Is it time to forget my aquarius ex?

Basically, we broke up 3 months ago after spending 2 and a half years together. It was not mutual because even though I was feeling him a bit off a few months prior, I thought we could figure out what was the issue in our relationship.

To keep everything here, on July his mom got very sick and had to stay at the hospital. During that time I was going on and off between jobs because I kept getting fires, so things weren't that great for me as well but I still wanted to be by his side and give him support.

Later he and his brother find out that she was in a huge debt and that kinda messed up the relationship between his brother and his girlfriend with their mom.

He's very close to her and pretty much do whatever she asks, so when she got out of the hospital, he took charge of the work and stopped having time for me. I understood my still made me feel bad.

When he broke up with me, I asked him what was the reason and he told me that he just stopped loving me when a few weeks before, told him that we should take a break on contacting each other because of our issues (mine was that, I suffer from depression and anxiety and with how things were going on my work and family environment, I wanted to save our relationship from my struggles and bad thoughts).

Since then, I tried to contact him some times on the first month and apologize if I ever made him feel bad about something. We talked a bit but the conversations were always iniciated by me. The only time he ever text me first was on my b-day, since then he never made an effort to talk and I got tired.

Even though I feel much better with myself now, I can't stop thinking about him from time to time. I just feel like since we were each others first relationship and we shared a lot of deep and personal things, he would be more considered out our relationship even as a friend since he agreed to it.

Should I really stop focuse on other things or should I just wait for him to contact me again.

Sorry if it's to confusing, even I don't what's the more important parts to this story since I keep nip tucking everything.

I'm a libra (25) and he's a aquarius (23).

I don't know any ascendents or moon signs.

@aquarius_man @compy

When you told him to take a break, this was a blow for him, because he felt rejected or even abandoned when he was also dealing with family issues and he needed your support the most. You shouldn't have done that. He got you out of his love department. If you can stay friends, it's good, but I doubt this can reverse to a relationship once more. A hurt Aquarius has too much to deal with pain (from you and from the loss of his mother) to be able to develop new feelings. He needs time now.

You already apologized, he got the message, but don't expect any answer if he is not ready to give you one, yet. Stay friendly or move on, but forget about the relationship for now and allow him to remember the good parts of your life together. If you keep bringing this up, you could annoy him more.

my aqua bff always told me

“if it’s meant to be, it will be.”

it got me through tough breakups. it’s like that shimmer of hope, but for me it allowed me to continue on with new people and new interests. not sure why, but it’s easier to hold onto words like that. hopeful but true. if it’s not meant to be, then you’ll never see him again. that may not be a bad thing though. there is a world out there you have yet to explore and many people out there you have yet to meet.

I just don’t think he wants to deal with allllllll of your problems when he has so many of his own right now. It’s too much baggage. He doesn’t find you worth the hassle.