was not able to restore my contacts I was able to get to my call logs and got her number. Still not calling her.click to expand
Posted by saweetz1988I’m SaggyPosted by HopelessRomantic2017I know u pm me but I will get back on it soon.z what's ur sun again?Posted by pinkbird03Its actually just a coincidence. She broke up with me on 10/15 and on 10/16 my phone died, my temp phone didn't have any contacts and new phone just came in today also without any contacts. I was able to recover call log that went upto 10/12 (4 days before previous phone died) and I got her number out of it & will scan to find some other numbers to recover.
Good job waiting 30 days.
That’s the rule. Call her now.
I've decided not to contact her for various reasons.
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Posted by pinkbird03The rule? 😳
Good job waiting 30 days.
That’s the rule. Call her now.
There is not rules in love.
Posted by pisceswoman123Posted by pinkbird03The rule? 😳
Good job waiting 30 days.
That’s the rule. Call her now.
There is not rules in love.click to expand
Let’s call them guidelines.
By waiting 30 days, you give them personal space. Time for them to reflect, miss you, get over the issues that were bothering them, think with a clear head, etc.
Instead of pushing them them away even further by doing the opposite, such as being clingy, emotional, causing pressure, etc. constantly after a breakup
Your ex broke up with you over text with NO explanation. Why on earth would you pursue this person or give her a second thought? That's incredibly disrespectful to you. When someone pushes you out of their lives (and you don't want them to leave), just let them know to contact you if they change their mind, then move on with your life.
You don't really need to go out of your way to say this to her if you haven't already. From your other post it sounds like you were possibly too available, which may have smothered or bored her. Women will always let you know how they feel about you through their actions. This particular woman didn't even care enough to break up with you in person OR give you a reason why. That should tell you everything.
Leave her be and move on with your life. Find a woman who is a better communicator who actually values what you have to offer. It's only human nature to want what we can't have. Instead of trying to "reason" with her, show through your actions that you are a man of value with the internal strength to move on when she pushes you away. She needs to see that your life and happiness don't stop just because she chooses to end things. She needs to be the one who feels like she lost someone, not you.
Do this and she will eventually come back if she has any interest in you left. It may take 30 days, it may take 6 months, or it may even take 2 years. The point is, you're not waiting around for her.
You don't really need to go out of your way to say this to her if you haven't already. From your other post it sounds like you were possibly too available, which may have smothered or bored her. Women will always let you know how they feel about you through their actions. This particular woman didn't even care enough to break up with you in person OR give you a reason why. That should tell you everything.
Leave her be and move on with your life. Find a woman who is a better communicator who actually values what you have to offer. It's only human nature to want what we can't have. Instead of trying to "reason" with her, show through your actions that you are a man of value with the internal strength to move on when she pushes you away. She needs to see that your life and happiness don't stop just because she chooses to end things. She needs to be the one who feels like she lost someone, not you.
Do this and she will eventually come back if she has any interest in you left. It may take 30 days, it may take 6 months, or it may even take 2 years. The point is, you're not waiting around for her.
Posted by pinkbird03Oh, I know what it means 😊😉 I just don’t believe in it.Posted by pisceswoman123Posted by pinkbird03The rule? 😳
Good job waiting 30 days.
That’s the rule. Call her now.
There is not rules in love.
Let’s call them guidelines.
By waiting 30 days, you give them personal space. Time for them to reflect, miss you, get over the issues that were bothering them, think with a clear head, etc.
Instead of pushing them them away even further by doing the opposite, such as being clingy, emotional, causing pressure, etc. constantly after a breakup
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1) Wait 1 month after break up and to give her a call and ask for us to meet in person (this will be roughly after I come back from my upcoming international trip and when I would get my hands on my permanent phone and access to contacts)
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