@Aerazo
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Procrastination at its finest
Posted by clownloyal
lol true my bro is like this, if you a true aqua you also gotta be messy as hell
Messy how? My place is more or less spotless. (cleaning lady twice a week tho) -.-
Posted by clownloyal
lol true my bro is like this, if you a true aqua you also gotta be messy as hell
Hahaha my ex-cap came by today to see our kids and he glanced at my laptop and he goes "what the heck is all that!" (pointing at my messy desktop filled with folders) I said "But I know where everything is!" lol
give her two weeks off, then we'll talk
She wasn't always around, i didn't always have the funds to afford it, but the place still needed to be in decent shape because well, i was a barman at some club, some nights (mornings) i'd bring someone home. Can't bring noone into a pig-sty. So it was a choice, either have it tidy and in decent shape and confidently suggest going back to your place or not having it tidy and awkwardly wonder whether you'll break some backbone in the car....and whether she'd be up for a car anyway.....
Posted by clownloyal
lol true my bro is like this, if you a true aqua you also gotta be messy as hellMessy how? My place is more or less spotless. (cleaning lady twice a week tho) -.-
give her two weeks off, then we'll talk
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It's because our mind is ALWAYS BUSY!
So, we need to lay down to think. I can't think when I'm cleaning haha
But, my apartment isn't completely messy.
The only thing that gets accumulated it's the clean clothes because I hate folding. but I always have clean clothes!
give her two weeks off, then we'll talk
She wasn't always around, i didn't always have the funds to afford it, but the place still needed to be in decent shape because well, i was a barman at some club, some nights (mornings) i'd bring someone home. Can't bring noone into a pig-sty. So it was a choice, either have it tidy and in decent shape and confidently suggest going back to your place or not having it tidy and awkwardly wonder whether you'll break some backbone in the car....and whether she'd be up for a car anyway.....
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Yes! every time someone tells me they are coming over, my place is spotless. Plus, I love decorating my house and it would look bad messy.
Posted by clownloyal
lol true my bro is like this, if you a true aqua you also gotta be messy as hellMessy how? My place is more or less spotless. (cleaning lady twice a week tho) -.-
give her two weeks off, then we'll talk
It's because our mind is ALWAYS BUSY!
So, we need to lay down to think. I can't think when I'm cleaning haha
my bro makes me clean his place when I visit, I just start picking up stuff while I say someone's gotta do it
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Haha what's your sign?
The cap I like used to take out the trash when he came over lol. and then one day he said that he comes to clean 😑 now I take the trash out even if it's something small, before he comes lol.
If it were my brother I'd let him take it. lol
Now that I think about it
My mom always folds my clothes when she comes lol
I don't blame him, it's good to have cooperative hands.
Posted by clownloyal
lol true my bro is like this, if you a true aqua you also gotta be messy as hellMessy how? My place is more or less spotless. (cleaning lady twice a week tho) -.-
give her two weeks off, then we'll talk
It's because our mind is ALWAYS BUSY!
So, we need to lay down to think. I can't think when I'm cleaning haha
my bro makes me clean his place when I visit, I just start picking up stuff while I say someone's gotta do it
Haha what's your sign?
The cap I like used to take out the trash when he came over lol. and then one day he said that he comes to clean 😑 now I take the trash out even if it's something small, before he comes lol.
If it were my brother I'd let him take it. lol
Now that I think about it
My mom always folds my clothes when she comes lol
I don't blame him, it's good to have cooperative hands.
virgo, i am an artist I have an excuse to be messy
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Lol "excuse" any excuse can be valid as long as it works for you.
But true, artists are messy. I have a messy artistic mind, but I don't do art that much 😢 I love art, I'm very creative but I chose another career path due to life situations.
What do you do?
interesting, I get wary in real tidy places, I know they're hiding something I also think they murder as a hobby if they know how to be spotless they have tricks
You are overthinking this LMAO. I wasn't scrubbing the floors daily (LOL) i just made sure there were no socks, clothes lying around, that it didn't smell like a boy's locker room when entering and that the only dishes unwashed were the ones i ate dinner from before going to work.
maybe, but my ex was a neat freak my suspicious of him being a murderer came first and a close second that he may be good at cheating but I was really wrapped up in him killing as a hobby
I would always drop hints... and be like you could kill someone and I wouldnt know cuz it so spotless *stares intensely to check reaction* I saw american Psycho once!!!!!
LMAO, you need a hug to drive those demons away. I suggest finding a chronic hugger as soon as possible. 😆
Posted by clownloyal
lol true my bro is like this, if you a true aqua you also gotta be messy as hellMessy how? My place is more or less spotless. (cleaning lady twice a week tho) -.-
give her two weeks off, then we'll talk
It's because our mind is ALWAYS BUSY!
So, we need to lay down to think. I can't think when I'm cleaning haha
my bro makes me clean his place when I visit, I just start picking up stuff while I say someone's gotta do it
Haha what's your sign?
The cap I like used to take out the trash when he came over lol. and then one day he said that he comes to clean 😑 now I take the trash out even if it's something small, before he comes lol.
If it were my brother I'd let him take it. lol
Now that I think about it
My mom always folds my clothes when she comes lol
I don't blame him, it's good to have cooperative hands.
virgo, i am an artist I have an excuse to be messy
Lol "excuse" any excuse can be valid as long as it works for you.
But true, artists are messy. I have a messy artistic mind, but I don't do art that much 😢 I love art, I'm very creative but I chose another career path due to life situations.
What do you do?
as a hobby I draw and paint when the mood strikes, I take art class, and I go to boring job that pays well
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Aww you should encourage that more.
My youngest daughter has been an artist since she was born, we discovered when she was very little around 1yr old. Everyone in the family saw it.
I started her in art class at 3 yrs old because there wasn't anything younger, but nothing serious for her age but helped her to open up more.
about 2 yrs ago (she is 9 now) I started taking her to an art center that gladly opened near my house and the artist is amazing. She can see so many qualities in her and I truly want to give her that option to be able to be an artist and not have to get the boring job.
My mom always said that I had that too, I started painting at 2 yrs old spaceships, and would name them weird but actual names. so I started kinder at 3yrs old. but my parents didn't guide me well even though I always loved drawing. I think my mom regrets it because when I paint something she always says that she always knew I had it in me 🙂
oh well, I tell you. Sometimes we think life is boring but it's us who make it boring. You will find the means if you really want to do it.
Oh well, long post. I was inspired
interesting, I get wary in real tidy places, I know they're hiding something I also think they murder as a hobby if they know how to be spotless they have tricks
You are overthinking this LMAO. I wasn't scrubbing the floors daily (LOL) i just made sure there were no socks, clothes lying around, that it didn't smell like a boy's locker room when entering and that the only dishes unwashed were the ones i ate dinner from before going to work.
maybe, but my ex was a neat freak my suspicious of him being a murderer came first and a close second that he may be good at cheating but I was really wrapped up in him killing as a hobby
I would always drop hints... and be like you could kill someone and I wouldnt know cuz it so spotless *stares intensely to check reaction* I saw american Psycho once!!!!!
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Lmao!!! paranoid much!
But hey, let's hope he is not a cancer 😂
interesting, I get wary in real tidy places, I know they're hiding something I also think they murder as a hobby if they know how to be spotless they have tricks
You are overthinking this LMAO. I wasn't scrubbing the floors daily (LOL) i just made sure there were no socks, clothes lying around, that it didn't smell like a boy's locker room when entering and that the only dishes unwashed were the ones i ate dinner from before going to work.
maybe, but my ex was a neat freak my suspicious of him being a murderer came first and a close second that he may be good at cheating but I was really wrapped up in him killing as a hobby
I would always drop hints... and be like you could kill someone and I wouldnt know cuz it so spotless *stares intensely to check reaction* I saw american Psycho once!!!!!
Lmao!!! paranoid much!
But hey, let's hope he is not a cancer 😂
worse he was a leo sun gemini moon
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I'm a Gemini moon. 😂 You think we are sneaky?
that's be nice I like hugs except when i don't, they have to be good at hugging *goes to a cuddle class to cuddle w/ strangers to learn how to trust*
Cuddle class sounds like a place one would find a chronic groper with a court restraining order or two on his belt. (adding to the pile of demons like np, what's one more right—?) jk jk 😆
I get you. I've been procrastinating like crazy. Tried many different advices, like ones at Customwriting.com, but they are all pretty much the same - set your goals, visualize stuff - nope. Doesn't work. I don't even care about deadlines anymore. Honestly, I don't know what to do at this point
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I have to pack for my trip tomorrow, I have work to finish and I'm here glued to my bed.
I even had half a red bull so I wouldn't get sleepy but I'd rather use my energy between dxp and reading lol