I fink I made an Aqua jealous unintentionally

Here the thing, i've read your other threads. It wasn't unintentional on your part. You have been playing games with this guy for some time. Using other guys to try to stir him into action or jealousy, i get it you want his attention, it's obvious he just isn't as into you as you are into him. As for the jealousy game play, that shit just doesn't work on Aquas, it's fake as fuck and we see right through it. In fact it pisses us off. It's one of the fastest ways to get us to walk away.

Just stop playing games.

Posted by saweetz1988

Posted by justagirl
Here the thing, i've read your other threads. It wasn't unintentional on your part. You have been playing games with this guy for some time. Using other guys to try to stir him into action or jealousy, i get it you want his attention, it's obvious he just isn't as into you as you are into him. As for the jealousy game play, that shit just doesn't work on Aquas, it's fake as fuck and we see right through it. In fact it pisses us off. It's one of the fastest ways to get us to walk away.

Just stop playing games.

I'm not playing game !! He's the one that wanted to remain seeing other people so I'm just doing the same. How's that for playing game. I put that profile coz I thought I looked good. Though u r prob right he might not be as into as I am into him. Thats the one thing u get it right.! I am not playing the stupid game. He's a hyprotcite at times . one day I had to drop my friend off n he's like! R u going to behave? To me that's stupid coz he had no right to say that to me

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Okay let me amend it to say you both are playing games then. One of your other threads was about tagging some other guy and unintentionally making the Aqua jealous... and i believe there might have been another one or you mentioned it in someone elses thread. I might be wrong, i read so many threads on Aquas dudes lol just saying if you are trying to do this stuff to get him to commit, it will backfire.

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Posted by bumboklatt
Pisces moon? Nuff said

Why? What r they like?

entimental, manipulative, erratic at times

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true !

My Aqua is Pisces Moon too. I refrained myself from replying immediately because some people believe that me, being a non-Aqua, have no right to post on this specific section of the forum. But what I know, I know from studying the behavior of my man and from what himself told me so many times. Yes, they say you can see and meet other people, but it's a test. They will watch your every move and hunt down your mistakes. Because if you look away now, you will behave in the same manner in any relationship and they stay away from cheaters and insecure people. They want a steady woman, not one that jumps from bed to bed. They study how fast you are falling for them. It's a piece of cake for them to seduce women. But they will chose that one that has potential for a long term. That can say no to trivial behavior. With high morality, powerful character, clean past (no cheating in the past) and that can actually provide a secure type of attachment, as opposed to the generally avoidand attachment that highly sensitive Aqua people generally seem to develop before they commit.

I read so many similar stories on this forum that I don't even figure out why some people cannot draw their own conclusions from reading existing threads, instead preferring to expose their personal lives, and of their unsuspecting counterparts, on this forum, showing such a degree of insecurity that actually disqualifies them from the start from being good long term partners for Aquarius people. Maturity is the key.

Men and women are genetically programmed to be different, as mammals are. Men are hunters. They are always in search of a female to impregnate her for the continuity of the species, therefore sex is something they can be a lot interested in. Women look for stability and a safe environment to raise their offspring. Therefore, the reasons for "meeting other people" are different in a man's mind as opposed to a woman's mind. There is no real genetic equality between sexes from this point of view. This is a basic psychological approach that has nothing to do with astrological signs. You cannot reciprocate the behavior of a man, being it Aqua or not, and expect to gain his respect/attention/love/commitment, you name it!

Aqua men are the best at testing their partners because they idealize emotions and have extreme difficulties to make a choice, especially when they are 35+. But they are the best teasers as well, until you crack down to pieces and then they can simply leave you there making you wonder what the hell just happened in your life... I know a few "victims" of my Aqua 🙂

I am not advising you anything. You know better what kind of a man you want beside you. Truly knowing and accepting an Aqua is very difficult for a woman that seeks stability and confirmation. Aquas may seem sweet at the beginning, but they pull away and commit extremely slowly afterwards, or never. Mine hasn't committed yet, but he consistently sees me, no longer ghosts me (he did this at the beginning, after the initial "knowing each other" phase), he opens up to me on almost everything that bothers him and he IS my best friend!

But generally and from my own previous experiences, if there is a serious red flag, I stop and look for something more appropriate and closer to my own character. Because only based on similarities a relationship can last. "Opposites attract" is a myth and rarely work on the long term.

And as a parenthesis, I told my Aqua that no one can touch me unless I accept him and my house is a sanctuary that he can only have access to (and to my deliciously addictive cat, too). And I speak of casual touch, not intimate touch. He told me also that only his girlfriend can touch his face, in particular, and his favorite sleeping pill is a face massage that I happily provide 🙂

I am much into Psychology and body language so pretty soon after meeting him I knew what I had to do, because I am genuinely in love with him and I want it to last. I want to build this relationship. But he is like me, even though I am a Libra with a lot of significant air placements and a Sagittarius rising. And Libras are born to love. So I made him open up with a lot of patience and allowed him to take the lead in his own rhythm, but we are talking here about some sort of lookalikes, spiritually speaking. We share the same views. We have a lot of common interests. We have been close for more than one year, no one is seeing other people, even though we keep socializing online. Me, on a more discrete basis, there is no reason for me to stir waters, as I am solely interested in keeping my mind busy with casual talk and from running crazy of too much work or not seeing enough of him. He said he trusted me, I trust him too. We used to meet once or twice a week, but he has only one day off per week that he would wholly spend with me. His program is also impossible, 11-21, but we communicate on a daily basis. Lately he is on medical leave, so all my daily free time is dedicated to him and is still perfect.

We have a very good communication regarding relationship issues, what he likes and dislikes, he is very open now and I like that.

@compy sorry for my snark yesterday.. i was feed up with others speaking for us Aquas.

i have zero issue with people giving opinion based on experiences.. i do have issues with people that make statements that Aquas are like x,y,z and it's stated as fact, not everyone is the same =/ But that still doesnt excuse my snark to you and @brianafay ,for that i am sorry.

Posted by compy
My Aqua is Pisces Moon too. I refrained myself from replying immediately because some people believe that me, being a non-Aqua, have no right to post on this specific section of the forum. But what I know, I know from studying the behavior of my man and from what himself told me so many times. Yes, they say you can see and meet other people, but it's a test. They will watch your every move and hunt down your mistakes. Because if you look away now, you will behave in the same manner in any relationship and they stay away from cheaters and insecure people. They want a steady woman, not one that jumps from bed to bed. They study how fast you are falling for them. It's a piece of cake for them to seduce women. But they will chose that one that has potential for a long term. That can say no to trivial behavior. With high morality, powerful character, clean past (no cheating in the past) and that can actually provide a secure type of attachment, as opposed to the generally avoidand attachment that highly sensitive Aqua people generally seem to develop before they commit.

I read so many similar stories on this forum that I don't even figure out why some people cannot draw their own conclusions from reading existing threads, instead preferring to expose their personal lives, and of their unsuspecting counterparts, on this forum, showing such a degree of insecurity that actually disqualifies them from the start from being good long term partners for Aquarius people. Maturity is the key.

Your observation is spot on accurate!!