How does Aquarius man react if i make distance like he did to me first? (Page 2)

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Posted by Yoctapra
I cudnt find it.i didnt understand how it works! :/

He was born 31st January 1982

i'll do it. i'm on the mood.

but i need his birth location and yours too if you don't mind.

Do u mind doing my too please if u r in the mood? ? My is 09/05/1988 time 2:45 pm. Bangkok Thailand.. Him...24/01/1985 time unknown . Bogota Colombia

Sara?

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Posted by Chuckcem
Hm, the last Aqua I was seeing hasn't tried talking to me for a month now. Granted she was dating her ex the entire time (and still is) and lied about it to both me and our friends, so I'm good with the silence. I walked away from her and haven't tried to contacting since (and don't plan to do so either). The longer the silence lasts the more resolved I feel in the fact that she never actually cared about me. Before everything burned down, our conversations were all over the place and I made her laugh HARD (to the point that her mom heard that I was funny). She's also yet to block me and some of our mutual friends on social media (which to me isn't indicative of anything), but I've heard that when an Aqua truly wants to burn the bridge, they block people.

Your Aqua had Libra moon and based on my experience on Libra moons they tend to be very deceptive. My Ex Aries had Libra moon and I know when we separated he would string girls along by doing all the works for them, gifts, chocolates, dates, but he was still pursuing me. Telling me he still wanted to try and repair us.

I have also noticed that a lot of Aquas string people along (unintentionally) and make them think that it will lead to something else when in reality they're using them as an emotional blanket. I'm guilty of doing this with my ex but I've left things pretty clear to him that I'm not looking forward to anything else other than a friendship. I know for sure though that if you had my heart, there would be no doubt in my love and loyalty towards you, hence why I was very loyal and loving towards the Leo. Once you have my heart it's nearly impossible to take you out and it will take a lifetime before I can take you out.

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Posted by Chuckcem
Hm, the last Aqua I was seeing hasn't tried talking to me for a month now. Granted she was dating her ex the entire time (and still is) and lied about it to both me and our friends, so I'm good with the silence. I walked away from her and haven't tried to contacting since (and don't plan to do so either). The longer the silence lasts the more resolved I feel in the fact that she never actually cared about me. Before everything burned down, our conversations were all over the place and I made her laugh HARD (to the point that her mom heard that I was funny). She's also yet to block me and some of our mutual friends on social media (which to me isn't indicative of anything), but I've heard that when an Aqua truly wants to burn the bridge, they block people.

Your Aqua had Libra moon and based on my experience on Libra moons they tend to be very deceptive. My Ex Aries had Libra moon and I know when we separated he would string girls along by doing all the works for them, gifts, chocolates, dates, but he was still pursuing me. Telling me he still wanted to try and repair us.

I have also noticed that a lot of Aquas string people along (unintentionally) and make them think that it will lead to something else when in reality they're using them as an emotional blanket. I'm guilty of doing this with my ex but I've left things pretty clear to him that I'm not looking forward to anything else other than a friendship. I know for sure though that if you had my heart, there would be no doubt in my love and loyalty towards you, hence why I was very loyal and loving towards the Leo. Once you have my heart it's nearly impossible to take you out and it will take a lifetime before I can take you out.

... using someone as an emotional blanket? I love the phrase but I didn't think aquas needed them? Do (most) aquas have periods when they need to wrap themselves up in emotions? Emotions they don't really have? Why?

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Posted by Yoctapra
My aqua finally is back! If you follow my story from beginning..yesterday we met coinsidencely in the afternoon.he seemed cold in the beginning,he just talked to my friends n acted like i wasnt there.i was ok i acted cool.then he left to his friend's bday party.untill around 11pm he sent me messages n said it was to see me again n he invited me for sunset session this week.suddenly he acted normall again after been distance n cold for around a week! Wow aqua man..hard to understand u but i like u damn much! He is full of surprise!

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Posted by Chuckcem
Hm, the last Aqua I was seeing hasn't tried talking to me for a month now. Granted she was dating her ex the entire time (and still is) and lied about it to both me and our friends, so I'm good with the silence. I walked away from her and haven't tried to contacting since (and don't plan to do so either). The longer the silence lasts the more resolved I feel in the fact that she never actually cared about me. Before everything burned down, our conversations were all over the place and I made her laugh HARD (to the point that her mom heard that I was funny). She's also yet to block me and some of our mutual friends on social media (which to me isn't indicative of anything), but I've heard that when an Aqua truly wants to burn the bridge, they block people.

Your Aqua had Libra moon and based on my experience on Libra moons they tend to be very deceptive. My Ex Aries had Libra moon and I know when we separated he would string girls along by doing all the works for them, gifts, chocolates, dates, but he was still pursuing me. Telling me he still wanted to try and repair us.

I have also noticed that a lot of Aquas string people along (unintentionally) and make them think that it will lead to something else when in reality they're using them as an emotional blanket. I'm guilty of doing this with my ex but I've left things pretty clear to him that I'm not looking forward to anything else other than a friendship. I know for sure though that if you had my heart, there would be no doubt in my love and loyalty towards you, hence why I was very loyal and loving towards the Leo. Once you have my heart it's nearly impossible to take you out and it will take a lifetime before I can take you out.

... using someone as an emotional blanket? I love the phrase but I didn't think aquas needed them? Do (most) aquas have periods when they need to wrap themselves up in emotions? Emotions they don't really have? Why?

Who says we don't have them? Simply because you never saw that side to us, doesn't mean we don't have emotions. It takes a remarkable person to see that and if you haven't witnessed an Aqua in its vulnerable state, you weren't worthy to begin with.

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Posted by Chuckcem
Hm, the last Aqua I was seeing hasn't tried talking to me for a month now. Granted she was dating her ex the entire time (and still is) and lied about it to both me and our friends, so I'm good with the silence. I walked away from her and haven't tried to contacting since (and don't plan to do so either). The longer the silence lasts the more resolved I feel in the fact that she never actually cared about me. Before everything burned down, our conversations were all over the place and I made her laugh HARD (to the point that her mom heard that I was funny). She's also yet to block me and some of our mutual friends on social media (which to me isn't indicative of anything), but I've heard that when an Aqua truly wants to burn the bridge, they block people.

Your Aqua had Libra moon and based on my experience on Libra moons they tend to be very deceptive. My Ex Aries had Libra moon and I know when we separated he would string girls along by doing all the works for them, gifts, chocolates, dates, but he was still pursuing me. Telling me he still wanted to try and repair us.

I have also noticed that a lot of Aquas string people along (unintentionally) and make them think that it will lead to something else when in reality they're using them as an emotional blanket. I'm guilty of doing this with my ex but I've left things pretty clear to him that I'm not looking forward to anything else other than a friendship. I know for sure though that if you had my heart, there would be no doubt in my love and loyalty towards you, hence why I was very loyal and loving towards the Leo. Once you have my heart it's nearly impossible to take you out and it will take a lifetime before I can take you out.

... using someone as an emotional blanket? I love the phrase but I didn't think aquas needed them? Do (most) aquas have periods when they need to wrap themselves up in emotions? Emotions they don't really have? Why?

Who says we don't have them? Simply because you never saw that side to us, doesn't mean we don't have emotions. It takes a remarkable person to see that and if you haven't witnessed an Aqua in its vulnerable state, you weren't worthy to begin with.

Of course aquas have emotions, everyone does.

I'm sorry if I made it sound like aquas are cold creatures because I don't think they are - quite the opposite actually.

Perhaps I misinterpret the phrase 'emotional blanket'. I understoond it as someone intentionally using another person's emotions to get 'warm' (feel good) Am I wrong? I don't associate that with the aquas I know or known.

Yes and no.

Because an Aquarius takes such a long time to find someone who they can be vulnerable with and be completely comfortable, it's just as hard to let go of that blanket (person). We know that using this blanket might be toxic or not good for us but we will still use it as warmth to help us express those emotions that is so hard for us to show. So once you have broken that wall of vulnerability you will always be an emotional blanket that the Aquarius can use whenever he feels vulnerable. Some are used blankets, some are small, big, used, and new, but we always have that favorite blanket that we always fall back to (our lover) who will be there when we come home and wrap ourselves in it. This blanket however can be replaced with another favorite blanket (new lover) and the old can be placed in a cupboard, safely tucked away until we need it or if we ever need it.

More or less is how an Aquarius operates, at least I do.

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Posted by Yoctapra
So,the point is actually if an aqua man who used to be so sweet n care n excited n checked me up with me now seems not wondering about what im upto anymore that means ok or bad?

you kept asking this same question over and over again.

it's already been answered here multiple times especially by @Compy.

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Posted by Chuckcem
Hm, the last Aqua I was seeing hasn't tried talking to me for a month now. Granted she was dating her ex the entire time (and still is) and lied about it to both me and our friends, so I'm good with the silence. I walked away from her and haven't tried to contacting since (and don't plan to do so either). The longer the silence lasts the more resolved I feel in the fact that she never actually cared about me. Before everything burned down, our conversations were all over the place and I made her laugh HARD (to the point that her mom heard that I was funny). She's also yet to block me and some of our mutual friends on social media (which to me isn't indicative of anything), but I've heard that when an Aqua truly wants to burn the bridge, they block people.

Your Aqua had Libra moon and based on my experience on Libra moons they tend to be very deceptive. My Ex Aries had Libra moon and I know when we separated he would string girls along by doing all the works for them, gifts, chocolates, dates, but he was still pursuing me. Telling me he still wanted to try and repair us.

I have also noticed that a lot of Aquas string people along (unintentionally) and make them think that it will lead to something else when in reality they're using them as an emotional blanket. I'm guilty of doing this with my ex but I've left things pretty clear to him that I'm not looking forward to anything else other than a friendship. I know for sure though that if you had my heart, there would be no doubt in my love and loyalty towards you, hence why I was very loyal and loving towards the Leo. Once you have my heart it's nearly impossible to take you out and it will take a lifetime before I can take you out.

... using someone as an emotional blanket? I love the phrase but I didn't think aquas needed them? Do (most) aquas have periods when they need to wrap themselves up in emotions? Emotions they don't really have? Why?

Who says we don't have them? Simply because you never saw that side to us, doesn't mean we don't have emotions. It takes a remarkable person to see that and if you haven't witnessed an Aqua in its vulnerable state, you weren't worthy to begin with.

Of course aquas have emotions, everyone does.

I'm sorry if I made it sound like aquas are cold creatures because I don't think they are - quite the opposite actually.

Perhaps I misinterpret the phrase 'emotional blanket'. I understoond it as someone intentionally using another person's emotions to get 'warm' (feel good) Am I wrong? I don't associate that with the aquas I know or known.

Yes and no.

Because an Aquarius takes such a long time to find someone who they can be vulnerable with and be completely comfortable, it's just as hard to let go of that blanket (person). We know that using this blanket might be toxic or not good for us but we will still use it as warmth to help us express those emotions that is so hard for us to show. So once you have broken that wall of vulnerability you will always be an emotional blanket that the Aquarius can use whenever he feels vulnerable. Some are used blankets, some are small, big, used, and new, but we always have that favorite blanket that we always fall back to (our lover) who will be there when we come home and wrap ourselves in it. This blanket however can be replaced with another favorite blanket (new lover) and the old can be placed in a cupboard, safely tucked away until we need it or if we ever need it.

More or less is how an Aquarius operates, at least I do.

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Posted by aquarius_beauty
If an Aqua hardly shows any interest in conversations with you it means that you hardly stimulate his mind or that he's run out of things to say. So he will create distance to have something to talk about a couple days later. I have known a lot of guys who have pursued me and they're for the most part very bland in conversation. They always give the same generic questions, how are you? what are you doing? how have you been? Well last time I checked, I was doing fine 5 minutes ago. These guys are hardly creative and are boring in their approach even if I may like them. If they don't step up I usually begin to distance myself and move on to someone else who will be more exciting.

You have to be fun, crazy, spontaneous, and unpredictable in messaging us if you want to keep holding our interest. Make us laugh and you'll win extra brownie points.

Posted by Yoctapra
Well,so for example im a libra woman.i can fel that i and my aqua had fun alots together in the beginning n he said we were good friends,he liked me so much and then as i told the sories he made distance either bcz he just needed space to think about verything or he lose interested with me.after a week without meeting each other n on off comunication we met by coinsidence n then afterwards he texted me n said it was nice to see me again n he invited me for sunset session this week,he sudenly texted me in normal way he used to be in the beginning like nothing happened before with the distance etc .

And then yesterday i texted him first n made initiative to go to sunset session with him on wednesday this week.but then he said he wud be busy doing this n that n didnt tell when we wud actually be available.so i said no worries we cud do it whenever we both are free.And then he plays off again.

Anyways from ur writing before i want to ask if my aqua man is loosing interest with me with whatever reason is that made him made space,now he came back n invite me to do thing together but when i tried to be proactive he seemed pulling away again.did i do something wrong here?im trying to follow his ride,,trying to not doing something that switch him off.

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Posted by saweetz1988


I am here patiently waiting for your first novel 😉 so what qualities in a person that makes an Aqua open up.. what sort of questions r great with this scenario?

Loving, free, a bit aloof, but loyal and committed. Someone who stands their ground and isn't afraid to put us in our place without disrespecting us. You also need time and patience to get us to fully open up. If you don't have the patience to wait months or maybe even a year + then you shouldn't stick around. Every Aqua is different but we're essentially the same.

Based on my observations, I noticed that I tend to open up easily with people who I've built a friendship with and who I can trust. If you can give advice without moral judgment and be sensitive to my emotions without dispelling them then I will gain more trust with you. If I trust you then I will open up more easily to you when you ask questions. Once you ask questions you will get your answers but if you notice that an Aquarius is reluctant to answer or gives you the runaround then that means they don't trust you with such intel. So you will have to continue on building up that rapport with me.

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Posted by saweetz1988


I am here patiently waiting for your first novel 😉 so what qualities in a person that makes an Aqua open up.. what sort of questions r great with this scenario?

Ok

Loving, free, a bit aloof, but loyal and committed. Someone who stands their ground and isn't afraid to put us in our place without disrespecting us. You also need time and patience to get us to fully open up. If you don't have the patience to wait months or maybe even a year + then you shouldn't stick around. Every Aqua is different but we're essentially the same.

Based on my observations, I noticed that I tend to open up easily with people who I've built a friendship with and who I can trust. If you can give advice without moral judgment and be sensitive to my emotions without dispelling them then I will gain more trust with you. If I trust you then I will open up more easily to you when you ask questions. Once you ask questions you will get your answers but if you notice that an Aquarius is reluctant to answer or gives you the runaround then that means they don't trust you with such intel. So you will have to continue on building up that rapport with me.

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Posted by compy


I would add - someone with high morale, constant, more stable emotionally to be able to cope and calm down the restless mind of the Aquarius. And yes, extremely patient to build up a safe cocoon around his rebel soul, to be able to make him relax and ready to open up. And to never break his trust. Be discrete and respect his decisions, even though you may disagree. Tuning is very important, since their timeframe is quite different than ours, but you can get used to that. A difficult mission though 🙂

Got it ! 🙂 thank u

Yes when it comes to matters of the heart we are extremely patient and will wait. Lol I suppose that's why we're FIXED...nice and steady wins the race.

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Posted by saweetz1988


I am here patiently waiting for your first novel 😉 so what qualities in a person that makes an Aqua open up.. what sort of questions r great with this scenario?

Loving, free, a bit aloof, but loyal and committed. Someone who stands their ground and isn't afraid to put us in our place without disrespecting us. You also need time and patience to get us to fully open up. If you don't have the patience to wait months or maybe even a year + then you shouldn't stick around. Every Aqua is different but we're essentially the same.

Based on my observations, I noticed that I tend to open up easily with people who I've built a friendship with and who I can trust. If you can give advice without moral judgment and be sensitive to my emotions without dispelling them then I will gain more trust with you. If I trust you then I will open up more easily to you when you ask questions. Once you ask questions you will get your answers but if you notice that an Aquarius is reluctant to answer or gives you the runaround then that means they don't trust you with such intel. So you will have to continue on building up that rapport with me.

I would add - someone with high morale, constant, more stable emotionally to be able to cope and calm down the restless mind of the Aquarius. And yes, extremely patient to build up a safe cocoon around his rebel soul, to be able to make him relax and ready to open up. And to never break his trust. Be discrete and respect his decisions, even though you may disagree. Tuning is very important, since their timeframe is quite different than ours, but you can get used to that. A difficult mission though 🙂

i liked most your writings about us.

and about that timeframe is spot on!

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Posted by aCuriousGoat


You sure do have a way with words, should you write a novel I'll read it just for that. It's a beautiful illustration but damn it can be tough for a blanket to accept at first.

Does this only apply in love relations? How about other relations such as friendship or family? I'm curious because my mom is sun aqua/moon gem. and I spot something here - not in relation to her children or husband of course, she's fiercely loyal.

I try to be as simple and clear cut as I can be because most people don't understand an Aquarius. It's not easy for us to even express ourselves because half of the stuff we do we don't even know why we do them or what we will even do. So I try to be as objective as I can be and try to simplify it for people who don't understand us because we are complex beings.

Yes it does apply in every emotional connection we have with people. It also has to deal with trust and the amount of trust we have with you. I actually wrote an article about it on my blog; basically we have rings of circles of trust. Certain people who have passed our tests and helped us break that wall have easier access to our vulnerability and emotions. But, if you are the type that doesn't respond kindly or how we wish for you to respond to our vulnerability we will categorize you and filter you out whenever we are going through a particular problem. For example: if I know I can count on you in personal familial matters but not in affairs of the heart (love) then I will only keep you in the loop pertaining to family issues and its effects on me and keep you in the dark about my love life. The way come about this is by testing you and I test you by releasing information to you and 'trusting' you with this information. If you use it against me then I will cast you out and categorize you in a group of limited trust. Based on my experience there's actually only 1-2 people I'd fully trust in telling almost everything too. I mean almost because I don't tell 100% of my life to someone. If I do spill my life 100% then it will be spread around a group of people. So if I tell you my dog died, for example, then I won't tell the other person but I might tell that person that I am in love with my best friend and not tell you.

As far as the loyalty, I am EXTREMELY loyal. When my Leo and I were talking, we weren't exclusive, but I was very loyal to him. I had a crush on this Libra guy who also liked me and we were alone, but never did I touch him or kiss him or let him touch me because that's how loyal I am despite me and the Leo not being official. If my heart belongs to you I will be 150% loyal to you. My heart, soul, and mind will be yours but if you rebuff that or break my heart then I will begin to take some of that back and give you less.

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