Help me with a detached aqua (Page 2)

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Posted by Seleukos
Agreed, if you get angry at me I know you trust me and are open to me. That's why it's important.

😢 I'm learning. I need a redo.

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Posted by Seleukos
Posted by saggurl88
Posted by Seleukos
Agreed, if you get angry at me I know you trust me and are open to me. That's why it's important.

😢 I'm learning. I need a redo.

You can't restart things with him by putting everything on the table and make tabula rasa?
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He knows that I care about him. I've told him plenty of times. He knows what my end game is, which is keeping him forever. But talking with you is making me miss him lol

But he's not really as open as you. He hides everything from me, that has to do with feelings. We can't even have a conversation like this. I guess it's easier to have it with a stranger 🙂 He likes light conversations unless I'm bitching about something and venting about someone else.

There's always a chance for a clean slate, as I said, I'm very forgiving and my feelings don't change when I love someone. But I won't keep making an effort if you don't. I've reached out a couple of times over the last couple of weeks. He always answers right away but never initiates further. It hasn't been that long, just a few weeks. It just sucked that we went from talking everyday to not talking. I feel like I've been gutted, but I guess I was dependent on those conversations too

This is another heavy conversation that I would end up telling him and I don't want to burden him with my feelings lol I'm sure he knows I am missing him and probably doesn't care, so I need to push through it.

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Posted by Seleukos
Posted by saggurl88
Posted by Seleukos
Posted by saggurl88
Posted by Seleukos
Agreed, if you get angry at me I know you trust me and are open to me. That's why it's important.

😢 I'm learning. I need a redo.

You can't restart things with him by putting everything on the table and make tabula rasa?
He knows that I care about him. I've told him plenty of times. He knows what my end game is, which is keeping him forever. But talking with you is making me miss him lol

But he's not really as open as you. He hides everything from me, that has to do with feelings. We can't even have a conversation like this. I guess it's easier to have it with a stranger 🙂 He likes light conversations unless I'm bitching about something and venting about someone else.

There's always a chance for a clean slate, as I said, I'm very forgiving and my feelings don't change when I love someone. But I won't keep making an effort if you don't. I've reached out a couple of times over the last couple of weeks. He always answers right away but never initiates further. It hasn't been that long, just a few weeks. It just sucked that we went from talking everyday to not talking. I feel like I've been gutted, but I guess I was dependent on those conversations too

This is another heavy conversation that I would end up telling him and I don't want to burden him with my feelings lol I'm sure he knows I am missing him and probably doesn't care, so I need to push through it.
Well, I was a lot like he appears to be in the past.

I just learned through my weird relationship and the other strange behaviour of women around me.

I'm sorry it went that way for both of you but you are right to just do your thing for now and maybe he opens up on his own one day. 🙂
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Thank you! I'm not waiting for "One Day"

I'm not into pining for what I want. If you don't want me now, then don't come back later. You'll be friendzoned lol I don't play tug of war with my emotions. Waiting is not worth it for me. I need to have it now and nurture and take care of it forever. I don't understand why some people like struggling in love. It's crazy!