So I think I may have scared my Aqua off...

Posted by virgorillaa
its weird me out how most people dont seem to be fulfilled romantically by aquas! Id like to know how they perceive love and relationships but they gag at those topics haha. the thing ive noticed about the Aquarians I know is that when they get involved in relationships they carry on with their own life and do what they were doing before getting in the relationship, the only different is the tiny space they create in their busy social life (even if it wasn't busy, its somehow busy) for their partner. I find their way logical but people always wants to feel more special than their friends and family but aquas don't get that since they love all creatures in general. maybe they need time to let go of the idea of treating everyone as special and focus their attention in one person or maybe because they don't want to be dependent on one person existing in their life in any way, and I could understand that after watching how people react during breakups. maybe its that they can save the mushy washy talks and clinginess for later when married when both couples are old and wrinkly =p
that's may not be true its just my observation of my aquas friends. good luck you lovely leeb moon 🙂 haha x

Posted by xomelindabelle
The one I spoke of so enthusiastically. I think I may have called or texted one too many times for his taste. And trust me, that was honestly BARELY. I called and sent a text recently, but each one time. And I have not since. I know he's having his own issues right now and dealing with that. I know exactly how Aquas operate. So I'm giving plenty of space.
However, it's been difficult having him in another state along with the lack of contact. Believe me, I have feelings for this guy. But my honest truth is, I need a bit more attention than this. I've kind of just let it go and imagine that I won't be hearing from him for another couple of weeks, maybe even a month. And that's all well and fine, it's not scaring me. I know I'll hear from him eventually, because we are friends first. However, romantically speaking, that's not enough for me. So perhaps I should just let it go for now. And when I do hear from him, just say I want to be friends? This just isn't fulfilling enough for me. My Aries and Libra influence need more attention 😛 and that's just my truth.

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Posted by virgorillaa
its weird me out how most people dont seem to be fulfilled romantically by aquas! Id like to know how they perceive love and relationships but they gag at those topics haha. the thing ive noticed about the Aquarians I know is that when they get involved in relationships they carry on with their own life and do what they were doing before getting in the relationship, the only different is the tiny space they create in their busy social life (even if it wasn't busy, its somehow busy) for their partner. I find their way logical but people always wants to feel more special than their friends and family but aquas don't get that since they love all creatures in general. maybe they need time to let go of the idea of treating everyone as special and focus their attention in one person or maybe because they don't want to be dependent on one person existing in their life in any way, and I could understand that after watching how people react during breakups. maybe its that they can save the mushy washy talks and clinginess for later when married when both couples are old and wrinkly =p
that's may not be true its just my observation of my aquas friends. good luck you lovely leeb moon 🙂 haha x

oh come on!!! don't lie!! 😛

you know there's plenty of aquas that have wonderful relationships.

hahaha so funny. heehee.

i dont need to say anything. you just have to go research and see for yourself.

people who say that are generally VERY VERY JEALOUS.


^___~ *wink*


i would be jealous too!!! gooooddammmittttt. i want some happiness too feeling!! we all do. 😄 😄

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I'm not jealous and I didn't mean to doubt aquas ability to form or be in wonderful relationship, im sure they effortlessly can! that's why I said I find it weird seeing LOADS of people complain
ot pleased about their aquas partners. there gotta be some reason that has to do with people not understanding aquas nature (since they are always misunderstood) behind all those complaints and I was only trying to guess and discuss what reasons are those. not to offend you or

Posted by truecap
@Virgo

I, for one, am quite pleased with my aqua partner. It took time but I'm very fulfilled emtionally, romantically and intellectually.

In fact, i know loads of people who have aqua partners and are quite fulfilled.

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Posted by xomelindabelle
The one I spoke of so enthusiastically. I think I may have called or texted one too many times for his taste. And trust me, that was honestly BARELY. I called and sent a text recently, but each one time. And I have not since. I know he's having his own issues right now and dealing with that. I know exactly how Aquas operate. So I'm giving plenty of space.
However, it's been difficult having him in another state along with the lack of contact. Believe me, I have feelings for this guy. But my honest truth is, I need a bit more attention than this. I've kind of just let it go and imagine that I won't be hearing from him for another couple of weeks, maybe even a month. And that's all well and fine, it's not scaring me. I know I'll hear from him eventually, because we are friends first. However, romantically speaking, that's not enough for me. So perhaps I should just let it go for now. And when I do hear from him, just say I want to be friends? This just isn't fulfilling enough for me. My Aries and Libra influence need more attention 😛 and that's just my truth.

Aquarius seem to live in their own heads and need more space that is abnormally unusual for most humans. You need to do what is best for you. Life to short than to live it the being unfulfilled. There's nothing wrong with being friends. There are other guys whom can give you what you need and I admire you your bravery to do this. Many a woman would just sit around and 'pine' and be unhappy. Good for you!

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Posted by virgorillaa
its weird me out how most people dont seem to be fulfilled romantically by aquas! Id like to know how they perceive love and relationships but they gag at those topics haha. the thing ive noticed about the Aquarians I know is that when they get involved in relationships they carry on with their own life and do what they were doing before getting in the relationship, the only different is the tiny space they create in their busy social life (even if it wasn't busy, its somehow busy) for their partner. I find their way logical but people always wants to feel more special than their friends and family but aquas don't get that since they love all creatures in general. maybe they need time to let go of the idea of treating everyone as special and focus their attention in one person or maybe because they don't want to be dependent on one person existing in their life in any way, and I could understand that after watching how people react during breakups. maybe its that they can save the mushy washy talks and clinginess for later when married when both couples are old and wrinkly =p
that's may not be true its just my observation of my aquas friends. good luck you lovely leeb moon 🙂 haha x

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Posted by virgorillaa
its weird me out how most people dont seem to be fulfilled romantically by aquas! Id like to know how they perceive love and relationships but they gag at those topics haha. the thing ive noticed about the Aquarians I know is that when they get involved in relationships they carry on with their own life and do what they were doing before getting in the relationship, the only different is the tiny space they create in their busy social life (even if it wasn't busy, its somehow busy) for their partner. I find their way logical but people always wants to feel more special than their friends and family but aquas don't get that since they love all creatures in general. maybe they need time to let go of the idea of treating everyone as special and focus their attention in one person or maybe because they don't want to be dependent on one person existing in their life in any way, and I could understand that after watching how people react during breakups. maybe its that they can save the mushy washy talks and clinginess for later when married when both couples are old and wrinkly =p
that's may not be true its just my observation of my aquas friends. good luck you lovely leeb moon 🙂 haha x

Lol when we old and wrinkly lol I'm an aqua I'll clear it up for you. There is a difference between the ones we date and those we love. Our partners are our best friends, we just separate that fact with sex, which for most of us is a bonding experience. I used to be just like the OP. I'll tell you what happend. Life. Long distance is something we can shove into our pockets and pull out when we see you again which is why most of us act like nothing happend. We continue right were we started. Texting long distance is of no good. Either he's like me and most the aquas I know, I'd rather wait a year and wait for my partner then send text that will always leave me wishing and that's mental chaos. He's putting you on hold. Understand this and he will continue where he left off with you. As aquas we have dated a lot of people and realize how silly texting is when what matters is what we can do with that person when we interact. I'm an aqua woman and being this way myself has helped me understand aqua men

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