Can Aquarius Men be Possessive?

Hi All,

Virgo woman here talking to the most sweetest Aqua man. He has expressed how much he likes me, and also has already given me a pet-name (I find very cute). Our connection is wonderful - physically, mentally and emotionally! We're fairly new which brings up my concern... He mentioned to me that he does not like when girls he is interested in, talks/dates other men. He wanted my full attention and focus on 'us' so we can develop. He said he does the same thing, so right now all of his dating apps have been deleted and has only focused on me.

I told him that I wanted him to be able to talk or even go on dates with other girls... Reason being, I'd want him to be able to make a decision on if I was the one or not... Anyways, it just so happens that I did away with the other guy I was talking to and now just talking to my Aqua man...

So going back to my question, can Aqua men be possessive?

Thanks,

Milani

Most definitely. Me, for example.

Mine is.

Yes. But they get squirrelly and debate you if you call them on it.

For sure they want exclusiveness! Even during the dating period, before commitment, they give you the freedom to do whatever you like, only to study you. This is how they know if you are suitable for them. Not by comparison. They have already compared before deciding to see you. They may like freedom, but freedom is not to see other people, but to feel free of chains, to feel comfortable with you and totally themselves. If you can give him this freedom, you will have the most devoted man on earth by your side.

Posted by Andalusia
Yes. But they get squirrelly and debate you if you call them on it.

lol



you mean they dislike the thought of being possessive?

Posted by lisabethur8

Posted by Andalusia
Yes. But they get squirrelly and debate you if you call them on it.

lol



you mean they dislike the thought of being possessive?

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I guess that's what it is. Or maybe they dislike you thinking they are? I'm honestly not quite sure what the reasoning is.

I always assumed it was because they low key liked arguing.

Posted by Andalusia

Posted by lisabethur8

Posted by Andalusia
Yes. But they get squirrelly and debate you if you call them on it.

lol



you mean they dislike the thought of being possessive?

I guess that's what it is. Or maybe they dislike you thinking they are? I'm honestly not quite sure what the reasoning is.

I always assumed it was because they low key liked arguing.

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As far as I know my Aqua man, it is a little bit because they hide their feelings well and you cannot exactly realize how deeply they actually care about you. So, when you try to mirror their behavior, acting as they do, detached, "free", with "options open", they disagree. And since possessiveness means interest towards you, they deny it. This is before commitment. In a relationship, it is totally different, because all barriers have already been broken.

Posted by compy
For sure they want exclusiveness! Even during the dating period, before commitment, they give you the freedom to do whatever you like, only to study you. This is how they know if you are suitable for them. Not by comparison. They have already compared before deciding to see you. They may like freedom, but freedom is not to see other people, but to feel free of chains, to feel comfortable with you and totally themselves. If you can give him this freedom, you will have the most devoted man on earth by your side.

Perfect. Love your response! thank you!