How can I be there for him right now

So, I'm an Aries woman who has been in an exclusive situation with an Aquarius man for some time. We get on exceptionally well and I have to say as a person, I care for him very much. He has opened up to me a lot, so he never had any friends growing up. His longest friendship has only been 4 years. Has major trust and commitment issues. I also have my problems and have no issue pushing through a situation so I tried to work through it.

But, he has messed up multiple times. Slept with 4 other women, one whose virginity he took because it was hot. Had the poor girl being all emotional about him. Around Christmas, another random proposed to him... To top it off, he then continues to use dating sites to make 'friends'. I thought I could get past this stuff, but meh no. Valentine's day wasn't great, but I saw him yesterday and it was fantastic, great sex and all. I just don't want us settling, if we have issues why not end it as friends that way we can support each other forever. I don't want to be another person passing through his life since so many people have already done that.

Went out last night with an older group of friends and at 26 some of these people are dealing with partners who completely take them for granted. The longer you stay the worse it gets. Today he was being nice, the so passive aggressive. He did this after Valentine's day and I was so anxious. But, I've decided no. We cannot continue living so unhealthily. He seems to agree, but I can tell he's off and going through the motions. What shall I do? We will have to meet so I can get some stuff from him. I hope.. the last breakup he said I had to sleep with him to get my stuff back.

How does an Aries girl, support the Aquarius man through the breakup?

It's hard for me to say this but he's an ass 😂

Aquas can handle breakups, it was just his tactic to keep you around while he continue doing his usual things.

Something I can say about Aquarius men is that they push boundaries. All of the boundaries when they're young (under 30). He'll push the envelope as far as he can before you blow. If you don't, he'll keep pushing the envelope until you become a doormat or go crazy.

It's not that this is the intention, it's just how it goes.

I think you're doing the right thing.

Posted by sultrykitty
Something I can say about Aquarius men is that they push boundaries. All of the boundaries when they're young (under 30). He'll push the envelope as far as he can before you blow. If you don't, he'll keep pushing the envelope until you become a doormat or go crazy.

It's not that this is the intention, it's just how it goes.

I think you're doing the right thing.

Do they stay with you after you become a doormat, or is it over and they seek a new conquest?

Posted by Leo188881
He's screwing around so you're not exclusive. Just dump him and fk supporting him and his feelings he obviously wasn't considerate of yours.

Yes in what world do you download tinder for ‘friendship’

Just abandon the stuff. Avoid the mind fuck all together.

Posted by Leo188881

Posted by LadyNeptune

Posted by Leo188881
He's screwing around so you're not exclusive. Just dump him and fk supporting him and his feelings he obviously wasn't considerate of yours.

Yes in what world do you download tinder for ‘friendship’

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Lol nasty

Posted by Whorpio

Posted by sultrykitty
Something I can say about Aquarius men is that they push boundaries. All of the boundaries when they're young (under 30). He'll push the envelope as far as he can before you blow. If you don't, he'll keep pushing the envelope until you become a doormat or go crazy.

It's not that this is the intention, it's just how it goes.

I think you're doing the right thing.

Do they stay with you after you become a doormat, or is it over and they seek a new conquest?

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They'll stay because they've molded you into the person they want.

Posted by AerialView
It's hard for me to say this but he's an ass 😂

Aquas can handle breakups, it was just his tactic to keep you around while he continue doing his usual things.

Well ...Well.... Well!!!!! I'm proud of you!!! 😆

Posted by saggurl88

Posted by AerialView
It's hard for me to say this but he's an ass 😂

Aquas can handle breakups, it was just his tactic to keep you around while he continue doing his usual things.

Well ...Well.... Well!!!!! I'm proud of you!!! 😆

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Lol 😂😂😂😂😂

Posted by Leo188881
He's screwing around so you're not exclusive. Just dump him and fk supporting him and his feelings he obviously wasn't considerate of yours.

I LIKE THE EXCLUSIVE SITUATION though,

i was confused for a min

Posted by Rambeau
He seriously said you had to sleep with him to get your stuff back? What a d*ck! Thats madness and toxic! Why would you even bother. Cut all ties for now and maybe when he comes to his senses and talks in a polite manner you should get your things.

pretty ass to say that

horrible

Posted by Impulsv
A doormat ?

Someone who's fine being walked all over.