im curious how aquarian girls handle there virgo guy. its my first time to meet virgo guy.
Is there an Aqua girl with Virgo guy couple here?

Im currently dating a cancer man. I was with a virgo for thirteen years. Ultimately, I needed someone with alot more passion then he was capable of. He was way too earthy for me. Or, I might have been too much air for him. I was up dreaming and in the clouds.....and he was grounded and rooted to the Earth. Thats just my experience though.
y'know, if...(i'm on a libra-to-be-fair roll) it must be the aries moon day. lol
merging with the moon.
if...it were a libra board, all signs would be paired with every sign, just for the fairness.
merging with the moon.
if...it were a libra board, all signs would be paired with every sign, just for the fairness.
Posted by coldwater
Im currently dating a cancer man. I was with a virgo for thirteen years. Ultimately, I needed someone with alot more passion then he was capable of. He was way too earthy for me. Or, I might have been too much air for him. I was up dreaming and in the clouds.....and he was grounded and rooted to the Earth. Thats just my experience though.
wow! 13 years is long! what happen? i read that VIRGOS are kinda slow in terms of love commitment. but i believe that you know a virgo sign, coz of your experience.
Well the reason i asked coz, i met this virgo guy, and i dont know whtas going on. We've been seeing and communicating to each other for 4 months now. and i dunno whats our situation. we travel together, we had sex, we spend quality time together like, bicycling, travelling etc. we never see each other often coz his work most of the time is out of country, everytime his in our country he make sure we get chance to see each other.
I enjoy being with him. i dont get bored, we talked n laugh lot. BUT there are times i dont feel him. means no text,nothing. i just let him be like that. i wont message as well then after 2 days he will back to circulation again.in short, i let the situation flow without asking him.
ANYWAY, the situation only complicates me, when we went out of the country to travel, in the middle of silence while walking he suddenly told me i am his girlfriend. and i said "no, im not your girlfriend" and he said "yes you are" i dunno what to say, i cant react further. i was paralyze at the moment. LOL!
NOW, his not here, but we communicate. And I DONT KNOW WHAT WE ARE...
Is he just joking at me? we're not young for this, his 36 n im 28.

Yes thirteen years was a long time. He had a scorpio venus and a cancer moon so you think the emotions would have been flowing. He was just too closed off. When we met, we just sort of fell together from that day on. He would have still been with me. He would have never left if it wasnt for me. I didnt want to spend the next thirteen years being polite.
WIth my experience with virgos when they say something they usually mean it. If he feels that your his gf, then he prob really means it. Just pay attention and make sure his action match his words. I am not sure about the long distance thing though. I am not sure how a virgo man would handle such a thing. I know he would have needed constant contact. That might have been his venus sign though.
WIth my experience with virgos when they say something they usually mean it. If he feels that your his gf, then he prob really means it. Just pay attention and make sure his action match his words. I am not sure about the long distance thing though. I am not sure how a virgo man would handle such a thing. I know he would have needed constant contact. That might have been his venus sign though.
Posted by coldwater
Yes thirteen years was a long time. He had a scorpio venus and a cancer moon so you think the emotions would have been flowing. He was just too closed off. When we met, we just sort of fell together from that day on. He would have still been with me. He would have never left if it wasnt for me. I didnt want to spend the next thirteen years being polite.
WIth my experience with virgos when they say something they usually mean it. If he feels that your his gf, then he prob really means it. Just pay attention and make sure his action match his words. I am not sure about the long distance thing though. I am not sure how a virgo man would handle such a thing. I know he would have needed constant contact. That might have been his venus sign though.
his an old fashion guy. his kinda hate clubbing,he wants simple girl. i know coz when i asked him about his ex's he always complain being materialistic. He usually take me to places he usually go. Communication? once in a while a do tex him. i dont want to initiate. i am not sure what he thinks of me. Sometimes when his doing his job i feel like i cant disturb him. i dont want to invest any deep feelings unless i know where i stand.
i dont his moon signs i know his september 14 1976.what is the moon sign for that?.

The moon sign can sometimes change based on the time of birth. To get the most accurate one I think u need the time of birth if you know it.
go to www.cafeastrology.com and do a natal chart...its free. Plug in his location of birth and the other info and it will give you his chart.
go to www.cafeastrology.com and do a natal chart...its free. Plug in his location of birth and the other info and it will give you his chart.
Posted by coldwater
The moon sign can sometimes change based on the time of birth. To get the most accurate one I think u need the time of birth if you know it.
go to www.cafeastrology.com and do a natal chart...its free. Plug in his location of birth and the other info and it will give you his chart.
thanks. i will go to that site.
ANYWAY, Now his
not messaging again.😢 and if i dont message him, he will message me. WEIRD..

A relationship across countries has got to be a tough one. I am sure he sees you as a good friend and prob does like you. However, what are his needs in this as it being a long distance relationship? Does he have relationship customs? Is this something he would even want on a deeper level because of the distance? How would you go about having a relationship?
Virgos are practical and analyze things alot. Im sure he has already gone over in his mind if this would be feasible or not for him. He might be having fun now, but what about the long term possibilities? With them being a earth sign, they seem to be grounded and well it might take alot for him to even progress because hes done the math in his head.
You being a aquarian are moreso mental. The distance prob would not bother you so much as you might believe all things are possible. We tend to walk to a different beat, and I as a aquarian would never limit myself by such a small thing like distance. Not sure if this fits you, but with this placement it opens up endless possibilities, dreaming and an intense dislike of boxing oneself in. We tend to like our freedom.
In other words....the romance aside...I would see what his interests are in a long distance relationship. If he is thinking of the practical applications and you are more so thinking anything is possible, then its best to find out sooner than later. This will give you the best possible start here.
My virgo and I always saw things differently. Just sharing from personal experience. I would always say...you on FM and Im on AM.
Virgos are practical and analyze things alot. Im sure he has already gone over in his mind if this would be feasible or not for him. He might be having fun now, but what about the long term possibilities? With them being a earth sign, they seem to be grounded and well it might take alot for him to even progress because hes done the math in his head.
You being a aquarian are moreso mental. The distance prob would not bother you so much as you might believe all things are possible. We tend to walk to a different beat, and I as a aquarian would never limit myself by such a small thing like distance. Not sure if this fits you, but with this placement it opens up endless possibilities, dreaming and an intense dislike of boxing oneself in. We tend to like our freedom.
In other words....the romance aside...I would see what his interests are in a long distance relationship. If he is thinking of the practical applications and you are more so thinking anything is possible, then its best to find out sooner than later. This will give you the best possible start here.
My virgo and I always saw things differently. Just sharing from personal experience. I would always say...you on FM and Im on AM.
Posted by coldwater
A relationship across countries has got to be a tough one. I am sure he sees you as a good friend and prob does like you. However, what are his needs in this as it being a long distance relationship? Does he have relationship customs? Is this something he would even want on a deeper level because of the distance? How would you go about having a relationship?
Virgos are practical and analyze things alot. Im sure he has already gone over in his mind if this would be feasible or not for him. He might be having fun now, but what about the long term possibilities? With them being a earth sign, they seem to be grounded and well it might take alot for him to even progress because hes done the math in his head.
You being a aquarian are moreso mental. The distance prob would not bother you so much as you might believe all things are possible. We tend to walk to a different beat, and I as a aquarian would never limit myself by such a small thing like distance. Not sure if this fits you, but with this placement it opens up endless possibilities, dreaming and an intense dislike of boxing oneself in. We tend to like our freedom.
In other words....the romance aside...I would see what his interests are in a long distance relationship. If he is thinking of the practical applications and you are more so thinking anything is possible, then its best to find out sooner than later. This will give you the best possible start here.
My virgo and I always saw things differently. Just sharing from personal experience. I would always say...you on FM and Im on AM.
i strongly agree with you about FREEDOM. and i really dont take distance as a big deal. BUT im the person who can stick to a guy when i know im secured, otherwise i wont waste time being with him.
NOW, its kinda difficult for me where to start. should i talk to him about how i feel? or just stop communicating with him?and move on?
i hate the feeling coz, for some reason i feel connected to him, knowing we've just known each other for a few months. Help me COLDWATER! usually, i know when to continue or just stop, but for this guy, i dont know how. my feelings is true to him. its his feelings i doubt😢
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