Following the trend. The exclusive talk!

How soon !... when ?... what were your stories and what is your Venus?

I can date multiple people, however I can only sleep with one at a time. If I'm ending our sexual relationship it means I am cutting you out of my life altogether. So I need to establish that at the very least we are sexually exclusive before sleeping with one another.

Taurus Venus.

So far it has gone unsaid by me. My last came right out and asked me to be his girlfriend (which i found cute) and i said, "ok.' BUt men will normally claim their territory in a number of different ways.

i perfer to lure the man into wanting to make that claim first.

obvs i'm scorp venus 4th house 😎

Pisces Venus in 12th.

I don't feel like I need to date multiple people at once and therefore I expect the same from the other person. Is that too much to ask?

I'm hard to pin down and get commitment out of (despite wanting/liking it). I get bored easily and am very picky. I will chat and date several at once until I decide if I want something long term with any of them. I'll usually have 3 I'm talking to. I have no problem moving on the next one (so to speak)...

Capricorn Venus

Should it be a guy or a girl that mention the exclusivity do you racken?

Posted by JohnTheBaptist100
If a man is into you .... that "talk" is not needed from my experience.....

What's your venus/house?

Posted by Areyoumytwinflame
After our first date he told me I had 2 weekends to decide ? Lmfao he basically gave me an ultimatum.

Aries Venus and Aqua Venus who are supposed to be commitment-phobes made it official immediately. We had an online friendship for over a year though.

Haha that's funny ! Love this. It's great to have solid friendship foundation before a relationship is built.!

Before our first date we already stated that we both are looking for something serious - we had our first date, next day we saw eachother again - following weekend we were official since we clicked perfectly.

Me venus cap 5th house / hubby scorp venus 4th house

Posted by AquaNextDoor
Before our first date we already stated that we both are looking for something serious - we had our first date, next day we saw eachother again - following weekend we were official since we clicked perfectly.

Me venus cap 5th house / hubby scorp venus 4th house

So sweet !!

Sure u always have to look if it works out but I'd never agree to a date with a guy who said that "he'll look where things go" lol I have no time for fwb, either u look for something serious or I'm not on ur date list. Its ok to date multiple men at once, since u wanna find out who's the best match, thats what most of them do too! When I had the first date with my hubby I knew he was the one, so I dropped the others like hot potatoes

Posted by Aquaviper
I'm hard to pin down and get commitment out of (despite wanting/liking it). I get bored easily and am very picky. I will chat and date several at once until I decide if I want something long term with any of them. I'll usually have 3 I'm talking to. I have no problem moving on the next one (so to speak)...

Capricorn Venus

Ditto...i rarely catch the feels. But when i do, ugh...its all over..

Posted by boxcarmirnta

Posted by Aquaviper
I'm hard to pin down and get commitment out of (despite wanting/liking it). I get bored easily and am very picky. I will chat and date several at once until I decide if I want something long term with any of them. I'll usually have 3 I'm talking to. I have no problem moving on the next one (so to speak)...

Capricorn Venus

Ditto...i rarely catch the feels. But when i do, ugh...its all over..

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Same here, especially the "all over" part and being picky as hell.

But I have to admit I don't like dating, at least not what everybody calls dating, it bores me to death to repeat my curriculum vitae over again. When I like you, I want to get to know you. Let's spend some quality time. Don't call it a date, if you're extraordinary to me and we don't fall for each other, we might end up as friends. That's not too bad either.

Venus in capricorn

Im very picky,even if you tell me you like me or even love me i wont even go out with you,i have to be 100% sure that my time wont go to waste dating you and i only date one at a time

I can be interested in multiple people.

How soon? I actually don't know. First it was pretty quick within like 2 months of knowing each other. Had a flame that took about a year... but we're talking about something beyond your usual fling right?

Pisces venus 5th