Posted by Klh1203Posted by pinkbird03Yes😂😂 but it makes sense why he didn’t want to get further in to a relationship and it’s because he’s already got one. I’m so glad that I’m done with this chapter of just waiting on him at least now I know. My friends were speculating it and so was I when he kept posting him going to the cinema and for dinner but I thought it was with his friends as the naive person I am. Funniest thing is that I mentioned it to him before as well and he was acting like I had lost my mind😂🤦🏽♀️
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Posted by Klh1203How long have they been together? Any idea?
I feel like him and his girlfriend are rocky at the minute and when they’re good he won’t speak to me and when they’re bad that’s when I’m there, wow. Disgusting.
Posted by pinkbird03mercury retrograde? is that so ?Posted by Klh1203Hmm is he on Capricorn cusp? My bf is. Why do you think he’s being distant from the world? It’s good to be confident. I’m reminding myself to do the same, especially that now is mercury retrogradePosted by pinkbird03I don’t know he just messaged me asking if I’m okay randomly 😂 but that was it...think he’s just keeping me there until he comes out of his box and I realised it’s not just me he’s being distant with he’s doing it with the world😂Posted by Klh1203Oh?? Lol tell more!Posted by pinkbird03Must be something in the planets lol mine has come back
Any updates ladies? My aqua is very talkative and flirty again. Things seem much better!
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Posted by pinkbird03I don’t know. I feel like a long time though, he’s got his own place so she probably lives with him. I’m not 100% sure if it’s his girlfriend or just a f buddy but must be special enough for him to go out for dinner and post it and then you can see her arms and cleavage in the picPosted by Klh1203How long have they been together? Any idea?
I feel like him and his girlfriend are rocky at the minute and when they’re good he won’t speak to me and when they’re bad that’s when I’m there, wow. Disgusting.click to expand
Posted by Klh1203he has a girlfriend? yike
I feel like him and his girlfriend are rocky at the minute and when they’re good he won’t speak to me and when they’re bad that’s when I’m there, wow. Disgusting.
Posted by Klh1203Awwww why couldn’t he just be honest with you?? He is selfish. Are u going to stay friends with him?Posted by pinkbird03I don’t know. I feel like a long time though, he’s got his own place so she probably lives with him. I’m not 100% sure if it’s his girlfriend or just a f buddy but must be special enough for him to go out for dinner and post it and then you can see her arms and cleavage in the picPosted by Klh1203How long have they been together? Any idea?
I feel like him and his girlfriend are rocky at the minute and when they’re good he won’t speak to me and when they’re bad that’s when I’m there, wow. Disgusting.click to expand
Posted by Klh1203How did you find that out?
Ok I’ve got my answer as to why he’s been acting the way he has lol, he’s got a girlfriend 😂😂😩
Posted by aquarius_manShaking my head!Posted by rockTenn??
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Posted by aquarius_manYou’ve got quite a few of the same placements as my aqua.Posted by rockTennYes we sag risings make this kind of comments about the sound of heelsPosted by pinkbird03Same! I was “ghosted” for a day. Sent him a text pointing out that each time we had a problem I was beyond drunk, but I didn’t take the blame. Just accepted my role in things. It’s not like we are an arguing pair. Lots of love & fun honestly and ppl draw to us. Anyway I accepted responsibility, said I understand his thoughts on everything and that I won’t be heartbroken if he’s drawn his conclusion.
Any updates ladies? My aqua is very talkative and flirty again. Things seem much better!
Later that day, he’s back to sending naughty pics BUT most importantly he actually communicated about the problems. Told me he feels I am upset with him, angry with him. So I asked what does he feel I’m upset/angry with? Of couuurrrssseeee he feels it’s bc I’m jealous of this girl he once dated & remains friends with. I nipped that in the bud by responding very logically & rationally. I so badly wanted to ask him why he gets all passive aggressive if I’m mingling with other guys... it’s like he wants to throw girls eyeing him in my face & old lovers...but the minute anyone eyed me & I mingle he gets ridiculous. Note: I’m an Aries, so long as another guy isn’t disrespecting my date I will chat.
Lmao ok funny story. We were dining at a very upscale restaurant with a dress code & I told an older waiter he’s attractive. Why? Bc we each had pointed the waiter out as being poised & looked like an actor/model.
No I didn’t want to date the man, but he goes out his way to say “she has the best view in the room.” And I said do you see what I have to deal with & we all laughed. Even the waiter complimented him, but def didn’t compliment me. He knew better. The next day he kept walking ahead of me making eye contact with pretty girls. We were in Times Square so I pretended I got lost in the crowd. After that he stopped walking ahead of me, but then we suddenly heard the sound of heels hitting the concrete, he says “why do men love the sound of heels so much” lol the lady walked passed us & had on these thick heeled boots that were worn down bad. I laughed so hard inside, but kept on as I had before that. he is a fashionable guy so it was funny to me.
Im gonna enjoy the fun while it lasts. He’s not emotionally mature enough to work together with me. However, I must say that keeping my end of discussion logical & rational, plus a life of my own, did help with the recent problem.
I don’t anticipate anymore problems, but he’s gonna miss the enthusiastic, heart-on-sleeve, googly eyed version of me & I don’t think he’s that interested in me (from a true commitment standpoint) to keep it alive. He’s just gonna think on it & wonder why. I only say this bc I’ve done things that women before me have done. For example, be with him but act like the scenery is more interesting to avoid eye contact, solely to cool off & blow off silly shit like “why do men love the sound of heels.”
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Posted by aquarius_manI hate to say that I’m not in disbelief in this instance. Wish I were.Posted by rockTennAs in disbelief. I see. Thank youPosted by aquarius_manShaking my head!Posted by rockTenn??
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Posted by Klh1203For a while now I’ve felt my aqua showers me with pda & dates bc of my body and looks. Also he’s white, I’m black. Like I almost feel like an accessory. If this girl is hot, could be the case with your aqua, but keep in mind that loooks are not everything for aqua. Sounds like you’ve already given him space so there’s not much more you can do here, but i wouldn’t be surprised if he’s stringing you along while he “tests” Ms. Cleavage. My aqua is stringing this other girl along big time.Posted by pinkbird03I don’t know. I feel like a long time though, he’s got his own place so she probably lives with him. I’m not 100% sure if it’s his girlfriend or just a f buddy but must be special enough for him to go out for dinner and post it and then you can see her arms and cleavage in the picPosted by Klh1203How long have they been together? Any idea?
I feel like him and his girlfriend are rocky at the minute and when they’re good he won’t speak to me and when they’re bad that’s when I’m there, wow. Disgusting.click to expand
Posted by aquarius_manI was referring to KIH’s situation. My bad! LolPosted by rockTennI didn t follow all the details I am afraid. Texted her if OK after what happened?Posted by aquarius_manI hate to say that I’m not in disbelief in this instance. Wish I were.Posted by rockTennAs in disbelief. I see. Thank youPosted by aquarius_manShaking my head!Posted by rockTenn
SMH!
Oh i didnt follow. what happened ?
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However I am thinking typical aqua bs. He could’ve just been upfront with her.
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Posted by rockTennAnd not forgetting telling me how I’m wife material, saying he hasn’t got a girlfriend when I asked, and showering me in compliments all the time saying I make him happy and making sure that i got over my ex so we can be together smhPosted by aquarius_manI hate to say that I’m not in disbelief in this instance. Wish I were.Posted by rockTennAs in disbelief. I see. Thank youPosted by aquarius_manShaking my head!Posted by rockTenn??
SMH!
However I am thinking typical aqua bs. He could’ve just been upfront with her.
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Posted by rockTennWell that’s so similar to this Aqua then Lol! And yes I will 🙌🏽🤷🏽♀️ I’m just ignoring it until he over steps the mark I’ll mention it but act unbothered Lol, he kept telling me how girls he’s had sex with were always sh** and just genuinely talking about his sex life with me I should have known from then he had someone... she could be someone he’s sleeping with and they’re not actually together because he did make it clear he’s not interested in a relationship atm but I’m ready to move on from this thread now, lol I will miss u all though😢😂 probably come back on to put my negative input on some peoples threads now from this horrible experience 😂Posted by Klh1203For a while now I’ve felt my aqua showers me with pda & dates bc of my body and looks. Also he’s white, I’m black. Like I almost feel like an accessory. If this girl is hot, could be the case with your aqua, but keep in mind that loooks are not everything for aqua. Sounds like you’ve already given him space so there’s not much more you can do here, but i wouldn’t be surprised if he’s stringing you along while he “tests” Ms. Cleavage. My aqua is stringing this other girl along big time.Posted by pinkbird03I don’t know. I feel like a long time though, he’s got his own place so she probably lives with him. I’m not 100% sure if it’s his girlfriend or just a f buddy but must be special enough for him to go out for dinner and post it and then you can see her arms and cleavage in the picPosted by Klh1203How long have they been together? Any idea?
I feel like him and his girlfriend are rocky at the minute and when they’re good he won’t speak to me and when they’re bad that’s when I’m there, wow. Disgusting.
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Posted by Klh1203Aww we will miss you!! But it’s definitely time to take a break from overthinking all this aqua drama!!Posted by rockTennWell that’s so similar to this Aqua then Lol! And yes I will 🙌🏽🤷🏽♀️ I’m just ignoring it until he over steps the mark I’ll mention it but act unbothered Lol, he kept telling me how girls he’s had sex with were always sh** and just genuinely talking about his sex life with me I should have known from then he had someone... she could be someone he’s sleeping with and they’re not actually together because he did make it clear he’s not interested in a relationship atm but I’m ready to move on from this thread now, lol I will miss u all though😢😂 probably come back on to put my negative input on some peoples threads now from this horrible experience 😂Posted by Klh1203For a while now I’ve felt my aqua showers me with pda & dates bc of my body and looks. Also he’s white, I’m black. Like I almost feel like an accessory. If this girl is hot, could be the case with your aqua, but keep in mind that loooks are not everything for aqua. Sounds like you’ve already given him space so there’s not much more you can do here, but i wouldn’t be surprised if he’s stringing you along while he “tests” Ms. Cleavage. My aqua is stringing this other girl along big time.Posted by pinkbird03I don’t know. I feel like a long time though, he’s got his own place so she probably lives with him. I’m not 100% sure if it’s his girlfriend or just a f buddy but must be special enough for him to go out for dinner and post it and then you can see her arms and cleavage in the picPosted by Klh1203How long have they been together? Any idea?
I feel like him and his girlfriend are rocky at the minute and when they’re good he won’t speak to me and when they’re bad that’s when I’m there, wow. Disgusting.
Whatever you do, express no emotions. You go move on as well so he’s not part of your daily thoughts.
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Posted by aquarius_manPosted by Klh1203Posted by pinkbird03Must be something in the planets lol mine has come back
Any updates ladies? My aqua is very talkative and flirty again. Things seem much better!
Really? Today I saw my ex for the 1st time since we broke up. Had coffee together.click to expand
Posted by aquarius_manPosted by pinkbird03Oh no we didnt discuss about feelings and I didnt bring her a red rosePosted by aquarius_manPosted by Klh1203Posted by pinkbird03Must be something in the planets lol mine has come back
Any updates ladies? My aqua is very talkative and flirty again. Things seem much better!
Really? Today I saw my ex for the 1st time since we broke up. Had coffee together.
coffee ☕️
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Posted by GeminiGirl052388She’s so delusional. I’ve never seen anything like this.Posted by saweetz1988No bitch. You stay in your closet. You are giving bs advise on here. Stop it. You are ruining lives by sharing your stupidity. Can anyone fucking forward this to her?Posted by compythanks compy,Posted by saweetz1988He was not not into you.Posted by saggurl88Posted by Klh1203Posted by saggurl88Posted by saweetz1988I just realized this morning that he's hid his location, so now I think I'm gonna go out later tonight and have a couple of drinks and not forget to snap lol. He hid it so he can log on whenever and take a look without me knowing lolPosted by saggurl88hehe yeah do it !!Posted by saweetz1988I'm gonna have to work on doing this. I hardly ever take selfies unless I'm laying in bed about to go to sleep and using a cute snap filter. I mostly take then when I'm bored. Lol
Direct snap is the best. They do like attention too n it makes them feel special without much pressure from their side.
the last snap i sent him was this amazing coffee and restauraut and i said to him that he shud totally try!!
then he replied
babe, i don't drink coffee
hahaha
anyway, my bad i forgot about it but u can send anything really.
i dun send many selfies at all only the ones i find very hot n sexy 😛 n even those i mainly post them on my stories😛
there was one i sent to him of me doing some clothes shopping which i thought i looked nice and he replied
thats nice babe, but i hope u r handing ur resumes while you are there.
lol
funny being these people.
So I will keep my location turned on until after this weekend since its my birthday and if his isn't up again by Monday, I will go back into hiding. 😆
😂😂why do they play these games
Because we can't tell what they're doing 😛
they don't wanna reveal too much about themselves,
they only wanna know everything about others
but if u get to a stage, and show enough consistency and build the trust, u will get them to reveal lots more than they hide...but they need 2 know u can accept everything they tell u and u won't disappear and still feel for them the same...
mine said, he's never told anyone(except for his sister) about his life ,his information, his past,
as much as he does to me or did.
and for that i am special .
but
meh ,
lol...not feeling it,
they r best kept as a friend to b honest.
for a relationship, they are too inconsistent, unpredictable, a bit selfish and just pure annoying 😛
just stay in your closet
we got it cover here.
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Posted by Klh1203This is why I heed to disinterest.
Ok I’ve got my answer as to why he’s been acting the way he has lol, he’s got a girlfriend 😂😂😩
Posted by GeminiGirl052388It’s so cringey.Posted by bkbella86I really dunno where she gets her guts to still post stuff about aquas. And people who believe her... well, they might end up with the same fate as her when it comes to their aqua men. Seriously, her comments are shit. But she wants to appear all knowing. Makes me cringe.Posted by GeminiGirl052388She’s so delusional. I’ve never seen anything like this.Posted by saweetz1988No bitch. You stay in your closet. You are giving bs advise on here. Stop it. You are ruining lives by sharing your stupidity. Can anyone fucking forward this to her?Posted by compythanks compy,Posted by saweetz1988He was not not into you.Posted by saggurl88Posted by Klh1203Posted by saggurl88Posted by saweetz1988I just realized this morning that he's hid his location, so now I think I'm gonna go out later tonight and have a couple of drinks and not forget to snap lol. He hid it so he can log on whenever and take a look without me knowing lolPosted by saggurl88hehe yeah do it !!Posted by saweetz1988I'm gonna have to work on doing this. I hardly ever take selfies unless I'm laying in bed about to go to sleep and using a cute snap filter. I mostly take then when I'm bored. Lol
Direct snap is the best. They do like attention too n it makes them feel special without much pressure from their side.
the last snap i sent him was this amazing coffee and restauraut and i said to him that he shud totally try!!
then he replied
babe, i don't drink coffee
hahaha
anyway, my bad i forgot about it but u can send anything really.
i dun send many selfies at all only the ones i find very hot n sexy 😛 n even those i mainly post them on my stories😛
there was one i sent to him of me doing some clothes shopping which i thought i looked nice and he replied
thats nice babe, but i hope u r handing ur resumes while you are there.
lol
funny being these people.
So I will keep my location turned on until after this weekend since its my birthday and if his isn't up again by Monday, I will go back into hiding. 😆
😂😂why do they play these games
Because we can't tell what they're doing 😛
they don't wanna reveal too much about themselves,
they only wanna know everything about others
but if u get to a stage, and show enough consistency and build the trust, u will get them to reveal lots more than they hide...but they need 2 know u can accept everything they tell u and u won't disappear and still feel for them the same...
mine said, he's never told anyone(except for his sister) about his life ,his information, his past,
as much as he does to me or did.
and for that i am special .
but
meh ,
lol...not feeling it,
they r best kept as a friend to b honest.
for a relationship, they are too inconsistent, unpredictable, a bit selfish and just pure annoying 😛
just stay in your closet
we got it cover here.
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