Need some opinions about Aqua dude!

Hi. I need an opinion about Aqua guy that I am having crush on. I don't know where to start and might be so a bit confusing. I don't know he has a thang for me or he sees me only as a friend.

OK. I have a crush on this Aqua guy. He used to act cold at me when I first talk to him but after I gave him a birthday gift (about 2.5 kgs box) with his favorite things, then he has been starting to act nice to me. Sometimes when I go travel, I send him souvenirs as well, including letters and postcards.

He's a musician that often goes on tour domestic and sometimes overseas. I often give him advices about what he wears on stage, etc. He always does whatever I say to him and often wears my favourite clothes of him, the colors, etc. Well, I thought maybe it was nothing but he has been keep on sending signals that he's kinda likes me. But well, you know... Aqua... always acts nice to everybody.

When he released his current album. I was a bit felt weird, there 2 tracks on it that the lyric is so me and what I told him before he released the album. He likes a girl and wants the girl to be his girlfriend, etc with a bunch of stories on it and another track is about he likes a girl who lives abroad (Well, currently I live 5 hours away by plane from where he lives due to my job) and he is really sad that he can't see this girl often. But I just never asked him if the girl was me or not.

Then a crazy thing happened. His fansite or whatever groupies he has (he knows her including his crew and company also know her) and she *lets say her name is a crazy girl* wasnt happy with me about what I posted on my account which is just a lil gift photo that related to him. So, she bullied me all about me by posting my instagram user ID and so on, saying worst things about me, saying I blocked her (I didnt but she blocked me a while ago) and harrassing me verbally. Long story, but i didnt fight back. I dont even know her. She ran thru all my posts and harrassing me. She got lots of followers so everybody dropped to my account. Well, in fact, he read that posting also his crew. I was so pissed he took her side and liked her posts every single day since then even reposted too many times. So, I just ignored him for a week or so. But he didnt stop liking/reposting her posts. For me, he supposed to stop it til things cool down.

Then I talked to him again after a while but never brought the issue. Everything was okay, suddenly, i dont know why he just stopped liking/reposting her posts for 2 weeks or so. Hes back like he used to be, kinda obey to whatever i say, something like that.

Just one day, maybe I was a bit silly. He posted a pendant from his fan and a few days later I asked him about why he never posted mine and he could delete it later. Nobody knows its from me. Mind you, he NEVER liked any posts on my instagram. He only liked once my comment on his post. I think, he wasnt happy and right away somewhat in purpose he has been liking reposting that crazy girl's posts non stop. So, i just stopped talking to him. But somehow, it seems he is not happy about it either.

Stupid me! I accidentally send a text to him which I didnt mean to send it to him. In the text, i wrote "i prefer him to wear glasses and its my personal taste". The next thing i knew, he had a gig and he was wearing his glasses on stage which i know he doesnt like to wear glasses. But his facial expression wasn't happy and he fell from the stage that night. His mind was kinda out of zone, i think.



Anyways, about glass, it wasnt the first time, a few months ago, i also said to him, "i think you look good in glasses and i like guys in glasses" and he did it when he attended an event.

It's more crazier when I knew his current new album cover is him with glasses and my favorite clothes on him.

I dont know. Its really confusing. People say that if a guy always does what we wants nearly 90-99% means he likes the girl. Well, he is an Aqua, very hard to read. Any nice input for me? I haven't talked to him more than a week.

Thanks for reading.

Have you ever met in person? Until now you look to have acted like another fan girl, that he paid some attention in person. How do you know you were the only one to suggest to him to wear "your" favorite clothes, glasses and so on?

About the songs, my Aqua finds a lot of inspiration from the real world when he writes, without having those facts relating to what he actually feels.

You are also trying to make him do things that create the illusion of him having some sort of a connection to you (post the pendant, then delete). Why would he do that? You should not have to ask for such favors. If he has something for you, he will show it you on his own initiative and definitely not on his fan site, but personally. Anyway, I wouldn't count on him, if I were you.

Posted by YasmineMin
What dont you just confess to him? What do you have to lose?! It's now or forever hold your piece. Tell him how you feel about him, see what he thinks. I've made mistakes of not confessing guys I really liked. If you dont tell him you might never know. Yolo ?Lol

easier said than done hehe.