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lisabeth
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Posted by duchesslibro
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Posted by iVirgo
@dwellingonmove

Thank you,

& I do worry about new thing coming out later in life when this is forever behind us, but for right you are right.

@Lisa you are right too, in my defense maybe iam strong enough to forgive and stay,
-or in yours maybe Iam pathetic and too weak to leave.
i feel alot of negativity from you.

and you haven't forgiven her at all.

your actions speak that.

you wouldn't even bother or care anymore what happened years ago.


and the sad part is, you're willing to stay.

i would never stay with a man who kept cheating. And i didnt.
"kept cheating."

?


Lisa, Do you suspect his wife is currently cheating?

Or are you just trying to be irritating because you don't like iVirgo?
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i have no idea. but you take a great interest in ivirgo. Is it because youre married to a virgo yourself with similar placements?
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duchesslibro
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Posted by lisabethur8
Posted by duchesslibro
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Posted by iVirgo
@dwellingonmove

Thank you,

& I do worry about new thing coming out later in life when this is forever behind us, but for right you are right.

@Lisa you are right too, in my defense maybe iam strong enough to forgive and stay,
-or in yours maybe Iam pathetic and too weak to leave.
i feel alot of negativity from you.

and you haven't forgiven her at all.

your actions speak that.

you wouldn't even bother or care anymore what happened years ago.


and the sad part is, you're willing to stay.

i would never stay with a man who kept cheating. And i didnt.
"kept cheating."

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Lisa, Do you suspect his wife is currently cheating?

Or are you just trying to be irritating because you don't like iVirgo?

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i have no idea. but you take a great interest in ivirgo. Is it because youre married to a virgo yourself with similar placements?
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They probably don't have a ton in common actually.. just Sun and one personal planet in Leo.
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jayrose
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@sensitiveblues Yeah I see where you're coming from. I have tried to talk her out of it and remind her of all the people her actions hurt. Her justification though is that her Aries boyfriend has cheated on her multiple times but thats another story. Regardless of what my friends do, I try to steer them right but am always there for them. After that, what they ultimately decide to keep doing is their karma.

@iVirgo Her moon is in Aquarius, Merc in Cap, Venus in Pisces and Mars in Pisces.
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iVirgo
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Lisa you are irritating, every thread reflects negatives toward any one who doesn't agree with your bitter bashing 's . You are as inspiring as pig laying a mud pool, why do you even bother, you keep accusing me of thing and being this bad person, I've been accused of trolling , a definition that is new to my vocabulary, which I am not. I randomly search for sites to help me, I searched and out of hundreds of sites Dxpnet seemed promising, I'm new here very new, but I asked because I was desperate for answer. How fare is it to insult somebody who asks for help or understanding. If you hate me you just hate your self, I dnt hate you tho, I played your game with you for laughs at your expense, I know my story, it is my own, I know my beginning I know my end. Maybe you are bitter because your end has come premature, and your new love story isn't as exciting.
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lisabeth
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Posted by iVirgo
@jayrose

Hopefully she comes clean one day if not they will both never work, when anyone cheats they both infect themselves with sexually transmitted demonds, that possess there lives, it's a disease Lisa 2 exes have bestowed on her. She is infected with hate, and this is why I can not understand her, even I try too.
where do you come up with this stuff? it's awesome.
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duchesslibro
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This is why I make a point not to argue with aquas. The best you can get out of them is a "were both wrong" nah fool...you are wrong as fuck! Couldn't be anymore wrong. Wrongity wrong wrong RONG.

Knock knock
Whose there?
YOURE WRONG!
Lmao ‚
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hahaha I've been laughing to myself about this for days. 😆
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iVirgo
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So she just admitted she did cheat.............

5 times with her ex
1 with FWB who she knew before me
1 guy from her college

All between 2005 to 2006.

I met her in 2005 we married in 2009, and guess I will be divorcing her in 2016, I can not deal with that, she wasn't fully honest, she played the fuck out of me. I knew deep down inside something wasn't right. I never would have done that her, I had opportunity to cheat but it's like with my feelings I weigh the bad and good and it's never worth it to me. 10 years as a joke as a door mate....I
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lisabeth
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Posted by iVirgo
So is he rubbing the back of your head at this moment. If you need a few minutes to pause so you can stay focus I understand, A job well done I hope.
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You are the only one who receive pleasure in pain,you maybe in secret, secretly a suffering from chronic sadomasochism.
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this is why i know you're a troll.

it's like if you dont get the attention you will get upset and GASLIGHT people.

i dont honestly believe you're even married. but whatever man.
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duchesslibro
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Posted by iVirgo
So she just admitted she did cheat.............

5 times with her ex
1 with FWB who she knew before me
1 guy from her college

All between 2005 to 2006.

I met her in 2005 we married in 2009, and guess I will be divorcing her in 2016, I can not deal with that, she wasn't fully honest, she played the fuck out of me. I knew deep down inside something wasn't right. I never would have done that her, I had opportunity to cheat but it's like with my feelings I weigh the bad and good and it's never worth it to me. 10 years as a joke as a door mate....I
Omg. I'm so so sorry iVirgo. 😢
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duchesslibro
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@iVirgo feel free to come back to dxp and talk, vent, whatever you need. There are some nice people here who will listen, offer a fresh perspective, etc. You can post on the relationships board, Virgo, anywhere you feel comfortable. Hell, you can even post it on the Libra board if you'd like. We are stereotypically the "relationship experts" of the zodiac and you have personal Libra planets anyways.
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iVirgo
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Never in a million years would I have thought she of all people.

I've turn my back on family, friends, I worked 2 jobs so she can focus on school , I sacrificed and prolonged my own opportunity to finish my degree so she can get hers.

I dnt know what's worst the living or the act.

I'm lost for words, I feel like I'm lost in a hurricane in side.

I need few days to get my head clear.
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DwellingOnMove
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Posted by iVirgo
I just don't understand, she put this person ..these people before me, after all I do, all I did ...how ...how..I can't even trust her words.

That's not love.

I don't understand your story. Did she meet them all in 2005? So has she been only paying attention to you since 2006?

I mean the first year is not important. she probably was not sure what's happening, had not known you well enough, or was trying to close other cases.
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iVirgo
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@Dwellingonmove

She hooked up with those ppl in that 1 year time which I dnt even know is true or not, all in 1 year?
..in her words -she made bad decisions because she never had real relationship to last, she was young 22 year old, all the guys she dated were not serous, or right material for love, so she would cut them off forever, after it wasn't going anywhere, but had 1 or 2 guys on the side platonic or none platonic just incase she needed some one to talk too, or help her get over the last relationship. These guys being her ex and FWB she knew for years, but she never would consider a relationship with them, even tho they wanted 1 with her, they were not who she visioned her future with.

In 2005 to 2007 We argued a lot in the beginning but who doesn't, we would make up a few hours later or the next day. I would take her out, every week once we progressed, date night always ended with her at my place, back seat of my car, or at her place. I wish I would have paid attention more now, her phone would ring or text messages would beep all the time in the beginning, I just didn't want seem insecure and sweat her, it was her phone.

Right now..today..She is upset and she is crying, she apologised, but the relationship feels tainted, I'm just trying to replay over and over she is beautiful, she made a mistake, she was perfect now only for 9years of the 10 , but thoughts of her being with other men, I can not shake, I asked her to leave today, she has her Mother's home 45mins away, where she can stay at. The 3 oldest kids will be with me because of school, she took my youngest son because she is breastfeeding him.

I feel it inside it's going to be a bad ending. I can not I will not stay.



Honestly I just feel anxiety, frustration, relieved, but it took 7 months to come all out, so dissapointed, and why tell me, and drag me along for another 7 Months. Telling me was right thing but but feeding Me crumbs along the way, weekly, monthly, closing and opening up wound once it heals.

If any one else has cheated male or female and u decide to come clean do so with no stone left unturned.
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DwellingOnMove
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@iVirgo,

it'll be ridiculous if I insist on any opinion of mine. cause afterall it is your life.

but
while how you feel and react is a human thing, how you decide for the future of 5 people is not very christian.

we stay with people for all the right things they do. we know they do wrong things by default. but she did not cheat on you during your marriage.

it looks very egoistic on your side. but of course nobody should be forced to carry a baggage he is not capable of carrying.

so I won't write another post with this ^ content.

sorry that you have to go through all this. be positive and look forward for the future. be grateful for all the good things your life still has to offer.
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iVirgo
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It's a cultural thing with her family, being from half white/ Asian family background EVERYBODY is calling me...but I just want at least to feel I have the right to be upset.

I never cheated...ever..

but she did point out times that I disappeared for days, that I forgot about, times with out calling, or texting. I even remember not contacting her for 2 weeks so I can be by myself.

So I don't know maybe my actions were a recipe for disaster.

She has always been very emotional, and forgiving towards me, no matter how mean I was way back.
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Im not going to read all the comments. Always go.with your heart when in doubt....it is what it is. Secondly Aquarius i love them so much we get along so good. But they are also the number 1 sign i proceed with caution. My sister Aquarius 2 best friends i dated 2 Aquarius and know alot of others who say the exact same thing u mentioned. I hate to say they r cheaters lets just say my sister and bf for example always had more than one guy even in rel. This was growing up always being secretive and lieing about it. They r good ppl they can be loose and have multiple partners
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lisabeth
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Posted by Baru
OMG just by reading this post few pages it's nuts 😄DD i can't bother to read it all but first few pages i was balling my eyes out...

the drama is too much and the OP likes drama too much.

strangely his libra venus and leo mars is SIMILAR to my brother in law...


and he's also a virgo sun!! but he'd NEVER publicly be like this and go on line and say shit about his problems and his wife or girlfriend. ect.

my husband has leo moon but he hates drama. so do i.
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lisabeth
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Posted by Baru
To be honest i don't care at all it's pointless to get worked up over something like this 😉 not that his question is stupid or whatever everyone has right to ask and get solid advice... isn't this forum about that? So why go and insult and fight each other when you don't even know the other person....? Not only it's immature mostly waste of time and energy.
he was insulting me even though i was even at a point wishing him good luck.

it's like, something is very fishy....
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Aquas are not by astrological nature, cheaters. A fluffy sky sign is not indicative of that. We do however, take while to commit to commitment, and even without the whole story, I can say, if you were a controlling, over bearing, hovering, and confrontational partner, then what you view as cheating MAY have been her way of keeping her options open, since she viewed you as unstable.
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I created an account for the sole purpose of telling lisabethur8 that I think she might be the biggest cunt I've ever had to endure reading. If there is a man out there willing to marry her, there's hope for ANYONE!

Virgo man...your wife sounds like me (hence why I had to respond to this). My ex is a Virgo and I knew he held me on a pedestal so the thought of disappointing him weighed as heavy on me as lying to him. I also communicate with my ex's purely as friends. If your wife is also like me, which it sounds like she is, cheating is not in her vocabulary. Best of luck to you!