How does Aquarius man react if i make distance like he did to me first?

Aqua man been making distance from me.rarely text,cold n flat.i was sad but now i think i can let him go.i dont care anymore about him.

We didnt talk since yesterday n today..suddenly tonight he texted me n ask how am i.i answer like 2,5 hours later i said im fine n i asked about him n he said he is also good n he is happy with hew bike n sent me pic of it.it made me feel like eeewwwwww really?he texted me just to brag out about his bike

And i just gave him short answer : thats cool.

Thats it. He read it but not answer.i got feeling that he feels that i changed here.normally i always had long texts n seems so excited.

Do u think he realize that i change n will it bother him?

aquarius share basically everything they do or are up to to people they talk to. Not necessary to brag about stuff.

ignore him and hell be all over you.

dont answer.

aquarius can be clingy and harassing no joke. if hes not trying to figure you out and wanting your attention NEVER MIND. hell play you off when hell see your availability for him.

or will friendzone you. they make good friends.

Posted by Nepturanus
you're so cold

Agree with this !!

He is the one who's been so cold n flat to me.it hurts bcz we used to be so close before untill he said we need to take it slow n he changed.we never see each other n have on off texting.

I want to meet him but too afraid if he doesnt want too.bcz usually he was the one who had idea to meet up.but not anymore.

I was so sad n broken hearted since knowinh he changed,now when finally i cud let go i want him to feel how i feel.i want him to feel how it hurt to be treated in cold way by somebody who used to care about him n used to spent times alots with him.

To be in contact with him always feel hurt somehow bcz he wud often just hang it up no answer sometimes .n then after one or two days suddenly he texted me like nothing happen.

I want to get over it.

@bdzzbdzz damn u werr so right! I can feel he often just play me off when he sees my availability for him.apparently i am libra i will always do my best to be aavailable to ppl that i like.that what makes ppl take me fo granted n i get hurt n dissapointed often bcz i expect ppl wud do the same .

@yoctapra good thing at least he now knows your kind (as you say so) personality. Now space out do your thing and let him do the work.

usually libra and aqua get along well. aqua kind of like libras innocence.

good luck.

They do come to you if you open a door too them. They will flirt and leave once they get what they want and they'll come back after disappearing for more. Show no interest and then you'll see if anything you had was real

Posted by aquarius_beauty
If an Aqua hardly shows any interest in conversations with you it means that you hardly stimulate his mind or that he's run out of things to say. So he will create distance to have something to talk about a couple days later. I have known a lot of guys who have pursued me and they're for the most part very bland in conversation. They always give the same generic questions, how are you? what are you doing? how have you been? Well last time I checked, I was doing fine 5 minutes ago. These guys are hardly creative and are boring in their approach even if I may like them. If they don't step up I usually begin to distance myself and move on to someone else who will be more exciting.

You have to be fun, crazy, spontaneous, and unpredictable in messaging us if you want to keep holding our interest. Make us laugh and you'll win extra brownie points.

I am a Libra, but I feel the same. I am always drawn by interesting people with interesting approaches. I sometimes contact those that may have something to say. As for my Aqua man, I keep him interested with all sorts of things that may draw his attention. I always ask how he feels, rather than what he has been doing lately (I never ask this, he just briefs me on his own). I can sense if he is not in the mood to speak and give him space, with a nice last word that he always answers. You have to feel him! I think they actually like consistent attention.

Why so hard to please aqua?seems like me that have to be proactive n think about how to keep him excited,happy,interested,etc.actually i dont want to make distance but whats the point to give him consistent attention while he just kept being busy with his own life?

I meant i cant always please somebody who seems dont understand about takr n give.

Okey i dont want to complain or judge,we texted couple days ago n in the end he just dissepear didnt answer my last text whic was a question.it was around 10.30pm n seemed my text didnt arrive bcz i know he always switch off his phone when sleeping,so i slept.when i woke up in the morning i got him reply me at 3am to answere my question n he said sorry he fell asleep,he was busy chatting with friends n forgot to answer me.i was thinking like really?he forgot to answer me?wow rmembering how he texted me so often in the beginning we know each other n he always looked forward me to answer him n now he cud say he forgot to answer me its kinda offensive :/

Anyways and then i asked what what was he up to cz i didnt hear much about him.n he said he's been so busy working,doing stuff to his new bike n moving things to his new house.alrigjt i understand that so in the end i asked him to have some beers together again its been awhile n we used to be best beer buddy.he said yes off course but he is so busy at the moment n got two friends birthday party this weekend.so i was like ok enjoy your busy days n let me know when u are free!

So,what do u think about him?sometimes my instict said he gave me some while lies.not always just sometimes.

Yes, nothing wrong with him! Just us, as Libras, don't match their time frame! I got used to it! He will be there, if he wants to. He always answers, now or later, if he is interested even a little bit.

But sometimes (or many times) they are so absorbed into their own thoughts, that they forget there is a world around them. Just remind him gently you are around.

And I noticed my Aqua man likes to solve things on his own and he won't tell. I actually do the same, unless I really need his help, in any way (emotional or physical). He understood this and he is there if I need to. And the reverse. If he needs me, he is not faking it.

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Posted by compy
I am a Libra, but I feel the same. I am always drawn by interesting people with interesting approaches. I sometimes contact those that may have something to say. As for my Aqua man, I keep him interested with all sorts of things that may draw his attention. I always ask how he feels, rather than what he has been doing lately (I never ask this, he just briefs me on his own). I can sense if he is not in the mood to speak and give him space, with a nice last word that he always answers. You have to feel him! I think they actually like consistent attention.

we do because we in a sense like to be chased, to spare us from the humiliation of rejection and potentially becoming exposed in our interests. We become drawn to people who can read us without uttering a single word. We're not verbal about what we say but our whole body language can speak a thousand words in less than a second. If you can read us without us expressing too much, you guarantee we will be more drawn to you.

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Yes, rejection is your biggest fear. I know my man can't stand another one. He is too fragile, even though cool, detached, and, of course , not committing, lol 🙂 But I've known him for a while, he really doesn't take rejection easily, and it was not a test, I hate playing games! I noticed his reactions. The storm that happened in his heart. I found out at least this way he is somehow attached to me. I wouldn't disappoint him. He is a great friend with the greatest and most fragile soul, even though he wants to pretend differently. And I want to protect him. Even though nothing positive may come out of this, but no one will suffer.

I don't think he was bragging. Just trying to share with you. Aquas, despite being air signs, need time to disconnect from people in order to recharge. Which is maybe why you hadn't heard from him

When u said he drawn on you.it means good or not?pardon me bcz my english is not perfect.

Yes actually i can read him pretty easy bcz i am libra,n he was so shocked when i tolf him things of him that he was afraid to be honest about.he tried to tell me not in verbal way n it was in carefully n nice way.

For example :

One day i spent times with him,we drank beers together (its our fav things to do together) n then we went to his place.i always smoke everytime i drink beers.he said he didnt mind.he liked to kiss me but that night he didnt kiss me as much as before.and then we went to bed n about to have sex but he kept asking to have shower together,i refused once bcz it was pretty late in the night n i m easy to get shaking after shower in the night.i cud see he wanted me n kept kissing me but a bit reluctant,and then he asked me again if i wanted to have shower together so we did.

After shower finally i got the real him,he kissed me as normally way he do n then we had sex.

In the morning i went home from his place i cudnt stop thinking why he acted a bit strange before n after shower.then i realized he didnt like my smell after smoking.i mean who does??hahahaha .so i texted him n told him about why he didnt kiss me that much last night n kept asking me to have a shower.i told him i knew its bcz he didnt like smell of ciggarette.

And he was conpletely shocked that i knew it without he said it.lol since then i realized i can read him pretty easily sometimes.but i often scared to guess also.

Anyway,talking about rejection.howcome he is afraid of rejection when he actually knows im as a Libran wud never reject him?i wud never do that.i cant.he know im always be there for him.

Posted by aquarius_beauty
But to answer your question if you create distance then we won't approach you until we realize that you have created this distance, usually a couple weeks. If he does this then you know he's not as interested in you. An Aqua when truly interested in someone will only go a couple days of no contact, at most a week. I wouldn't go more than 3 days without contact from my Leo and one day from my Aries ex.

Hm, the last Aqua I was seeing hasn't tried talking to me for a month now. Granted she was dating her ex the entire time (and still is) and lied about it to both me and our friends, so I'm good with the silence. I walked away from her and haven't tried to contacting since (and don't plan to do so either). The longer the silence lasts the more resolved I feel in the fact that she never actually cared about me. Before everything burned down, our conversations were all over the place and I made her laugh HARD (to the point that her mom heard that I was funny). She's also yet to block me and some of our mutual friends on social media (which to me isn't indicative of anything), but I've heard that when an Aqua truly wants to burn the bridge, they block people.

So does aqua like to lie? Some white lies?

As far as I know, they don't lie. They'd rather hide the truth than lie to people. They'd pretend they are ok rather than creating concern. Or, as said before, showing signs of vulnerability. They can do this even to their own relatives. But they open up to their closest friends, even though there may be only one single person that gained their trust. Which is good for their own sanity, because concerns/worries/problems etc. can accumulate and eventually burst out in a most unexpected way. They are human, after al! Probably that is why is important to be able to feel them and read their non-verbal signals, or the hints they give even verbally or in writing. Someone calm and emphatic can balance the energies.

Ah okey i thinj u are right n i agree with u.

They lik hiding their feeling even im as libra can read them thru their eyes,face n body language.

Actually i have no idea if he is actually now just busy,making distance(need space) or loosing interest with me.

Like today we didnt talk all day but he told me last we chat (it was yesterday or two days ago i forgot) he was so busy n has two friends bday thia weekend when i asked him to have drinking beers session togther.so i let him do his things.

And this afternoon i went to beach for sunset (its actually his fav place for sunset),i wqs parking my bikr i saw him was in place next to place i was which was so close.he was standing there n talking with his friemds.i walked around the beach n actually im sure she saw me.but he didnt come to me to say hi .i didnt come to him bcz we been having distance lately n didnt really talk n meet each others anymore.i was scared if it wud be awkward n he was with his close friends.

Now im just wondering about what he was thinking when he saw me there..he didnt even text me.i dont know i dont want to expect anything but just wondering.bcz im kinda missing him.n he looked good today..he is a very good looking guy.lol

Just wait. If you don't know his friends already, he will certainly pretend not to have seen you. Also, he may think you showed up on purpose. He will eventually tell you that he saw you, but probably in a casual manner. Clinginess is something they hate. Be happy you saw him. I am sure you like him a lot. I like mine also, I feel I couldn't get enough of his presence. But I am just enjoying it. Feed somehow with it. And it's been a while since he became a steady presence in my life.

You can text him you saw him BY ACCIDENT and that you were happy to see he was enjoying his time. They appreciate people that have their own life and interests.

But don't forget to be honest!

No actually i went there with my daughter n he knows that i like to bring my daughter there bcz the beach is very safe for kids.he is the obe u showed me this place n he was the one who gave me idea to bring my daughter there next time im going there with him.very sweet but it hasnt happened yet.lol

He told me last time that his frends has bday party this weekend,so im surr he wws there for that party.but seriously i didnt think he wud be there.so i was pretty nervous but i just kept being busy with my kid.i looked around sometimes honestly wanted to see him.but it was many ppl i started to get confuser but yes i saw him from distance 🙂

I only know one of his good friend,he introduced me to her n he told me about his close friends n who he work with at his office.he brought me to his office once n showed me around 🙂

Well i think i will just wait for him to text me or maybe he wont.i dont know.

But im really happy to se him.yes i like him alots and i miss him!

How long have you been seeing each other? What do you talk about?

I did talk to him about it n we even had arguments once.

He said we met almost everyday n need to take it slow.He also said he was busy.

Those are what he usually said..he never said he lose interest but he changed.knowing we texted n spent times alost n very intense in our first weeks.untill he realized we moved too fast so he told me we need to take it slow.

@compy : we been knowing each other for a month.we liked each pther alots since first time we met n he was the most xcited one always texted me,told me what he did n what hes upto,checked me up,invited me to do things together n spent times together,drinking beers are our fav thing.

We liked to talk about so many things,random things.we liked jokes n made each other laugh.he told me about his job,his surfing thing,his family n even his last relationship.i did the same.he was always there for me whenwver i needed him untill he realized we met each other almost everyday n he started to change to be cold n flat.im worried.

I mean he never said he lose interest with me but his distance behavior still makes me worried.i miss him,i miss to do things with him,i miss his availability,i miss the way he treated me like a girlfriend .i mean we are still chatting each other sometims but its so differemt you know..

Yes i do miss him so much.

I understand. Same story here. Allow him to breathe. Mine also turned cold after one month. Intimacy scares them sometimes, depending on their past. Mine is a total mess, emotionally speaking. Do not worry. If he likes you, he will reach you. Just don't be a threat to his liberty. Gently remind him you are still around. Make him feel special. They like this. Be his friend and gain his trust. It's much more important.

Yes with his coldness n distance he texts me so rarely.but im happy he still remember me.lol.

Sometimes i text him just to say have a good day or somethings like that.or i sent him funny memes about beer n he answer only with "hahaha" its alright at least he answered.lol

It always takes long time to him to give a reply to my message,,i really hope he doeant reply me as courtnesy.

N last time we chatted i told him i miss to drink beers with him n he said yes we will drink soon but he is so busy at the moment .busy working n moving in to new house n doing things for his new bike. He sent me picture of his new bike after he bought it.after didnt talk two days lol

One question : will aqua man be honest if he actually seeing another woman n maybe its reason he makes distance with me n not excited or interested with me anymore.

Bcz i remember one of last times we met,i asked him about one woman who likes his pictures all the time.bcz that woman is kinda famous in my country n i asked if he knows her.and then he got a bit excited n said he actually never met this woman,but if im not wrong he said he wud meet this woman next week or something n he even asked me if i wud come with him to see her.i said i didnt want bcz i dont know this woman.

Since then i dont know its just coinsidence or not,he change n make distance.im really2 wondering if he actually been in contact n even meet this woman.but im nobody for him to ask about it.i want to ask him in casual way when we meet but i dont even know when i will meet him.

I dont know..my instict keeps saying he likes this woman...but maybe im just overthinking.damn i hate this situation.how to find out?or better to not find out.

You don't understand his need for liberty. My Aqua told me about "liberty in two" after about three weeks. We are very social, but they are paricularly very insecure. They want to keep their options open. They want to be sure you are the one. They keep comparing. If there was a lot of interest in you in the beginning, like, even (as a joke) what did you like to be fed with when you were a baby, then he may be interested. He may just be processing it. The fact that you have a daughter can be a turn off though. He may fear the potential role of a father. My thoughts, though, I am not an Aquarius...

How old are you both?

If he is not right for you, turn away and find someone that is

Trying to change someone isn't love

@Compy : its kinda hard for me to understand him with all of his distance n coldness.but im trying to let it be n let it go.

He was the one who stalked me n he knew from beginning that i have daughter.n he seemed didnt mind.

But if there is something in me that turn him off,u mean its all over between me n him or he wud still think about it?

Im 27 yo,my kid is 16 months n he is 35 yo.

I mean honestly whatever makes him changed his mind about me ,i just wamt him to be honest so i know n will stop wondering.do u think he will tell me?but he didnt like if i talked something deep or about us.he wud told me to not making drama.come on,nothing is wrong to ask right?

@Nepturanus : what do u mean?i dont understand...

@nepturanus : i have no idea...how to find out?

@bumboklatt : i know..but i only did once n then i cudnt resist to tell him many things like about what did i do all day etc.he knows im always excited n like to tell long stories.but since he become cold,i often feel weird to send him long message when he will just answer in flat way.



Ahh i remember in the beginning i felt bad bcz i always sent long txts but he said he didnt mind he said my texts made him smile.but i dont think it does now.why aqua can totally change .its so sad.

Posted by aquarius_beauty
I have known a lot of guys who have pursued me and they're for the most part very bland in conversation. They always give the same generic questions, how are you? what are you doing? how have you been? Well last time I checked, I was doing fine 5 minutes ago. These guys are hardly creative and are boring in their approach even if I may like them.

It depends on the woman. Sometimes guys ask uncreative questions cause the women seem to be boring and they don't give them too much to work with. So if I am asking you "how have you been" then chances are I am not even interested at all in you or your answer and I am just being nice.

@thesag : depends on woman ?? Really? How about if its the man who is boring n is not creative to start a conversation? From what u said it seem like woman who has to please a man .

So,the point is actually if an aqua man who used to be so sweet n care n excited n checked me up with me now seems not wondering about what im upto anymore that means ok or bad?

Posted by Yoctapra
@thesag : depends on woman ?? Really? How about if its the man who is boring n is not creative to start a conversation? From what u said it seem like woman who has to please a man .

Which came first, the chicken or the egg?

First of I made a common statement. If you found a man boring you would give him just yes and no answers. So it often depends on the woman whether I put much effort in a convo or just don't care at all. It also depends on how long I have known her. There are pretty women who seem to be dull at the same time, so talking to her about interesting stuff is a waste of time.

I know.sorry.i think i shud just move on.

Btw how to find out the moon of somebody?

Ok i will look it up.thanks! X

Understand .its unbelievable how aqua man cud change this much.

@Yoctapra I sent you one private message.

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I have known a lot of guys who have pursued me and they're for the most part very bland in conversation. They always give the same generic questions, how are you? what are you doing? how have you been? Well last time I checked, I was doing fine 5 minutes ago. These guys are hardly creative and are boring in their approach even if I may like them.

It depends on the woman. Sometimes guys ask uncreative questions cause the women seem to be boring and they don't give them too much to work with. So if I am asking you "how have you been" then chances are I am not even interested at all in you or your answer and I am just being nice.

Well if I don't give you much to work with it's because I'm not interested and you haven't spiked my curiosity to continue a conversation. I don't initiate conversations with you if I don't have anything interesting to say. If I don't have anything interesting to say most of the time then I'm not interested in you.

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True, but it was you who complained about those boring guys and their uncreativity which means you kind of expected them to spike your curiosity. You even said you liked some of them.

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I have known a lot of guys who have pursued me and they're for the most part very bland in conversation. They always give the same generic questions, how are you? what are you doing? how have you been? Well last time I checked, I was doing fine 5 minutes ago. These guys are hardly creative and are boring in their approach even if I may like them.

It depends on the woman. Sometimes guys ask uncreative questions cause the women seem to be boring and they don't give them too much to work with. So if I am asking you "how have you been" then chances are I am not even interested at all in you or your answer and I am just being nice.

Well if I don't give you much to work with it's because I'm not interested and you haven't spiked my curiosity to continue a conversation. I don't initiate conversations with you if I don't have anything interesting to say. If I don't have anything interesting to say most of the time then I'm not interested in you.

True, but it was you who complained about those boring guys and their uncreativity which means you kind of expected them to spike your curiosity. You even said you liked some of them.

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It is obvious that you cannot have a stimulating conversation with someone that is not on the same intellectual level. Aquas are naturally intelligent, even though their rebel nature may not make them top scientists, but "ordinary" people with ordinary jobs. Mine has an ordinary job. I am a top professional. The blend of minds is vital. Common interests, similar concepts of life, similar taste in various aspects of life can rise endless topics for discussion. They like a good and well argumented debate, even though they hate to be shown they can be wrong. But this happens rarely, since they are good analysts. The only problem is that they are fixed signs, therefore quite stubborn. But they listen to what you have to say, think about it and lately agree.

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I have known a lot of guys who have pursued me and they're for the most part very bland in conversation. They always give the same generic questions, how are you? what are you doing? how have you been? Well last time I checked, I was doing fine 5 minutes ago. These guys are hardly creative and are boring in their approach even if I may like them.

It depends on the woman. Sometimes guys ask uncreative questions cause the women seem to be boring and they don't give them too much to work with. So if I am asking you "how have you been" then chances are I am not even interested at all in you or your answer and I am just being nice.

Well if I don't give you much to work with it's because I'm not interested and you haven't spiked my curiosity to continue a conversation. I don't initiate conversations with you if I don't have anything interesting to say. If I don't have anything interesting to say most of the time then I'm not interested in you.

True, but it was you who complained about those boring guys and their uncreativity which means you kind of expected them to spike your curiosity. You even said you liked some of them.

It is obvious that you cannot have a stimulating conversation with someone that is not on the same intellectual level. Aquas are naturally intelligent, even though their rebel nature may not make them top scientists, but "ordinary" people with ordinary jobs. Mine has an ordinary job. I am a top professional. The blend of minds is vital. Common interests, similar concepts of life, similar taste in various aspects of life can rise endless topics for discussion. They like a good and well argumented debate, even though they hate to be shown they can be wrong. But this happens rarely, since they are good analysts. The only problem is that they are fixed signs, therefore quite stubborn. But they listen to what you have to say, think about it and lately agree.

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Agreed. (I am actually quite stubborn too even though I don't have any aqua placements in my chart. ^^)

But we are talking here about approaching or kind of dating situations where men and women meet and start casual conversations. I have had women telling resp. complaining to me that most men talk about their jobs, hobbies or bad relationships only and bore them to death. I actually get that because I have male friends who sometimes really bore me too about their last meetings at work and they take like an hour to tell me casual stuff.

I like to talk about politics, history, economy, money, sports etc. with my male friends but I actually never talk about those things with women too much, especially those that I have known for like 5 minutes only. I kind of flirt with them and from my experience with women men should rather tease them and talk about personal stuff than serious topics.

Once I met a girl through a friend in a group meeting. She was pretty, ladylike, nice but she was cold towards me and I wasn't really into her either cause she didn't talk too much and seemed less interested which was ok with me. I couldn't open her up so I just talked about random stuff and then left, talked to other people. I had her phone number though. Days later my friend asked me why I didn't call her, she actually liked me. Wtf? lol

I told my friend about my impressions that she didn't seem to like me at all. My friend told me she actually enjoyed talking to me and made her laugh a bit. So I didn't call her later anyway because I had to leave the city soon for work and still wasn't sure about her. If she had given me the impression that I expected things would have gone differently.

I am an introvert myself. I may be very active on social media, but never go further. I have a few friends that can keep me entertained at times, but the status of a "friendship" is extremely hard to achieve. Air here, lol 🙂

With my Aqua man is different. I initiate online contact, he initiates live contact. We have different ways of communication, but it's a good blend. We give each other what we need, we provide support, we are here for the other one. Nice and airy friendship. Being intimate with someone is very difficult to achieve in our case.

Now my Aqua is in bed with a spine injury. I am the only one that knows and nurtures him. No one from his family is aware, even though he has a sister living in the same town. Just don't take an Aqua's friendship in a lightweight manner! You may mean the world to them, even though they won't admit it openly!

@Compy : which message?

Well,i got story from today.i havent been in contact with this aqua man since 3 days ago maybe.this afternoon i went to my fav place to see my friends,i brought my 16 months daughter witj me.n then my friend told me my aqua guy is there sitting in bar.i looked around n i saw him.i asked my friend if he saw me n she said yes.but when i lookee at him again i cud see he was pretending he didnt see me but then finally he looked at me n called me to come to him so i came to him said hi.

He said he ordered wrong drinks n he ordered two so he gave to me once.and oya my daughter loved him at first sight!ahhaha.anyway and then he asked if he cud join to my friends n i said yea off course.so he joinee me n my friends.but he just talk to my friend n my friend's friend.so i was like alright i decided to play with my daughter around.i asked him about him n his new bike but we both were lil bit awkward bcz been awhile never met.hahahaha its cute tho.i expected him to talk to me more but he choosed to talk with my friends ( they are so much older than me,im 27 n they are 40's or 50's).

I was dancing with my daughter n he came to n said he had to go to his friend's bday party.he played with my daughter lil bit n we had short convo finally like he asked me if ive found new place to stay.n then i asked him about how was he doing its been awhile.n he said : "yeaa i told u i have friends bday party this weekend so after this weekend" i mean i wws just asking about how was he been doing n he answer in high tone voice.come on man..relax. n then he said goodbye n left in nice way n he said see you later.

I notice he was pretty cold in the beginning we met today but then slowly he became warm n in the end i started to recognize him as a guy i used to know.. im happy i saw him today n it was coinsidence!

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@Compy : which message?

Click on my user name, then "Message", then "Inbox" and you should find it, hopefully. I've never used this facility.

I cudnt find it.i didnt understand how it works! :/

He was born 31st January 1982

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Posted by compy
I am a Libra, but I feel the same. I am always drawn by interesting people with interesting approaches. I sometimes contact those that may have something to say. As for my Aqua man, I keep him interested with all sorts of things that may draw his attention. I always ask how he feels, rather than what he has been doing lately (I never ask this, he just briefs me on his own). I can sense if he is not in the mood to speak and give him space, with a nice last word that he always answers. You have to feel him! I think they actually like consistent attention.

we do because we in a sense like to be chased, to spare us from the humiliation of rejection and potentially becoming exposed in our interests. We become drawn to people who can read us without uttering a single word. We're not verbal about what we say but our whole body language can speak a thousand words in less than a second. If you can read us without us expressing too much, you guarantee we will be more drawn to you.

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I do agree with this... I think they struggle to express themselves well.. wanna help and heal the world yet so uncomfortable in their own feelings sometimes... they will stay interested if you act or tell them that u understand them.. without really asking too many questions.... I told my Aqua guy things about himself sometimes n how he operates... n sometimes he says I'm scary bcoz I seem to know n get him so well.. my moon is in Aqua so I do get him most times lol.. at the beginning he tried to act all cool though deep down I know he's a possessive n a very protective type.. it gets stronger the longer we know each other... it's like he doesn't like those feelings so he tries to hide them but in the end he can't hide it anymore and he put that on me to see if I get jealous of him.. it's a weirded strategy really.... the last time he purposely put a mark on my body after I told him I was seeing other people.. he did that n said.. I have put a mark on u now.. n I'm like wow u r a lot more possessive than what u pretend to be... n he's like.. yes I so am.... I think it turns them on that u know them well coz I think most time they dun even know what they truly want at times coz they r so into their own going with the flow moments .. libra and Aqua r great I think but I find with libra, they r givers which is great though they also please too much... u need to be able to speak ur voice .. n if he still wanna b part of ur life then u noe he is interested in u enough to make it work.. libra hold it all in... give everything.... I don't know how Aqua likes that? Need to hear from Aqua... my libra friend dating an Aqua.. n it's taken her 9 months to start questioning their encounter as they have not been public on fb or anything n I think she's kept it all inside this whole time... poor her... she wanna please her man so I think a lot of time she does more than she shud....

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Posted by Yoctapra
I cudnt find it.i didnt understand how it works! :/

He was born 31st January 1982

i'll do it. i'm on the mood.

but i need his birth location and yours too if you don't mind.

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Do u mind doing my too please if u r in the mood? ? My is 09/05/1988 time 2:45 pm. Bangkok Thailand.. Him...24/01/1985 time unknown . Bogota Colombia