iceman321
@iceman321
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Posted by bumboklattI'm thinking she might be ever since I've gotten a successful position.
Did they play you?
Posted by xXxQueenliciaXxXFair point
Anyone can be a gold digger. Male or female.
Posted by bumboklattI felt like she kept monkey branching off to people that were "better". Now, she's all warm.Posted by iceman321Well the she might be. Everyone likes money so I wouldn't doubt it.Posted by bumboklattI'm thinking she might be ever since I've gotten a successful position.
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Posted by bumboklattI'm a pisces, and I take that stuff personally. It's like you were always hanging on to me as a second option, and then you're suddenly making me number 1 after becoming successful. Again, not saying all aquas are like this, just this particular one.Posted by iceman321Yeah I was one of the ones that used to think that certain signs weren't gold diggers, liars, etc but man o man the things you find out in life...Posted by bumboklattI felt like she kept monkey branching off to people that were "better". Now, she's all warm.Posted by iceman321Well the she might be. Everyone likes money so I wouldn't doubt it.Posted by bumboklattI'm thinking she might be ever since I've gotten a successful position.
Did they play you?
Of course, not all aquas are like this. I've met a lot of genuinely great ones.
But yeah I've seen aqua women who will definitely look for successful men, not a bad thing cause who wants to choose a deadbeat BUT if she's being fake and changing faces then yeah that's a problemclick to expand

Posted by aquarius_beautyThat is exactly me who you described!! I wish I met you 4 months sooner when I was in LA for three weeks with another Aqua sister ?
I don't know if this constitutes as gold diggin but I want someone on my level. I don't want someone who's going to weight me down and he needs to be able to provide and have something to offer. I like career oriented men who have their sht together or at least are doing something with their lives that is meaningful. That is a turn on for me, as it's an aphrodisiac to my placements:
Capricorn - career orientation and ambition
Aquarius - humanitarian approach with ideas
Scorpio - control and power
Taurus - stability and security
They all feed off of one another to create one whole idea: A man who's in control of his destiny with ideas that fuel his ambition to pursue a career that can create a stable and secure household.
But I'd never ask of a man to offer something I'm not willing to offer myself. If I have high standards it's because I place those standards on myself as well.

Posted by aquarius_beautyyup!
I don't know if this constitutes as gold diggin but I want someone on my level. I don't want someone who's going to weight me down and he needs to be able to provide and have something to offer. I like career oriented men who have their sht together or at least are doing something with their lives that is meaningful. That is a turn on for me, as it's an aphrodisiac to my placements:
Capricorn - career orientation and ambition
Aquarius - humanitarian approach with ideas
Scorpio - control and power
Taurus - stability and security
They all feed off of one another to create one whole idea: A man who's in control of his destiny with ideas that fuel his ambition to pursue a career that can create a stable and secure household.
But I'd never ask of a man to offer something I'm not willing to offer myself. If I have high standards it's because I place those standards on myself as well.
Posted by lnana04Your last line just struck a chord. You're absolutely right. She should have given me a chance the first time around.
Heck yeah!
And all signs can be really. Trust your instincts!!
"back then they didn't want me, now I'm hot they all on me" who? Mike Jones lol.
But really, if she liked you for you she would have been around when you wanted her to be.

Posted by bumboklattMe!! I always look for successful men!!! Maybe not financially (as a gold digger) but I like men with ambitions and aspirations to be sucessful. Why? Because I have them too, not to piggy back but to support and work with each other.Posted by iceman321Yeah I was one of the ones that used to think that certain signs weren't gold diggers, liars, etc but man o man the things you find out in life...Posted by bumboklattI felt like she kept monkey branching off to people that were "better". Now, she's all warm.Posted by iceman321Well the she might be. Everyone likes money so I wouldn't doubt it.Posted by bumboklattI'm thinking she might be ever since I've gotten a successful position.
Did they play you?
Of course, not all aquas are like this. I've met a lot of genuinely great ones.
But yeah I've seen aqua women who will definitely look for successful men, not a bad thing cause who wants to choose a deadbeat BUT if she's being fake and changing faces then yeah that's a problemclick to expand

Posted by aquarius_beautyExactly my filter. Right on!!!
I don't know if this constitutes as gold diggin but I want someone on my level. I don't want someone who's going to weight me down and he needs to be able to provide and have something to offer. I like career oriented men who have their sht together or at least are doing something with their lives that is meaningful. That is a turn on for me, as it's an aphrodisiac to my placements:
Capricorn - career orientation and ambition
Aquarius - humanitarian approach with ideas
Scorpio - control and power
Taurus - stability and security
They all feed off of one another to create one whole idea: A man who's in control of his destiny with ideas that fuel his ambition to pursue a career that can create a stable and secure household.
But I'd never ask of a man to offer something I'm not willing to offer myself. If I have high standards it's because I place those standards on myself as well.
Posted by CaramelizedCoffeeWhy is that?
all i know is that they wouldn't make good mothers and probably shouldn't procreate.

Posted by AerazoPosted by bumboklattMe!! I always look for successful men!!! Maybe not financially (as a gold digger) but I like men with ambitions and aspirations to be sucessful. Why? Because I have them too, not to piggy back but to support and work with each other.Posted by iceman321Yeah I was one of the ones that used to think that certain signs weren't gold diggers, liars, etc but man o man the things you find out in life...Posted by bumboklattI felt like she kept monkey branching off to people that were "better". Now, she's all warm.Posted by iceman321Well the she might be. Everyone likes money so I wouldn't doubt it.Posted by bumboklattI'm thinking she might be ever since I've gotten a successful position.
Did they play you?
Of course, not all aquas are like this. I've met a lot of genuinely great ones.
But yeah I've seen aqua women who will definitely look for successful men, not a bad thing cause who wants to choose a deadbeat BUT if she's being fake and changing faces then yeah that's a problem
I don't know what sign are you, I usually find men like these but all Capricorn.click to expand

Posted by lisabethur8It's interesting you say that.Posted by AerazoPosted by bumboklattMe!! I always look for successful men!!! Maybe not financially (as a gold digger) but I like men with ambitions and aspirations to be sucessful. Why? Because I have them too, not to piggy back but to support and work with each other.Posted by iceman321Yeah I was one of the ones that used to think that certain signs weren't gold diggers, liars, etc but man o man the things you find out in life...Posted by bumboklattI felt like she kept monkey branching off to people that were "better". Now, she's all warm.Posted by iceman321Well the she might be. Everyone likes money so I wouldn't doubt it.Posted by bumboklattI'm thinking she might be ever since I've gotten a successful position.
Did they play you?
Of course, not all aquas are like this. I've met a lot of genuinely great ones.
But yeah I've seen aqua women who will definitely look for successful men, not a bad thing cause who wants to choose a deadbeat BUT if she's being fake and changing faces then yeah that's a problem
I don't know what sign are you, I usually find men like these but all Capricorn.
some men are real jerks who are super successful though.
you have to be VERY discriminating as well even with super successful men.
it's better to be single than to be with bad men who try to control you with their money and power.click to expand
Posted by AerazoPosted by lisabethur8It's interesting you say that.Posted by AerazoPosted by bumboklattMe!! I always look for successful men!!! Maybe not financially (as a gold digger) but I like men with ambitions and aspirations to be sucessful. Why? Because I have them too, not to piggy back but to support and work with each other.Posted by iceman321Yeah I was one of the ones that used to think that certain signs weren't gold diggers, liars, etc but man o man the things you find out in life...Posted by bumboklattI felt like she kept monkey branching off to people that were "better". Now, she's all warm.Posted by iceman321Well the she might be. Everyone likes money so I wouldn't doubt it.Posted by bumboklattI'm thinking she might be ever since I've gotten a successful position.
Did they play you?
Of course, not all aquas are like this. I've met a lot of genuinely great ones.
But yeah I've seen aqua women who will definitely look for successful men, not a bad thing cause who wants to choose a deadbeat BUT if she's being fake and changing faces then yeah that's a problem
I don't know what sign are you, I usually find men like these but all Capricorn.
some men are real jerks who are super successful though.
you have to be VERY discriminating as well even with super successful men.
it's better to be single than to be with bad men who try to control you with their money and power.
My mentor (cap) he's very successful and he tends to be a jerk, but I've known him for 9 years so obviously I know his true colors. Has tried to control me with his money but he finally gave up, or actually he found a better option to keep me close. (I was out of his sight for about 5 yrs) He knows that money won't control me.
The guy I'm seeing is also successful, I've made him aware that I'm not with him for money, (he thinks is sex, but no I actually like him). He's a jerk too... but not with me.
Recently I met one guy who was a jerk... total jerk. At the first sign, I put him straight and stopped talking to him. He texted me a week after and I still didn't answer. These guys expect women to be at their feet.
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Posted by DwellingOnMovei'm earthy dominant.Posted by iceman321
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my gf. With Taurus Lilith. another taurus and two Cap things. she did not like a man unless he smelled of money. or even gold.click to expand

Posted by lisabethur8Been there. I went through that with my ex, we were together for 12 years in which many of our last years he was extremely controlling. Didn't even like me to go to the store and no one could talk to me if we went out. I tried to work with him on many levels to see if he would change, help him gain my trust but nothing worked. I left him 1yr and half ago. He tried to manipulate me in many ways, even hurtful. but nothing worked with me anymore. I even tried to help him bc I wasn't the problem, he was. but he didn't want it and I had to leave for mine and my daughter's well-being.Posted by AerazoPosted by lisabethur8It's interesting you say that.Posted by AerazoPosted by bumboklattMe!! I always look for successful men!!! Maybe not financially (as a gold digger) but I like men with ambitions and aspirations to be sucessful. Why? Because I have them too, not to piggy back but to support and work with each other.Posted by iceman321Yeah I was one of the ones that used to think that certain signs weren't gold diggers, liars, etc but man o man the things you find out in life...Posted by bumboklattI felt like she kept monkey branching off to people that were "better". Now, she's all warm.Posted by iceman321Well the she might be. Everyone likes money so I wouldn't doubt it.Posted by bumboklattI'm thinking she might be ever since I've gotten a successful position.
Did they play you?
Of course, not all aquas are like this. I've met a lot of genuinely great ones.
But yeah I've seen aqua women who will definitely look for successful men, not a bad thing cause who wants to choose a deadbeat BUT if she's being fake and changing faces then yeah that's a problem
I don't know what sign are you, I usually find men like these but all Capricorn.
some men are real jerks who are super successful though.
you have to be VERY discriminating as well even with super successful men.
it's better to be single than to be with bad men who try to control you with their money and power.
My mentor (cap) he's very successful and he tends to be a jerk, but I've known him for 9 years so obviously I know his true colors. Has tried to control me with his money but he finally gave up, or actually he found a better option to keep me close. (I was out of his sight for about 5 yrs) He knows that money won't control me.
The guy I'm seeing is also successful, I've made him aware that I'm not with him for money, (he thinks is sex, but no I actually like him). He's a jerk too... but not with me.
Recently I met one guy who was a jerk... total jerk. At the first sign, I put him straight and stopped talking to him. He texted me a week after and I still didn't answer. These guys expect women to be at their feet.
yup.
you just got to be careful which types.
there are some types of men who control to the point of the woman cant go outside, go to the gym or see her family, or work volunteer, anywhere. he's afraid that he'll lose her or something.
http://www.experienceproject.com/question-answer/Why-Do-Some-Men-Feel-The-Need-To-Control-Women/359986
some comments on here too said that from women experiencing it on a deeper level.
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Posted by lisabethur8Posted by DwellingOnMovei'm earthy dominant.Posted by iceman321
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my gf. With Taurus Lilith. another taurus and two Cap things. she did not like a man unless he smelled of money. or even gold.
I never subconsciously seek those men.
they are the ones who come to ME. lol
so if you want a successful man, just hang around with earthy women. 😆
astrology problem sovled
or watery sign women.
they are awesome in finding the best kind of men too. 😛click to expand

Posted by lisabethur8
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i'm earthy dominant.
I never subconsciously seek those men.
they are the ones who come to ME. lol
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