Emotional life of Aqua women? (Page 3)

What's up pussycat? No issues here. It was our 1st date, no kiss prio this, nothing. I just felt disrespected that's all.

enfant.. I live in Jersey, and around the city areas and into Manhattan they do those trashy things as PDA. I've seen it at McDonalds, in the middle of Liberty Park, on the Path trains, etc. And it's not just the straight couples. I'm out in the country and since the city is moving in here, the teens are picking up on it and some of the college kids bused in from the city are acting it out on Main St.

As for the tongue in ear... don't stick ur tongue in my ear. It's like a huge wet willy and physically feels uncomfortable (slobber comes to mind again). I'm not too found of that part either. But please, nibble your heart out on it.

They do? My mother's sister is a cap & she never had sex. Her lover is a yellow tabby cat. Lol. This girl, i dont know her story, i just befriended her coz we had sum similarities personality wize. Her boyfriend is in his 50's, lol. I heard that cappies like them old. I thought it was her father coz she's only 28. I was like 'wow, your father is so in touch', coz he was busy bouncing to an ipod. Hahaha

Urgh! Tongue in ear is like having a slug inside your ear. Its disgusting. What about earwax? Pervert!

Saturn is so asexual, its boring. When u have horny planets, saturn gives u a stern look & tell u to put your panties on. U tag on your undies, he pulls them up, what's a person to do? I understand the frustration aquaj. Im sure all nuns & monks are cap influenced, plus nuns are mean like most caps. Or maybe saturn returned & never left in their case. Lol

Posted by WaterCup
Saturn is so asexual, its boring. When u have horny planets, saturn gives u a stern look & tell u to put your panties on. U tag on your undies, he pulls them up, what's a person to do? I understand the frustration aquaj. Im sure all nuns & monks are cap influenced, plus nuns are mean like most caps. Or maybe saturn returned & never left in their case. Lol

Boring? It's a royal pain in my dupa. There are times I'm sitting, watching a movie with my friend... and just want to jump him. But I can't. Ahhhhh...My Saturn is in my 1st house - projected behavior, temperament, health, how you react to those around you, and appearance. Makes sense now. That would be why I sometimes stand like a nun too LMAO

Aquaquinn, saturn in the 1st, thats interesting. Did u have grey hair prematurely too? This new cap friend has what i call a 'skunk streak' or the Cruella Deville hair tint. She is so ashamed of her grays, but she is too conservative to even use hair dye.

Aquanott, they say ppl saturn/venus contacts have troubles finding love or it comes later in life. Do u believe that to be true? Have u suffered in love? Are u also into old bendy men? Ahahaha

For now. Dont be surprised when u start liking the toothless & the hairless. False teeth are kinda hot, they are perfect. Sorry to hear about the struggles of the heart. Why cant love be simple & trouble free, *sigh*? Maybe there's light at the end of the tunnel. In your case, its at the retirement home, believe me. LOL. Another thing, venus square pluto is said to be an aspect of unrequited love & love obsessions. Agree?

Posted by LittleAquanot

Posted by WaterCup
Aquanott, they say ppl saturn/venus contacts have troubles finding love or it comes later in life. Do u believe that to be true? Have u suffered in love? Are u also into old bendy men? Ahahaha

Yes, in my experience the Saturn square Venus has had an unfortunate effect on my love life. However, I also have Venus square Pluto, Pluto in the seventh house. Sooo...lol...it's hard to tell where one aspect stops and the other takes over. It's not often that I come across men who really move me emotionally. Most of my existence has been spent unimpressed in the romantic sense. The few times I have been madly in love, it did not work out. I want love very much. But, it has been elusive. Quite honestly, I have never felt loved the way I truly want to be. I read somewhere that Venus square Saturn can be summed up as the "when i will be loved?" aspect. I find this to be on point.

What is very odd about me is that while I crave emotional and spiritual closeness, a part of me fears commitment. I take commitment so very seriously and, I understand the unpretty, unromantic, unsexy reality of it that is not touted in Hollywood movies and bestselling novels (gee, thanks, Saturn). So, this causes a cognitive dissonance that is nothing short of maddening. So, yeah...relationships have been difficult.

As for being into "old bendy men," (lol!!) I have never dated a man more than 2-3 years older than me. I'm not into older men at all. Eww. Lol. I'd much rather be with someone close to my age.

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Sounds like me too. The first time I ever felt loved (the way I needed and what I consider truthful) was in a long distance relationship... we never physically met but were planning it. Skype works wonders. When he passed, I was absolutely devastated and couldn't understand why life would do this to me. He was 50, I was 38.

My Leo friend is 8 years 4 months older than I. The love inside of me has gone up levels I never knew existed. Once again, I feel love returned but alas, we are just friends. Oh how I would love to ... never mind...

I have found that the men my age, at least in this area, are far too immature to keep up with my mind or are too into themselves. The ones I dated who were my age just didn't get it and didn't get me. Most of my g

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I have found that the men my age, at least in this area, are far too immature to keep up with my mind or are too into themselves. The ones I dated who were my age just didn't get it and didn't get me. Most of my good friends have always been slightly older. The oldest I ever dated was when I was 31. He was 57, but everyone thought he was 47 until he became district commander and they threw him a birthday party. With me being so young, he pushed me away after he got cancer. I let go of the body perfection a long time ago... although, rotten teeth turn me off, I can deal with choppers since I understand it may be inherited.

Posted by WaterCup
Aquaquinn, saturn in the 1st, thats interesting. Did u have grey hair prematurely too? This new cap friend has what i call a 'skunk streak' or the Cruella Deville hair tint. She is so ashamed of her grays, but she is too conservative to even use hair dye.

My first grey hair came in on my 32nd birthday - seriously woke up to it... and it's not really grey, it's translucent LOL

I'm a natural strawberry/auburn. Tetracycline added some light brown (better there and not the teeth). When this type of red head starts going grey, it dulls out to and ugly dusty color and looks like sh*t. I do color, and I do perm when I can afford to. Personally, if it didn't dull out, I would be ok with it.

One of my best friends was born with a white streak... color doesn't take to it. Looks pretty cool with her nappy hair too. And her personality just fits it so perfectly.

Posted by LittleAquanot
AquaQuinn, thank you for sharing that. For some reason, I found that very moving.

Thanks =)

*sigh*Thanx for the story, it was really moving. The Arabs believe that real lovers never get together, they will meet, but never for long. Your story reminded me of that. It is painful when you love sumone & cant be with them, but i think their death would take the pain to another level. I cant even begin to imagine it. Im really sorry for your loss, maybe this friend will be the one to make it alright. All the best to u, really

Maybe one loves the other more. I have it with my husband too. Lots of heated arguements, feel like walking away, but stuck. Before that, i had venus conjunct pluto- im sting singing the blues about that one. Pluto is one fucked up dude, i tell u.

Have u ever had a composite chart done, aquaj? Try a composite chart with 8 scorp planets & letting go will feel like cutting a limb. Its insane.

The posting is going crazy, what's up?

Posted by WaterCup
Maybe we dont need to be loved coz we love ourselves already & we expect others to love themselves enough not to crave constant adoration. Ever thought of that?

i used to use this line a lot...but that's just because I was so miserable, even though I really did not know it...

But then I also have my times where I just cannot stand touchy feely people, my word. Especially if I just met you. Do not expect me to hug you.

the rest of the times, I'm pretty affectionate,emotional and all.
capaqua cusper

Posted by WaterCup
Maybe we dont need to be loved coz we love ourselves already & we expect others to love themselves enough not to crave constant adoration. Ever thought of that?

i used to use this line a lot...but that's just because I was so miserable, even though I really did not know it...

But then I also have my times where I just cannot stand touchy feely people, my word. Especially if I just met you. Do not expect me to hug you.

the rest of the times, I'm pretty affectionate,emotional and all.
capaqua cusper

@leila...nothing to pshhh about, YOUR chart is felt by U. If sumbody says they feel inhibited then THEY feel inhibited, it has nothing to do with sumone else. I you felt miserable about having that mentality, i dont. We arent twins.

Yeah aliennation, cap is great with strategizing. Cold mentality, feeling aside. My mercury & jupiter are there, i think like Don Corleone, lol. Watch out for the movie Godmother (no Cinderella stuff), coming soon. Hahaha

Maybe, never tried it though. Im a sodoku kinda girl & word puzzles. What, are u a chess champion or sumthing?

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Posted by MischievousOne
As an Aqua female this thread has done nothing but piss me off...



First off - Why do you even give a crap about these people, who aren't even your friends? Live and let live and stop being such a snoopy ass...

Secondly - Have you ever had to deal with a Aquarian female on an emotional/physical/passionate level? What we show people and what goes on behind closed doors are two different things, if you think you can tell what someone's marriage is like in 5 minutes, you're crazier than all the Aqua's combined on this thread...
Lastely - I just think your a typical Leo who did nothing but create this thread to listen to himself talk...

I am a very balanced Aquarian, there is a difference between intimacy and being a lovey dovey annoying idiot...

I wouldn't let it get to you too much. A Leo man letting the gums flap usually doesn't have much to contribute beyond, "Where do I put muh dick?" and even less to say that is useful. lulz.

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Lovey dovey annoying idiot, I love it. I agree I show my love and affection by what I do for you, not a bunch of hugs and kisses and baby talk.

Posted by WaterCup
@leila...nothing to pshhh about, YOUR chart is felt by U. If sumbody says they feel inhibited then THEY feel inhibited, it has nothing to do with sumone else. I you felt miserable about having that mentality, i dont. We arent twins.

When did I pshh exactly...?

Simply relating what you said to myself because that's the only evidence I have, my experience. How is that insinuating we're twins........................?? Of course it has nothing to do with u.

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Posted by MischievousOne
As an Aqua female this thread has done nothing but piss me off...



First off - Why do you even give a crap about these people, who aren't even your friends? Live and let live and stop being such a snoopy ass...

Secondly - Have you ever had to deal with a Aquarian female on an emotional/physical/passionate level? What we show people and what goes on behind closed doors are two different things, if you think you can tell what someone's marriage is like in 5 minutes, you're crazier than all the Aqua's combined on this thread...
Lastely - I just think your a typical Leo who did nothing but create this thread to listen to himself talk...

I am a very balanced Aquarian, there is a difference between intimacy and being a lovey dovey annoying idiot...

I wouldn't let it get to you too much. A Leo man letting the gums flap usually doesn't have much to contribute beyond, "Where do I put muh dick?" and even less to say that is useful. lulz.

I agree I show my love and affection by what I do for you, not a bunch of hugs and kisses and baby talk.

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But that is exactly what a robot could do too, so Im curious..what would be the difference between you and a robot?

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Posted by MischievousOne
As an Aqua female this thread has done nothing but piss me off...



First off - Why do you even give a crap about these people, who aren't even your friends? Live and let live and stop being such a snoopy ass...

Secondly - Have you ever had to deal with a Aquarian female on an emotional/physical/passionate level? What we show people and what goes on behind closed doors are two different things, if you think you can tell what someone's marriage is like in 5 minutes, you're crazier than all the Aqua's combined on this thread...
Lastely - I just think your a typical Leo who did nothing but create this thread to listen to himself talk...

I am a very balanced Aquarian, there is a difference between intimacy and being a lovey dovey annoying idiot...

I wouldn't let it get to you too much. A Leo man letting the gums flap usually doesn't have much to contribute beyond, "Where do I put muh dick?" and even less to say that is useful. lulz.

Lovey dovey annoying idiot, I love it. I agree I show my love and affection by what I do for you, not a bunch of hugs and kisses and baby talk.

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@MischievousOne
- a balanced person, never mind an Aqua, doesn't get pissed off at things as small as a conversation/debate/intrigue. You pissed yourself off, no one else made you. While being Aqua and unique in your own rights, by seeing an individual as "typical" anything, never mind a label or stigma, is basically condemning yourself. A balanced person also doesn't have issues with people caring for others even if they have no connection or friendship to them. It's ok not to be lovely dovey, but it's not balanced to call those who are "annoying" or "idiots." The truth is, it makes you uncomfortable, so just say it. No one is going to rip your head off for being so. They were having fun and sharing experiences - so get down to the root of why it was bothering you so much. You words, phrasing, sentence structure and level of pissiness within your comment just tells me you are not happy in your own skin and are carrying a lot of negativity around.

Lol, i was going through this thread and looking at it through my virgo vision, n here's what struck out to me..

(know that i love both aqua and leo) yeah aquas sure are smart. but it seemed like everyone was trying to bash the leo..n didnt exactly succeed. probably just in your heads, as you are a mental being after all 😄 JUST because astrology dictates that you guys are smart and leos aren't, does not make all the aquas here smart or the leos here stupid. I'm not saying it is in fact the case here, but hey there are plenty of exceptions n just calling someone ''robot'' or ''drama queen'' would be going too far.. the thread was about aqua women and on their negative aspect....rather than it being about whether the leo guy has motives for prying into the cappy/aqua couple. that argument is just ridiculous 😐 sounds like a 2nd grade kid pointing fingers to look cool. n standing up for what you feel is right isn't ''dramatic'' in any sense.
at the same time, liking animals doesn't necessarily mean you have low self esteem. i love people and animals and am not embarrassed to give or receive love from them. no self esteem issues here though.

i've an aqua moon, i like aquas, respect them and i can relate to you all in some respects of being emotionally controlled. i'm dating a leo, n he doesn't see my aqua moon, my virgo sun OR my cap rising posing the slightest problem. he gets the love and affection he DESERVES. and he's got plenty going on between his ears. seen many intelligent people out there.. but he just takes the cake in the brain department. so instead of basing the debate on astrology that we read off the net...taking a stand based on your own logic n how YOU construe things would have been better i feel.. 🙂 n (i'm sorry..i know its weird coming from a virgo) but admitting that your a liiiitle cold...isn't gonna make u any less of a person. we're all fine the way we are 😉

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Lol, i was going through this thread and looking at it through my virgo vision, n here's what struck out to me..

(know that i love both aqua and leo) yeah aquas sure are smart. but it seemed like everyone was trying to bash the leo..n didnt exactly succeed. probably just in your heads, as you are a mental being after all 😄 JUST because astrology dictates that you guys are smart and leos aren't, does not make all the aquas here smart or the leos here stupid. I'm not saying it is in fact the case here, but hey there are plenty of exceptions n just calling someone ''robot'' or ''drama queen'' would be going too far.. the thread was about aqua women and on their negative aspect....rather than it being about whether the leo guy has motives for prying into the cappy/aqua couple. that argument is just ridiculous 😐 sounds like a 2nd grade kid pointing fingers to look cool. n standing up for what you feel is right isn't ''dramatic'' in any sense.
at the same time, liking animals doesn't necessarily mean you have low self esteem. i love people and animals and am not embarrassed to give or receive love from them. no self esteem issues here though.

i've an aqua moon, i like aquas, respect them and i can relate to you all in some respects of being emotionally controlled. i'm dating a leo, n he doesn't see my aqua moon, my virgo sun OR my cap rising posing the slightest problem. he gets the love and affection he DESERVES. and he's got plenty going on between his ears. seen many intelligent people out there.. but he just takes the cake in the brain department. so instead of basing the debate on astrology that we read off the net...taking a stand based on your own logic n how YOU construe things would have been better i feel.. 🙂 n (i'm sorry..i know its weird coming from a virgo) but admitting that your a liiiitle cold...isn't gonna make u any less of a person. we're all fine the way we are 😉

Honestly, I've never been harmed by a Leo. My best friend is a Leo male and is the most intelligent, yet anal, man I've met. He's very curious about things, inventive, and creative. I'm glad you said something because it seems like I'm a broken record when I try to defend them.

let me also add amrutha, that was the best and most mature comment left in order to defuse this out of hand situation. I would think your Aqua moon came out in full force with the way you expressed your Virgo self. When I saw you were just 19, I almost couldn't believe it. Your family is very lucky to have a young adult like you amongst them. Thank you so much for your much needed input.



To the rest of you ... =p~ neh, so there.

haha, i hear you aquaquinn... i don't see leos going out of their way to harm anyone. my leo's best friend is an aqua. when i say best friend...they're like brothers. completely in sync with each other. saying aqua and leo are opposites n hence leos are all brawn and aquas are all brain is like saying, i don't have a shred of humanity in me like my opposite pisces, simply cuz im a virgo 😐 that's just silly.

Posted by AquaQuinn
let me also add amrutha, that was the best and most mature comment left in order to defuse this out of hand situation. I would think your Aqua moon came out in full force with the way you expressed your Virgo self. When I saw you were just 19, I almost couldn't believe it. Your family is very lucky to have a young adult like you amongst them. Thank you so much for your much needed input.



To the rest of you ... =p~ neh, so there.

awww..now i'm melting... damn..where's the stoic face when i need it 😄 thank you aquaquinn!! 🙂 coming from an adult and an aqua esp, its so much appreciated ^__^

OMG amrutha, did u take the comments made here seriously? Anybody with a bit of astrology knowledge knows that, astrological opposites are not the same as lets say, fat/thin. Enfant made sum good points & sum not so good. When he started calling aquas airheads, thats when we started pulling at his mane. The things said were said in a jokingly kind of way, at least from my side. I know that intelligence has nothing to do with sun sign or anything, but sumtimes i cant help myself from being goofy. Its the internet after all.