Scared Aquarius off again (Page 5)

Posted by pinkbird03

Posted by Klh1203
I don’t know I think in @pinkbird03 they’re still a new couple, and he’s always busy so that’s his way of communicating and keeping an eye on her when he can’t. My Aqua was the same he was very busy and most times he would do things for my attention and sometimes he would ask why I don’t reach out to him. It’s like a cry for attention.

He wanted to share locations after i posted two dressed up selfies on different days. Soo yea. I think he wants to keep tabs on me!! I went out tonight for drinks. And he checked my location a lot. Funny boy. He could just ask me what I’m up to and who I’m with! I have nothing to hide!

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How do you know that he's checking? Does it actually tell him that you were checking up on him? I don't want my Aqua friend knowing I'm checking up on his location lol

Posted by bittercupcake
Just wanted to add another 2 cents..in this pile of rubbish

I woke up annoyed this morning, probably PMS. Aries thought I was mad so he got desperate trying to talk to me. I went to work and I didn’t pickup his calls or answer his texts. He got upset, accusing me of playing games. Thing is I’m not playing games. I’m just not in the mood to talk and I want to be left alone. I will get back to him when I get over it.

The point I’m trying to make is yes, we can seem like we’re playing games, but it can be just use wanting space. Well check up on you, if we care, because we do get curious and sometimes a little jealous but if we don’t reach out, then that means we don’t miss you enough to converse with you.

Whenever I’m going through one of my mood swings, I don’t go out of my way to talk to anyone but I will eventually reach out. Sooner rather than later. I don’t go weeks-months not wanting to talk or spend quality time together. If I’m not making effort, it means I don’t miss you and I rather be a part more so than being around you. That’s a whole other issue though.

You didn't just let him know you're in a bad mood and to give you some space? Wouldn't that have avoided all the calls and texts?

Posted by bittercupcake
Just wanted to add another 2 cents..in this pile of rubbish

I woke up annoyed this morning, probably PMS. Aries thought I was mad so he got desperate trying to talk to me. I went to work and I didn’t pickup his calls or answer his texts. He got upset, accusing me of playing games. Thing is I’m not playing games. I’m just not in the mood to talk and I want to be left alone. I will get back to him when I get over it.

The point I’m trying to make is yes, we can seem like we’re playing games, but it can be just use wanting space. Well check up on you, if we care, because we do get curious and sometimes a little jealous but if we don’t reach out, then that means we don’t miss you enough to converse with you.

Whenever I’m going through one of my mood swings, I don’t go out of my way to talk to anyone but I will eventually reach out. Sooner rather than later. I don’t go weeks-months not wanting to talk or spend quality time together. If I’m not making effort, it means I don’t miss you and I rather be a part more so than being around you. That’s a whole other issue though.

I completely understand this about aquas.

And admire it.

Posted by pinkbird03

Posted by saweetz1988
I honest don't think Aqua has that much time on their hand to play too much game esp if u two r a couple. Just no... lol.. if they want u they will chase u. They will make it clear. and talk like a normal person. he cud be testing u, but the inconsistency is becoming a little too much now. Perhaps something else is going on that u don't know about n he doesn't wanna trouble u with it? but, have u done much for him since he's been busy? Maybe like deliver him some food is a nice way to show him that u care without pressuring him. ? I only say this becoz u r a couple now . n the Aqua used to love that about me when I did that when he was very busy with uni and full time work back in the days .

I don’t think he’s hiding anything. He wouldn’t share his location with me if he was. Plus it takes no effort to look at your phone to see what I’m up to. And I know he likes location sharing because he does it with his guy friends. I’ve done one thing that was really nice and he seemed to appreciate it very much. But I’m not bringing him food because he doesn’t like to stop working. He’d prefer to get things done so he can eventually leave work and then grab food at one of his usual spots. I told him he has to tell me if he doesn’t want me in his life anymore and he said he would. Sooo i know he does. But I think he needs to focus on what he’s doing so it’s successful. He works 7 days a week so I should be more understanding. I think this experience is making us a stronger closer couple. But only time will tell.

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Why don’t you meet to eat together, then? I really don’t understand your relationship. All the aqua I have been with they will make an effort to spend time together, it doesn’t matter how busy they are.

Posted by bittercupcake

Posted by rockTenn

Posted by bittercupcake
Just wanted to add another 2 cents..in this pile of rubbish

I woke up annoyed this morning, probably PMS. Aries thought I was mad so he got desperate trying to talk to me. I went to work and I didn’t pickup his calls or answer his texts. He got upset, accusing me of playing games. Thing is I’m not playing games. I’m just not in the mood to talk and I want to be left alone. I will get back to him when I get over it.

The point I’m trying to make is yes, we can seem like we’re playing games, but it can be just use wanting space. Well check up on you, if we care, because we do get curious and sometimes a little jealous but if we don’t reach out, then that means we don’t miss you enough to converse with you.

Whenever I’m going through one of my mood swings, I don’t go out of my way to talk to anyone but I will eventually reach out. Sooner rather than later. I don’t go weeks-months not wanting to talk or spend quality time together. If I’m not making effort, it means I don’t miss you and I rather be a part more so than being around you. That’s a whole other issue though.

I completely understand this about aquas.

And admire it.

Facetious? Or Honestly?

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Honestly. I’m an Aries and carry about the same, except I do elaborate/explain when I’m dating someone I’m into.

Thank you for sharing what the aqua is thinking when they’re unavailable.

Posted by pisceswoman123

Posted by pinkbird03

Posted by saweetz1988
I honest don't think Aqua has that much time on their hand to play too much game esp if u two r a couple. Just no... lol.. if they want u they will chase u. They will make it clear. and talk like a normal person. he cud be testing u, but the inconsistency is becoming a little too much now. Perhaps something else is going on that u don't know about n he doesn't wanna trouble u with it? but, have u done much for him since he's been busy? Maybe like deliver him some food is a nice way to show him that u care without pressuring him. ? I only say this becoz u r a couple now . n the Aqua used to love that about me when I did that when he was very busy with uni and full time work back in the days .

I don’t think he’s hiding anything. He wouldn’t share his location with me if he was. Plus it takes no effort to look at your phone to see what I’m up to. And I know he likes location sharing because he does it with his guy friends. I’ve done one thing that was really nice and he seemed to appreciate it very much. But I’m not bringing him food because he doesn’t like to stop working. He’d prefer to get things done so he can eventually leave work and then grab food at one of his usual spots. I told him he has to tell me if he doesn’t want me in his life anymore and he said he would. Sooo i know he does. But I think he needs to focus on what he’s doing so it’s successful. He works 7 days a week so I should be more understanding. I think this experience is making us a stronger closer couple. But only time will tell.

Why don’t you meet to eat together, then? I really don’t understand your relationship. All the aqua I have been with they will make an effort to spend time together, it doesn’t matter how busy they are.

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I agree that time is made. In fact the amount of time is impressive and exceeds every sign I’ve dated. I’ve only dated 2 aquas that are worth counting LOL, but they each made time. The current being the one that’s impressive. However he’s ghosting me right now & rightfully so. Usually ghosts for 2 days, but he is making a decision on whether or not I can control my temper. For what it’s worth I have a drinking problem that I played down & it revealed itself via my direct blunt big mouth.

He’s still communicating, but I’m calling it ghosting bc I deserve to suffer and he deserves to think about us continuing.

Posted by saggurl88

Posted by pinkbird03

Posted by Klh1203
I don’t know I think in @pinkbird03 they’re still a new couple, and he’s always busy so that’s his way of communicating and keeping an eye on her when he can’t. My Aqua was the same he was very busy and most times he would do things for my attention and sometimes he would ask why I don’t reach out to him. It’s like a cry for attention.

He wanted to share locations after i posted two dressed up selfies on different days. Soo yea. I think he wants to keep tabs on me!! I went out tonight for drinks. And he checked my location a lot. Funny boy. He could just ask me what I’m up to and who I’m with! I have nothing to hide!

How do you know that he's checking? Does it actually tell him that you were checking up on him? I don't want my Aqua friend knowing I'm checking up on his location lol

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Because I can see when he logs on and I just know he’s checking on me based on his activity. It’s a lot about knowing what his behavior was and is. He’s playing certain games

Posted by rockTenn

Posted by pisceswoman123

Posted by pinkbird03

Posted by saweetz1988
I honest don't think Aqua has that much time on their hand to play too much game esp if u two r a couple. Just no... lol.. if they want u they will chase u. They will make it clear. and talk like a normal person. he cud be testing u, but the inconsistency is becoming a little too much now. Perhaps something else is going on that u don't know about n he doesn't wanna trouble u with it? but, have u done much for him since he's been busy? Maybe like deliver him some food is a nice way to show him that u care without pressuring him. ? I only say this becoz u r a couple now . n the Aqua used to love that about me when I did that when he was very busy with uni and full time work back in the days .

I don’t think he’s hiding anything. He wouldn’t share his location with me if he was. Plus it takes no effort to look at your phone to see what I’m up to. And I know he likes location sharing because he does it with his guy friends. I’ve done one thing that was really nice and he seemed to appreciate it very much. But I’m not bringing him food because he doesn’t like to stop working. He’d prefer to get things done so he can eventually leave work and then grab food at one of his usual spots. I told him he has to tell me if he doesn’t want me in his life anymore and he said he would. Sooo i know he does. But I think he needs to focus on what he’s doing so it’s successful. He works 7 days a week so I should be more understanding. I think this experience is making us a stronger closer couple. But only time will tell.

Why don’t you meet to eat together, then? I really don’t understand your relationship. All the aqua I have been with they will make an effort to spend time together, it doesn’t matter how busy they are.

I agree that time is made. In fact the amount of time is impressive and exceeds every sign I’ve dated. I’ve only dated 2 aquas that are worth counting LOL, but they each made time. The current being the one that’s impressive. However he’s ghosting me right now & rightfully so. Usually ghosts for 2 days, but he is making a decision on whether or not I can control my temper. For what it’s worth I have a drinking problem that I played down & it revealed itself via my direct blunt big mouth.

He’s still communicating, but I’m calling it ghosting bc I deserve to suffer and he deserves to think about us continuing.

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I have never had a aqua ghosting me. But maybe I just wouldn’t noticed because I tend to distance my self if I feel I am not emotionally supported. It’s so weird but the more I read about the “problems” that they all have here with aqua men the more I realize that they are never like that to me. I really I am starting to wonder what is it... I only see the nice sweet side of them.

Posted by pisceswoman123

Posted by pinkbird03

Posted by saweetz1988
I honest don't think Aqua has that much time on their hand to play too much game esp if u two r a couple. Just no... lol.. if they want u they will chase u. They will make it clear. and talk like a normal person. he cud be testing u, but the inconsistency is becoming a little too much now. Perhaps something else is going on that u don't know about n he doesn't wanna trouble u with it? but, have u done much for him since he's been busy? Maybe like deliver him some food is a nice way to show him that u care without pressuring him. ? I only say this becoz u r a couple now . n the Aqua used to love that about me when I did that when he was very busy with uni and full time work back in the days .

I don’t think he’s hiding anything. He wouldn’t share his location with me if he was. Plus it takes no effort to look at your phone to see what I’m up to. And I know he likes location sharing because he does it with his guy friends. I’ve done one thing that was really nice and he seemed to appreciate it very much. But I’m not bringing him food because he doesn’t like to stop working. He’d prefer to get things done so he can eventually leave work and then grab food at one of his usual spots. I told him he has to tell me if he doesn’t want me in his life anymore and he said he would. Sooo i know he does. But I think he needs to focus on what he’s doing so it’s successful. He works 7 days a week so I should be more understanding. I think this experience is making us a stronger closer couple. But only time will tell.

Why don’t you meet to eat together, then? I really don’t understand your relationship. All the aqua I have been with they will make an effort to spend time together, it doesn’t matter how busy they are.

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Because all he does is work, sleep, and eat. This is his third company. He started his first when he was 17. His own words, “going to make the next million” work is his priority right now. He wants to be with someone who understands that.

@pinkbird03 Does he have water placements? Sorry if you’ve already shared. I understand most signs & planets... now seeking to understand natal charts by observing placements/houses.

Posted by pisceswoman123

Posted by rockTenn

Posted by pisceswoman123

Posted by pinkbird03

Posted by saweetz1988
I honest don't think Aqua has that much time on their hand to play too much game esp if u two r a couple. Just no... lol.. if they want u they will chase u. They will make it clear. and talk like a normal person. he cud be testing u, but the inconsistency is becoming a little too much now. Perhaps something else is going on that u don't know about n he doesn't wanna trouble u with it? but, have u done much for him since he's been busy? Maybe like deliver him some food is a nice way to show him that u care without pressuring him. ? I only say this becoz u r a couple now . n the Aqua used to love that about me when I did that when he was very busy with uni and full time work back in the days .

I don’t think he’s hiding anything. He wouldn’t share his location with me if he was. Plus it takes no effort to look at your phone to see what I’m up to. And I know he likes location sharing because he does it with his guy friends. I’ve done one thing that was really nice and he seemed to appreciate it very much. But I’m not bringing him food because he doesn’t like to stop working. He’d prefer to get things done so he can eventually leave work and then grab food at one of his usual spots. I told him he has to tell me if he doesn’t want me in his life anymore and he said he would. Sooo i know he does. But I think he needs to focus on what he’s doing so it’s successful. He works 7 days a week so I should be more understanding. I think this experience is making us a stronger closer couple. But only time will tell.

Why don’t you meet to eat together, then? I really don’t understand your relationship. All the aqua I have been with they will make an effort to spend time together, it doesn’t matter how busy they are.

I agree that time is made. In fact the amount of time is impressive and exceeds every sign I’ve dated. I’ve only dated 2 aquas that are worth counting LOL, but they each made time. The current being the one that’s impressive. However he’s ghosting me right now & rightfully so. Usually ghosts for 2 days, but he is making a decision on whether or not I can control my temper. For what it’s worth I have a drinking problem that I played down & it revealed itself via my direct blunt big mouth.

He’s still communicating, but I’m calling it ghosting bc I deserve to suffer and he deserves to think about us continuing.

I have never had a aqua ghosting me. But maybe I just wouldn’t noticed because I tend to distance my self if I feel I am not emotionally supported. It’s so weird but the more I read about the “problems” that they all have here with aqua men the more I realize that they are never like that to me. I really I am starting to wonder what is it... I only see the nice sweet side of them.

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I agree. What has gotten me this far is exactly that, having a life of my own & not making it a love story. I get PDA, broadway show dates, courtside seat dates, expensive dinners, museum dates, trips...it’s beautiful and me being a drunk spoiled brat ARIES just had to add a glitch. With * drumroll * being emotional and not letting one silly thing roll off my shoulders. I haven’t drank since after drinking daily for 18 months. So in my case, I’m not delusional and do have an event that I can identify. He’s not ghosting, but definitely is on a mission to prove his individuality and that he doesn’t trust my temper.

I don’t want my situation to make aqua males appear difficult.

Posted by pinkbird03

Posted by saggurl88

Posted by pinkbird03

Posted by Klh1203
I don’t know I think in @pinkbird03 they’re still a new couple, and he’s always busy so that’s his way of communicating and keeping an eye on her when he can’t. My Aqua was the same he was very busy and most times he would do things for my attention and sometimes he would ask why I don’t reach out to him. It’s like a cry for attention.

He wanted to share locations after i posted two dressed up selfies on different days. Soo yea. I think he wants to keep tabs on me!! I went out tonight for drinks. And he checked my location a lot. Funny boy. He could just ask me what I’m up to and who I’m with! I have nothing to hide!

How do you know that he's checking? Does it actually tell him that you were checking up on him? I don't want my Aqua friend knowing I'm checking up on his location lol

Because I can see when he logs on and I just know he’s checking on me based on his activity. It’s a lot about knowing what his behavior was and is. He’s playing certain games

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You scared me for a sec!! 😄😄😄

Posted by rockTenn
@pinkbird03 Does he have water placements? Sorry if you’ve already shared. I understand most signs & planets... now seeking to understand natal charts by observing placements/houses.

Can u help me understand my bf better?

Aqua sun and moon

Pisces Venus and mars

Capricorn mercury, Jupiter, and Neptune

Scorpio Saturn and Pluto

Rising sign Taurus (like me)

Posted by saggurl88

Posted by pinkbird03

Posted by saggurl88

Posted by pinkbird03

Posted by Klh1203
I don’t know I think in @pinkbird03 they’re still a new couple, and he’s always busy so that’s his way of communicating and keeping an eye on her when he can’t. My Aqua was the same he was very busy and most times he would do things for my attention and sometimes he would ask why I don’t reach out to him. It’s like a cry for attention.

He wanted to share locations after i posted two dressed up selfies on different days. Soo yea. I think he wants to keep tabs on me!! I went out tonight for drinks. And he checked my location a lot. Funny boy. He could just ask me what I’m up to and who I’m with! I have nothing to hide!

How do you know that he's checking? Does it actually tell him that you were checking up on him? I don't want my Aqua friend knowing I'm checking up on his location lol

Because I can see when he logs on and I just know he’s checking on me based on his activity. It’s a lot about knowing what his behavior was and is. He’s playing certain games

You scared me for a sec!! 😄😄😄

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lol I wish I could know for a fact!!

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Posted by pinkbird03

Posted by saweetz1988
I honest don't think Aqua has that much time on their hand to play too much game esp if u two r a couple. Just no... lol.. if they want u they will chase u. They will make it clear. and talk like a normal person. he cud be testing u, but the inconsistency is becoming a little too much now. Perhaps something else is going on that u don't know about n he doesn't wanna trouble u with it? but, have u done much for him since he's been busy? Maybe like deliver him some food is a nice way to show him that u care without pressuring him. ? I only say this becoz u r a couple now . n the Aqua used to love that about me when I did that when he was very busy with uni and full time work back in the days .

I don’t think he’s hiding anything. He wouldn’t share his location with me if he was. Plus it takes no effort to look at your phone to see what I’m up to. And I know he likes location sharing because he does it with his guy friends. I’ve done one thing that was really nice and he seemed to appreciate it very much. But I’m not bringing him food because he doesn’t like to stop working. He’d prefer to get things done so he can eventually leave work and then grab food at one of his usual spots. I told him he has to tell me if he doesn’t want me in his life anymore and he said he would. Sooo i know he does. But I think he needs to focus on what he’s doing so it’s successful. He works 7 days a week so I should be more understanding. I think this experience is making us a stronger closer couple. But only time will tell.

Why don’t you meet to eat together, then? I really don’t understand your relationship. All the aqua I have been with they will make an effort to spend time together, it doesn’t matter how busy they are.

I agree that time is made. In fact the amount of time is impressive and exceeds every sign I’ve dated. I’ve only dated 2 aquas that are worth counting LOL, but they each made time. The current being the one that’s impressive. However he’s ghosting me right now & rightfully so. Usually ghosts for 2 days, but he is making a decision on whether or not I can control my temper. For what it’s worth I have a drinking problem that I played down & it revealed itself via my direct blunt big mouth.

He’s still communicating, but I’m calling it ghosting bc I deserve to suffer and he deserves to think about us continuing.

I have never had a aqua ghosting me. But maybe I just wouldn’t noticed because I tend to distance my self if I feel I am not emotionally supported. It’s so weird but the more I read about the “problems” that they all have here with aqua men the more I realize that they are never like that to me. I really I am starting to wonder what is it... I only see the nice sweet side of them.

I agree. What has gotten me this far is exactly that, having a life of my own & not making it a love story. I get PDA, broadway show dates, courtside seat dates, expensive dinners, museum dates, trips...it’s beautiful and me being a drunk spoiled brat ARIES just had to add a glitch. With * drumroll * being emotional and not letting one silly thing roll off my shoulders. I haven’t drank since after drinking daily for 18 months. So in my case, I’m not delusional and do have an event that I can identify. He’s not ghosting, but definitely is on a mission to prove his individuality and that he doesn’t trust my temper.

I don’t want my situation to make aqua males appear difficult.

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If I know one thing about aquas in general it’s that they don’t like problems. If you are making his life more difficult he will distance him self from you. Congratulations about your dry months bdw

Posted by pinkbird03

Posted by rockTenn
@pinkbird03 Does he have water placements? Sorry if you’ve already shared. I understand most signs & planets... now seeking to understand natal charts by observing placements/houses.

Can u help me understand my bf better?

Aqua sun and moon

Pisces Venus and mars

Capricorn mercury, Jupiter, and Neptune

Scorpio Saturn and Pluto

Rising sign Taurus (like me)

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For one, Aqua moon will make him even more detached. Must feel conflicted with that Pisces venus and mars

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Posted by saweetz1988
I honest don't think Aqua has that much time on their hand to play too much game esp if u two r a couple. Just no... lol.. if they want u they will chase u. They will make it clear. and talk like a normal person. he cud be testing u, but the inconsistency is becoming a little too much now. Perhaps something else is going on that u don't know about n he doesn't wanna trouble u with it? but, have u done much for him since he's been busy? Maybe like deliver him some food is a nice way to show him that u care without pressuring him. ? I only say this becoz u r a couple now . n the Aqua used to love that about me when I did that when he was very busy with uni and full time work back in the days .

I don’t think he’s hiding anything. He wouldn’t share his location with me if he was. Plus it takes no effort to look at your phone to see what I’m up to. And I know he likes location sharing because he does it with his guy friends. I’ve done one thing that was really nice and he seemed to appreciate it very much. But I’m not bringing him food because he doesn’t like to stop working. He’d prefer to get things done so he can eventually leave work and then grab food at one of his usual spots. I told him he has to tell me if he doesn’t want me in his life anymore and he said he would. Sooo i know he does. But I think he needs to focus on what he’s doing so it’s successful. He works 7 days a week so I should be more understanding. I think this experience is making us a stronger closer couple. But only time will tell.

Why don’t you meet to eat together, then? I really don’t understand your relationship. All the aqua I have been with they will make an effort to spend time together, it doesn’t matter how busy they are.

I agree that time is made. In fact the amount of time is impressive and exceeds every sign I’ve dated. I’ve only dated 2 aquas that are worth counting LOL, but they each made time. The current being the one that’s impressive. However he’s ghosting me right now & rightfully so. Usually ghosts for 2 days, but he is making a decision on whether or not I can control my temper. For what it’s worth I have a drinking problem that I played down & it revealed itself via my direct blunt big mouth.

He’s still communicating, but I’m calling it ghosting bc I deserve to suffer and he deserves to think about us continuing.

I have never had a aqua ghosting me. But maybe I just wouldn’t noticed because I tend to distance my self if I feel I am not emotionally supported. It’s so weird but the more I read about the “problems” that they all have here with aqua men the more I realize that they are never like that to me. I really I am starting to wonder what is it... I only see the nice sweet side of them.

I agree. What has gotten me this far is exactly that, having a life of my own & not making it a love story. I get PDA, broadway show dates, courtside seat dates, expensive dinners, museum dates, trips...it’s beautiful and me being a drunk spoiled brat ARIES just had to add a glitch. With * drumroll * being emotional and not letting one silly thing roll off my shoulders. I haven’t drank since after drinking daily for 18 months. So in my case, I’m not delusional and do have an event that I can identify. He’s not ghosting, but definitely is on a mission to prove his individuality and that he doesn’t trust my temper.

I don’t want my situation to make aqua males appear difficult.

If I know one thing about aquas in general it’s that they don’t like problems. If you are making his life more difficult he will distance him self from you. Congratulations about your dry months bdw

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This is true.🙂

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Posted by saweetz1988
I honest don't think Aqua has that much time on their hand to play too much game esp if u two r a couple. Just no... lol.. if they want u they will chase u. They will make it clear. and talk like a normal person. he cud be testing u, but the inconsistency is becoming a little too much now. Perhaps something else is going on that u don't know about n he doesn't wanna trouble u with it? but, have u done much for him since he's been busy? Maybe like deliver him some food is a nice way to show him that u care without pressuring him. ? I only say this becoz u r a couple now . n the Aqua used to love that about me when I did that when he was very busy with uni and full time work back in the days .

I don’t think he’s hiding anything. He wouldn’t share his location with me if he was. Plus it takes no effort to look at your phone to see what I’m up to. And I know he likes location sharing because he does it with his guy friends. I’ve done one thing that was really nice and he seemed to appreciate it very much. But I’m not bringing him food because he doesn’t like to stop working. He’d prefer to get things done so he can eventually leave work and then grab food at one of his usual spots. I told him he has to tell me if he doesn’t want me in his life anymore and he said he would. Sooo i know he does. But I think he needs to focus on what he’s doing so it’s successful. He works 7 days a week so I should be more understanding. I think this experience is making us a stronger closer couple. But only time will tell.

Why don’t you meet to eat together, then? I really don’t understand your relationship. All the aqua I have been with they will make an effort to spend time together, it doesn’t matter how busy they are.

I agree that time is made. In fact the amount of time is impressive and exceeds every sign I’ve dated. I’ve only dated 2 aquas that are worth counting LOL, but they each made time. The current being the one that’s impressive. However he’s ghosting me right now & rightfully so. Usually ghosts for 2 days, but he is making a decision on whether or not I can control my temper. For what it’s worth I have a drinking problem that I played down & it revealed itself via my direct blunt big mouth.

He’s still communicating, but I’m calling it ghosting bc I deserve to suffer and he deserves to think about us continuing.

I have never had a aqua ghosting me. But maybe I just wouldn’t noticed because I tend to distance my self if I feel I am not emotionally supported. It’s so weird but the more I read about the “problems” that they all have here with aqua men the more I realize that they are never like that to me. I really I am starting to wonder what is it... I only see the nice sweet side of them.

I agree. What has gotten me this far is exactly that, having a life of my own & not making it a love story. I get PDA, broadway show dates, courtside seat dates, expensive dinners, museum dates, trips...it’s beautiful and me being a drunk spoiled brat ARIES just had to add a glitch. With * drumroll * being emotional and not letting one silly thing roll off my shoulders. I haven’t drank since after drinking daily for 18 months. So in my case, I’m not delusional and do have an event that I can identify. He’s not ghosting, but definitely is on a mission to prove his individuality and that he doesn’t trust my temper.

I don’t want my situation to make aqua males appear difficult.

If I know one thing about aquas in general it’s that they don’t like problems. If you are making his life more difficult he will distance him self from you. Congratulations about your dry months bdw

Finally! Someone who sees aquas the same way I do. I really dunno why people make them seem more complicated than they actually are. JS.

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I agree completely 😊

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Posted by rockTenn
@pinkbird03 Does he have water placements? Sorry if you’ve already shared. I understand most signs & planets... now seeking to understand natal charts by observing placements/houses.

Can u help me understand my bf better?

Aqua sun and moon

Pisces Venus and mars

Capricorn mercury, Jupiter, and Neptune

Scorpio Saturn and Pluto

Rising sign Taurus (like me)

For one, Aqua moon will make him even more detached. Must feel conflicted with that Pisces venus and mars

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Yea seriously. He can be extremely clingy or extremely detached And then sometimes both!!

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https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/aquarius/dating-an-aquarius-man-1561139/

That thread is too old.

Guys he messaged me lmao 😩😩😭

Even though it’s frustrating this time I am just going to go along with his flow of things and have patience, and I’m not going to read too much in to things so that way I wont have a bad reaction and scare him away again lol😂 but I am glad I’ve been honest with him, and I’m very happy he’s messaged me but at the same time I had forgotten about him lol; he always messages when I forget him. Let’s see how it goes this time then🙄...challenge accepted, round 34564224 😂

krysrenee7 . Where did this girl gone?

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Even though it’s frustrating this time I am just going to go along with his flow of things and have patience, and I’m not going to read too much in to things so that way I wont have a bad reaction and scare him away again lol😂 but I am glad I’ve been honest with him, and I’m very happy he’s messaged me but at the same time I had forgotten about him lol; he always messages when I forget him. Let’s see how it goes this time then🙄...challenge accepted, round 34564224 😂

lol . How long did he dissapear on u this time?

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Posted by Klh1203
Even though it’s frustrating this time I am just going to go along with his flow of things and have patience, and I’m not going to read too much in to things so that way I wont have a bad reaction and scare him away again lol😂 but I am glad I’ve been honest with him, and I’m very happy he’s messaged me but at the same time I had forgotten about him lol; he always messages when I forget him. Let’s see how it goes this time then🙄...challenge accepted, round 34564224 😂

lol . How long did he dissapear on u this time?

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Only a week, he usually will disappear a couple days or a week.. one time was 4 weeks because I blocked him and kept him on instagram only.

I just really feel with an Aqua u need patience and to just be their friend, nothing else. They definitely don’t like drama, and I am a bit dramatic I love attention so sometimes I tend to attention seek when I feel neglected or like I’m not getting enough emotion. Thanks to this thread I know how to handle him and treat him now though

My dad was an Aquarius, and I think that’s why I’ve got so excited with this guy because he reminds me of my dad so much and I was so close with my dad and always said I wanted to marry a man who was just like him, obviously now my dad has passed away my standards have been kept high because I promised him things before he passed.

My dad used to do the dissapear act on my mother sometimes when they were just dating before they got married and my mum told me she would just let him get on with it and not call him, so I think that’s one thing he likes about me because Even though I can be emotional and wear my heart on my sleeves when he disappears I get on with my life and don’t show him I’m bothered (even though I do get bothered but only dxp knows)😂

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My dad was an Aquarius, and I think that’s why I’ve got so excited with this guy because he reminds me of my dad so much and I was so close with my dad and always said I wanted to marry a man who was just like him, obviously now my dad has passed away my standards have been kept high because I promised him things before he passed.

My dad used to do the dissapear act on my mother sometimes when they were just dating before they got married and my mum told me she would just let him get on with it and not call him, so I think that’s one thing he likes about me because Even though I can be emotional and wear my heart on my sleeves when he disappears I get on with my life and don’t show him I’m bothered (even though I do get bothered but only dxp knows)😂

Aw im sorry about ur dad 😢 must b very hard.

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Posted by Klh1203
Even though it’s frustrating this time I am just going to go along with his flow of things and have patience, and I’m not going to read too much in to things so that way I wont have a bad reaction and scare him away again lol😂 but I am glad I’ve been honest with him, and I’m very happy he’s messaged me but at the same time I had forgotten about him lol; he always messages when I forget him. Let’s see how it goes this time then🙄...challenge accepted, round 34564224 😂

lol . How long did he dissapear on u this time?

Only a week, he usually will disappear a couple days or a week.. one time was 4 weeks because I blocked him and kept him on instagram only.

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When he disappear does he left u hanging when u ask him question?

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Even though it’s frustrating this time I am just going to go along with his flow of things and have patience, and I’m not going to read too much in to things so that way I wont have a bad reaction and scare him away again lol😂 but I am glad I’ve been honest with him, and I’m very happy he’s messaged me but at the same time I had forgotten about him lol; he always messages when I forget him. Let’s see how it goes this time then🙄...challenge accepted, round 34564224 😂

lol . How long did he dissapear on u this time?

Only a week, he usually will disappear a couple days or a week.. one time was 4 weeks because I blocked him and kept him on instagram only.

When he disappear does he left u hanging when u ask him question?

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Not usually no, it’s not that he leaves me hanging when I ask him a question usually I say something that makes him dissapear then he will be fine throughout the conversation then dissapear like the next day.

Posted by saweetz1988
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/aquarius/signs-of-the-aqua-man-in-love-1665002/?sort=desc This is relating to the thread. What people call tests or games.

This is exactly how I see aqua men

Any updates ladies? My aqua is very talkative and flirty again. Things seem much better!

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Posted by rockTenn
@pinkbird03 Does he have water placements? Sorry if you’ve already shared. I understand most signs & planets... now seeking to understand natal charts by observing placements/houses.

Can u help me understand my bf better?

Aqua sun and moon

Pisces Venus and mars

Capricorn mercury, Jupiter, and Neptune

Scorpio Saturn and Pluto

Rising sign Taurus (like me)

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I’m no pro so can’t promise I’ll help provide clarity.

My guy has Pisces Venus & mars. Cap moon. Sag rising.

We could compare them! I try to do a rookie synastry reading in these instances.

Posted by pinkbird03
Any updates ladies? My aqua is very talkative and flirty again. Things seem much better!

Same! I was “ghosted” for a day. Sent him a text pointing out that each time we had a problem I was beyond drunk, but I didn’t take the blame. Just accepted my role in things. It’s not like we are an arguing pair. Lots of love & fun honestly and ppl draw to us. Anyway I accepted responsibility, said I understand his thoughts on everything and that I won’t be heartbroken if he’s drawn his conclusion.

Later that day, he’s back to sending naughty pics BUT most importantly he actually communicated about the problems. Told me he feels I am upset with him, angry with him. So I asked what does he feel I’m upset/angry with? Of couuurrrssseeee he feels it’s bc I’m jealous of this girl he once dated & remains friends with. I nipped that in the bud by responding very logically & rationally. I so badly wanted to ask him why he gets all passive aggressive if I’m mingling with other guys... it’s like he wants to throw girls eyeing him in my face & old lovers...but the minute anyone eyed me & I mingle he gets ridiculous. Note: I’m an Aries, so long as another guy isn’t disrespecting my date I will chat.

Lmao ok funny story. We were dining at a very upscale restaurant with a dress code & I told an older waiter he’s attractive. Why? Bc we each had pointed the waiter out as being poised & looked like an actor/model.

No I didn’t want to date the man, but he goes out his way to say “she has the best view in the room.” And I said do you see what I have to deal with & we all laughed. Even the waiter complimented him, but def didn’t compliment me. He knew better. The next day he kept walking ahead of me making eye contact with pretty girls. We were in Times Square so I pretended I got lost in the crowd. After that he stopped walking ahead of me, but then we suddenly heard the sound of heels hitting the concrete, he says “why do men love the sound of heels so much” lol the lady walked passed us & had on these thick heeled boots that were worn down bad. I laughed so hard inside, but kept on as I had before that. he is a fashionable guy so it was funny to me.

Im gonna enjoy the fun while it lasts. He’s not emotionally mature enough to work together with me. However, I must say that keeping my end of discussion logical & rational, plus a life of my own, did help with the recent problem.

I don’t anticipate anymore problems, but he’s gonna miss the enthusiastic, heart-on-sleeve, googly eyed version of me & I don’t think he’s that interested in me (from a true commitment standpoint) to keep it alive. He’s just gonna think on it & wonder why. I only say this bc I’ve done things that women before me have done. For example, be with him but act like the scenery is more interesting to avoid eye contact, solely to cool off & blow off silly shit like “why do men love the sound of heels.”

Damn this is long...

Posted by rockTenn

Posted by pinkbird03

Posted by rockTenn
@pinkbird03 Does he have water placements? Sorry if you’ve already shared. I understand most signs & planets... now seeking to understand natal charts by observing placements/houses.

Can u help me understand my bf better?

Aqua sun and moon

Pisces Venus and mars

Capricorn mercury, Jupiter, and Neptune

Scorpio Saturn and Pluto

Rising sign Taurus (like me)

I’m no pro so can’t promise I’ll help provide clarity.

My guy has Pisces Venus & mars. Cap moon. Sag rising.

We could compare them! I try to do a rookie synastry reading in these instances.

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They both have Pisces Venus and mars. What do u think of that

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Posted by pinkbird03
Any updates ladies? My aqua is very talkative and flirty again. Things seem much better!

Same! I was “ghosted” for a day. Sent him a text pointing out that each time we had a problem I was beyond drunk, but I didn’t take the blame. Just accepted my role in things. It’s not like we are an arguing pair. Lots of love & fun honestly and ppl draw to us. Anyway I accepted responsibility, said I understand his thoughts on everything and that I won’t be heartbroken if he’s drawn his conclusion.

Later that day, he’s back to sending naughty pics BUT most importantly he actually communicated about the problems. Told me he feels I am upset with him, angry with him. So I asked what does he feel I’m upset/angry with? Of couuurrrssseeee he feels it’s bc I’m jealous of this girl he once dated & remains friends with. I nipped that in the bud by responding very logically & rationally. I so badly wanted to ask him why he gets all passive aggressive if I’m mingling with other guys... it’s like he wants to throw girls eyeing him in my face & old lovers...but the minute anyone eyed me & I mingle he gets ridiculous. Note: I’m an Aries, so long as another guy isn’t disrespecting my date I will chat.

Lmao ok funny story. We were dining at a very upscale restaurant with a dress code & I told an older waiter he’s attractive. Why? Bc we each had pointed the waiter out as being poised & looked like an actor/model.

No I didn’t want to date the man, but he goes out his way to say “she has the best view in the room.” And I said do you see what I have to deal with & we all laughed. Even the waiter complimented him, but def didn’t compliment me. He knew better. The next day he kept walking ahead of me making eye contact with pretty girls. We were in Times Square so I pretended I got lost in the crowd. After that he stopped walking ahead of me, but then we suddenly heard the sound of heels hitting the concrete, he says “why do men love the sound of heels so much” lol the lady walked passed us & had on these thick heeled boots that were worn down bad. I laughed so hard inside, but kept on as I had before that. he is a fashionable guy so it was funny to me.

Im gonna enjoy the fun while it lasts. He’s not emotionally mature enough to work together with me. However, I must say that keeping my end of discussion logical & rational, plus a life of my own, did help with the recent problem.

I don’t anticipate anymore problems, but he’s gonna miss the enthusiastic, heart-on-sleeve, googly eyed version of me & I don’t think he’s that interested in me (from a true commitment standpoint) to keep it alive. He’s just gonna think on it & wonder why. I only say this bc I’ve done things that women before me have done. For example, be with him but act like the scenery is more interesting to avoid eye contact, solely to cool off & blow off silly shit like “why do men love the sound of heels.”

Damn this is long...

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He notices other girls a lot and makes it known to you. That can get annoying.

Posted by pinkbird03
Any updates ladies? My aqua is very talkative and flirty again. Things seem much better!

Must be something in the planets lol mine has come back

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Posted by pinkbird03
Any updates ladies? My aqua is very talkative and flirty again. Things seem much better!

Must be something in the planets lol mine has come back

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Oh?? Lol tell more!

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Posted by rockTenn

Posted by pinkbird03
Any updates ladies? My aqua is very talkative and flirty again. Things seem much better!

Same! I was “ghosted” for a day. Sent him a text pointing out that each time we had a problem I was beyond drunk, but I didn’t take the blame. Just accepted my role in things. It’s not like we are an arguing pair. Lots of love & fun honestly and ppl draw to us. Anyway I accepted responsibility, said I understand his thoughts on everything and that I won’t be heartbroken if he’s drawn his conclusion.

Later that day, he’s back to sending naughty pics BUT most importantly he actually communicated about the problems. Told me he feels I am upset with him, angry with him. So I asked what does he feel I’m upset/angry with? Of couuurrrssseeee he feels it’s bc I’m jealous of this girl he once dated & remains friends with. I nipped that in the bud by responding very logically & rationally. I so badly wanted to ask him why he gets all passive aggressive if I’m mingling with other guys... it’s like he wants to throw girls eyeing him in my face & old lovers...but the minute anyone eyed me & I mingle he gets ridiculous. Note: I’m an Aries, so long as another guy isn’t disrespecting my date I will chat.

Lmao ok funny story. We were dining at a very upscale restaurant with a dress code & I told an older waiter he’s attractive. Why? Bc we each had pointed the waiter out as being poised & looked like an actor/model.

No I didn’t want to date the man, but he goes out his way to say “she has the best view in the room.” And I said do you see what I have to deal with & we all laughed. Even the waiter complimented him, but def didn’t compliment me. He knew better. The next day he kept walking ahead of me making eye contact with pretty girls. We were in Times Square so I pretended I got lost in the crowd. After that he stopped walking ahead of me, but then we suddenly heard the sound of heels hitting the concrete, he says “why do men love the sound of heels so much” lol the lady walked passed us & had on these thick heeled boots that were worn down bad. I laughed so hard inside, but kept on as I had before that. he is a fashionable guy so it was funny to me.

Im gonna enjoy the fun while it lasts. He’s not emotionally mature enough to work together with me. However, I must say that keeping my end of discussion logical & rational, plus a life of my own, did help with the recent problem.

I don’t anticipate anymore problems, but he’s gonna miss the enthusiastic, heart-on-sleeve, googly eyed version of me & I don’t think he’s that interested in me (from a true commitment standpoint) to keep it alive. He’s just gonna think on it & wonder why. I only say this bc I’ve done things that women before me have done. For example, be with him but act like the scenery is more interesting to avoid eye contact, solely to cool off & blow off silly shit like “why do men love the sound of heels.”

Damn this is long...

He notices other girls a lot and makes it known to you. That can get annoying.

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Yes, it’s annoying and extremely corny.

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Posted by rockTenn
@pinkbird03 Does he have water placements? Sorry if you’ve already shared. I understand most signs & planets... now seeking to understand natal charts by observing placements/houses.

Can u help me understand my bf better?

Aqua sun and moon

Pisces Venus and mars

Capricorn mercury, Jupiter, and Neptune

Scorpio Saturn and Pluto

Rising sign Taurus (like me)

I’m no pro so can’t promise I’ll help provide clarity.

My guy has Pisces Venus & mars. Cap moon. Sag rising.

We could compare them! I try to do a rookie synastry reading in these instances.

They both have Pisces Venus and mars. What do u think of that

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Nothing atm. I’d have to look up your history with him & charts too.

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Posted by pinkbird03

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Posted by pinkbird03

Posted by rockTenn
@pinkbird03 Does he have water placements? Sorry if you’ve already shared. I understand most signs & planets... now seeking to understand natal charts by observing placements/houses.

Can u help me understand my bf better?

Aqua sun and moon

Pisces Venus and mars

Capricorn mercury, Jupiter, and Neptune

Scorpio Saturn and Pluto

Rising sign Taurus (like me)

I’m no pro so can’t promise I’ll help provide clarity.

My guy has Pisces Venus & mars. Cap moon. Sag rising.

We could compare them! I try to do a rookie synastry reading in these instances.

They both have Pisces Venus and mars. What do u think of that

Nothing atm. I’d have to look up your history with him & charts too.

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Too much work! No big deal! Thanks anyways

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Posted by pinkbird03
Any updates ladies? My aqua is very talkative and flirty again. Things seem much better!

Must be something in the planets lol mine has come back

Oh?? Lol tell more!

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I don’t know he just messaged me asking if I’m okay randomly 😂 but that was it...think he’s just keeping me there until he comes out of his box and I realised it’s not just me he’s being distant with he’s doing it with the world😂

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Posted by pinkbird03
Any updates ladies? My aqua is very talkative and flirty again. Things seem much better!

Must be something in the planets lol mine has come back

Oh?? Lol tell more!

I don’t know he just messaged me asking if I’m okay randomly 😂 but that was it...think he’s just keeping me there until he comes out of his box and I realised it’s not just me he’s being distant with he’s doing it with the world😂

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Hmm is he on Capricorn cusp? My bf is. Why do you think he’s being distant from the world? It’s good to be confident. I’m reminding myself to do the same, especially that now is mercury retrograde

Hmm is he on Capricorn cusp? My bf is. Why do you think he’s being distant from the world? It’s good to be confident. I’m reminding myself to do the same, especially that now is mercury retrograde

I don’t know what his placements are 🤷🏽‍♀️ How do I ask him for his birth date without sounding weird and him running away again? Lol.

And I just feel like he is because he hasn’t been uploading on social media as much, I just think he’s been thinking about everything in his life.. could be wrong though

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Hmm is he on Capricorn cusp? My bf is. Why do you think he’s being distant from the world? It’s good to be confident. I’m reminding myself to do the same, especially that now is mercury retrograde

I don’t know what his placements are 🤷🏽‍♀️ How do I ask him for his birth date without sounding weird and him running away again? Lol.

And I just feel like he is because he hasn’t been uploading on social media as much, I just think he’s been thinking about everything in his life.. could be wrong though

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Lol I always just tell them I’m interested in astrology and was curious about your birth date. No one has ever said no. It’s good he at least reached out to you. Shows he cares.

Ok I’ve got my answer as to why he’s been acting the way he has lol, he’s got a girlfriend 😂😂😩

Next time he speaks to me I’m just going to ignore him now lol, yesterday I wasn’t giving him much conversation and I’m so glad now that I’ve seen he has a girl!!

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Next time he speaks to me I’m just going to ignore him now lol, yesterday I wasn’t giving him much conversation and I’m so glad now that I’ve seen he has a girl!!

Seriously!!! Omg 😮

Are you okay??