Is he mad and giving me the silent treatment or is he withdrawing/loosing interest?

Posted by aquarius_beauty
What's your sun sign btw?

Posted by sultrykitty
I think that if you really want him but want to date while he's unavailable, and still want to stay in touch with him, you'll need to keep the other guys out of his consciousness. Like don't be so public with him about it.

Either you're doing it because you're trying to get him to react so that you know where his heart is, or you really aren't aware of the fact that it hurts him to see it openly.

If it's the former, it will backfire. He will fade out regardless of how he really feels. He's in a situation where HE thinks he's restricted from moving forward with you. Nothing you do will change that.

If the latter, just be sensitive to the fact that he may really want to be with you but since he can't, he knows that you'll be dating other guys. He just doesn't want to see it.

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Posted by aquarius_beauty
What's your sun sign btw?

Seriously — Oh dear... Hes def very mad at me then... Still hearing nothing and not even checking my messsages now...... 😢 thats def a double standard thing... So unfair thank you for your explanation though. You r so kind.... !!!! I think you r right...

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I think that if you really want him but want to date while he's unavailable, and still want to stay in touch with him, you'll need to keep the other guys out of his consciousness. Like don't be so public with him about it.

Either you're doing it because you're trying to get him to react so that you know where his heart is, or you really aren't aware of the fact that it hurts him to see it openly.

If it's the former, it will backfire. He will fade out regardless of how he really feels. He's in a situation where HE thinks he's restricted from moving forward with you. Nothing you do will change that.

If the latter, just be sensitive to the fact that he may really want to be with you but since he can't, he knows that you'll be dating other guys. He just doesn't want to see it.

I was being very insensitive to the public post. It wasnt a flrt just telling my friend to have strawberry instead of pancake next time. N yes i think that hurts him if he did c it ..... 😢 .. They r also friends lol ... I dont think he jnows that me n my friend have slept together..... I deleted my reply on fb but maybe hes seen it.... oh man..... Im not doing it to make him jealous at all.. The orher day my friend asked me to drop him off.. So i said yes...😢 ... In this case should i call him n see whats halpening ? I never call or shud i wait for him to come around? Hopefully he wil....

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Posted by aquarius_beauty
What's your sun sign btw?

Seriously — Oh dear... Hes def very mad at me then... Still hearing nothing and not even checking my messsages now...... 😢 thats def a double standard thing... So unfair thank you for your explanation though. You r so kind.... !!!! I think you r right...

Taurus with moon in aqua n venus in gem. Hes aqua with moon in pisces n venus in pisces

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Posted by aquarius_beauty
What's your sun sign btw?

Seriously — Oh dear... Hes def very mad at me then... Still hearing nothing and not even checking my messsages now...... 😢 thats def a double standard thing... So unfair thank you for your explanation though. You r so kind.... !!!! I think you r right...

Taurus with moon in aqua n venus in gem. Hes aqua with moon in pisces n venus in pisces

What's his mars?

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I think that if you really want him but want to date while he's unavailable, and still want to stay in touch with him, you'll need to keep the other guys out of his consciousness. Like don't be so public with him about it.

Either you're doing it because you're trying to get him to react so that you know where his heart is, or you really aren't aware of the fact that it hurts him to see it openly.

If it's the former, it will backfire. He will fade out regardless of how he really feels. He's in a situation where HE thinks he's restricted from moving forward with you. Nothing you do will change that.

If the latter, just be sensitive to the fact that he may really want to be with you but since he can't, he knows that you'll be dating other guys. He just doesn't want to see it.

I shud have waited ... The texts we just had was pretty confronting though i tnought it was nessary... If he cares he will work at our issues n dfferences if not i know where i stand.....

I was being very insensitive to the public post. It wasnt a flrt just telling my friend to have strawberry instead of pancake next time. N yes i think that hurts him if he did c it ..... 😢 .. They r also friends lol ... I dont think he jnows that me n my friend have slept together..... I deleted my reply on fb but maybe hes seen it.... oh man..... Im not doing it to make him jealous at all.. The orher day my friend asked me to drop him off.. So i said yes...😢 ... In this case should i call him n see whats halpening ? I never call or shud i wait for him to come around? Hopefully he wil....

It's a tough situation to be in for both of you.

If your only opportunity to communicate is thru text, I wouldn't mention it to him. Just let it go and after a while just contact him casually, like a friend. If he brings it up, suggest a phone or Skype conversation (or face to face if possible). Text is not the right medium.

I think there's going to be a period of adjustment for both of you, to figure out how (or if) your friendship can be maintained with this separation.

I think it's one of those "if it's meant to be, it will be" sort of things. You may not even have to be in contact for it to happen after he's done with what he has to do right now. The ideal would be that you can continue to be close friends while he's away, but it might be too hard for either/both of you. Either you'll move on, or you'll get together when the time is right.

I sense that you care for each other quite a bit; timing really is a bitch sometimes. 😢

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U r right i should have waited a bit though i wont say its as bad or as emotional as a normal weater sign or a leo kind of anger lol.. I discussed the issues n thr differences without beinf too emotional about it, i hope its ok.. I was really mad though..

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U r right i should have waited a bit though i wont say its as bad or as emotional as a normal weater sign or a leo kind of anger lol.. I discussed the issues n thr differences without beinf too emotional about it, i hope its ok.. I was really mad though..

I'm sure it's OK, like I said, you're both trying to figure out this new relating you have to do.

You DO realize that what you want can't happen now, right?

I know that the Aqua, no matter how he feels, will want you to be happy. That doesn’t mean you have to completely walk away; you can maintain a friendship or let it go for 7 months (you can check in on each other once in a while) and then reconnect when he's free and see if you still feel the same way about each other.

I think how this goes is going to be completely up to you and how you handle this situation.

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U r right i should have waited a bit though i wont say its as bad or as emotional as a normal weater sign or a leo kind of anger lol.. I discussed the issues n thr differences without beinf too emotional about it, i hope its ok.. I was really mad though..

I'm sure it's OK, like I said, you're both trying to figure out this new relating you have to do.

You DO realize that what you want can't happen now, right?

I know that the Aqua, no matter how he feels, will want you to be happy. That doesn’t mean you have to completely walk away; you can maintain a friendship or let it go for 7 months (you can check in on each other once in a while) and then reconnect when he's free and see if you still feel the same way about each other.

I think how this goes is going to be completely up to you and how you handle this situation.

Thank you so much u r right....😢 he always says he wants me to be happy and I say the same to him.. that's why I think me pulling away will b the best for both of us. I told him I don't wanna be the nagging girl whiles he's trying to finish his goals... he says I won't though I noe I will because he won't have time for me.. it's already showing and leading that way.. I don't want us to go down he'll just because of the situation... I need to try and be his friends when I start dating other people n when I think I am ready to just b his friends 😢i don't know though... I am black n white n he is so grey.. I don't know if he will ever understand me n if I will ever understand him... we both care about each other a lot and you r very right about that... hopefully in 7 onths we will connect again... right now I need to let this go ..😢 (sad)

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U r right i should have waited a bit though i wont say its as bad or as emotional as a normal weater sign or a leo kind of anger lol.. I discussed the issues n thr differences without beinf too emotional about it, i hope its ok.. I was really mad though..

I'm sure it's OK, like I said, you're both trying to figure out this new relating you have to do.

You DO realize that what you want can't happen now, right?

I know that the Aqua, no matter how he feels, will want you to be happy. That doesn’t mean you have to completely walk away; you can maintain a friendship or let it go for 7 months (you can check in on each other once in a while) and then reconnect when he's free and see if you still feel the same way about each other.

I think how this goes is going to be completely up to you and how you handle this situation.

Thank you so much u r right....😢 he always says he wants me to be happy and I say the same to him.. that's why I think me pulling away will b the best for both of us. I told him I don't wanna be the nagging girl whiles he's trying to finish his goals... he says I won't though I noe I will because he won't have time for me.. it's already showing and leading that way.. I don't want us to go down he'll just because of the situation... I need to try and be his friends when I start dating other people n when I think I am ready to just b his friends 😢i don't know though... I am black n white n he is so grey.. I don't know if he will ever understand me n if I will ever understand him... we both care about each other a lot and you r very right about that... hopefully in 7 onths we will connect again... right now I need to let this go ..😢 (sad)

(((hugs)))

It's sad now, but it will work out for the best. He may be gray just because his life is so busy right now. If he loves you, that won't change and if the time is right, he will let you know and it will be black and white.

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He sounds really passive aggressive.

just like your Aqua man hehe

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Aquas are actually quite traditional when it comes to love. The men and women can be extremely picky with who they chose to commit to. They have these ideals of what love is supposed to be and they will judge you based on those ideals. If you don't meet those standards then they will check you off their prospect list and move on. The only people who are exempt from this are people who they already have feelings for, but usually they already have passed most of these tests. I say most because Aquas can have unrealistic ideals because they want love just like everyone else and sometimes fantasize how their love life should be rather than stick to realistic standards.

The men as I said, are extremely picky and most come off to me as a bit sexist. Not sexist in the sense where they don't believe everyone deserves equal rights, but more so when it comes to female to male human behavior. Think of the double standard here. An Aqua male can openly flirt with other females but you on the other hand cant. He will label you easy, slutty, or a little too available which will be off putting. An Aqua wants to commit to a lady, and gentleman respectively, and his lady must be respectable by all.

In his mind, he has two justifications that to you may seem unfair. One he is a man and two, he's selfish. He wants to date around but he wants you to remain pure for him if he chooses to be with you. It's unfair but with Aquas if you ever want an opportunity with them, but keep your options open, you will have to date around behind their backs and hope they never find out. Because not only will he be turned off, he will also not chase after you. Aquarius aren't known for chasing after a woman, especially a woman who isn't special enough in his eyes to be selective with her dating prospects. In other words he can be quite the hypocrite.

sexist, selfish and hypocrite 😱

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Posted by boxcarmirnta
He sounds really passive aggressive.

just like your Aqua man hehe

He is actually. Even like that in bed. Hahaha

just lying there like a sack of potatoes? lol

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U r right i should have waited a bit though i wont say its as bad or as emotional as a normal weater sign or a leo kind of anger lol.. I discussed the issues n thr differences without beinf too emotional about it, i hope its ok.. I was really mad though..

I'm sure it's OK, like I said, you're both trying to figure out this new relating you have to do.

You DO realize that what you want can't happen now, right?

I know that the Aqua, no matter how he feels, will want you to be happy. That doesn’t mean you have to completely walk away; you can maintain a friendship or let it go for 7 months (you can check in on each other once in a while) and then reconnect when he's free and see if you still feel the same way about each other.

I think how this goes is going to be completely up to you and how you handle this situation.

Thank you so much u r right....😢 he always says he wants me to be happy and I say the same to him.. that's why I think me pulling away will b the best for both of us. I told him I don't wanna be the nagging girl whiles he's trying to finish his goals... he says I won't though I noe I will because he won't have time for me.. it's already showing and leading that way.. I don't want us to go down he'll just because of the situation... I need to try and be his friends when I start dating other people n when I think I am ready to just b his friends 😢i don't know though... I am black n white n he is so grey.. I don't know if he will ever understand me n if I will ever understand him... we both care about each other a lot and you r very right about that... hopefully in 7 onths we will connect again... right now I need to let this go ..😢 (sad)

(((hugs)))

It's sad now, but it will work out for the best. He may be gray just because his life is so busy right now. If he loves you, that won't change and if the time is right, he will let you know and it will be black and white.

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U r right i should have waited a bit though i wont say its as bad or as emotional as a normal weater sign or a leo kind of anger lol.. I discussed the issues n thr differences without beinf too emotional about it, i hope its ok.. I was really mad though..

I'm sure it's OK, like I said, you're both trying to figure out this new relating you have to do.

You DO realize that what you want can't happen now, right?

I know that the Aqua, no matter how he feels, will want you to be happy. That doesn’t mean you have to completely walk away; you can maintain a friendship or let it go for 7 months (you can check in on each other once in a while) and then reconnect when he's free and see if you still feel the same way about each other.

I think how this goes is going to be completely up to you and how you handle this situation.

Thank you so much u r right....😢 he always says he wants me to be happy and I say the same to him.. that's why I think me pulling away will b the best for both of us. I told him I don't wanna be the nagging girl whiles he's trying to finish his goals... he says I won't though I noe I will because he won't have time for me.. it's already showing and leading that way.. I don't want us to go down he'll just because of the situation... I need to try and be his friends when I start dating other people n when I think I am ready to just b his friends 😢i don't know though... I am black n white n he is so grey.. I don't know if he will ever understand me n if I will ever understand him... we both care about each other a lot and you r very right about that... hopefully in 7 onths we will connect again... right now I need to let this go ..😢 (sad)

(((hugs)))

It's sad now, but it will work out for the best. He may be gray just because his life is so busy right now. If he loves you, that won't change and if the time is right, he will let you know and it will be black and white.

I can't just let this go... we r still seeing each other. Is that bad?

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so today i asked him how his night was / as usual..we talk and chat and he replies almost every time he's read my message.. i haven't heard from him... 6 hours later i sent a question mark...he read it and said nothing... so it got me thinking, wait a min, is he upset with me?

one reason could be that i posted a photo of my home made pancake on fb, one of my fwb guy commented and said that he can't have it coz he's allergic to banana, so i commented back saying... you can have strawberry next time instead....

so, the other night, i had to drive this guy home... ( the aqua man ) didn't really like the idea and asked me to behave !! ,,,later for him to apologise to me because he was acting all protective even though we r not exclusive and he is or was still trying to get his luck with other girls..so i told him he had no right to say that to me really...

anyway, today i heard nothing from him..and it got me thinking of it was because of my post...

is that something u wood do if u were jealous aquarius ? silence? lol... i asked him if he's upset at me and he hasn't read that yet.. if he was truly upset, would he admit it ?

or am i over thinking? or is he just loosing interest? i'm confused..

i told him , i'm already starting to date other guys because our situation isn't allowing for us to be together or whatever his excuses are..as i didn't think it was fair he was trying his luck with other girls and i was loyal to him..for no reason.. lol.. he says he cares but he can't tell me what to do etc etc..

anyway, maybe he's pulling bak because i'm chatting and dating other people now?

anyone AQUA been in this situation ? ..

thank you so much ! I'm sorry,, a bit lost as to what to do to be honest...

and correction i have not been or kissed another guy since him yet ( just chatting and organising dates to who i think might be worth it ) though i really like this aqua man who's reluctant for exclusiveness..i think every girls and guys here r having the same problem with aqua though hahah

.. i only saw him 1 week ago.. by the way, i'm not so sure, what is the best way to move forward...

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Posted by boxcarmirnta
He sounds really passive aggressive.

just like your Aqua man hehe

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Posted by boxcarmirnta
He sounds really passive aggressive.

just like your Aqua man hehe

He is actually. Even like that in bed. Hahaha

just lying there like a sack of potatoes? lol

No complete opposite. It's like sometimes hes extremely passionate n plesss me in all level.. n sometimes he's just adventurous and very dominant in bed lol.. like he has mixed personalities... sometimes Aqua and sometimes Pisces... mixed together in one act... hahahha I'm similar though but I'm more predictable...

he sounds like me lol

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So it sounds like you're still in the same town but he just doesn't have a lot of time to invest in your relationship?

If that's the case, then yeah. See him when you can, and enjoy your time alone (or with others) when you can't.

That's nothing. I did that for 5 years with my Aqua. It wasn't conflict free but it didn’t brrak us up (until I got tired of it and went no contact).

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so today i asked him how his night was / as usual..we talk and chat and he replies almost every time he's read my message.. i haven't heard from him... 6 hours later i sent a question mark...he read it and said nothing... so it got me thinking, wait a min, is he upset with me?

one reason could be that i posted a photo of my home made pancake on fb, one of my fwb guy commented and said that he can't have it coz he's allergic to banana, so i commented back saying... you can have strawberry next time instead....

so, the other night, i had to drive this guy home... ( the aqua man ) didn't really like the idea and asked me to behave !! ,,,later for him to apologise to me because he was acting all protective even though we r not exclusive and he is or was still trying to get his luck with other girls..so i told him he had no right to say that to me really...

anyway, today i heard nothing from him..and it got me thinking of it was because of my post...

is that something u wood do if u were jealous aquarius ? silence? lol... i asked him if he's upset at me and he hasn't read that yet.. if he was truly upset, would he admit it ?

or am i over thinking? or is he just loosing interest? i'm confused..

i told him , i'm already starting to date other guys because our situation isn't allowing for us to be together or whatever his excuses are..as i didn't think it was fair he was trying his luck with other girls and i was loyal to him..for no reason.. lol.. he says he cares but he can't tell me what to do etc etc..

anyway, maybe he's pulling bak because i'm chatting and dating other people now?

anyone AQUA been in this situation ? ..

thank you so much ! I'm sorry,, a bit lost as to what to do to be honest...

and correction i have not been or kissed another guy since him yet ( just chatting and organising dates to who i think might be worth it ) though i really like this aqua man who's reluctant for exclusiveness..i think every girls and guys here r having the same problem with aqua though hahah

.. i only saw him 1 week ago.. by the way, i'm not so sure, what is the best way to move forward...

Too many guys... focus on one at a time. Trust me, it's not worth losing the one you ❤️

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Posted by boxcarmirnta
He sounds really passive aggressive.

just like your Aqua man hehe

He is actually. Even like that in bed. Hahaha

just lying there like a sack of potatoes? lol

No complete opposite. It's like sometimes hes extremely passionate n plesss me in all level.. n sometimes he's just adventurous and very dominant in bed lol.. like he has mixed personalities... sometimes Aqua and sometimes Pisces... mixed together in one act... hahahha I'm similar though but I'm more predictable...

he sounds like me lol

Hahha it's good actually I'm not complaint. What's your plasment?

aqua sun and moon.

pisces venus and mars

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Posted by boxcarmirnta
He sounds really passive aggressive.

just like your Aqua man hehe

He is actually. Even like that in bed. Hahaha

just lying there like a sack of potatoes? lol

No complete opposite. It's like sometimes hes extremely passionate n plesss me in all level.. n sometimes he's just adventurous and very dominant in bed lol.. like he has mixed personalities... sometimes Aqua and sometimes Pisces... mixed together in one act... hahahha I'm similar though but I'm more predictable...

he sounds like me lol

Hahha it's good actually I'm not complaint. What's your plasment?

aqua sun and moon.

pisces venus and mars

Hahah that must've the Venus placements...!! To be honest how much he tries to please me in bed is impressive though in the morning not so much lol. He can spent over n hour trying just before work n as soon as I say it won't happen he just go completely flat n u noe his thingy just lol go flat... I asked him about it this morning he says my pleasure is his pleasure... I'm just not a morning person when will he not take that personally lol

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He sounds really passive aggressive.

just like your Aqua man hehe

Nope mines just a straight up asshole.

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So it sounds like you're still in the same town but he just doesn't have a lot of time to invest in your relationship?

If that's the case, then yeah. See him when you can, and enjoy your time alone (or with others) when you can't.

That's nothing. I did that for 5 years with my Aqua. It wasn't conflict free but it didn’t brrak us up (until I got tired of it and went no contact).

Thank u for understanding !!🙂 you r too kind... u did that didn't u? Wait were u the one that was with him (Aqua) for 10 years— I come across many leo guy on the app though I havnt been with any yet ! To be honest, I don't even really have time to date I'm too busy hehehe...

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So it sounds like you're still in the same town but he just doesn't have a lot of time to invest in your relationship?

If that's the case, then yeah. See him when you can, and enjoy your time alone (or with others) when you can't.

That's nothing. I did that for 5 years with my Aqua. It wasn't conflict free but it didn’t brrak us up (until I got tired of it and went no contact).

Thank u for understanding !!🙂 you r too kind... u did that didn't u? Wait were u the one that was with him (Aqua) for 10 years— I come across many leo guy on the app though I havnt been with any yet ! To be honest, I don't even really have time to date I'm too busy hehehe...

Well, 10 years before he said the "3 words", lol.

We've been together for 28 now, and we still don't spend a ton of time together like some other couples do. But we're both air dominant and he has more earth than your Aqua (Taurus moon and Cap mercury, Virgo rising). We both like the security of a relationship but enjoy our own personal time a lot.

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So it sounds like you're still in the same town but he just doesn't have a lot of time to invest in your relationship?

If that's the case, then yeah. See him when you can, and enjoy your time alone (or with others) when you can't.

That's nothing. I did that for 5 years with my Aqua. It wasn't conflict free but it didn’t brrak us up (until I got tired of it and went no contact).

Thank u for understanding !!🙂 you r too kind... u did that didn't u? Wait were u the one that was with him (Aqua) for 10 years— I come across many leo guy on the app though I havnt been with any yet ! To be honest, I don't even really have time to date I'm too busy hehehe...

Well, 10 years before he said the "3 words", lol.

We've been together for 28 now, and we still don't spend a ton of time together like some other couples do. But we're both air dominant and he has more earth than your Aqua (Taurus moon and Cap mercury, Virgo rising). We both like the security of a relationship but enjoy our own personal time a lot.

Wow 10 years to I love you. Wow you guys sound a lot like me. Like the security though enjoy the alone time !! what are your placements and what's his Venus? Wow I admire you!! Need to learn from the experience. That would be nice if my story ends up like that.. just going to enjoy the flow

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He sounds really passive aggressive.

just like your Aqua man hehe

Nope mines just a straight up asshole.

lol you guys fighting again?

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So it sounds like you're still in the same town but he just doesn't have a lot of time to invest in your relationship?

If that's the case, then yeah. See him when you can, and enjoy your time alone (or with others) when you can't.

That's nothing. I did that for 5 years with my Aqua. It wasn't conflict free but it didn’t brrak us up (until I got tired of it and went no contact).

Thank u for understanding !!🙂 you r too kind... u did that didn't u? Wait were u the one that was with him (Aqua) for 10 years— I come across many leo guy on the app though I havnt been with any yet ! To be honest, I don't even really have time to date I'm too busy hehehe...

Well, 10 years before he said the "3 words", lol.

We've been together for 28 now, and we still don't spend a ton of time together like some other couples do. But we're both air dominant and he has more earth than your Aqua (Taurus moon and Cap mercury, Virgo rising). We both like the security of a relationship but enjoy our own personal time a lot.

Wow 10 years to I love you. Wow you guys sound a lot like me. Like the security though enjoy the alone time !! what are your placements and what's his Venus? Wow I admire you!! Need to learn from the experience. That would be nice if my story ends up like that.. just going to enjoy the flow

Me: Leo sun, cap moon, Libra venus, Virgo mercury, Leo mars

Him: Aqua sun, Taurus moon, Aqua venus, Cap mercury, Aries mars.

Our "issues" (together and individually) probably kept things from progressing nicely. I was too clingy and jealous, he was too stubborn and independent. So we had lots of misunderstandings and general clashes. It could have turned out much differently if we had made different choices.

Honestly it's kind of like it's fate that we're together because by any normal standard we probably wouldn't be. 😛

But it's good, and we are good together, when all is said and done.

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Posted by boxcarmirnta
He sounds really passive aggressive.

just like your Aqua man hehe

Nope mines just a straight up asshole.

lol you guys fighting again?

I guess so...he has "ghosted" me again for bizarre reasons, so if he comes back ever i prolly won't even bother taking him back this time. Aquas STOP DOING THIS to people! It's shite.

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Posted by saweetz1988

Posted by boxcarmirnta

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Posted by Nepturanus

Posted by boxcarmirnta
He sounds really passive aggressive.

just like your Aqua man hehe

Nope mines just a straight up asshole.

lol you guys fighting again?

I guess so...he has "ghosted" me again for bizarre reasons, so if he comes back ever i prolly won't even bother taking him back this time. Aquas STOP DOING THIS to people! It's shite.

eleborate, what exactly happen?

i think aqua r actually very sensitive and sometimes they expect us to just KNOW it without them telling us about it...

kind of like * if u were smart and really do love me , u would know why i'm upset * kind of thing.

i think mine has a hard time expressing his true feelings coz maybe those r very unfamiliar to him and he tries so hard to not feel those things... ( aqua moon of mine understands that )

so lately i just tell him...if this is happening because of this and he agrees...

go with ur gut, and try 2 get him if u want this to work..

maybe something u did upset him..though he won't tell u..ever

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Posted by sultrykitty
@saweetz1988

Exactly. We have both grown so much by sticking it out. I can't ever imagine my life without him in it.

I'm pretty laid back about attention but when we're together, I want it undivided. He's usually got 2 or 3 things running in his mind and I don't often feel like he's 100% with me. But he wants me "there". My presence is all he needs, and a little conversation.



I'm bossy, but he just laughs and does what he wants anyway. It used to be a problem for us, but now we both laugh when I get uppity with him. He calls me on it a lot. I used to try to dominate but that didn't work out so well.

I think the biggest thing with Aquas is that they want to be understood. Few people really get why they do what they do, and fewer are patient enough to find out. Unfortunately for those who DO understand, it means we have to give up on a lot of traditional thinking. They just do things differently than anyone else and in the end the rest of the world has to fit into their mold, not the other way around, or you're out.

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Posted by sultrykitty
@saweetz1988

Exactly. We have both grown so much by sticking it out. I can't ever imagine my life without him in it.

I'm pretty laid back about attention but when we're together, I want it undivided. He's usually got 2 or 3 things running in his mind and I don't often feel like he's 100% with me. But he wants me "there". My presence is all he needs, and a little conversation.



I'm bossy, but he just laughs and does what he wants anyway. It used to be a problem for us, but now we both laugh when I get uppity with him. He calls me on it a lot. I used to try to dominate but that didn't work out so well.

I think the biggest thing with Aquas is that they want to be understood. Few people really get why they do what they do, and fewer are patient enough to find out. Unfortunately for those who DO understand, it means we have to give up on a lot of traditional thinking. They just do things differently than anyone else and in the end the rest of the world has to fit into their mold, not the other way around, or you're out.

I understand mine too, aqua moon as well..the problem is he doesnt reciprocate...he SAYS all these things and then he doesnt act on them. Talk is cheap ive been as understanding as i can be. It has to be reciprocal. Id be willing to do anything for him but he has to show me he wikl too. Does he do for you what you do for him? I like that they think outside the box..so do i and wouldnt have it any other way.

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