chemengin
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Help! I'm being stalked by an Aqua
and the list of ideas she gives me EVERYDAY, i have read them over. they have NOTHING to do with my project!! i tell her this every time. some of the info on my list is best used in the biological department i told her that too, i called down there and the manager said she never came down. 😢 my coworker (Sagittarius) went off on her yesterday. so we will see if she comes back tomorrow.
oops, meant, *info on that list is best used in the biological department. *
Posted by everevolvingepithet
She might be looking up to you if she's that keen?
oh no, i dont want a groupie. 😢
*sigh* This makes me sad.... I share my birthday with her *smashes head on table*
She wants attention. Maybe she likes you, not saying romantically, but maybe she wants you to acknowledge her. I'm stubborn, but i use it to be hardworking and get stuff I want done, such as goals and projects for school work/college/art work commissions etc. I'm guessing she won't stop unless she gets what she wants. But I'm not sure what that can be...
She wants attention. Maybe she likes you, not saying romantically, but maybe she wants you to acknowledge her. I'm stubborn, but i use it to be hardworking and get stuff I want done, such as goals and projects for school work/college/art work commissions etc. I'm guessing she won't stop unless she gets what she wants. But I'm not sure what that can be...
Shit in her mailbox.
Posted by DK09
Shit in her mailbox.
LOL
ewwwww she is not cute
^^^^ I busted out laughing reading that LOL
Posted by PotHeadVirgo22Posted by chemengin
ewwwww she is not cute
Hmmmmmm.....Soooooo, what if she was—🙂click to expand
well since im totally devoted to my honey bunch i would have to respectfully decline. and since she is not attractive i wont say, "i am flattered..but" because i am not flattered. 🙂
Posted by HazardousWalk
^^^^ I busted out laughing reading that LOL
🙂
Posted by WheresWally
do some synastry! see where her planets fall in your houses..aspects and the rest of that jazz..
I knew a girl who's Mars fell in my 1st conjuncting my Venus and ascendant... didn't like that one bit. she was annoying.
I didn't really look too hard at your aspects list but.. her Mars is right on her third.. and conjunct mercury..
will do thanks...🙂
Posted by DeadRingerr
She wants you're job!!!!
well she cant have it DR. that was my first thought, but after i saw her credentials, i saw she didnt have the same experience that i had. dont need no little unattractive young thang coming in here trying to out do me and take my job. i dont think so, she better be ready for a fight.
Aquarius Men are looking for a strong friendship with someone. You just have something interesting about you and he wants to know more. If u induldged him would back off as Aquarius gets fascinated by people and just want to have a serious conversation with them.
Posted by everevolvingepithet
Just sit her down in a group, then let her latch on to someone else (really big them up instead).
E i tried to get her to go to the biological hazard dept. she wont go. 😢 that dude is single and ready to mingle. dont know if he her type, but hey. she looking for a new career she can go there. but im going to talk about him a little more. i just read some of his work he got published, its right up her alley 😄 i'm showing her monday. i know she will be there.
Posted by PotHeadVirgo22Posted by chemenginPosted by DeadRingerr
She wants you're job!!!!
well she cant have it DR. that was my first thought, but after i saw her credentials, i saw she didnt have the same experience that i had. dont need no little unattractive young thang coming in here trying to out do me and take my job. i dont think so, she better be ready for a fight.click to expand
LOL @ unattractive young thang funny^^^^
You lucky she's unattractive and not some young video model look-a-like that your boss would drool over
yea, i am lucky. video model huh...hell i would have to bring out my tight clothes and low cut shirts. it would be on! i work for a sag, he like big butts. yea a video chick would be good eye candy for any of the guys i work with. lucky in deed!
Posted by HighTide
Aquarius Men are looking for a strong friendship with someone. You just have something interesting about you and he wants to know more. If u induldged him would back off as Aquarius gets fascinated by people and just want to have a serious conversation with them.
oh this is a woman. but your right, she seems fascinated by me. i tried being boring. like only speaking in my technical jargon, slang, and other languages, she just likes me more. she says im so versatile. 😢
^^^ wowzers. I'm still mad I share her birthday. Lol.
maybe just tell her straight up like "Hey foo, I ain't like you so get your weird thang outa here"
maybe just tell her straight up like "Hey foo, I ain't like you so get your weird thang outa here"
😄 yay!!! she is gone. woooo hoooo! i invited the biological hazards guy to come up and view one of my test. gave some lame ass reason about needing his advice about the biological aspects of a sulfuric acid...oops cant tell you guys. anyway, i really didnt need his help.
sooooo, they met each other. hit it off and she was gone all week 😄 aaawww peace. i love it. i hope they get married and have geeky babies together. as long as she stays away from me i dont care.
sooooo, they met each other. hit it off and she was gone all week 😄 aaawww peace. i love it. i hope they get married and have geeky babies together. as long as she stays away from me i dont care.
congrats!!!
"Stalker" is a VERY strong word my friend seriously some people dont even know what they sayin when they wrongfully name someone a "stalker." Maybe she just wanna be friends with you and means no harm.
Spend some time with her and see how things go.
Spend some time with her and see how things go.
Maybe just woe with her, she could have really good ideas and she really wants them tested??_.try not to take it personally and be professional about it
I know someone that wants a stalker, she thinks it's hot so I bought her Polly Clarkson's book, Stalkers...well she doesn't want any of that now. Stalkers aren't fun & can ruin your life. After a stint with one, life changes drastically. Your paranoia levels remain sky high even after many years. It's a real mind fuck. And nobody really laughs about it once they have dealt with the real McCoy. Very scary.
Posted by chemengin
yes the title is correct. im being stalked by one of our own. i have tried to remedy the situation myself,from what i know about our behavior and i happened to get her chart with proper info with crafty methods. now this is her chart.
Zodiac in degrees 0.00
Sun Aquarius 20.3
Moon Libra 27.03
Mercury Capricorn 27.47
Venus Aries 6.28
Mars Capricorn 29.55
Jupiter Taurus 22.13
Saturn Leo 12.52 R
Uranus Scorpio 11.46
Neptune Sagittarius 15.46
Pluto Libra 14.03 R
Lilith Taurus 21.54
Placidus Orb:0
Ascendant Scorpio 24.59
II Sagittarius 25.14
III Capricorn 29.08
IV Pisces 4.14
V Aries 6.04
VI Taurus 2.37
VII Taurus 24.59
VIII Gemini 25.14
IX Cancer 29.08
Midheaven Virgo 4.14
XI Libra 6.04
Can anyone tell me why she is so obsessed with me? Why the useless competition? i say the competition is useless because she works in a totally different field than i do and she is always trying to tell me that i am wrong about something im working on. her behavior makes no sense. i have been going in to work half days because of my fiance's accident and she is there waiting for me. she has a list of ideas for my project in her hand every time and its getting on my nerves. i do invite coworkers to come and watch my experiments when i test them out and i always invite input. if the input that is given to me works i cite their names next to the idea and then i continue my work. i guess she wants that—? BUT she gives ideas BEFORE i even run the test..you cant do that! i've asked her many times why is she here? i told her yesterday she was stalking me. she told me that she is a professional and she is not a stalker by any means. that is why i was shocked that she was a aqua, because we of all people know we need space! you cant crowd us. i checked her records to see if she is lying and she is an aqua Feb. 9th is her bday. i have enough going on, im about to loose it on her. i dont verbally abuse people at work but my patients is running thin.
HELP ME PLEASE! 😢
LO REALLY LOUD..I have not advise for you but to just read your entire post to yourself..laugh about it and every time you see her just laugh and you will feel better...is it really worth your sanity...
I am cracking up because i know exactly how you feel though..this is happening at work with me right now..its like you are walking around with your he
head on fire....she does not sound like a typical Aquarius..she is mixed with annoying in her chart...I worked with an Aquarius Jan 26 and this woman would not shut up..she would make jokes and I would look so serious in the face...every time she comes around just laugh it off she is not worth your sanity..Just try not to get into it with her because 2 Aquarius fighting in the work place will not be a nice scene....I would feel exactly how you feel.....im sure you just want to go off
seriously tell her how you feel.she should respect you for telling her the truth..just don't make her feel bad like a stalker...she probably likes you but just give her the idea that you like her ideas and make it clear that your just friends.if she still don't get it...go off on her a****...this is not my problem but i even feel like going off...lol
seriously tell her how you feel.she should respect you for telling her the truth..just don't make her feel bad like a stalker...she probably likes you but just give her the idea that you like her ideas and make it clear that your just friends.if she still don't get it...go off on her a****...this is not my problem but i even feel like going off...lol
Posted by WaterCup
I know someone that wants a stalker, she thinks it's hot so I bought her Polly Clarkson's book, Stalkers...well she doesn't want any of that now. Stalkers aren't fun & can ruin your life. After a stint with one, life changes drastically. Your paranoia levels remain sky high even after many years. It's a real mind fuck. And nobody really laughs about it once they have dealt with the real McCoy. Very scary.
I agree that's why you should let her know how all of this is making you feel...because if she is a real Aquarius she will back off and not want to be seen as an stalker at all...tell her she is doing the same thing and it should stop immediately before you take other drastic actions that you really don't want to have to take.
Posted by The_eleventh_sign_11
Maybe just woe with her, she could have really good ideas and she really wants them tested??_.try not to take it personally and be professional about it
Well months later I found out the bitch only wanted me to test her work because she was trying to break into another field. In order to get the job she wanted she had to get her own lab work published or have some credits. As I said, AFTER the presentations I always consider other people's suggestions and give credit for those ideas. NONE of her suggestion referred to my work. But they did apply to that Sag I introduced her too. As soon as he used some of her suggestions and she got enough credit she left him and moved to Florida. I feel really bad for introducing her to him. 😢
I should have just cussed her out in the parking garage. SMH, thats what i get for trying to be professional.
Posted by tsar322
"Stalker" is a VERY strong word my friend seriously some people dont even know what they sayin when they wrongfully name someone a "stalker." Maybe she just wanna be friends with you and means no harm.
Spend some time with her and see how things go.
It is the EXACT word that fit her behavior PERFECTLY. It is the EXACT word that the head of security profiled her for and behavior that she was warned about in a previous situation. She was a STALKER!
FYI, I have on hand experience with being stalked. I was stalked by an Aries. So yea, the label fit her and she wore it.
Posted by aquariuslove14
head on fire....she does not sound like a typical Aquarius..she is mixed with annoying in her chart...I worked with an Aquarius Jan 26 and this woman would not shut up..she would make jokes and I would look so serious in the face...every time she comes around just laugh it off she is not worth your sanity..Just try not to get into it with her because 2 Aquarius fighting in the work place will not be a nice scene....I would feel exactly how you feel.....im sure you just want to go off
seriously tell her how you feel.she should respect you for telling her the truth..just don't make her feel bad like a stalker...she probably likes you but just give her the idea that you like her ideas and make it clear that your just friends.if she still don't get it...go off on her a****...this is not my problem but i even feel like going off...lol
LOL, My BDay is Jan. 26 too. I realized its a catch 22 with Aqua fems. I dont usually get a long well with feb aquas, but January Aquas I love to death. Dont know whats that about?
well it sounds as if you're not confrontational enough and have to sneakily go behind her back and complain. why don't you just confront her—
Tell her how you feel!! I would hate it if someone i work with just goes behind my back and bitches because they can't confront and tell me straight what's up.
you have to look at it from her angle.
Tell her how you feel!! I would hate it if someone i work with just goes behind my back and bitches because they can't confront and tell me straight what's up.
you have to look at it from her angle.
In my OP i said, " i've asked her many times why is she here? i told her yesterday she was stalking me." and this:
"and the list of ideas she gives me EVERYDAY, i have read them over. they have NOTHING to do with my project!! i tell her this every time. some of the info on the list is best used in the biological "
what more did i have to say to her. I have no problem with confrontation. But if someone tells me what i told her, I dont hang around them anymore.
"and the list of ideas she gives me EVERYDAY, i have read them over. they have NOTHING to do with my project!! i tell her this every time. some of the info on the list is best used in the biological "
what more did i have to say to her. I have no problem with confrontation. But if someone tells me what i told her, I dont hang around them anymore.
Posted by chemenginPosted by aquariuslove14
head on fire....she does not sound like a typical Aquarius..she is mixed with annoying in her chart...I worked with an Aquarius Jan 26 and this woman would not shut up..she would make jokes and I would look so serious in the face...every time she comes around just laugh it off she is not worth your sanity..Just try not to get into it with her because 2 Aquarius fighting in the work place will not be a nice scene....I would feel exactly how you feel.....im sure you just want to go off
seriously tell her how you feel.she should respect you for telling her the truth..just don't make her feel bad like a stalker...she probably likes you but just give her the idea that you like her ideas and make it clear that your just friends.if she still don't get it...go off on her a****...this is not my problem but i even feel like going off...lol
LOL, My BDay is Jan. 26 too. I realized its a catch 22 with Aqua fems. I dont usually get a long well with feb aquas, but January Aquas I love to death. Dont know whats that about?click to expand
lol..I love my Jan Aquaus too bu don't know to many feb aquas...but I think all Aquas should know when to back off...lol
don't aquas butt in alot into other people's businesses but don't like people on their asses all the time?
Posted by IAmMystified
don't aquas butt in alot into other people's businesses but don't like people on their asses all the time?
The OP isn't even confrontational enough and then starts to get super upset (It could be her Mars Taurus because when taurus mars--- detriment or fall? gets super upset, it will be relentless. Think of Christian Bale getting upset)
what is really odd is many (so-called) aquarius sun woman on this site, makes an account with "aqua__"
and nothing with a name, or something "original"
so much for originality....the front page of aquarius are original is all a big fat lie. Because many aren't original at all.
i dont see why it's to aquarius alone, or maybe they mean those with aquarius dominant in their charts?
that's more like it.
i find that Tolkien, with his aquarius venus is more "original"
and Einstein with his Jupiter Aqua and Pluto in the 11th is more original as well.
that's more like it.
i find that Tolkien, with his aquarius venus is more "original"
and Einstein with his Jupiter Aqua and Pluto in the 11th is more original as well.
you're the chemist, can't you make a poisonous gas or something
dude! im not trying to go to hell! geez. i have morals.
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Sun Aquarius 20.3
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Mercury Capricorn 27.47
Venus Aries 6.28
Mars Capricorn 29.55
Jupiter Taurus 22.13
Saturn Leo 12.52 R
Uranus Scorpio 11.46
Neptune Sagittarius 15.46
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Lilith Taurus 21.54
Placidus Orb:0
Ascendant Scorpio 24.59
II Sagittarius 25.14
III Capricorn 29.08
IV Pisces 4.14
V Aries 6.04
VI Taurus 2.37
VII Taurus 24.59
VIII Gemini 25.14
IX Cancer 29.08
Midheaven Virgo 4.14
XI Libra 6.04
Can anyone tell me why she is so obsessed with me? Why the useless competition? i say the competition is useless because she works in a totally different field than i do and she is always trying to tell me that i am wrong about something im working on. her behavior makes no sense. i have been going in to work half days because of my fiance's accident and she is there waiting for me. she has a list of ideas for my project in her hand every time and its getting on my nerves. i do invite coworkers to come and watch my experiments when i test them out and i always invite input. if the input that is given to me works i cite their names next to the idea and then i continue my work. i guess she wants that—? BUT she gives ideas BEFORE i even run the test..you cant do that! i've asked her many times why is she here? i told her yesterday she was stalking me. she told me that she is a professional and she is not a stalker by any means. that is why i was shocked that she was a aqua, because we of all people know we need space! you cant crowd us. i checked her records to see if she is lying and she is an aqua Feb. 9th is her bday. i have enough going on, im about to loose it on her. i dont verbally abuse people at work but my patients is running thin.
HELP ME PLEASE! 😢