How to get her out of her head

How do we get Aquarius women out of their head to focus on the current situation/make decisions/have sex?

The cerebral processing these women do is off the charts.... what are some secrets to get them to live in the moment.

Simp alert🚨

Posted by Ixi

Lol you don't. Getting some hobbies will help to chew up the time while she figures out whatever.

Pretty much this. She has to sort herself out, if that is what she wants. It is in her power after all.

Your control issues are on another level lol.... "she's not getting out of her own way fast enough for me!"

You’ve got to stop trying to control her. Let her process on her own.

This aquarius woman has you down bad. Down terrible, down catastrophically, down cataclysmically.

The chokehold she has on you…

Oh no no no.. I'm not worried about the leeb. the only problem is she told him Sunday she was going back to me, because he kept pressuring/trying to manipulate her to have sex and she kept saying no...and he flipped out... so that started some extra drama. She did tell me he asked to meet up to understand why she's going back and what he did wrong. The truth of the matter is she's already come back... even if its just fwb until everything dies down.

I've literally spent the last 6/7 days with her... we've had sex 5 of those days (Sunday included). like we used to actually. The only problem is she's been initiating the sex.... and I think its more for like make up sex. She doesn't say yes when I ask for it though.... she said it's because she knows I always want IT and because of that there is no reason for me to ask. I'd like to get it when I ask for it too though.

Seriously though, Between her job, sister, mom, school, future career, wanting to be a mom. It's just like how do you live in the moment. It's like you guys are playing chess in your heads by yourself and trying to figure out every right move. how do you think about the present and not 100s of potential outcomes

I was reading ranking charts and Sags rated 2 or 3 for sex drive (Scorps were 1 and cancer was either 2 or 3) and Aquas ranked 11 or 12 for sex drive.... so that's why I added sex because It was saying Aquas are so stuck trying to solve problems sex is an afterthought. so was just curious how to pull them out their thoughts.

Posted by hellosaggy

Seriously though, Between her job, sister, mom, school, future career, wanting to be a mom. It's just like how do you live in the moment.

Are you wanting to be a dad?

Posted by -Capriquarius

Posted by Wizardz2

My Aqua was pretty lowish sex drive, she was more the cuddling type but when we happened to pass by a sex shop and she saw this ball clamp thing she got all touchy feely, strongly hinting that I should wear one.

So if you're willing to go there...

This^ Aquas like kinky stuff. Make it interesting, add new things, do not make it routine.

Also we are sapiosexual. Take her out to some interesting places, do something fun together, not only dinner, take her to exhibition for example then to a bar for drinks to chat about what you guys saw together. It will help her relax.

Take her outdoors for hiking and have sex in woods.

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And here I thought you were gonna keep all your secrets regarding how he can "help" her get out her head all to yourself.

Aquas just can't stop themselves from helping others. It's a nice trait y'all have.

Posted by -Capriquarius

Posted by Wizardz2

My Aqua was pretty lowish sex drive, she was more the cuddling type but when we happened to pass by a sex shop and she saw this ball clamp thing she got all touchy feely, strongly hinting that I should wear one.

So if you're willing to go there...

This^ Aquas like kinky stuff. Make it interesting, add new things, do not make it routine.

Also we are sapiosexual. Take her out to some interesting places, do something fun together, not only dinner, take her to exhibition for example then to a bar for drinks to chat about what you guys saw together. It will help her relax.

Take her outdoors for hiking and have sex in woods.

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She's definitely sapiosexual.... any time I help her with statistics or editing a paper she's ready to pounce.

Posted by -Capriquarius

Posted by hellosaggy

Posted by -Capriquarius

Posted by Wizardz2

My Aqua was pretty lowish sex drive, she was more the cuddling type but when we happened to pass by a sex shop and she saw this ball clamp thing she got all touchy feely, strongly hinting that I should wear one.

So if you're willing to go there...

This^ Aquas like kinky stuff. Make it interesting, add new things, do not make it routine.

Also we are sapiosexual. Take her out to some interesting places, do something fun together, not only dinner, take her to exhibition for example then to a bar for drinks to chat about what you guys saw together. It will help her relax.

Take her outdoors for hiking and have sex in woods.

She's definitely sapiosexual.... any time I help her with statistics or editing a paper she's ready to pounce.

Btw, @ixi idea of having hobbies isn't out of blue. Maybe not for reason to kill time but Aquarius likes people who has their own life and interest they can share with them too 🙂

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most definitely. I have a ton of hobbies... so many that she's taken interest in a lot of them. we teach cycle classes sometimes together, we both hike, I bowl (she's terrible), I play soccer/football, we work out together, we both cook, like to travel. a lot of my hobbies she's taken on and vice-versa... literally best friends. I like when she goes out with friends because I take that time to actually do nothing but watch tv/sports.

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Posted by Wizardz2

My Aqua was pretty lowish sex drive, she was more the cuddling type but when we happened to pass by a sex shop and she saw this ball clamp thing she got all touchy feely, strongly hinting that I should wear one.

So if you're willing to go there...

This^ Aquas like kinky stuff. Make it interesting, add new things, do not make it routine.

Also we are sapiosexual. Take her out to some interesting places, do something fun together, not only dinner, take her to exhibition for example then to a bar for drinks to chat about what you guys saw together. It will help her relax.

Take her outdoors for hiking and have sex in woods.

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This 💯

If she feels pressured to “just have sex” won’t happen!

I have the same problem. Can’t get out of my head. Too interesting in there to get out. Someone’s has got to be interesting enough for us to come out. Teaching the Aqua something new and of interest will definitely bring them out.

Posted by aquarius09

I have the same problem. Can’t get out of my head. Too interesting in there to get out. Someone’s has got to be interesting enough for us to come out. Teaching the Aqua something new and of interest will definitely bring them out.

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