Posted by WittyGem88I do want him.Posted by Gemgal101Nah. Attachment dont scare them. They just tend to get attached more than us. Ive experienced fwb with aquas and they ask for exclusivity before I do. They try to make me jealous and if i dont react then they get more direct. Maybe its just me.... i put a line between fwb and real dating. I dont think i will end up falling for my fwb just because i dont think i can trust him that hes not banging other girls and saying the same things hes telling me. Anyway, step up your game like what aerialview said. You want him? Get him. No one is going to stop you but you.Posted by WittyGem88What do u mean by this? Does it mean this attachment scares them?Posted by Senorita_LLAquas dont do well in fwb. I noticed they are the ones who get attached first especislly if a gem is involved.
Why is it that FWB seemed to always have issue more than those who's in exclusive relationship?
I'm sorry but can anyone make me understand please? Aren't FWB supposingly to be just for sex with no emotions involve? No? 🤔🤔click to expand
Posted by WittyGem88I feel like I am such a boring person. I will try to think of things that will make him get excited.Posted by Gemgal101Dont chase. Youre a gem. We never chase. Lol. Initiate fun though. Make him enjoy your company beyond sex. Is he into food? Invite him out to try a new restaurant. Is he kinky? Do something new in bed. Is he into video games or anime? Watch one together. Thats not chasing. Thats taking the lead. Dont get emotional and dont bombard him with messages. Give him something to look forward to with you. Dont get boring. We are not born to be boring. 🙂 and it will never be boring with aquas anyway. You lead and he reaps the benefits because he enjoys and get out of his comfort zone with you. Who wouldnt want that? Make it exciting for him and for you. Make him feel something he wont ever feel with any other girl and any other sign. 🙂Posted by WittyGem88I do want him.Posted by Gemgal101Nah. Attachment dont scare them. They just tend to get attached more than us. Ive experienced fwb with aquas and they ask for exclusivity before I do. They try to make me jealous and if i dont react then they get more direct. Maybe its just me.... i put a line between fwb and real dating. I dont think i will end up falling for my fwb just because i dont think i can trust him that hes not banging other girls and saying the same things hes telling me. Anyway, step up your game like what aerialview said. You want him? Get him. No one is going to stop you but you.Posted by WittyGem88What do u mean by this? Does it mean this attachment scares them?Posted by Senorita_LLAquas dont do well in fwb. I noticed they are the ones who get attached first especislly if a gem is involved.
Why is it that FWB seemed to always have issue more than those who's in exclusive relationship?
I'm sorry but can anyone make me understand please? Aren't FWB supposingly to be just for sex with no emotions involve? No? 🤔🤔
What do u suggest I can do to show this though because I don't want to come across as needy? Not usually the one to be direct that's all and I thought aquas didn't like being chased or is this different?
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Posted by enfant_terribleHere may lay my problem 🤔Posted by Gemgal101Posted by enfant_terribleI don't because I guess I feel like he has control and likes it that way and I mentioned earlier that he has a child so I can't just rock up at his anytime. It has to be planned.Posted by Gemgal101Could it be you don't initiate very often?
If an aqua male says to you "Im not doing the chasing anymore (for sex). You need too." What exactly does that mean?
Does it mean they are bored with you and giving me an out option? Are they interested but testing me to see my response?
Control over your urges?
Just projecting here but it kinda sucks that I have to take it on me to constantly initiate sex just bc Im a guy and SUPPOSEDLY more sexual. So basically with passive girls you never get to learn how often is too often, and when u don't initiate neither do they.. and then you start asking yourself whether or not maybe she just isn't up for it as often and so you take a step back.. and things get to a halt. I mean I don't like feeling like a total Taliban in the sack, like she's my cattle or somethin
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Posted by Caramel_PrincessI'm not a prude and I do initiate...maybe not enough but I think there's more too it..and its not just sex that this is all about.
He literally spelled it out.. what’s not easy to understand—
“I won’t do it anymore cause I’ve been and now it’s your turn.”
Posted by MyStarsShineI like this👍
Send sexy texts, call him, tell him "I want to....." then put the phone down
Play sexy games with him
Dress up....French maid, sexy nurse, hooker, police woman.....the possibiites are endless lol
Have sex in the car, on a beach, field, hotel rooms
Tell him you will pick him up and dress as a sexy chauffeur ... I did that once and my car broke down and the beak down service man got an eyeful of me in micro mini skirt, stockings and high heels....haha his face.....priceless
Dominate him
Be submissive to him
Overpower him, drape your hair in his face, if it's not long, get a wig
Dance like a wild thing for him
......S u r p r i s e......him ⚡️
One of these days I will write a sex manual
😈🌵😃
Posted by AerialView.......so did theyPosted by MyStarsShineI like this👍
Send sexy texts, call him, tell him "I want to....." then put the phone down
Play sexy games with him
Dress up....French maid, sexy nurse, hooker, police woman.....the possibiites are endless lol
Have sex in the car, on a beach, field, hotel rooms
Tell him you will pick him up and dress as a sexy chauffeur ... I did that once and my car broke down and the beak down service man got an eyeful of me in micro mini skirt, stockings and high heels....haha his face.....priceless
Dominate him
Be submissive to him
Overpower him, drape your hair in his face, if it's not long, get a wig
Dance like a wild thing for him
......S u r p r i s e......him ⚡️
One of these days I will write a sex manual
😈🌵😃
Technical ⚡click to expand
Posted by MyStarsShineNot sure about them but I do like surprises and appreciate real efforts ⚡Posted by AerialView.......so did theyPosted by MyStarsShineI like this👍
Send sexy texts, call him, tell him "I want to....." then put the phone down
Play sexy games with him
Dress up....French maid, sexy nurse, hooker, police woman.....the possibiites are endless lol
Have sex in the car, on a beach, field, hotel rooms
Tell him you will pick him up and dress as a sexy chauffeur ... I did that once and my car broke down and the beak down service man got an eyeful of me in micro mini skirt, stockings and high heels....haha his face.....priceless
Dominate him
Be submissive to him
Overpower him, drape your hair in his face, if it's not long, get a wig
Dance like a wild thing for him
......S u r p r i s e......him ⚡️
One of these days I will write a sex manual
😈🌵😃
Technical ⚡
Aqua men love to be surprised.....don't they ?
😈click to expand
Posted by AerialViewEffort with a capital EPosted by MyStarsShineNot sure about them but I do like surprises and appreciate real efforts ⚡Posted by AerialView.......so did theyPosted by MyStarsShineI like this👍
Send sexy texts, call him, tell him "I want to....." then put the phone down
Play sexy games with him
Dress up....French maid, sexy nurse, hooker, police woman.....the possibiites are endless lol
Have sex in the car, on a beach, field, hotel rooms
Tell him you will pick him up and dress as a sexy chauffeur ... I did that once and my car broke down and the beak down service man got an eyeful of me in micro mini skirt, stockings and high heels....haha his face.....priceless
Dominate him
Be submissive to him
Overpower him, drape your hair in his face, if it's not long, get a wig
Dance like a wild thing for him
......S u r p r i s e......him ⚡️
One of these days I will write a sex manual
😈🌵😃
Technical ⚡
Aqua men love to be surprised.....don't they ?
😈click to expand
Posted by WaterbearerwearerSo what are u suggesting I do then?Posted by WittyGem88Gem don’t chase—Posted by Gemgal101Dont chase. Youre a gem. We never chase. Lol. Initiate fun though. Make him enjoy your company beyond sex. Is he into food? Invite him out to try a new restaurant. Is he kinky? Do something new in bed. Is he into video games or anime? Watch one together. Thats not chasing. Thats taking the lead. Dont get emotional and dont bombard him with messages. Give him something to look forward to with you. Dont get boring. We are not born to be boring. 🙂 and it will never be boring with aquas anyway. You lead and he reaps the benefits because he enjoys and get out of his comfort zone with you. Who wouldnt want that? Make it exciting for him and for you. Make him feel something he wont ever feel with any other girl and any other sign. 🙂Posted by WittyGem88I do want him.Posted by Gemgal101Nah. Attachment dont scare them. They just tend to get attached more than us. Ive experienced fwb with aquas and they ask for exclusivity before I do. They try to make me jealous and if i dont react then they get more direct. Maybe its just me.... i put a line between fwb and real dating. I dont think i will end up falling for my fwb just because i dont think i can trust him that hes not banging other girls and saying the same things hes telling me. Anyway, step up your game like what aerialview said. You want him? Get him. No one is going to stop you but you.Posted by WittyGem88What do u mean by this? Does it mean this attachment scares them?Posted by Senorita_LLAquas dont do well in fwb. I noticed they are the ones who get attached first especislly if a gem is involved.
Why is it that FWB seemed to always have issue more than those who's in exclusive relationship?
I'm sorry but can anyone make me understand please? Aren't FWB supposingly to be just for sex with no emotions involve? No? 🤔🤔
What do u suggest I can do to show this though because I don't want to come across as needy? Not usually the one to be direct that's all and I thought aquas didn't like being chased or is this different?
Please don’t... I’ve had Gem guys stalk me on private numbers when I blocked deleted and bye their sketchy a s s e s
Aqua don’t chase. We are so dead to bs. We need closure though and once we get it
#seeyabyeclick to expand
Posted by MyStarsShineDamn 😋Posted by AerialViewEffort with a capital EPosted by MyStarsShineNot sure about them but I do like surprises and appreciate real efforts ⚡Posted by AerialView.......so did theyPosted by MyStarsShineI like this👍
Send sexy texts, call him, tell him "I want to....." then put the phone down
Play sexy games with him
Dress up....French maid, sexy nurse, hooker, police woman.....the possibiites are endless lol
Have sex in the car, on a beach, field, hotel rooms
Tell him you will pick him up and dress as a sexy chauffeur ... I did that once and my car broke down and the beak down service man got an eyeful of me in micro mini skirt, stockings and high heels....haha his face.....priceless
Dominate him
Be submissive to him
Overpower him, drape your hair in his face, if it's not long, get a wig
Dance like a wild thing for him
......S u r p r i s e......him ⚡️
One of these days I will write a sex manual
😈🌵😃
Technical ⚡
Aqua men love to be surprised.....don't they ?
😈
Theatrical, colourful sex is outrageously entertaining
Puts kinky in the shade
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Posted by WittyGem88I was told they're not chasers, they're getters.Posted by WaterbearerwearerLol Aquas chase. Based on my personal experience of 5 aquas I was with on different levels (fwb and serious relationships).Posted by WittyGem88Gem don’t chase—Posted by Gemgal101Dont chase. Youre a gem. We never chase. Lol. Initiate fun though. Make him enjoy your company beyond sex. Is he into food? Invite him out to try a new restaurant. Is he kinky? Do something new in bed. Is he into video games or anime? Watch one together. Thats not chasing. Thats taking the lead. Dont get emotional and dont bombard him with messages. Give him something to look forward to with you. Dont get boring. We are not born to be boring. 🙂 and it will never be boring with aquas anyway. You lead and he reaps the benefits because he enjoys and get out of his comfort zone with you. Who wouldnt want that? Make it exciting for him and for you. Make him feel something he wont ever feel with any other girl and any other sign. 🙂Posted by WittyGem88I do want him.Posted by Gemgal101Nah. Attachment dont scare them. They just tend to get attached more than us. Ive experienced fwb with aquas and they ask for exclusivity before I do. They try to make me jealous and if i dont react then they get more direct. Maybe its just me.... i put a line between fwb and real dating. I dont think i will end up falling for my fwb just because i dont think i can trust him that hes not banging other girls and saying the same things hes telling me. Anyway, step up your game like what aerialview said. You want him? Get him. No one is going to stop you but you.Posted by WittyGem88What do u mean by this? Does it mean this attachment scares them?Posted by Senorita_LLAquas dont do well in fwb. I noticed they are the ones who get attached first especislly if a gem is involved.
Why is it that FWB seemed to always have issue more than those who's in exclusive relationship?
I'm sorry but can anyone make me understand please? Aren't FWB supposingly to be just for sex with no emotions involve? No? 🤔🤔
What do u suggest I can do to show this though because I don't want to come across as needy? Not usually the one to be direct that's all and I thought aquas didn't like being chased or is this different?
Please don’t... I’ve had Gem guys stalk me on private numbers when I blocked deleted and bye their sketchy a s s e s
Aqua don’t chase. We are so dead to bs. We need closure though and once we get it
#seeyabyeclick to expand
Posted by UnicornSagHaha it's great fun too 🙂Posted by MyStarsShine
Send sexy texts, call him, tell him "I want to....." then put the phone down
Play sexy games with him
Dress up....French maid, sexy nurse, hooker, police woman.....the possibiites are endless lol
Have sex in the car, on a beach, field, hotel rooms
Tell him you will pick him up and dress as a sexy chauffeur ... I did that once and my car broke down and the beak down service man got an eyeful of me in micro mini skirt, stockings and high heels....haha his face.....priceless
Dominate him
Be submissive to him
Overpower him, drape your hair in his face, if it's not long, get a wig
Dance like a wild thing for him
......S u r p r i s e......him ⚡️
One of these days I will write a sex manual
😈🌵😃
See, this is why men love Scorps 😄
How can they not, I'm guessing women who does this is almost every man's dream 😄
Did about 90% from your list lol had a similar situation with car, just it was police and not service man lol and it was about -10°C...and super short skirt and high heels still involved lol
Beach is still on my wish list tho lol
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Posted by WittyGem88Well to me that sounds like each one of them chased you after you left so I'd say they're chasers. You weren't there anymore and they couldn't handle it that you weren't with them. Maybe I should just disappear and see what happens but unfortunately small town and live pretty close to each other and see each other most days because we both have kids at same school. Don't think he'd chase me anyway😅Posted by Gemgal101Aqua 1: dumped him after a long relationship as I figured we werent that compatible and it wont end well. I needed a break. He was much older than me. Kept messaging me saying he was sorry and he wants to marry me. Even got drunk texts and calls from him. Until now, he messages me and asks me how im doing despite me not responding anymore.Posted by WittyGem88I was told they're not chasers, they're getters.Posted by WaterbearerwearerLol Aquas chase. Based on my personal experience of 5 aquas I was with on different levels (fwb and serious relationships).Posted by WittyGem88Gem don’t chase—Posted by Gemgal101Dont chase. Youre a gem. We never chase. Lol. Initiate fun though. Make him enjoy your company beyond sex. Is he into food? Invite him out to try a new restaurant. Is he kinky? Do something new in bed. Is he into video games or anime? Watch one together. Thats not chasing. Thats taking the lead. Dont get emotional and dont bombard him with messages. Give him something to look forward to with you. Dont get boring. We are not born to be boring. 🙂 and it will never be boring with aquas anyway. You lead and he reaps the benefits because he enjoys and get out of his comfort zone with you. Who wouldnt want that? Make it exciting for him and for you. Make him feel something he wont ever feel with any other girl and any other sign. 🙂Posted by WittyGem88I do want him.Posted by Gemgal101Nah. Attachment dont scare them. They just tend to get attached more than us. Ive experienced fwb with aquas and they ask for exclusivity before I do. They try to make me jealous and if i dont react then they get more direct. Maybe its just me.... i put a line between fwb and real dating. I dont think i will end up falling for my fwb just because i dont think i can trust him that hes not banging other girls and saying the same things hes telling me. Anyway, step up your game like what aerialview said. You want him? Get him. No one is going to stop you but you.Posted by WittyGem88What do u mean by this? Does it mean this attachment scares them?Posted by Senorita_LLAquas dont do well in fwb. I noticed they are the ones who get attached first especislly if a gem is involved.
Why is it that FWB seemed to always have issue more than those who's in exclusive relationship?
I'm sorry but can anyone make me understand please? Aren't FWB supposingly to be just for sex with no emotions involve? No? 🤔🤔
What do u suggest I can do to show this though because I don't want to come across as needy? Not usually the one to be direct that's all and I thought aquas didn't like being chased or is this different?
Please don’t... I’ve had Gem guys stalk me on private numbers when I blocked deleted and bye their sketchy a s s e s
Aqua don’t chase. We are so dead to bs. We need closure though and once we get it
#seeyabye
5 different experiences would have to give insight as to what they are about so I am taking note.
Aqua 2: dumped him after an fwb situation. I felt that i wanted a real relationship but since he was and fwb and I never cross the line between fwb and real relationships, i left him. Blocked his ass and he still found a way to message me on gmail and snapchat. Told him im in a relationship but he still kept insisting i settled and that i will breakup with my bf because he is better and he loves me and we have so much potential as a couple. Still ignoring him most days unless he talks about somehing other than that.
Aqua 3: stopped talking to him after sometime because i met my current bf. He also met another girl. I blocked him from my messaging app as it was the right thing to do since im in a new relationship and i wanna focus on my man. He found me on instagram and i dont know how. Sent me a message insisting we go out for coffee— just the 2 of us. I said i cant and would be ok if its a double date. Kept insisting on meeting me alone. I said no. Still messages me and asks me if im still in a relationship. I left some of his messages unanswered as I dont want my bf to think im flirting. Consistently Comments on my instagram posts via DM. I still ignore him. Hes still in a relationship and im still in a relationship.
Aqua 4: met him at a bar. Seemed an ok guy but because i met him at a bar, i didnt think of it any seriously. Messaged me the following day, asked me for a proper date. I said no. Added me on facebook, i rejected. Kept messaging me and calling me so i ended up blocking him. His last attempt was adding me on snapchat which i dunno how he found me on snapchat.
Aqua 5: BF. Almost broke up with him when an issue about his ex happened. I dont like competition and i dont like stress so I was ready to choose the easy way out. Called me nonstop early in the morning. Kept telling me i have no competition. He loves me and he thinks im the one for him. Before that, when we started talking I disappeared on him for 24hrs coz i wasnt that serious and when i responded after 24hrs he called me and immediately said he missed me and that he was gonna fly to see me.
I dont think negatively of any aqua but I gotta choose just one and be with just one.click to expand
Posted by Gemgal101But isn’t he telling you that he is not going to do anymore chasing? Then you should make a bit of effort. Disappearing it’s not good if he isn’t willing to chase.Posted by WittyGem88Well to me that sounds like each one of them chased you after you left so I'd say they're chasers. You weren't there anymore and they couldn't handle it that you weren't with them. Maybe I should just disappear and see what happens but unfortunately small town and live pretty close to each other and see each other most days because we both have kids at same school. Don't think he'd chase me anyway😅Posted by Gemgal101Aqua 1: dumped him after a long relationship as I figured we werent that compatible and it wont end well. I needed a break. He was much older than me. Kept messaging me saying he was sorry and he wants to marry me. Even got drunk texts and calls from him. Until now, he messages me and asks me how im doing despite me not responding anymore.Posted by WittyGem88I was told they're not chasers, they're getters.Posted by WaterbearerwearerLol Aquas chase. Based on my personal experience of 5 aquas I was with on different levels (fwb and serious relationships).Posted by WittyGem88Gem don’t chase—Posted by Gemgal101Dont chase. Youre a gem. We never chase. Lol. Initiate fun though. Make him enjoy your company beyond sex. Is he into food? Invite him out to try a new restaurant. Is he kinky? Do something new in bed. Is he into video games or anime? Watch one together. Thats not chasing. Thats taking the lead. Dont get emotional and dont bombard him with messages. Give him something to look forward to with you. Dont get boring. We are not born to be boring. 🙂 and it will never be boring with aquas anyway. You lead and he reaps the benefits because he enjoys and get out of his comfort zone with you. Who wouldnt want that? Make it exciting for him and for you. Make him feel something he wont ever feel with any other girl and any other sign. 🙂Posted by WittyGem88I do want him.Posted by Gemgal101Nah. Attachment dont scare them. They just tend to get attached more than us. Ive experienced fwb with aquas and they ask for exclusivity before I do. They try to make me jealous and if i dont react then they get more direct. Maybe its just me.... i put a line between fwb and real dating. I dont think i will end up falling for my fwb just because i dont think i can trust him that hes not banging other girls and saying the same things hes telling me. Anyway, step up your game like what aerialview said. You want him? Get him. No one is going to stop you but you.Posted by WittyGem88What do u mean by this? Does it mean this attachment scares them?Posted by Senorita_LLAquas dont do well in fwb. I noticed they are the ones who get attached first especislly if a gem is involved.
Why is it that FWB seemed to always have issue more than those who's in exclusive relationship?
I'm sorry but can anyone make me understand please? Aren't FWB supposingly to be just for sex with no emotions involve? No? 🤔🤔
What do u suggest I can do to show this though because I don't want to come across as needy? Not usually the one to be direct that's all and I thought aquas didn't like being chased or is this different?
Please don’t... I’ve had Gem guys stalk me on private numbers when I blocked deleted and bye their sketchy a s s e s
Aqua don’t chase. We are so dead to bs. We need closure though and once we get it
#seeyabye
5 different experiences would have to give insight as to what they are about so I am taking note.
Aqua 2: dumped him after an fwb situation. I felt that i wanted a real relationship but since he was and fwb and I never cross the line between fwb and real relationships, i left him. Blocked his ass and he still found a way to message me on gmail and snapchat. Told him im in a relationship but he still kept insisting i settled and that i will breakup with my bf because he is better and he loves me and we have so much potential as a couple. Still ignoring him most days unless he talks about somehing other than that.
Aqua 3: stopped talking to him after sometime because i met my current bf. He also met another girl. I blocked him from my messaging app as it was the right thing to do since im in a new relationship and i wanna focus on my man. He found me on instagram and i dont know how. Sent me a message insisting we go out for coffee— just the 2 of us. I said i cant and would be ok if its a double date. Kept insisting on meeting me alone. I said no. Still messages me and asks me if im still in a relationship. I left some of his messages unanswered as I dont want my bf to think im flirting. Consistently Comments on my instagram posts via DM. I still ignore him. Hes still in a relationship and im still in a relationship.
Aqua 4: met him at a bar. Seemed an ok guy but because i met him at a bar, i didnt think of it any seriously. Messaged me the following day, asked me for a proper date. I said no. Added me on facebook, i rejected. Kept messaging me and calling me so i ended up blocking him. His last attempt was adding me on snapchat which i dunno how he found me on snapchat.
Aqua 5: BF. Almost broke up with him when an issue about his ex happened. I dont like competition and i dont like stress so I was ready to choose the easy way out. Called me nonstop early in the morning. Kept telling me i have no competition. He loves me and he thinks im the one for him. Before that, when we started talking I disappeared on him for 24hrs coz i wasnt that serious and when i responded after 24hrs he called me and immediately said he missed me and that he was gonna fly to see me.
I dont think negatively of any aqua but I gotta choose just one and be with just one.
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Posted by WaterbearerwearerI agree.Posted by pisceswoman123Exactly Pisces. You can’t expect ghosting to work in life without an explaination. You only create intrigue instead of genuine attraction.Posted by Gemgal101But isn’t he telling you that he is not going to do anymore chasing? Then you should make a bit of effort. Disappearing it’s not good if he isn’t willing to chase.Posted by WittyGem88Well to me that sounds like each one of them chased you after you left so I'd say they're chasers. You weren't there anymore and they couldn't handle it that you weren't with them. Maybe I should just disappear and see what happens but unfortunately small town and live pretty close to each other and see each other most days because we both have kids at same school. Don't think he'd chase me anyway😅Posted by Gemgal101Aqua 1: dumped him after a long relationship as I figured we werent that compatible and it wont end well. I needed a break. He was much older than me. Kept messaging me saying he was sorry and he wants to marry me. Even got drunk texts and calls from him. Until now, he messages me and asks me how im doing despite me not responding anymore.Posted by WittyGem88I was told they're not chasers, they're getters.Posted by WaterbearerwearerLol Aquas chase. Based on my personal experience of 5 aquas I was with on different levels (fwb and serious relationships).Posted by WittyGem88Gem don’t chase—Posted by Gemgal101Dont chase. Youre a gem. We never chase. Lol. Initiate fun though. Make him enjoy your company beyond sex. Is he into food? Invite him out to try a new restaurant. Is he kinky? Do something new in bed. Is he into video games or anime? Watch one together. Thats not chasing. Thats taking the lead. Dont get emotional and dont bombard him with messages. Give him something to look forward to with you. Dont get boring. We are not born to be boring. 🙂 and it will never be boring with aquas anyway. You lead and he reaps the benefits because he enjoys and get out of his comfort zone with you. Who wouldnt want that? Make it exciting for him and for you. Make him feel something he wont ever feel with any other girl and any other sign. 🙂Posted by WittyGem88I do want him.Posted by Gemgal101Nah. Attachment dont scare them. They just tend to get attached more than us. Ive experienced fwb with aquas and they ask for exclusivity before I do. They try to make me jealous and if i dont react then they get more direct. Maybe its just me.... i put a line between fwb and real dating. I dont think i will end up falling for my fwb just because i dont think i can trust him that hes not banging other girls and saying the same things hes telling me. Anyway, step up your game like what aerialview said. You want him? Get him. No one is going to stop you but you.Posted by WittyGem88What do u mean by this? Does it mean this attachment scares them?Posted by Senorita_LLAquas dont do well in fwb. I noticed they are the ones who get attached first especislly if a gem is involved.
Why is it that FWB seemed to always have issue more than those who's in exclusive relationship?
I'm sorry but can anyone make me understand please? Aren't FWB supposingly to be just for sex with no emotions involve? No? 🤔🤔
What do u suggest I can do to show this though because I don't want to come across as needy? Not usually the one to be direct that's all and I thought aquas didn't like being chased or is this different?
Please don’t... I’ve had Gem guys stalk me on private numbers when I blocked deleted and bye their sketchy a s s e s
Aqua don’t chase. We are so dead to bs. We need closure though and once we get it
#seeyabye
5 different experiences would have to give insight as to what they are about so I am taking note.
Aqua 2: dumped him after an fwb situation. I felt that i wanted a real relationship but since he was and fwb and I never cross the line between fwb and real relationships, i left him. Blocked his ass and he still found a way to message me on gmail and snapchat. Told him im in a relationship but he still kept insisting i settled and that i will breakup with my bf because he is better and he loves me and we have so much potential as a couple. Still ignoring him most days unless he talks about somehing other than that.
Aqua 3: stopped talking to him after sometime because i met my current bf. He also met another girl. I blocked him from my messaging app as it was the right thing to do since im in a new relationship and i wanna focus on my man. He found me on instagram and i dont know how. Sent me a message insisting we go out for coffee— just the 2 of us. I said i cant and would be ok if its a double date. Kept insisting on meeting me alone. I said no. Still messages me and asks me if im still in a relationship. I left some of his messages unanswered as I dont want my bf to think im flirting. Consistently Comments on my instagram posts via DM. I still ignore him. Hes still in a relationship and im still in a relationship.
Aqua 4: met him at a bar. Seemed an ok guy but because i met him at a bar, i didnt think of it any seriously. Messaged me the following day, asked me for a proper date. I said no. Added me on facebook, i rejected. Kept messaging me and calling me so i ended up blocking him. His last attempt was adding me on snapchat which i dunno how he found me on snapchat.
Aqua 5: BF. Almost broke up with him when an issue about his ex happened. I dont like competition and i dont like stress so I was ready to choose the easy way out. Called me nonstop early in the morning. Kept telling me i have no competition. He loves me and he thinks im the one for him. Before that, when we started talking I disappeared on him for 24hrs coz i wasnt that serious and when i responded after 24hrs he called me and immediately said he missed me and that he was gonna fly to see me.
I dont think negatively of any aqua but I gotta choose just one and be with just one.
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Posted by pisceswoman123I'm not disappearing. I am making an effort very much so but just hard time for him at the moment emotionally so am giving him space until the next week is over.Posted by Gemgal101But isn’t he telling you that he is not going to do anymore chasing? Then you should make a bit of effort. Disappearing it’s not good if he isn’t willing to chase.Posted by WittyGem88Well to me that sounds like each one of them chased you after you left so I'd say they're chasers. You weren't there anymore and they couldn't handle it that you weren't with them. Maybe I should just disappear and see what happens but unfortunately small town and live pretty close to each other and see each other most days because we both have kids at same school. Don't think he'd chase me anyway😅Posted by Gemgal101Aqua 1: dumped him after a long relationship as I figured we werent that compatible and it wont end well. I needed a break. He was much older than me. Kept messaging me saying he was sorry and he wants to marry me. Even got drunk texts and calls from him. Until now, he messages me and asks me how im doing despite me not responding anymore.Posted by WittyGem88I was told they're not chasers, they're getters.Posted by WaterbearerwearerLol Aquas chase. Based on my personal experience of 5 aquas I was with on different levels (fwb and serious relationships).Posted by WittyGem88Gem don’t chase—Posted by Gemgal101Dont chase. Youre a gem. We never chase. Lol. Initiate fun though. Make him enjoy your company beyond sex. Is he into food? Invite him out to try a new restaurant. Is he kinky? Do something new in bed. Is he into video games or anime? Watch one together. Thats not chasing. Thats taking the lead. Dont get emotional and dont bombard him with messages. Give him something to look forward to with you. Dont get boring. We are not born to be boring. 🙂 and it will never be boring with aquas anyway. You lead and he reaps the benefits because he enjoys and get out of his comfort zone with you. Who wouldnt want that? Make it exciting for him and for you. Make him feel something he wont ever feel with any other girl and any other sign. 🙂Posted by WittyGem88I do want him.Posted by Gemgal101Nah. Attachment dont scare them. They just tend to get attached more than us. Ive experienced fwb with aquas and they ask for exclusivity before I do. They try to make me jealous and if i dont react then they get more direct. Maybe its just me.... i put a line between fwb and real dating. I dont think i will end up falling for my fwb just because i dont think i can trust him that hes not banging other girls and saying the same things hes telling me. Anyway, step up your game like what aerialview said. You want him? Get him. No one is going to stop you but you.Posted by WittyGem88What do u mean by this? Does it mean this attachment scares them?Posted by Senorita_LLAquas dont do well in fwb. I noticed they are the ones who get attached first especislly if a gem is involved.
Why is it that FWB seemed to always have issue more than those who's in exclusive relationship?
I'm sorry but can anyone make me understand please? Aren't FWB supposingly to be just for sex with no emotions involve? No? 🤔🤔
What do u suggest I can do to show this though because I don't want to come across as needy? Not usually the one to be direct that's all and I thought aquas didn't like being chased or is this different?
Please don’t... I’ve had Gem guys stalk me on private numbers when I blocked deleted and bye their sketchy a s s e s
Aqua don’t chase. We are so dead to bs. We need closure though and once we get it
#seeyabye
5 different experiences would have to give insight as to what they are about so I am taking note.
Aqua 2: dumped him after an fwb situation. I felt that i wanted a real relationship but since he was and fwb and I never cross the line between fwb and real relationships, i left him. Blocked his ass and he still found a way to message me on gmail and snapchat. Told him im in a relationship but he still kept insisting i settled and that i will breakup with my bf because he is better and he loves me and we have so much potential as a couple. Still ignoring him most days unless he talks about somehing other than that.
Aqua 3: stopped talking to him after sometime because i met my current bf. He also met another girl. I blocked him from my messaging app as it was the right thing to do since im in a new relationship and i wanna focus on my man. He found me on instagram and i dont know how. Sent me a message insisting we go out for coffee— just the 2 of us. I said i cant and would be ok if its a double date. Kept insisting on meeting me alone. I said no. Still messages me and asks me if im still in a relationship. I left some of his messages unanswered as I dont want my bf to think im flirting. Consistently Comments on my instagram posts via DM. I still ignore him. Hes still in a relationship and im still in a relationship.
Aqua 4: met him at a bar. Seemed an ok guy but because i met him at a bar, i didnt think of it any seriously. Messaged me the following day, asked me for a proper date. I said no. Added me on facebook, i rejected. Kept messaging me and calling me so i ended up blocking him. His last attempt was adding me on snapchat which i dunno how he found me on snapchat.
Aqua 5: BF. Almost broke up with him when an issue about his ex happened. I dont like competition and i dont like stress so I was ready to choose the easy way out. Called me nonstop early in the morning. Kept telling me i have no competition. He loves me and he thinks im the one for him. Before that, when we started talking I disappeared on him for 24hrs coz i wasnt that serious and when i responded after 24hrs he called me and immediately said he missed me and that he was gonna fly to see me.
I dont think negatively of any aqua but I gotta choose just one and be with just one.
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Posted by peachy06And you would know because you've based that hypothesis on what I've written??. If you knew the whole story which I will not disclose, any person should understand why this isn't as straight forward as you may think it is.
You really sound like a child tbh. You just don't know what you want, typical of Gemini.
Posted by Gemgal101Are you sure he doesn’t want you there to support him?Posted by pisceswoman123I'm not disappearing. I am making an effort very much so but just hard time for him at the moment emotionally so am giving him space until the next week is over.Posted by Gemgal101But isn’t he telling you that he is not going to do anymore chasing? Then you should make a bit of effort. Disappearing it’s not good if he isn’t willing to chase.Posted by WittyGem88Well to me that sounds like each one of them chased you after you left so I'd say they're chasers. You weren't there anymore and they couldn't handle it that you weren't with them. Maybe I should just disappear and see what happens but unfortunately small town and live pretty close to each other and see each other most days because we both have kids at same school. Don't think he'd chase me anyway😅Posted by Gemgal101Aqua 1: dumped him after a long relationship as I figured we werent that compatible and it wont end well. I needed a break. He was much older than me. Kept messaging me saying he was sorry and he wants to marry me. Even got drunk texts and calls from him. Until now, he messages me and asks me how im doing despite me not responding anymore.Posted by WittyGem88I was told they're not chasers, they're getters.Posted by WaterbearerwearerLol Aquas chase. Based on my personal experience of 5 aquas I was with on different levels (fwb and serious relationships).Posted by WittyGem88Gem don’t chase—Posted by Gemgal101Dont chase. Youre a gem. We never chase. Lol. Initiate fun though. Make him enjoy your company beyond sex. Is he into food? Invite him out to try a new restaurant. Is he kinky? Do something new in bed. Is he into video games or anime? Watch one together. Thats not chasing. Thats taking the lead. Dont get emotional and dont bombard him with messages. Give him something to look forward to with you. Dont get boring. We are not born to be boring. 🙂 and it will never be boring with aquas anyway. You lead and he reaps the benefits because he enjoys and get out of his comfort zone with you. Who wouldnt want that? Make it exciting for him and for you. Make him feel something he wont ever feel with any other girl and any other sign. 🙂Posted by WittyGem88I do want him.Posted by Gemgal101Nah. Attachment dont scare them. They just tend to get attached more than us. Ive experienced fwb with aquas and they ask for exclusivity before I do. They try to make me jealous and if i dont react then they get more direct. Maybe its just me.... i put a line between fwb and real dating. I dont think i will end up falling for my fwb just because i dont think i can trust him that hes not banging other girls and saying the same things hes telling me. Anyway, step up your game like what aerialview said. You want him? Get him. No one is going to stop you but you.Posted by WittyGem88What do u mean by this? Does it mean this attachment scares them?Posted by Senorita_LLAquas dont do well in fwb. I noticed they are the ones who get attached first especislly if a gem is involved.
Why is it that FWB seemed to always have issue more than those who's in exclusive relationship?
I'm sorry but can anyone make me understand please? Aren't FWB supposingly to be just for sex with no emotions involve? No? 🤔🤔
What do u suggest I can do to show this though because I don't want to come across as needy? Not usually the one to be direct that's all and I thought aquas didn't like being chased or is this different?
Please don’t... I’ve had Gem guys stalk me on private numbers when I blocked deleted and bye their sketchy a s s e s
Aqua don’t chase. We are so dead to bs. We need closure though and once we get it
#seeyabye
5 different experiences would have to give insight as to what they are about so I am taking note.
Aqua 2: dumped him after an fwb situation. I felt that i wanted a real relationship but since he was and fwb and I never cross the line between fwb and real relationships, i left him. Blocked his ass and he still found a way to message me on gmail and snapchat. Told him im in a relationship but he still kept insisting i settled and that i will breakup with my bf because he is better and he loves me and we have so much potential as a couple. Still ignoring him most days unless he talks about somehing other than that.
Aqua 3: stopped talking to him after sometime because i met my current bf. He also met another girl. I blocked him from my messaging app as it was the right thing to do since im in a new relationship and i wanna focus on my man. He found me on instagram and i dont know how. Sent me a message insisting we go out for coffee— just the 2 of us. I said i cant and would be ok if its a double date. Kept insisting on meeting me alone. I said no. Still messages me and asks me if im still in a relationship. I left some of his messages unanswered as I dont want my bf to think im flirting. Consistently Comments on my instagram posts via DM. I still ignore him. Hes still in a relationship and im still in a relationship.
Aqua 4: met him at a bar. Seemed an ok guy but because i met him at a bar, i didnt think of it any seriously. Messaged me the following day, asked me for a proper date. I said no. Added me on facebook, i rejected. Kept messaging me and calling me so i ended up blocking him. His last attempt was adding me on snapchat which i dunno how he found me on snapchat.
Aqua 5: BF. Almost broke up with him when an issue about his ex happened. I dont like competition and i dont like stress so I was ready to choose the easy way out. Called me nonstop early in the morning. Kept telling me i have no competition. He loves me and he thinks im the one for him. Before that, when we started talking I disappeared on him for 24hrs coz i wasnt that serious and when i responded after 24hrs he called me and immediately said he missed me and that he was gonna fly to see me.
I dont think negatively of any aqua but I gotta choose just one and be with just one.
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Posted by pisceswoman123He does want me there. He always tells me I'm the first person he calls when something happens and he tells me things that no one else knows. He trusts me and he knows I'm always here for him. Always.Posted by Gemgal101Are you sure he doesn’t want you there to support him?Posted by pisceswoman123I'm not disappearing. I am making an effort very much so but just hard time for him at the moment emotionally so am giving him space until the next week is over.Posted by Gemgal101But isn’t he telling you that he is not going to do anymore chasing? Then you should make a bit of effort. Disappearing it’s not good if he isn’t willing to chase.Posted by WittyGem88Well to me that sounds like each one of them chased you after you left so I'd say they're chasers. You weren't there anymore and they couldn't handle it that you weren't with them. Maybe I should just disappear and see what happens but unfortunately small town and live pretty close to each other and see each other most days because we both have kids at same school. Don't think he'd chase me anyway😅Posted by Gemgal101Aqua 1: dumped him after a long relationship as I figured we werent that compatible and it wont end well. I needed a break. He was much older than me. Kept messaging me saying he was sorry and he wants to marry me. Even got drunk texts and calls from him. Until now, he messages me and asks me how im doing despite me not responding anymore.Posted by WittyGem88I was told they're not chasers, they're getters.Posted by WaterbearerwearerLol Aquas chase. Based on my personal experience of 5 aquas I was with on different levels (fwb and serious relationships).Posted by WittyGem88Gem don’t chase—Posted by Gemgal101Dont chase. Youre a gem. We never chase. Lol. Initiate fun though. Make him enjoy your company beyond sex. Is he into food? Invite him out to try a new restaurant. Is he kinky? Do something new in bed. Is he into video games or anime? Watch one together. Thats not chasing. Thats taking the lead. Dont get emotional and dont bombard him with messages. Give him something to look forward to with you. Dont get boring. We are not born to be boring. 🙂 and it will never be boring with aquas anyway. You lead and he reaps the benefits because he enjoys and get out of his comfort zone with you. Who wouldnt want that? Make it exciting for him and for you. Make him feel something he wont ever feel with any other girl and any other sign. 🙂Posted by WittyGem88I do want him.Posted by Gemgal101Nah. Attachment dont scare them. They just tend to get attached more than us. Ive experienced fwb with aquas and they ask for exclusivity before I do. They try to make me jealous and if i dont react then they get more direct. Maybe its just me.... i put a line between fwb and real dating. I dont think i will end up falling for my fwb just because i dont think i can trust him that hes not banging other girls and saying the same things hes telling me. Anyway, step up your game like what aerialview said. You want him? Get him. No one is going to stop you but you.Posted by WittyGem88What do u mean by this? Does it mean this attachment scares them?Posted by Senorita_LLAquas dont do well in fwb. I noticed they are the ones who get attached first especislly if a gem is involved.
Why is it that FWB seemed to always have issue more than those who's in exclusive relationship?
I'm sorry but can anyone make me understand please? Aren't FWB supposingly to be just for sex with no emotions involve? No? 🤔🤔
What do u suggest I can do to show this though because I don't want to come across as needy? Not usually the one to be direct that's all and I thought aquas didn't like being chased or is this different?
Please don’t... I’ve had Gem guys stalk me on private numbers when I blocked deleted and bye their sketchy a s s e s
Aqua don’t chase. We are so dead to bs. We need closure though and once we get it
#seeyabye
5 different experiences would have to give insight as to what they are about so I am taking note.
Aqua 2: dumped him after an fwb situation. I felt that i wanted a real relationship but since he was and fwb and I never cross the line between fwb and real relationships, i left him. Blocked his ass and he still found a way to message me on gmail and snapchat. Told him im in a relationship but he still kept insisting i settled and that i will breakup with my bf because he is better and he loves me and we have so much potential as a couple. Still ignoring him most days unless he talks about somehing other than that.
Aqua 3: stopped talking to him after sometime because i met my current bf. He also met another girl. I blocked him from my messaging app as it was the right thing to do since im in a new relationship and i wanna focus on my man. He found me on instagram and i dont know how. Sent me a message insisting we go out for coffee— just the 2 of us. I said i cant and would be ok if its a double date. Kept insisting on meeting me alone. I said no. Still messages me and asks me if im still in a relationship. I left some of his messages unanswered as I dont want my bf to think im flirting. Consistently Comments on my instagram posts via DM. I still ignore him. Hes still in a relationship and im still in a relationship.
Aqua 4: met him at a bar. Seemed an ok guy but because i met him at a bar, i didnt think of it any seriously. Messaged me the following day, asked me for a proper date. I said no. Added me on facebook, i rejected. Kept messaging me and calling me so i ended up blocking him. His last attempt was adding me on snapchat which i dunno how he found me on snapchat.
Aqua 5: BF. Almost broke up with him when an issue about his ex happened. I dont like competition and i dont like stress so I was ready to choose the easy way out. Called me nonstop early in the morning. Kept telling me i have no competition. He loves me and he thinks im the one for him. Before that, when we started talking I disappeared on him for 24hrs coz i wasnt that serious and when i responded after 24hrs he called me and immediately said he missed me and that he was gonna fly to see me.
I dont think negatively of any aqua but I gotta choose just one and be with just one.
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Posted by Gemgal101So he is telling you "Im not doing the chasing anymore (for sex). You need too." That to me it means he wants you to come to him more often. And he is going through a hard time and wants you there.Posted by pisceswoman123He does want me there. He always tells me I'm the first person he calls when something happens and he tells me things that no one else knows. He trusts me and he knows I'm always here for him. Always.Posted by Gemgal101Are you sure he doesn’t want you there to support him?Posted by pisceswoman123I'm not disappearing. I am making an effort very much so but just hard time for him at the moment emotionally so am giving him space until the next week is over.Posted by Gemgal101But isn’t he telling you that he is not going to do anymore chasing? Then you should make a bit of effort. Disappearing it’s not good if he isn’t willing to chase.Posted by WittyGem88Well to me that sounds like each one of them chased you after you left so I'd say they're chasers. You weren't there anymore and they couldn't handle it that you weren't with them. Maybe I should just disappear and see what happens but unfortunately small town and live pretty close to each other and see each other most days because we both have kids at same school. Don't think he'd chase me anyway😅Posted by Gemgal101Aqua 1: dumped him after a long relationship as I figured we werent that compatible and it wont end well. I needed a break. He was much older than me. Kept messaging me saying he was sorry and he wants to marry me. Even got drunk texts and calls from him. Until now, he messages me and asks me how im doing despite me not responding anymore.Posted by WittyGem88I was told they're not chasers, they're getters.Posted by WaterbearerwearerLol Aquas chase. Based on my personal experience of 5 aquas I was with on different levels (fwb and serious relationships).Posted by WittyGem88Gem don’t chase—Posted by Gemgal101Dont chase. Youre a gem. We never chase. Lol. Initiate fun though. Make him enjoy your company beyond sex. Is he into food? Invite him out to try a new restaurant. Is he kinky? Do something new in bed. Is he into video games or anime? Watch one together. Thats not chasing. Thats taking the lead. Dont get emotional and dont bombard him with messages. Give him something to look forward to with you. Dont get boring. We are not born to be boring. 🙂 and it will never be boring with aquas anyway. You lead and he reaps the benefits because he enjoys and get out of his comfort zone with you. Who wouldnt want that? Make it exciting for him and for you. Make him feel something he wont ever feel with any other girl and any other sign. 🙂Posted by WittyGem88I do want him.Posted by Gemgal101Nah. Attachment dont scare them. They just tend to get attached more than us. Ive experienced fwb with aquas and they ask for exclusivity before I do. They try to make me jealous and if i dont react then they get more direct. Maybe its just me.... i put a line between fwb and real dating. I dont think i will end up falling for my fwb just because i dont think i can trust him that hes not banging other girls and saying the same things hes telling me. Anyway, step up your game like what aerialview said. You want him? Get him. No one is going to stop you but you.Posted by WittyGem88What do u mean by this? Does it mean this attachment scares them?Posted by Senorita_LLAquas dont do well in fwb. I noticed they are the ones who get attached first especislly if a gem is involved.
Why is it that FWB seemed to always have issue more than those who's in exclusive relationship?
I'm sorry but can anyone make me understand please? Aren't FWB supposingly to be just for sex with no emotions involve? No? 🤔🤔
What do u suggest I can do to show this though because I don't want to come across as needy? Not usually the one to be direct that's all and I thought aquas didn't like being chased or is this different?
Please don’t... I’ve had Gem guys stalk me on private numbers when I blocked deleted and bye their sketchy a s s e s
Aqua don’t chase. We are so dead to bs. We need closure though and once we get it
#seeyabye
5 different experiences would have to give insight as to what they are about so I am taking note.
Aqua 2: dumped him after an fwb situation. I felt that i wanted a real relationship but since he was and fwb and I never cross the line between fwb and real relationships, i left him. Blocked his ass and he still found a way to message me on gmail and snapchat. Told him im in a relationship but he still kept insisting i settled and that i will breakup with my bf because he is better and he loves me and we have so much potential as a couple. Still ignoring him most days unless he talks about somehing other than that.
Aqua 3: stopped talking to him after sometime because i met my current bf. He also met another girl. I blocked him from my messaging app as it was the right thing to do since im in a new relationship and i wanna focus on my man. He found me on instagram and i dont know how. Sent me a message insisting we go out for coffee— just the 2 of us. I said i cant and would be ok if its a double date. Kept insisting on meeting me alone. I said no. Still messages me and asks me if im still in a relationship. I left some of his messages unanswered as I dont want my bf to think im flirting. Consistently Comments on my instagram posts via DM. I still ignore him. Hes still in a relationship and im still in a relationship.
Aqua 4: met him at a bar. Seemed an ok guy but because i met him at a bar, i didnt think of it any seriously. Messaged me the following day, asked me for a proper date. I said no. Added me on facebook, i rejected. Kept messaging me and calling me so i ended up blocking him. His last attempt was adding me on snapchat which i dunno how he found me on snapchat.
Aqua 5: BF. Almost broke up with him when an issue about his ex happened. I dont like competition and i dont like stress so I was ready to choose the easy way out. Called me nonstop early in the morning. Kept telling me i have no competition. He loves me and he thinks im the one for him. Before that, when we started talking I disappeared on him for 24hrs coz i wasnt that serious and when i responded after 24hrs he called me and immediately said he missed me and that he was gonna fly to see me.
I dont think negatively of any aqua but I gotta choose just one and be with just one.
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Posted by pisceswoman123After our last trip away he pulled away like he Does saying it was becoming too much. He didn't want a relationship with anyone just yet and was all becoming overwhelming for him. Not long after that he reiterated the point about seeing other people. That if the opportunity arose, he wanted to take it and was my choice whether I stay or go. For the last 18months it had been exclusive but with the reiteration of the other people comment, it's been different. I'm pretty certain there has been at least one other woman of recent but I think that's died out. He knows i am in love with him but he said he's not there yet but that you never know what the future holds. I decided to cut back on the texts and phone calls cos I felt maybe I was too much for him but since then, he has been initiating phone calls more often. We used to see each other at least 4 nights in a row and now it's only 2. He is still hurting over the loss of his wife and he has a child and so do I. I think he really doesn't know what he wants but I do know that my friendship is extremely important to him. He trusts me and has told me things no one else knows. He always says whatever happens you will always be the first person I tell. I am in love with him and I don't consider it just fwb and he acknowledges it as more than that. He said it is like a relationship but it's just a secret one because no one knows.Posted by Gemgal101So he is telling you "Im not doing the chasing anymore (for sex). You need too." That to me it means he wants you to come to him more often. And he is going through a hard time and wants you there.Posted by pisceswoman123He does want me there. He always tells me I'm the first person he calls when something happens and he tells me things that no one else knows. He trusts me and he knows I'm always here for him. Always.Posted by Gemgal101Are you sure he doesn’t want you there to support him?Posted by pisceswoman123I'm not disappearing. I am making an effort very much so but just hard time for him at the moment emotionally so am giving him space until the next week is over.Posted by Gemgal101But isn’t he telling you that he is not going to do anymore chasing? Then you should make a bit of effort. Disappearing it’s not good if he isn’t willing to chase.Posted by WittyGem88Well to me that sounds like each one of them chased you after you left so I'd say they're chasers. You weren't there anymore and they couldn't handle it that you weren't with them. Maybe I should just disappear and see what happens but unfortunately small town and live pretty close to each other and see each other most days because we both have kids at same school. Don't think he'd chase me anyway😅Posted by Gemgal101Aqua 1: dumped him after a long relationship as I figured we werent that compatible and it wont end well. I needed a break. He was much older than me. Kept messaging me saying he was sorry and he wants to marry me. Even got drunk texts and calls from him. Until now, he messages me and asks me how im doing despite me not responding anymore.Posted by WittyGem88I was told they're not chasers, they're getters.Posted by WaterbearerwearerLol Aquas chase. Based on my personal experience of 5 aquas I was with on different levels (fwb and serious relationships).Posted by WittyGem88Gem don’t chase—Posted by Gemgal101Dont chase. Youre a gem. We never chase. Lol. Initiate fun though. Make him enjoy your company beyond sex. Is he into food? Invite him out to try a new restaurant. Is he kinky? Do something new in bed. Is he into video games or anime? Watch one together. Thats not chasing. Thats taking the lead. Dont get emotional and dont bombard him with messages. Give him something to look forward to with you. Dont get boring. We are not born to be boring. 🙂 and it will never be boring with aquas anyway. You lead and he reaps the benefits because he enjoys and get out of his comfort zone with you. Who wouldnt want that? Make it exciting for him and for you. Make him feel something he wont ever feel with any other girl and any other sign. 🙂Posted by WittyGem88I do want him.Posted by Gemgal101Nah. Attachment dont scare them. They just tend to get attached more than us. Ive experienced fwb with aquas and they ask for exclusivity before I do. They try to make me jealous and if i dont react then they get more direct. Maybe its just me.... i put a line between fwb and real dating. I dont think i will end up falling for my fwb just because i dont think i can trust him that hes not banging other girls and saying the same things hes telling me. Anyway, step up your game like what aerialview said. You want him? Get him. No one is going to stop you but you.Posted by WittyGem88What do u mean by this? Does it mean this attachment scares them?Posted by Senorita_LLAquas dont do well in fwb. I noticed they are the ones who get attached first especislly if a gem is involved.
Why is it that FWB seemed to always have issue more than those who's in exclusive relationship?
I'm sorry but can anyone make me understand please? Aren't FWB supposingly to be just for sex with no emotions involve? No? 🤔🤔
What do u suggest I can do to show this though because I don't want to come across as needy? Not usually the one to be direct that's all and I thought aquas didn't like being chased or is this different?
Please don’t... I’ve had Gem guys stalk me on private numbers when I blocked deleted and bye their sketchy a s s e s
Aqua don’t chase. We are so dead to bs. We need closure though and once we get it
#seeyabye
5 different experiences would have to give insight as to what they are about so I am taking note.
Aqua 2: dumped him after an fwb situation. I felt that i wanted a real relationship but since he was and fwb and I never cross the line between fwb and real relationships, i left him. Blocked his ass and he still found a way to message me on gmail and snapchat. Told him im in a relationship but he still kept insisting i settled and that i will breakup with my bf because he is better and he loves me and we have so much potential as a couple. Still ignoring him most days unless he talks about somehing other than that.
Aqua 3: stopped talking to him after sometime because i met my current bf. He also met another girl. I blocked him from my messaging app as it was the right thing to do since im in a new relationship and i wanna focus on my man. He found me on instagram and i dont know how. Sent me a message insisting we go out for coffee— just the 2 of us. I said i cant and would be ok if its a double date. Kept insisting on meeting me alone. I said no. Still messages me and asks me if im still in a relationship. I left some of his messages unanswered as I dont want my bf to think im flirting. Consistently Comments on my instagram posts via DM. I still ignore him. Hes still in a relationship and im still in a relationship.
Aqua 4: met him at a bar. Seemed an ok guy but because i met him at a bar, i didnt think of it any seriously. Messaged me the following day, asked me for a proper date. I said no. Added me on facebook, i rejected. Kept messaging me and calling me so i ended up blocking him. His last attempt was adding me on snapchat which i dunno how he found me on snapchat.
Aqua 5: BF. Almost broke up with him when an issue about his ex happened. I dont like competition and i dont like stress so I was ready to choose the easy way out. Called me nonstop early in the morning. Kept telling me i have no competition. He loves me and he thinks im the one for him. Before that, when we started talking I disappeared on him for 24hrs coz i wasnt that serious and when i responded after 24hrs he called me and immediately said he missed me and that he was gonna fly to see me.
I dont think negatively of any aqua but I gotta choose just one and be with just one.
Why are you giving him space?
He doesn’t want space.click to expand
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