cappysweetie
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HEATED!!!!
1- Did you leave the worksite when you were "on the clock"?
2- If they're your subordinates, why did you let them take advantage of the situation? If they were at your post for longer than 15 minutes, then as a boss, you have to take charge and not be walked on and be "superior".
3-Did you let these employees using your post know where you would be in case someone was looking for you? If they did, then you're covered as to why this other employee didn't find you when she needed to leave. Actually, you called her a co-worker, so she didn't need to inform you she was leaving, so her leaving is irrelevent unless you're her boss.
4- In a position of management, one of the traits you must possess is to handle yourself under pressure. By showing your anger, I'm sure your boss was thrown off guard.
Yes, you can be mad, upset, pissed or whatever, but the one thing that came to mind first was "Why allow them 50 minutes when they only needed 15?"
2- If they're your subordinates, why did you let them take advantage of the situation? If they were at your post for longer than 15 minutes, then as a boss, you have to take charge and not be walked on and be "superior".
3-Did you let these employees using your post know where you would be in case someone was looking for you? If they did, then you're covered as to why this other employee didn't find you when she needed to leave. Actually, you called her a co-worker, so she didn't need to inform you she was leaving, so her leaving is irrelevent unless you're her boss.
4- In a position of management, one of the traits you must possess is to handle yourself under pressure. By showing your anger, I'm sure your boss was thrown off guard.
Yes, you can be mad, upset, pissed or whatever, but the one thing that came to mind first was "Why allow them 50 minutes when they only needed 15?"
Hahaha,
I work with people that are much older then I am. No, they did info me that they would using my space until I got there.
Yes, HP 🙂 I was trained on how to be professional and all that other stuff ... BUT sometimes I can't hide the fact that I may disapprove of somethings.
She is suppose to stop by tomorrow and "watch" me. Whatever, I'm still going to do exactly what I've always done. I not going to act different just because she's there. I may not say certain things but that's it.
I can't stand for anyone to be all in my face when I'm working either ... that gets on my nerves.
I work with people that are much older then I am. No, they did info me that they would using my space until I got there.
Yes, HP 🙂 I was trained on how to be professional and all that other stuff ... BUT sometimes I can't hide the fact that I may disapprove of somethings.
She is suppose to stop by tomorrow and "watch" me. Whatever, I'm still going to do exactly what I've always done. I not going to act different just because she's there. I may not say certain things but that's it.
I can't stand for anyone to be all in my face when I'm working either ... that gets on my nerves.
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