DO U CHECK YOUR S/O'S PHONE? (Page 3)

I get your point tiki but im no little submissive dummy and he is well aware of that fact. I've been in and out of therapy long before i met him, so my going to therapy has nothing to do with him, but for my own peace of mind. I didnt dig because i know how i like to blow things out of proportion or misread things and end up being wrong. If he is indeed cheating i will leave, there's no doubt there- i dont tolerate that. All will be revealed in time and im ready for any outcome. I think therapy will help me to stop blaming myself for the actions of others the way i did with the other two exes. Him going or not going is really up to him, im not responsible for his decisions-my son is 3 not a 33 yr old man.

Hey WC- your insight is needed on the Aries board!

Posted by WaterCup
I get your point tiki but im no little submissive dummy and he is well aware of that fact. I've been in and out of therapy long before i met him, so my going to therapy has nothing to do with him, but for my own peace of mind. I didnt dig because i know how i like to blow things out of proportion or misread things and end up being wrong. If he is indeed cheating i will leave, there's no doubt there- i dont tolerate that. All will be revealed in time and im ready for any outcome. I think therapy will help me to stop blaming myself for the actions of others the way i did with the other two exes. Him going or not going is really up to him, im not responsible for his decisions-my son is 3 not a 33 yr old man.

+1 to that....All in all I hope it's NOTHING serious...Keep us updated

Posted by WaterCup
I get your point tiki but im no little submissive dummy and he is well aware of that fact. I've been in and out of therapy long before i met him, so my going to therapy has nothing to do with him, but for my own peace of mind. I didnt dig because i know how i like to blow things out of proportion or misread things and end up being wrong. If he is indeed cheating i will leave, there's no doubt there- i dont tolerate that. All will be revealed in time and im ready for any outcome. I think therapy will help me to stop blaming myself for the actions of others the way i did with the other two exes. Him going or not going is really up to him, im not responsible for his decisions-my son is 3 not a 33 yr old man.

+2

😢 well we just felt sense he never ever ever had a female coworkers number in his phone then something was up. but then we felt that if he knows that his wife looks at his phone and vice versa, we dont think is that malicious to just throw it in her face like that. they have never had problems like this before. so we just let WC tend to HER situation the way she saw fit.

especially since we are outsiders looking in, we dont know him and we dont know them as a couple. she would know better than us.

i totally get what your saying too.
but that is what we are all here for to learn from each other. 🙂