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Can someone please interpret how this guy I like will act if he’s interested because he’s being super distant and is sending mixed signals..

Sun Aquarius

Moon Sagittarius

Mercury Capricorn

Venus Aquarius

Mars Libra

My moon in Leo is getting super annoyed by his lack of attention lol
lol Good luck with that! 😆 I love mercury in Cap placement. He should be pretty easy to talk to. Just keep in contact with him and don't do the normal pull back Sag thing. He will follow your lead. When you act weird, so will he. lol

Don't Fucc up! 😆
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Can someone please interpret how this guy I like will act if he’s interested because he’s being super distant and is sending mixed signals..

Sun Aquarius

Moon Sagittarius

Mercury Capricorn

Venus Aquarius

Mars Libra

My moon in Leo is getting super annoyed by his lack of attention lol
lol Good luck with that! 😆 I love mercury in Cap placement. He should be pretty easy to talk to. Just keep in contact with him and don't do the normal pull back Sag thing. He will follow your lead. When you act weird, so will he. lol

Don't Fucc up! 😆
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But wouldn’t that put me as clingy, then he would pull back.. like I’m so confused with him ughh
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Can someone please interpret how this guy I like will act if he’s interested because he’s being super distant and is sending mixed signals..

Sun Aquarius

Moon Sagittarius

Mercury Capricorn

Venus Aquarius

Mars Libra

My moon in Leo is getting super annoyed by his lack of attention lol
lol Good luck with that! 😆 I love mercury in Cap placement. He should be pretty easy to talk to. Just keep in contact with him and don't do the normal pull back Sag thing. He will follow your lead. When you act weird, so will he. lol

Don't Fucc up! 😆
But wouldn’t that put me as clingy, then he would pull back.. like I’m so confused with him ughh

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Nope, communication isn't clingy for them. Keep in contact and don't test to see if he will call or text first. lol He will know what you're doing and follow along. It's like they have insiders on the inside lol They mirror and will beat you at your own game.

You're gonna get annoyed with not getting attention, let him know, he will be amused and think it's cute but won't give you your way right away. If he likes you, eventually he may but don't get used to it lol
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Posted by Sagittarius1207
Can someone please interpret how this guy I like will act if he’s interested because he’s being super distant and is sending mixed signals..

Sun Aquarius

Moon Sagittarius

Mercury Capricorn

Venus Aquarius

Mars Libra

My moon in Leo is getting super annoyed by his lack of attention lol
lol Good luck with that! 😆 I love mercury in Cap placement. He should be pretty easy to talk to. Just keep in contact with him and don't do the normal pull back Sag thing. He will follow your lead. When you act weird, so will he. lol

Don't Fucc up! 😆
But wouldn’t that put me as clingy, then he would pull back.. like I’m so confused with him ughh


Nope, communication isn't clingy for them. Keep in contact and don't test to see if he will call or text first. lol He will know what you're doing and follow along. It's like they have insiders on the inside lol They mirror and will beat you at your own game.

You're gonna get annoyed with not getting attention, let him know, he will be amused and think it's cute but won't give you your way right away. If he likes you, eventually he may but don't get used to it lol
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Or alternatively

Don't bother at all

......
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Can someone please interpret how this guy I like will act if he’s interested because he’s being super distant and is sending mixed signals..

Sun Aquarius

Moon Sagittarius

Mercury Capricorn

Venus Aquarius

Mars Libra

My moon in Leo is getting super annoyed by his lack of attention lol
lol Good luck with that! 😆 I love mercury in Cap placement. He should be pretty easy to talk to. Just keep in contact with him and don't do the normal pull back Sag thing. He will follow your lead. When you act weird, so will he. lol

Don't Fucc up! 😆
But wouldn’t that put me as clingy, then he would pull back.. like I’m so confused with him ughh


Nope, communication isn't clingy for them. Keep in contact and don't test to see if he will call or text first. lol He will know what you're doing and follow along. It's like they have insiders on the inside lol They mirror and will beat you at your own game.

You're gonna get annoyed with not getting attention, let him know, he will be amused and think it's cute but won't give you your way right away. If he likes you, eventually he may but don't get used to it lol
Or alternatively

Don't bother at all

......
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Why give up so soon? What’s the fun in that! 😂😂
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Can someone please interpret how this guy I like will act if he’s interested because he’s being super distant and is sending mixed signals..

Sun Aquarius

Moon Sagittarius

Mercury Capricorn

Venus Aquarius

Mars Libra

My moon in Leo is getting super annoyed by his lack of attention lol
lol Good luck with that! 😆 I love mercury in Cap placement. He should be pretty easy to talk to. Just keep in contact with him and don't do the normal pull back Sag thing. He will follow your lead. When you act weird, so will he. lol

Don't Fucc up! 😆
But wouldn’t that put me as clingy, then he would pull back.. like I’m so confused with him ughh


Nope, communication isn't clingy for them. Keep in contact and don't test to see if he will call or text first. lol He will know what you're doing and follow along. It's like they have insiders on the inside lol They mirror and will beat you at your own game.

You're gonna get annoyed with not getting attention, let him know, he will be amused and think it's cute but won't give you your way right away. If he likes you, eventually he may but don't get used to it lol
Or alternatively

Don't bother at all

......
Why give up so soon? What’s the fun in that! 😂😂

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What's the fun in waiting till hell freezes over ?

I always had men chase me.....I honestly would not even begin to chase or wait around for anyone

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Posted by Sagittarius1207
Can someone please interpret how this guy I like will act if he’s interested because he’s being super distant and is sending mixed signals..

Sun Aquarius

Moon Sagittarius

Mercury Capricorn

Venus Aquarius

Mars Libra

My moon in Leo is getting super annoyed by his lack of attention lol
what's the rest of your planets?

you're sag sun, leo moon?

that's ...... this lady..



on the left, Jane Fonda.

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she was married to a Gemini sun for a decade then divorced. she's still single in her 70s.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Richard_Perry

https://www.huffingtonpost.com/entry/jane-fonda-and-richard-perry-split-after-8-years-together_us_5888f9cfe4b0024605fd51dd

The 74-year-old music producer went into greater detail with E! Online, explaining that after eight years together, he and Fonda are simply going in different directions in their lives.

“It’s not a break up, it’s a shift in the direction of our lives,” he said. “I hate to say the romantic relationship is over. We’re definitely extremely good friends. We do things together. We care about each other a great deal and as far as romantic relationships, that’s temporarily been put on the back burner because she, as you probably know, has rededicated herself to activism.”

Fonda, 79, was one of the many celebs who participated in the Women’s March in Los Angeles on Saturday.
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Distant in what way? Is he ignoring texts and calls or never initiating contact?


He’s never initiating contact, but if I initiate he’ll respond
Did he initiate initially and then stop?

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Yeah Initially mainly 70% of the convos were started by him then we went on Spring Break and waited around 2 weeks before i sent the next 2 convos and he hasn't initiated any since before Spring Break
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Posted by Sagittarius1207
Can someone please interpret how this guy I like will act if he’s interested because he’s being super distant and is sending mixed signals..

Sun Aquarius

Moon Sagittarius

Mercury Capricorn

Venus Aquarius

Mars Libra

My moon in Leo is getting super annoyed by his lack of attention lol
libra mars is a pleaser placement,and wants harmony.

lots of peeps on this site with libra mars.

with libra mars/venus aqua combo....i dont really know how that'd go. i can imagine he's a very gentle person and easy to get on with.
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I think a man's mars can tell you how he will pursue. His is in Libra, a cardinal air sign. This probably means he will initiate when interested, but in a Libra kind of way. If he doesnt that should tell you something.

I am Aqua with sag moon and dont mix well with fire signs. Way too pushy and intense for me most of the time. Don't know any Leo moons but I think I would get tired of them if they would demand too much attention.




This makes me so sad! lol What's the rest of your chart?

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I think a man's mars can tell you how he will pursue. His is in Libra, a cardinal air sign. This probably means he will initiate when interested, but in a Libra kind of way. If he doesnt that should tell you something.

I am Aqua with sag moon and dont mix well with fire signs. Way too pushy and intense for me most of the time. Don't know any Leo moons but I think I would get tired of them if they would demand too much attention.




yeah i dont like those type of leo moons, even those leo suns that are asking too much attention or even leo mars, just think about it..

too much.

good thing i got a good one that doesnt want too much attention. lol

i dont need a 2nd baby boy.



i already have one, and that's all i want. i want a man who can hold his own. not wipe his baby poop.

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I think a man's mars can tell you how he will pursue. His is in Libra, a cardinal air sign. This probably means he will initiate when interested, but in a Libra kind of way. If he doesnt that should tell you something.

I am Aqua with sag moon and dont mix well with fire signs. Way too pushy and intense for me most of the time. Don't know any Leo moons but I think I would get tired of them if they would demand too much attention.




This makes me so sad! lol What's the rest of your chart?

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her chart should love sag and leo in the chart. lmao

the hilarity. 😆
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Can someone please interpret how this guy I like will act if he’s interested because he’s being super distant and is sending mixed signals..

Sun Aquarius

Moon Sagittarius

Mercury Capricorn

Venus Aquarius

Mars Libra

My moon in Leo is getting super annoyed by his lack of attention lol
what's the rest of your planets?

you're sag sun, leo moon?

that's ...... this lady..



on the left, Jane Fonda.

Image Not Found

she was married to a Gemini sun for a decade then divorced. she's still single in her 70s.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Richard_Perry

https://www.huffingtonpost.com/entry/jane-fonda-and-richard-perry-split-after-8-years-together_us_5888f9cfe4b0024605fd51dd

The 74-year-old music producer went into greater detail with E! Online, explaining that after eight years together, he and Fonda are simply going in different directions in their lives.

“It’s not a break up, it’s a shift in the direction of our lives,” he said. “I hate to say the romantic relationship is over. We’re definitely extremely good friends. We do things together. We care about each other a great deal and as far as romantic relationships, that’s temporarily been put on the back burner because she, as you probably know, has rededicated herself to activism.”

Fonda, 79, was one of the many celebs who participated in the Women’s March in Los Angeles on Saturday.

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lol i am:

Sun Sag

Moon Leo

Mercury Sag

Venus Sag

Mars Libra

Asc Aqua
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I think a man's mars can tell you how he will pursue. His is in Libra, a cardinal air sign. This probably means he will initiate when interested, but in a Libra kind of way. If he doesnt that should tell you something.

I am Aqua with sag moon and dont mix well with fire signs. Way too pushy and intense for me most of the time. Don't know any Leo moons but I think I would get tired of them if they would demand too much attention.




This makes me so sad! lol What's the rest of your chart?

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her chart should love sag and leo in the chart. lmao

the hilarity. 😆

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No I know what that water Venus likes! 😆 They stick to their own kind! 😆
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Posted by Sagittarius1207
Can someone please interpret how this guy I like will act if he’s interested because he’s being super distant and is sending mixed signals..

Sun Aquarius

Moon Sagittarius

Mercury Capricorn

Venus Aquarius

Mars Libra

My moon in Leo is getting super annoyed by his lack of attention lol
what's the rest of your planets?

you're sag sun, leo moon?

that's ...... this lady..



on the left, Jane Fonda.

Image Not Found

she was married to a Gemini sun for a decade then divorced. she's still single in her 70s.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Richard_Perry

https://www.huffingtonpost.com/entry/jane-fonda-and-richard-perry-split-after-8-years-together_us_5888f9cfe4b0024605fd51dd

The 74-year-old music producer went into greater detail with E! Online, explaining that after eight years together, he and Fonda are simply going in different directions in their lives.

“It’s not a break up, it’s a shift in the direction of our lives,” he said. “I hate to say the romantic relationship is over. We’re definitely extremely good friends. We do things together. We care about each other a great deal and as far as romantic relationships, that’s temporarily been put on the back burner because she, as you probably know, has rededicated herself to activism.”

Fonda, 79, was one of the many celebs who participated in the Women’s March in Los Angeles on Saturday.


lol i am:

Sun Sag

Moon Leo

Mercury Sag

Venus Sag

Mars Libra

Asc Aqua
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two libra mars should get on great ...



so weird.

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I think a man's mars can tell you how he will pursue. His is in Libra, a cardinal air sign. This probably means he will initiate when interested, but in a Libra kind of way. If he doesnt that should tell you something.

I am Aqua with sag moon and dont mix well with fire signs. Way too pushy and intense for me most of the time. Don't know any Leo moons but I think I would get tired of them if they would demand too much attention.




This makes me so sad! lol What's the rest of your chart?

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her chart should love sag and leo in the chart. lmao

the hilarity. 😆


No I know what that water Venus likes! 😆 They stick to their own kind! 😆

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Distant in what way? Is he ignoring texts and calls or never initiating contact?


He’s never initiating contact, but if I initiate he’ll respond
Did he initiate initially and then stop?


Yeah Initially mainly 70% of the convos were started by him then we went on Spring Break and waited around 2 weeks before i sent the next 2 convos and he hasn't initiated any since before Spring Break
So something happened. Did you imply a relationship or something he might not have wanted without realising in the days or weeks before he stopped initiating? There wpuld have been some kind of shift before it stopped. Or a break in the roitine on your part perhaps?
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Well the last time I saw him, he tried to initiate sex but I told him I don't have casual sex.. but he seemed fine with not having sex.. Right before break he texted me "have a good break!" and I said "Thanks, you too!" so maybe it was the break in routine or did he just get uninterested or maybe he just wants sex.. IDK I'm lost.. He definitely didn't treat my like a fuck buddy
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I think a man's mars can tell you how he will pursue. His is in Libra, a cardinal air sign. This probably means he will initiate when interested, but in a Libra kind of way. If he doesnt that should tell you something.

I am Aqua with sag moon and dont mix well with fire signs. Way too pushy and intense for me most of the time. Don't know any Leo moons but I think I would get tired of them if they would demand too much attention.




This makes me so sad! lol What's the rest of your chart?

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Why does that make you sad?

I once had a sag man coming on way too strong and in a very inappropriate way too.

Now that made ME sad.

Plus he made a complete fool out of himself and didnt even realise it. That was sad too.....

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lol, Yeah we tend to do that. You guys are too chill. We push boundaries and then wonder why you don't like it 😆

How did he make a fool out of himself?
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Distant in what way? Is he ignoring texts and calls or never initiating contact?


He’s never initiating contact, but if I initiate he’ll respond
Did he initiate initially and then stop?


Yeah Initially mainly 70% of the convos were started by him then we went on Spring Break and waited around 2 weeks before i sent the next 2 convos and he hasn't initiated any since before Spring Break
So something happened. Did you imply a relationship or something he might not have wanted without realising in the days or weeks before he stopped initiating? There wpuld have been some kind of shift before it stopped. Or a break in the roitine on your part perhaps?
Well the last time I saw him, he tried to initiate sex but I told him I don't have casual sex.. but he seemed fine with not having sex.. Right before break he texted me "have a good break!" and I said "Thanks, you too!" so maybe it was the break in routine or did he just get uninterested or maybe he just wants sex.. IDK I'm lost.. He definitely didn't treat my like a fuck buddy

Any form of rejection is a massive blow to Aqua. I told my exAqua can we not have sex one time and he acted so sweet and totally cool with it and we cuddled and kissed. Until a a couple of days later when he started joking "but we're not having sex anymore remember" and being all childish about it and i said why and he saiid because you don't want to. I had to explain that i do, but i like him and want to do other things with him as well. He was eventually cool about it and stopped mentioning it but he got stuck on that rejection for a week or two. So even though he was still calling everyday, that affected him because he's abnormal lol. Anyway, that might be the reason why your aqua changed his tune. They're so sensitive to rejection that it's retarded.
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Well so now that I rejected him and hurt his pride lol What do you recommend I do? Should I just let him go and move on or wait it out? Should I continue initiating?
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Distant in what way? Is he ignoring texts and calls or never initiating contact?


He’s never initiating contact, but if I initiate he’ll respond
Did he initiate initially and then stop?


Yeah Initially mainly 70% of the convos were started by him then we went on Spring Break and waited around 2 weeks before i sent the next 2 convos and he hasn't initiated any since before Spring Break
So something happened. Did you imply a relationship or something he might not have wanted without realising in the days or weeks before he stopped initiating? There wpuld have been some kind of shift before it stopped. Or a break in the roitine on your part perhaps?
Well the last time I saw him, he tried to initiate sex but I told him I don't have casual sex.. but he seemed fine with not having sex.. Right before break he texted me "have a good break!" and I said "Thanks, you too!" so maybe it was the break in routine or did he just get uninterested or maybe he just wants sex.. IDK I'm lost.. He definitely didn't treat my like a fuck buddy

Any form of rejection is a massive blow to Aqua. I told my exAqua can we not have sex one time and he acted so sweet and totally cool with it and we cuddled and kissed. Until a a couple of days later when he started joking "but we're not having sex anymore remember" and being all childish about it and i said why and he saiid because you don't want to. I had to explain that i do, but i like him and want to do other things with him as well. He was eventually cool about it and stopped mentioning it but he got stuck on that rejection for a week or two. So even though he was still calling everyday, that affected him because he's abnormal lol. Anyway, that might be the reason why your aqua changed his tune. They're so sensitive to rejection that it's retarded.
Well so now that I rejected him and hurt his pride lol What do you recommend I do? Should I just let him go and move on or wait it out? Should I continue initiating?
It depends on what kind of relationship you had to begin with. Can you give me a bit of a summary. Were you seeing him did you guys kiss have you ever had sex with him how long have you been hanging out or whatever . so how close were you guys to eachother and how long has this relationship thing been going on for
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So basically I was seeing him for a like 3 weeks before spring break, we went out like 3 times, never had sex with him but he did try to initiate twice. I only ever made out and cuddled with him. He invited me out like maybe 6 times but I only accepted 3
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Posted by Sagittarius1207
Can someone please interpret how this guy I like will act if he’s interested because he’s being super distant and is sending mixed signals..

Sun Aquarius

Moon Sagittarius

Mercury Capricorn

Venus Aquarius

Mars Libra

My moon in Leo is getting super annoyed by his lack of attention lol
First off it is a 75% Sagittarius moon so he definitely has a lot on his mind. She maybe expecting to much of him during the retrograde. That is just life... everyone one has there ups and downs. Woman seem these days to kick guys to the curb during the wrong times often... or she just plain picked wrong. It is a good coupling mix. More it is just about communication and if she goes after him to hard he will become introverted most likely and just kinda be like I don't want to deal with this now.

Good luck with the situation.

Piscesmoon
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Distant in what way? Is he ignoring texts and calls or never initiating contact?


He’s never initiating contact, but if I initiate he’ll respond
Then maybe he isnt interested. Never had an aqua do that to me... all the aquas i were with initiated the contact. I barely did it.
Is yours LDR or do you see him lots?
My aqua exes especially the one before this wasnt LDR. I was living in the same country. My aqua ex and I even lived together for some time. I think i posted it several times in several threads. I dont initiate contact with men unless I am comfortable with them which means I have to be with them for some time. Its been my number one rule. I noticed the moment I initiate, its game over. Men lose interest. I have virgo rising too so I am very feminine and let the man do the chasing. The only place I initiate is in bed. Texting or even facebook messaging or snapchat— barely. Its why if my bf doesnt message me in the morning, i dont message until he does. If he messages me, he gets rewarded with flirting and sometimes some nudes. Give and take. But he has to be the man and approach me. I dont know how it will work for other women. LDR or not, it works quite well for me.
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Dont you think guys need to get attention too, won't they lose interest, even tho they get a "reward" afterwards writing you? Can't it be simple, you write whenever you want to, they do the same? Or is this the way you're acting only in the beginning of the relationship?
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Distant in what way? Is he ignoring texts and calls or never initiating contact?


He’s never initiating contact, but if I initiate he’ll respond
Then maybe he isnt interested. Never had an aqua do that to me... all the aquas i were with initiated the contact. I barely did it.
Is yours LDR or do you see him lots?
My aqua exes especially the one before this wasnt LDR. I was living in the same country. My aqua ex and I even lived together for some time. I think i posted it several times in several threads. I dont initiate contact with men unless I am comfortable with them which means I have to be with them for some time. Its been my number one rule. I noticed the moment I initiate, its game over. Men lose interest. I have virgo rising too so I am very feminine and let the man do the chasing. The only place I initiate is in bed. Texting or even facebook messaging or snapchat— barely. Its why if my bf doesnt message me in the morning, i dont message until he does. If he messages me, he gets rewarded with flirting and sometimes some nudes. Give and take. But he has to be the man and approach me. I dont know how it will work for other women. LDR or not, it works quite well for me.
Dont you think guys need to get attention too, won't they lose interest, even tho they get a "reward" afterwards writing you? Can't it be simple, you write whenever you want to, they do the same? Or is this the way you're acting only in the beginning of the relationship?
Initially the Aqua initiated the contact. He would text me and call me. Then i started doing the texts every morning and he would continue the phone call everynight. I'd ask him to come over or he would initiate it. It was balanced for me. I prefer being chased but I like being fair too. I'm not good at reaching out if my pride or ego are bruised though. Even if i hurt theirs too. That is really hard for me but I'm working on it.
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It's good that you're working on yourself and your behavior! Especially if it comes to ego and pride and you're a leo 😀 I can't think of any leo I know who is actually trying to do something about that.
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Distant in what way? Is he ignoring texts and calls or never initiating contact?


He’s never initiating contact, but if I initiate he’ll respond
Then maybe he isnt interested. Never had an aqua do that to me... all the aquas i were with initiated the contact. I barely did it.
Is yours LDR or do you see him lots?
My aqua exes especially the one before this wasnt LDR. I was living in the same country. My aqua ex and I even lived together for some time. I think i posted it several times in several threads. I dont initiate contact with men unless I am comfortable with them which means I have to be with them for some time. Its been my number one rule. I noticed the moment I initiate, its game over. Men lose interest. I have virgo rising too so I am very feminine and let the man do the chasing. The only place I initiate is in bed. Texting or even facebook messaging or snapchat— barely. Its why if my bf doesnt message me in the morning, i dont message until he does. If he messages me, he gets rewarded with flirting and sometimes some nudes. Give and take. But he has to be the man and approach me. I dont know how it will work for other women. LDR or not, it works quite well for me.
Dont you think guys need to get attention too, won't they lose interest, even tho they get a "reward" afterwards writing you? Can't it be simple, you write whenever you want to, they do the same? Or is this the way you're acting only in the beginning of the relationship?
Of course its only in the beginning! I need time to warm up to the person i am dating and i think in a way most of the ones i have been with and the one I am currently with respects the fact that I give them a sense of responsibility in the relationship. When I am with the man longer and i feel more comfortable then i start initiating a bit more. Men say they like women who initiate the same way they like receiving nudes from random women. At the end of the day, they lose interest when they get it from women. And im not making it up. This is why many women post on here that the man stopped initiating or just ghosted them or just stopped dating them. The man already knew he caught her. Job done. Time to move on to the next. Its not what happens all the time. But it does happen. For myself, I am lretty careful especially during the early stage. Especially if we arent committed yet or we just started dating.
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Okay, yes, in the beginning that's a pretty nice tactic 😄 I used to do the exact same and even act like that way into most of my relationships, I felt like its the natural way for things to happen. But for some time now, I'm realizing how wrong it is, it all needs to be equal, man deserve attention just as we do! 😄
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Can someone please interpret how this guy I like will act if he’s interested because he’s being super distant and is sending mixed signals..

Sun Aquarius

Moon Sagittarius

Mercury Capricorn

Venus Aquarius

Mars Libra

My moon in Leo is getting super annoyed by his lack of attention lol
lol Good luck with that! 😆 I love mercury in Cap placement. He should be pretty easy to talk to. Just keep in contact with him and don't do the normal pull back Sag thing. He will follow your lead. When you act weird, so will he. lol

Don't Fucc up! 😆
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Yassss Capricorn Mercury = Boss mind.