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But you have to recognize that you are the exception Lis, not the rule. Just like Flo being consumed from the inside by her water is the exception, not the norm.

There are always so many threads about "Does this Aqua like me Help" because it's hard to differentiate between how an Aqua cares for a friend or a lover.

You know, the Scorp and I had a fight the other night. He might have had a little too much Tequila, but the gist of it boiled down to how non-emotionally dependent, he feels I am. Because I'm not running around screaming "I NEED YOU". Or declaring him the most romantic man I know.

FYI, it doesn't help to roll your eyes at the idiocy, with a Scorpio....even with an Air moon >.<


well .... i'm actually the one telling my husband, "i looooveeee youuuu and neeeed youuuuu" and act theatrical around him.

i do tell my husband everyday he is the handsomest, most lovable man ever. It's pretty high pedestal there i know..

but he doesn't disappoint me. he tries. He says mean things at times, and then says, "the meaner i am to you, you love it."

but he's really NOT mean you see. Its hard to explain. he loves me very very deeply and would never really be mean. it's an act because i see his actions are deeper than any words he says.
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I'm sure he does and what you two have works for you. This is the first time that I think, Scorpie has truly gotten a look at what I keep telling him about Aqua's nature. I'm never going to be perky with Aqua Moon in the 6th house. I'm always going to be complex, thank you Aqua Venus. I'm stubborn and I want my own way, courtesy of Aqua Sun.

Romance is a Neptunium concept to me. It's utterly ridiculous. Romance is that stupid Disney movie we have our children watch. It's a rainbow unicorn. And it's not real. There's no harshness in romance, no threat of maybe "true love" not being enough, it is devoid of reality.

Love to me is like a ring, when you first acquire it, it is shiny and sparkly and all your women friends ohh and ahh over it. Then a few years later it starts to tarnish, you don't wear it as often because it gets in the way. At that point you either work on it, clean and polish it up, or you get a new ring to wear.
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Omg my ex had your placements, libra sun, gemini moon and scorpio venus..

You guys are lovely people but you guys are crazy and dont know how to chill out, you are going to get under his skin so bad because you cant chill out or focus, nor can you get into an indepth conversation on our level, pillow talk is where you shine but you dont know how to healthily deal with conflict and youll end up sweeping his problems with you under the rug......another problem you need to.avoid is turning the relationship into an old couple too quickly, and also dont be frugal with sex. I may be imprinting onto you but thats what I know about your placements, also another word of advice, if he tells you something you do that bothers him please dont keep doing it repeatedly, its something that all librans do that infuriates me whether its concious or unconscious on purpose or not, I think its a huge component in being a cardinal sign and being the "catalyst" for situations to happen, I would often tell my ex that I hate being woken up and I would beg him that I need my sleep and he would do it anyway and cause huge fights. He would say that I need to go to bed earlier when it wasnt the problem, he was and its something he would always do, if there ever was a weak spot in me he would try and exasserbate the problem and make it worse...so dont do that, also read the languages of love
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What are some strong signs he sees me as relationship material?

I can't speak for all Aquarius but I am currently dating one -

1. My Aquarius flat out communicated his desire to be in a relationship with me within a couple of dates

2. He asked repeatedly if I would be his girl exclusively.

3. He introduced me to his family as the women he will marry.

4. He wants to live together

5. He is over every single night!!!! Jeez

6.We are together every weekend.

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I think he likes you 100. But what about long term? Personally out of the air signs i feel libras once you get them are the most stable in relationships. Aquarius are big on friendships. I know alot of them they are very cool people down to earth but what does this mean long term? An Aquarius will have fun with you as well as someone else and treat you both equally the same. I personally haven't seen many Aquarius have just one partner. As i mentioned too friendship is important they are very fun to be around.

Long term marriage type idk. Yes all the air signs get along...but who doesn't? Lets talk about long term partnerships. Personally to me gemini Aquarius its more complicated.


no they're not. i'm not big on friendship. don't generalize.

edit you've been posting here a long time, I don't know why you aren't good with astrology by now.
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Your pontifical commentary comes across condescending and extremely haughty. Back off my friends you haughty wench. Who the hell do you think you are? No wonder your husband is going to have an affair!!

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Omg my ex had your placements, libra sun, gemini moon and scorpio venus..

You guys are lovely people but you guys are crazy and dont know how to chill out, you are going to get under his skin so bad because you cant chill out or focus, nor can you get into an indepth conversation on our level, pillow talk is where you shine but you dont know how to healthily deal with conflict and youll end up sweeping his problems with you under the rug......another problem you need to.avoid is turning the relationship into an old couple too quickly, and also dont be frugal with sex. I may be imprinting onto you but thats what I know about your placements, also another word of advice, if he tells you something you do that bothers him please dont keep doing it repeatedly, its something that all librans do that infuriates me whether its concious or unconscious on purpose or not, I think its a huge component in being a cardinal sign and being the "catalyst" for situations to happen, I would often tell my ex that I hate being woken up and I would beg him that I need my sleep and he would do it anyway and cause huge fights. He would say that I need to go to bed earlier when it wasnt the problem, he was and its something he would always do, if there ever was a weak spot in me he would try and exasserbate the problem and make it worse...so dont do that, also read the languages of love
I'm actually super chill even my aquarius crush has mentioned it lol. I do have trouble focusing sometimes so I'll give you that.

I actually thrive on deep intellectual conversations yet it does take me sometime to open up first before those happen.

Old couple— I love spontaneity and adventure so I don't see that happening and um my sex drive has always been higher than all of my partners and I'm a female so there ya go lol.

Lastly if someone tells me not to do something why would I continue to do it? That's stupid af lol.

Sorry but your ex although having the same placements doesn't sound a thing like me.
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What are some strong signs he sees me as relationship material?

I can't speak for all Aquarius but I am currently dating one -

1. My Aquarius flat out communicated his desire to be in a relationship with me within a couple of dates

2. He asked repeatedly if I would be his girl exclusively.

3. He introduced me to his family as the women he will marry.

4. He wants to live together

5. He is over every single night!!!! Jeez

6.We are together every weekend.


Lol well I wouldn't be here if the aquarius I'm involved with was as up front as yours!
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I think he likes you 100. But what about long term? Personally out of the air signs i feel libras once you get them are the most stable in relationships. Aquarius are big on friendships. I know alot of them they are very cool people down to earth but what does this mean long term? An Aquarius will have fun with you as well as someone else and treat you both equally the same. I personally haven't seen many Aquarius have just one partner. As i mentioned too friendship is important they are very fun to be around.

Long term marriage type idk. Yes all the air signs get along...but who doesn't? Lets talk about long term partnerships. Personally to me gemini Aquarius its more complicated.


no they're not. i'm not big on friendship. don't generalize.

edit you've been posting here a long time, I don't know why you aren't good with astrology by now.



Your pontifical commentary comes across condescending and extremely haughty. Back off my friends you haughty wench. Who the hell do you think you are? No wonder your husband is going to have an affair!!



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he can if he wants. but whatever you don't know me and I don't know you.



but you sure like to see other people FAIL at relationships. do you?

these are your friends?? online??

if you don't like what I have to say so badly then block me.

i'm okay with you going at me and calling me all kinds of names.

you've already mentioned this before about my man having affairs and leaving me.

it's like you like the idea of FAILURE with anyone who doesn't agree with you.



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I'm sure he does and what you two have works for you. This is the first time that I think, Scorpie has truly gotten a look at what I keep telling him about Aqua's nature. I'm never going to be perky with Aqua Moon in the 6th house. I'm always going to be complex, thank you Aqua Venus. I'm stubborn and I want my own way, courtesy of Aqua Sun.

Romance is a Neptunium concept to me. It's utterly ridiculous. Romance is that stupid Disney movie we have our children watch. It's a rainbow unicorn. And it's not real. There's no harshness in romance, no threat of maybe "true love" not being enough, it is devoid of reality.

Love to me is like a ring, when you first acquire it, it is shiny and sparkly and all your women friends ohh and ahh over it. Then a few years later it starts to tarnish, you don't wear it as often because it gets in the way. At that point you either work on it, clean and polish it up, or you get a new ring to wear.
my husband loves to watch DISNEY too. lol

we watch Disney together as a family.
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I think he likes you 100. But what about long term? Personally out of the air signs i feel libras once you get them are the most stable in relationships. Aquarius are big on friendships. I know alot of them they are very cool people down to earth but what does this mean long term? An Aquarius will have fun with you as well as someone else and treat you both equally the same. I personally haven't seen many Aquarius have just one partner. As i mentioned too friendship is important they are very fun to be around.

Long term marriage type idk. Yes all the air signs get along...but who doesn't? Lets talk about long term partnerships. Personally to me gemini Aquarius its more complicated.


no they're not. i'm not big on friendship. don't generalize.

edit you've been posting here a long time, I don't know why you aren't good with astrology by now.



Your pontifical commentary comes across condescending and extremely haughty. Back off my friends you haughty wench. Who the hell do you think you are? No wonder your husband is going to have an affair!!



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What are some strong signs he sees me as relationship material?

I can't speak for all Aquarius but I am currently dating one -

1. My Aquarius flat out communicated his desire to be in a relationship with me within a couple of dates

2. He asked repeatedly if I would be his girl exclusively.

3. He introduced me to his family as the women he will marry.

4. He wants to live together

5. He is over every single night!!!! Jeez

6.We are together every weekend.


Lol well I wouldn't be here if the aquarius I'm involved with was as up front as yours!

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Babygirl, I know you like him, i know what it feels like to be a Libra in love with an Aquarius. But it really doesn't appear that he shares your same level of romantic interest. Your heart probably won't let you hear any of what I am writing, but when you are ready, you will see a blatant lack of romantic interest. But a serious interest in a friendship.

Irrespective of his sign, when a man really wants you, he will show you so strongly you won't have to ask others. Especially a 30 year old man! Men are hard-wired to pursue the woman they want; even the shy ones.

He will call, text invite you to dinner, movie, over his house REGULARLY.

If they want to work on the friendship first, they will still pursue very hard, while concentrating on the friendship. (My moon and Mars are in Aquarius)

He thinks you are really cool people but his lack of pursuit suggest he sees you as a friend. A friend he likes so much he thinks it will be cool to vacation with, and introduce to his posse.

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I think he likes you 100. But what about long term? Personally out of the air signs i feel libras once you get them are the most stable in relationships. Aquarius are big on friendships. I know alot of them they are very cool people down to earth but what does this mean long term? An Aquarius will have fun with you as well as someone else and treat you both equally the same. I personally haven't seen many Aquarius have just one partner. As i mentioned too friendship is important they are very fun to be around.

Long term marriage type idk. Yes all the air signs get along...but who doesn't? Lets talk about long term partnerships. Personally to me gemini Aquarius its more complicated.


no they're not. i'm not big on friendship. don't generalize.

edit you've been posting here a long time, I don't know why you aren't good with astrology by now.



Your pontifical commentary comes across condescending and extremely haughty. Back off my friends you haughty wench. Who the hell do you think you are? No wonder your husband is going to have an affair!!




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What are some strong signs he sees me as relationship material?

I can't speak for all Aquarius but I am currently dating one -

1. My Aquarius flat out communicated his desire to be in a relationship with me within a couple of dates

2. He asked repeatedly if I would be his girl exclusively.

3. He introduced me to his family as the women he will marry.

4. He wants to live together

5. He is over every single night!!!! Jeez

6.We are together every weekend.


Lol well I wouldn't be here if the aquarius I'm involved with was as up front as yours!


Babygirl, I know you like him, i know what it feels like to be a Libra in love with an Aquarius. But it really doesn't appear that he shares your same level of romantic interest. Your heart probably won't let you hear any of what I am writing, but when you are ready, you will see a blatant lack of romantic interest. But a serious interest in a friendship.

Irrespective of his sign, when a man really wants you, he will show you so strongly you won't have to ask others. Especially a 30 year old man! Men are hard-wired to pursue the woman they want; even the shy ones.

He will call, text invite you to dinner, movie, over his house REGULARLY.

If they want to work on the friendship first, they will still pursue very hard, while concentrating on the friendship. (My moon and Mars are in Aquarius)

He thinks you are really cool people but his lack of pursuit suggest he sees you as a friend. A friend he likes so much he thinks it will be cool to vacation with, and introduce to his posse.

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Well he supports his parents as in they all live together and I can't have guests so we don't go to each other's places. We have been hanging out almost every weekend. He does invite me. We hung out last night had dinner then watched the fireworks, made out, he held me as we watched them and he was like being super affectionate, no sex last night just like being cutesy n shit...like I'm really not trying to be in denial I mean clearly he's interested in me i just don't know to what degree and was curious how's others relationships started with aquarians or what signs they saw before hand.
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What are some strong signs he sees me as relationship material?

I can't speak for all Aquarius but I am currently dating one -

1. My Aquarius flat out communicated his desire to be in a relationship with me within a couple of dates

2. He asked repeatedly if I would be his girl exclusively.

3. He introduced me to his family as the women he will marry.

4. He wants to live together

5. He is over every single night!!!! Jeez

6.We are together every weekend.


Lol well I wouldn't be here if the aquarius I'm involved with was as up front as yours!


Babygirl, I know you like him, i know what it feels like to be a Libra in love with an Aquarius. But it really doesn't appear that he shares your same level of romantic interest. Your heart probably won't let you hear any of what I am writing, but when you are ready, you will see a blatant lack of romantic interest. But a serious interest in a friendship.

Irrespective of his sign, when a man really wants you, he will show you so strongly you won't have to ask others. Especially a 30 year old man! Men are hard-wired to pursue the woman they want; even the shy ones.

He will call, text invite you to dinner, movie, over his house REGULARLY.

If they want to work on the friendship first, they will still pursue very hard, while concentrating on the friendship. (My moon and Mars are in Aquarius)

He thinks you are really cool people but his lack of pursuit suggest he sees you as a friend. A friend he likes so much he thinks it will be cool to vacation with, and introduce to his posse.


Well he supports his parents as in they all live together and I can't have guests so we don't go to each other's places. We have been hanging out almost every weekend. He does invite me. We hung out last night had dinner then watched the fireworks, made out, he held me as we watched them and he was like being super affectionate, no sex last night just like being cutesy n shit...like I'm really not trying to be in denial I mean clearly he's interested in me i just don't know to what degree and was curious how's others relationships started with aquarians or what signs they saw before hand.

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Plus we work together as in literally we sit next to each other so I see him every day all day long lmao.
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What are some strong signs he sees me as relationship material?

I can't speak for all Aquarius but I am currently dating one -

1. My Aquarius flat out communicated his desire to be in a relationship with me within a couple of dates

2. He asked repeatedly if I would be his girl exclusively.

3. He introduced me to his family as the women he will marry.

4. He wants to live together

5. He is over every single night!!!! Jeez

6.We are together every weekend.


Lol well I wouldn't be here if the aquarius I'm involved with was as up front as yours!


Babygirl, I know you like him, i know what it feels like to be a Libra in love with an Aquarius. But it really doesn't appear that he shares your same level of romantic interest. Your heart probably won't let you hear any of what I am writing, but when you are ready, you will see a blatant lack of romantic interest. But a serious interest in a friendship.

Irrespective of his sign, when a man really wants you, he will show you so strongly you won't have to ask others. Especially a 30 year old man! Men are hard-wired to pursue the woman they want; even the shy ones.

He will call, text invite you to dinner, movie, over his house REGULARLY.

If they want to work on the friendship first, they will still pursue very hard, while concentrating on the friendship. (My moon and Mars are in Aquarius)

He thinks you are really cool people but his lack of pursuit suggest he sees you as a friend. A friend he likes so much he thinks it will be cool to vacation with, and introduce to his posse.


Well he supports his parents as in they all live together and I can't have guests so we don't go to each other's places. We have been hanging out almost every weekend. He does invite me. We hung out last night had dinner then watched the fireworks, made out, he held me as we watched them and he was like being super affectionate, no sex last night just like being cutesy n shit...like I'm really not trying to be in denial I mean clearly he's interested in me i just don't know to what degree and was curious how's others relationships started with aquarians or what signs they saw before hand.

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Honestly I don't agree with lovely's opinion. I see the signs clearly that he's into you. Just be aware that this can change, suddenly. All the more reason to try not to get too attached and to follow his lead. But be yourself and enjoy getting to know him.
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I'm sure he does and what you two have works for you. This is the first time that I think, Scorpie has truly gotten a look at what I keep telling him about Aqua's nature. I'm never going to be perky with Aqua Moon in the 6th house. I'm always going to be complex, thank you Aqua Venus. I'm stubborn and I want my own way, courtesy of Aqua Sun.

Romance is a Neptunium concept to me. It's utterly ridiculous. Romance is that stupid Disney movie we have our children watch. It's a rainbow unicorn. And it's not real. There's no harshness in romance, no threat of maybe "true love" not being enough, it is devoid of reality.

Love to me is like a ring, when you first acquire it, it is shiny and sparkly and all your women friends ohh and ahh over it. Then a few years later it starts to tarnish, you don't wear it as often because it gets in the way. At that point you either work on it, clean and polish it up, or you get a new ring to wear.
my husband loves to watch DISNEY too. lol

we watch Disney together as a family.

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I'm sure he does and what you two have works for you. This is the first time that I think, Scorpie has truly gotten a look at what I keep telling him about Aqua's nature. I'm never going to be perky with Aqua Moon in the 6th house. I'm always going to be complex, thank you Aqua Venus. I'm stubborn and I want my own way, courtesy of Aqua Sun.

Romance is a Neptunium concept to me. It's utterly ridiculous. Romance is that stupid Disney movie we have our children watch. It's a rainbow unicorn. And it's not real. There's no harshness in romance, no threat of maybe "true love" not being enough, it is devoid of reality.

Love to me is like a ring, when you first acquire it, it is shiny and sparkly and all your women friends ohh and ahh over it. Then a few years later it starts to tarnish, you don't wear it as often because it gets in the way. At that point you either work on it, clean and polish it up, or you get a new ring to wear.
my husband loves to watch DISNEY too. lol

we watch Disney together as a family.


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aw soooo cute.
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Aquas are very charming and it's easy to fall before you get to see the dark side and once that happens it's much harder to let go, if that dark side is something you don't want to deal with.
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In my experience, they can be extremely mean and are able to emotionally eviscerate you with words, if they feel you have treated them unfairly or hurt them. This is rare, but it can happen. They can shut you out if they've been offended, can play the silent treatment like nobody's business. They can be self absorbed and stubborn, even if doing so is to their disadvantage. They can be manipulative and shady if they sense that what they want to do/have is not something that a partner will agree to (even if the partner hasn't expressed such).

Every person/sign has a dark side, and it isn't the whole of a person but it is there and can surface under certain circumstances. These are some things that I've experienced.

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What are some strong signs he sees me as relationship material?

I can't speak for all Aquarius but I am currently dating one -

1. My Aquarius flat out communicated his desire to be in a relationship with me


Well he supports his parents as in they all live together and I can't have guests so we don't go to each other's places. We have been hanging out almost every weekend. He does invite me. We hung out last night had dinner then watched the fireworks, made out, he held me as we watched them and he was like being super affectionate, no sex last night just like being cutesy n shit...like I'm really not trying to be in denial I mean clearly he's interested in me i just don't know to what degree and was curious how's others relationships started with aquarians or what signs they saw before hand.

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Oh I understand now, It sounds like you haven't had a lot of experience with a man whose really in love or into you. It sounds like he is into you, but not "THAT INTO YOU." The Aquarius I am dating, lived at home when we first met too within 60 days he got his own place so we could be together. You said "90 percent of the time you all hang out in groups, and We have only officially hung out alone maybe 2 or 3 times." That's not how a man behaves when he's really into you. He will constantly take you out without a group on a regular basis. Regularly calls, texts, breaks his back and neck to be with you.

When a man is in love or 'really into you' YOU WON'T HAVE TO ASK. He will show you to such a degree you will be very clear. I hope that helps, but I think this is a lost cause. You are going to see and hear what you want to see and hear.
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Aquas are very charming and it's easy to fall before you get to see the dark side and once that happens it's much harder to let go, if that dark side is something you don't want to deal with.
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being a selfish egotistical manipulative mean little bitch. from a distance, to make other's feel worse. aqua's are very negative sometimes, and impatient, and lack self-esteem, and I don't think they can help it but they usually expect the worst from people and sometimes it's really ridiculous how they dramatize a small mistake or character flaw like the other person did it to them on purpose while someone else with a different personality and demeanour just shrugs. which again is an ego thing I think. everything's about them unless they want something from someone.
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I tried to give hints because of his personal placements, love planets. sag venus, or anything Sagittarius will want some breathing room. he's got aries mars and I do notice a lot of aries mars men with libra sun/or libra moons or both no matter the sun sign, just like our Pisces sun uncle with Taurus moon, he has aries mars married to double libra.if she wants to have him, strategize like the cardinal sign you are. strategize strategize, and want that sag venus/aries mars, because it complements your libra. so do your own thing and not worry. these types of guys (sag/aries energy men) don't want you to cling too much.
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I tried to give hints because of his personal placements, love planets. sag venus, or anything Sagittarius will want some breathing room. he's got aries mars and I do notice a lot of aries mars men with libra sun/or libra moons or both no matter the sun sign, just like our Pisces sun uncle with Taurus moon, he has aries mars married to double libra.if she wants to have him, strategize like the cardinal sign you are. strategize strategize, and want that sag venus/aries mars, because it complements your libra. so do your own thing and not worry. these types of guys (sag/aries energy men) don't want you to cling too much.


I forget to add, even though his mars venus complements the air, it doesn't matter if he doesn't want you. but it does sound like he likes to be around you.

but just wait long term, he might get bored and annoyed. that's why make sure you have other hobbies, interests.
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What are some strong signs he sees me as relationship material?

I can't speak for all Aquarius but I am currently dating one -

1. My Aquarius flat out communicated his desire to be in a relationship with me


Well he supports his parents as in they all live together and I can't have guests so we don't go to each other's places. We have been hanging out almost every weekend. He does invite me. We hung out last night had dinner then watched the fireworks, made out, he held me as we watched them and he was like being super affectionate, no sex last night just like being cutesy n shit...like I'm really not trying to be in denial I mean clearly he's interested in me i just don't know to what degree and was curious how's others relationships started with aquarians or what signs they saw before hand.


Oh I understand now, It sounds like you haven't had a lot of experience with a man whose really in love or into you. It sounds like he is into you, but not "THAT INTO YOU." The Aquarius I am dating, lived at home when we first met too within 60 days he got his own place so we could be together. You said "90 percent of the time you all hang out in groups, and We have only officially hung out alone maybe 2 or 3 times." That's not how a man behaves when he's really into you. He will constantly take you out without a group on a regular basis. Regularly calls, texts, breaks his back and neck to be with you.

When a man is in love or 'really into you' YOU WON'T HAVE TO ASK. He will show you to such a degree you will be very clear. I hope that helps, but I think this is a lost cause. You are going to see and hear what you want to see and hear.

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OK but he literally can't get his own place because he's supporting his parents. Can't afford to do both lol. And I've been married, I've had several LTR's so yeah I know what it's like for someone to love me wtf...I mean okay you seem pressed on convincing me otherwise. I'm no fool if I didn't think he was into me at all I wouldn't even be here asking I was just curious about aquarians...geez lol.

And yeah we do hang in groups and so what as a libra I actually really love it? He has never been in a LTR and he doesn't seem as experienced. Maybe just maybe lol he's taking it slow like a lot of people do. Just because he's not introducing me to everyone as the girl he wants to marry doesn't mean he's not into me lmao.
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Let me tell you something my father was Aquarius and my Mother is Libra. He passed away a year ago they were marreid for thirty years I remeber my father very well a good man but he had a very dark side I've learned that from several Aquarius. That's not a negative you have to take the good. With the bad but I think you will have a good relationship but keep in mind you will have to work it and whatever you do do not inhibit an Aquarius's freedom it's like trying to stop a hurricane you can't you have to let it be and run it's course
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we don't know your man. you DO.

so therefore, HELP yourself.

Get lost you pompous arrogant ugly human being. I am flabbergasted any man will put up with you and your nasty haughty indignant ways.



Now that response sounds haughty.

No offense, just sayin'

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Just like everyone has an anus everyone has an opinion.

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Let me tell you something my father was Aquarius and my Mother is Libra. He passed away a year ago they were marreid for thirty years I remeber my father very well a good man but he had a very dark side I've learned that from several Aquarius. That's not a negative you have to take the good. With the bad but I think you will have a good relationship but keep in mind you will have to work it and whatever you do do not inhibit an Aquarius's freedom it's like trying to stop a hurricane you can't you have to let it be and run it's course
I notice this with Taurus moons in my family, too.

they do have aquarius venus though, and aries mars.

or different mars but the Taurus moon is STUBBORN, same as sun.

they understand the Venusian nature.

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we don't know your man. you DO.

so therefore, HELP yourself.

Get lost you pompous arrogant ugly human being. I am flabbergasted any man will put up with you and your nasty haughty indignant ways.



Now that response sounds haughty.

No offense, just sayin'


Just like everyone has an anus everyone has an opinion.

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but you come in and POLICE me, I notice. this is the 2nd time you did it. And all you do is put me down and my own relationship. You have the NEED to CONTROL me.

maybe because I write in CAPS to give emphasis.

and it offends your nature.

you need to block my ass because you can't help your fucking self, all the aquarius mars and aqua moons are always after me because of my sun sign.

it's fucking disgusting.
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we don't know your man. you DO.

so therefore, HELP yourself.

Get lost you pompous arrogant ugly human being. I am flabbergasted any man will put up with you and your nasty haughty indignant ways.



Now that response sounds haughty.

No offense, just sayin'


Just like everyone has an anus everyone has an opinion.


but you come in and POLICE me, I notice. this is the 2nd time you did it. And all you do is put me down and my own relationship. You have the NEED to CONTROL me.

maybe because I write in CAPS to give emphasis.

and it offends your nature.

you need to block my ass because you can't help your fucking self, all the aquarius mars and aqua moons are always after me because of my sun sign.

it's fucking disgusting.
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Yeah...I get the feeling from them as well, lol I like how my aqua clearly likes me but because he's not throwing rose petals at my feet and over my place 24/7 according to the expert he's just not into me...um what.

Funny thing is I have experienced that level of passion or should I say obsession? I did have someone wanting to be with me 24/7 and was shouting it from the rooftops and you know what? It turned into a pos relationship anyway so I don't find that sort of infatuation as a true indicator of one's feelings or the potential for a long lasting relationship anyway.

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Let me tell you something my father was Aquarius and my Mother is Libra. He passed away a year ago they were marreid for thirty years I remeber my father very well a good man but he had a very dark side I've learned that from several Aquarius. That's not a negative you have to take the good. With the bad but I think you will have a good relationship but keep in mind you will have to work it and whatever you do do not inhibit an Aquarius's freedom it's like trying to stop a hurricane you can't you have to let it be and run it's course
I was married to a cancer...if it gets any darker than that then I'm doomed lmao.
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Let me tell you something my father was Aquarius and my Mother is Libra. He passed away a year ago they were marreid for thirty years I remeber my father very well a good man but he had a very dark side I've learned that from several Aquarius. That's not a negative you have to take the good. With the bad but I think you will have a good relationship but keep in mind you will have to work it and whatever you do do not inhibit an Aquarius's freedom it's like trying to stop a hurricane you can't you have to let it be and run it's course
I was married to a cancer...if it gets any darker than that then I'm doomed lmao.

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Think opposite. AS a Libra, you are a sharer. An Aquarius is not a sharing person. I took a look at that again. Aqua Sun/Pisces Moon. I'm going to bet money, the reason he hasn't had a LTR is because of exactly what is going on in this thread. He's a Clueless romantic.

We were in another thread talking about Aqua/Pisces placements and how it makes it difficult to get the 2 working in harmony. You ever watch a movie where the socially awkward, yet smart and funny guy tries to get the girl, and his methods make you cringe in your seat?

Yeah. THAT guy. So guys who have this placement are a bit insecure when it comes to relationships. Lis pipe in here. With a Mutable moon and venus, isn't he more likely to follow her romantic lead?

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Let me tell you something my father was Aquarius and my Mother is Libra. He passed away a year ago they were marreid for thirty years I remeber my father very well a good man but he had a very dark side I've learned that from several Aquarius. That's not a negative you have to take the good. With the bad but I think you will have a good relationship but keep in mind you will have to work it and whatever you do do not inhibit an Aquarius's freedom it's like trying to stop a hurricane you can't you have to let it be and run it's course
I was married to a cancer...if it gets any darker than that then I'm doomed lmao.


Think opposite. AS a Libra, you are a sharer. An Aquarius is not a sharing person. I took a look at that again. Aqua Sun/Pisces Moon. I'm going to bet money, the reason he hasn't had a LTR is because of exactly what is going on in this thread. He's a Clueless romantic.

We were in another thread talking about Aqua/Pisces placements and how it makes it difficult to get the 2 working in harmony. You ever watch a movie where the socially awkward, yet smart and funny guy tries to get the girl, and his methods make you cringe in your seat?

Yeah. THAT guy. So guys who have this placement are a bit insecure when it comes to relationships. Lis pipe in here. With a Mutable moon and venus, isn't he more likely to follow her romantic lead?

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Like I'm more inclined to believe your description hands down lol. He didn't even want to sleep together for awhile because he was so apprehensive about the fact that we work together...then when we finally did he was so SO nervous and shaking that I had to ask him if he was okay...he seems very inexperienced when it comes to the opposite sex period.

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Let me tell you something my father was Aquarius and my Mother is Libra. He passed away a year ago they were marreid for thirty years I remeber my father very well a good man but he had a very dark side I've learned that from several Aquarius. That's not a negative you have to take the good. With the bad but I think you will have a good relationship but keep in mind you will have to work it and whatever you do do not inhibit an Aquarius's freedom it's like trying to stop a hurricane you can't you have to let it be and run it's course
I was married to a cancer...if it gets any darker than that then I'm doomed lmao.


Think opposite. AS a Libra, you are a sharer. An Aquarius is not a sharing person. I took a look at that again. Aqua Sun/Pisces Moon. I'm going to bet money, the reason he hasn't had a LTR is because of exactly what is going on in this thread. He's a Clueless romantic.

We were in another thread talking about Aqua/Pisces placements and how it makes it difficult to get the 2 working in harmony. You ever watch a movie where the socially awkward, yet smart and funny guy tries to get the girl, and his methods make you cringe in your seat?

Yeah. THAT guy. So guys who have this placement are a bit insecure when it comes to relationships. Lis pipe in here. With a Mutable moon and venus, isn't he more likely to follow her romantic lead?

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for a man, if he's got some aqua and aries in him he will lead. especially if he's got cardinal signs.

even astrologers suggest for Scorpio women, IF they get with pisces man, he has to be "stronger" in that he has to be a little more not go with the flow too much. It's hard to explain...

but this is a good video. I know it suggests pisces and scorpio, because those two trine, but since we're talking about personal planets because that's important. she gives some good explanation.

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Posted by lisabethur8
we don't know your man. you DO.

so therefore, HELP yourself.

Get lost you pompous arrogant ugly human being. I am flabbergasted any man will put up with you and your nasty haughty indignant ways.



Now that response sounds haughty.

No offense, just sayin'


Just like everyone has an anus everyone has an opinion.


but you come in and POLICE me, I notice. this is the 2nd time you did it. And all you do is put me down and my own relationship. You have the NEED to CONTROL me.

maybe because I write in CAPS to give emphasis.

and it offends your nature.

you need to block my ass because you can't help your fucking self, all the aquarius mars and aqua moons are always after me because of my sun sign.

it's fucking disgusting.

Yeah...I get the feeling from them as well, lol I like how my aqua clearly likes me but because he's not throwing rose petals at my feet and over my place 24/7 according to the expert he's just not into me...um what.

Funny thing is I have experienced that level of passion or should I say obsession? I did have someone wanting to be with me 24/7 and was shouting it from the rooftops and you know what? It turned into a pos relationship anyway so I don't find that sort of infatuation as a true indicator of one's feelings or the potential for a long lasting relationship anyway.

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oh I get along famously with my Capricorn sun gf with the aqua venus/aqua mars/pisces moon. I can be as BAWDY as can be and as freaking rude as shit and we laugh like crazy. I don't control her and she don't control me.
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@lisabethur8

He's:

Sun 11°17' Aquarius

Moon 10°38' Pisces

Mercury 24°20' Aquarius

Venus 25°07' Sagittarius

Mars 16°12' Aries

I can already see that with this guy, I bet you he did try to lead and he crashed and burned. Their prediction on how others will react is a bit off. This is a guy that will take off ONLY if he can recognize genuine interest. Where's @aquanib when you need him, he's got a Pisces Moon.

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He's:

Sun 11°17' Aquarius

Moon 10°38' Pisces

Mercury 24°20' Aquarius

Venus 25°07' Sagittarius

Mars 16°12' Aries

I can already see that with this guy, I bet you he did try to lead and he crashed and burned. Their prediction on how others will react is a bit off. This is a guy that will take off ONLY if he can recognize genuine interest. Where's @aquanib when you need him, he's got a Pisces Moon.


OK guys lol I can try to recap a little more in detail how this all went down:

Start new job. New coworker is sexy. Read coworkers work bio, it states he likes music festivals (I'm a music addict so yay). I ask him about music festivals...we soon realize we have similar interests and start making plans to go to shows, festivals etc. I'm thinking this is all friendly. One night out with coworkers we get wasted lol, he says I should kiss him out of no where...so we make out. Soon after I tell him I have a small crush on him, he says he think he likes me too (this was said so fast and almost under breath I could have missed it lol) THEN he states on several occasions "but we can't date because we work together". Finally I got tired of the work thing and he says "you don't like that I'm setting boundaries?" And I say "no I don't like it, why stop something before it even has a chance to develop" then he says "Alright well let's see how things go and then we can see if we want to push the boundaries". He always invites me to hang, he is a bit of a social butterfly so it is always going out with him and his friends to dance, drink, eat, etc. Typical socializing. We have had sex three times. We always kiss, he holds my hand in front of his friends...last time he picked me up on our way to his friends place he was kissing me at every stop light.

And yeah that's it really. It's been a good three months since the first kiss. We have only hung out strictly alone 4 times, but usually end up alone by the end of the night with friends anyway.

So lol even though I think he likes me I mean I'm still confused as hell because tbh I've never been one to take it slow but I should be because lord knows it's never worked out for me in the past diving in head first.
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Other sweet shit that's happened:

Feeling naked and insecure he says "You're beautiful"

Calls me cute names like love, babe etc.

Always...always petting my hair lol, touching my arm or leg.

Says my eyes are beautiful.

Says my positive aura is super attractive.

Said he feels our conversations are always fulfilling.

And like I mentioned before we are making plans to travel outside of country and yeah it's with friends and he's super social but come on lol.
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Oh ok, then he you did hit him over the head with a baseball bat and he's moving along quite nicely.

Good job. Here I thought it was because he shut down on you. Nah he's probably all like:

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But he aint gonna show it cause he be like:

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ALL ON THE INSIDE... THE INSIDE!!!!!!!!!!!
Lol I hope so! I do get mixed signals though for example, I'm going to an event...with his friends...and he doesn't plan on going...if it were me I'd want to be where ever my crush is but then again that's me.

So idk :/
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Oh ok, then he you did hit him over the head with a baseball bat and he's moving along quite nicely.

Good job. Here I thought it was because he shut down on you. Nah he's probably all like:

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But he aint gonna show it cause he be like:

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ALL ON THE INSIDE... THE INSIDE!!!!!!!!!!!
Lol I hope so! I do get mixed signals though for example, I'm going to an event...with his friends...and he doesn't plan on going...if it were me I'd want to be where ever my crush is but then again that's me.

So idk :/
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This is his way of observing whether you are as independent as he is, and if if you get along with his friends without him there. If you all have a great time and you aren't acting like it's no fun without him, he's going to have some reassurance that you're not clingy.

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Oh ok, then he you did hit him over the head with a baseball bat and he's moving along quite nicely.

Good job. Here I thought it was because he shut down on you. Nah he's probably all like:

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But he aint gonna show it cause he be like:

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ALL ON THE INSIDE... THE INSIDE!!!!!!!!!!!
Lol I hope so! I do get mixed signals though for example, I'm going to an event...with his friends...and he doesn't plan on going...if it were me I'd want to be where ever my crush is but then again that's me.

So idk :/
This is his way of observing whether you are as independent as he is, and if if you get along with his friends without him there. If you all have a great time and you aren't acting like it's no fun without him, he's going to have some reassurance that you're not clingy.

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Oh yeah I was originally just going to go on my own then he told me his friends were going to the same event and from there his friend reached out and we all are going now though my crush said he wasn't going to. It'll be fun of course regardless but the libra in me wouldn't mind him by my side lol.
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I think he likes you 100. But what about long term? Personally out of the air signs i feel libras once you get them are the most stable in relationships. Aquarius are big on friendships. I know alot of them they are very cool people down to earth but what does this mean long term? An Aquarius will have fun with you as well as someone else and treat you both equally the same. I personally haven't seen many Aquarius have just one partner. As i mentioned too friendship is important they are very fun to be around.

Long term marriage type idk. Yes all the air signs get along...but who doesn't? Lets talk about long term partnerships. Personally to me gemini Aquarius its more complicated.


no they're not. i'm not big on friendship. don't generalize.

edit you've been posting here a long time, I don't know why you aren't good with astrology by now.



Your pontifical commentary comes across condescending and extremely haughty. Back off my friends you haughty wench. Who the hell do you think you are? No wonder your husband is going to have an affair!!



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You do understand that when you use your inner powers to wish ill on others in a negative way it comes back on you.



She did not ask for any of your assistance in any way shape or form in life. So you basically researched her without her permission spiritually speaking.



This shows a great lack of immaturity in dealing in spiritual matters. Doesn't matter if you like her or not.

She's done nothing but disagree with you on a website.

Do not be cocky in your craft. Just as you spoke unto her ill things...the universe is listening too.