I want to regain my friendship.Help Please?

Don't know why the previous threads aren't working.
Sorry,It's a little lengthy. :/ okay,so there is this aqua guy.He is one of those few people who make you realise that you're indeed lucky to have them in your life.I consider him one of the few most amazing humans I have met.I had initially written a post about how I thought I loved this guy and things have messed up and all,how he too began to think he indeed liked me and asked me for a relationship, but no,I realised that I was deluded and took my attraction for love under the influence of many other circumstances,and also screwed up his brain perhaps into thinking it was love,however,now,I'm very very clear about it in my head and have also told him everything about this,no love here.the love scene being eliminated,I cannot deny the fact that I love him as a friend and I attach with my friends very very deeply,being a friend of mine is me giving you the epitome of love and affection I can and the loss of a friend is even worse for me than a break up can be for any individual.I told him all this via mail after about 3-4 months of not talking to each other,(this happened after he proposed to me and we ended up fighting over something although it has happened about 2-3 times when we won't talk for that long because of a fight or something and then he doesn't answer my calls and many days later we talk again)he called me up one day to thank me for wishing him on his birthday.we started talking after that for about 2 weeks.Meanwhile,I don't know why but I just wasn't able to feel connected.I wanted to be honest in my friendship and told him the same.I told him how I would hesitate telling him things that were troubling me in our friendship for the fear of losing him.Talks like this continued for some time when all of a sudden,he said,let's end it.He then explained me why.He said I was too analytical,I didn't understand him,I didn't understand his non verbal talks,I mostly focussed on the words he used to speak than the emotions behind them,he feels he is under constant observation-under a microscope and that,I am trying hard to decipher him,I am just curious about what kind of an individual he is,in his words-'as though I'm a machine,you open it up,see how its made,leave'.Although I told him that It is my nature and I like him because he is a nice guy and not because I'm curious,so he was like,forget about the good human part.He said he tried many a times to make things work between us,but now he has re

He said he has lost interest now and that,with lack of understanding,he doesn't feel connected,and hence our friendship should end.Although in the end He said that I can call him when I have things to tell him,he's not ending contact completely.
I don't want to lose his friendship although I know I'm left with almost no hope anymore.

We only talk over the phone which accounts for the communication gap between us,we rarely meet and when I suggested that we should meet more often to lessen the gap and then maybe I understand him better,he said,one needs to be interested in meeting,he is tired and feels that he should now put no more efforts as there is no point in.Although I feel really really strongly that if we meet,we'll clear out things.

A few days after all this,we had our festival,I wished him via text and he called back and we had a normal 2 min conversation.However, for the past month,I have been unconsciously ignoring him,I don't look at him,etc.However once he tried to joke with me when we were in a lab.I called him after a day but I don't knoe why he was rude again.He said we have one year of college left,he'll be able to survive it somehow but was unsure if I'll be able to do the same.Also,later,he indirectly mentioned the connection thing again,said,it depends on the person how he/she is able to establish connections with other people.

What's on his mind and what should I do?

Also,today,when we had a talk over the phone,he was more normal,however,when I mentioned that I usually get bored with the same hairstyle,he said I always want frequent changes,unlike him,who prefers staying with old things,when I said that I too am attached to my old things,he was like,yeah, but you want changes frequently.

I know it was a remark on me,he's taunting me in every conversation but about what and why?