Posted by FutureSeekerLol I've been told I don't show emotions so maybe he does it to get a rise out of mePosted by LovelyladybullPosted by FutureSeeker
I'm an aqua venus. I don't do big expressions of love. I'm aloof. Aquas can intellectualize their emotions pretty well, just more difficult to express and deeply feel them. I want to be close, but sometimes I want space- especially if all the gushy feelings are overwhelming. I picked a fight with my man last night (I didn't realize it at the time) and I was feeling so overwhelmed with mushy feelings. Picking the fight had me putting him at arms length. When I realized what was going on, I said sorry.
He sometimes says things he knows will push my buttons. Reading what you said I wonder if that's his way of saying leave me alone today. I've called him out on everytime he gets too close or things get too good he finds excuses not to see me. He will still text and call everyday just won't see me as much
Wellll sometimes I push buttons just to get a response. Or to tease a little, sometimes a lot.
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Posted by FutureSeekerPosted by LovelyladybullPosted by FutureSeekerLol I've been told I don't show emotions so maybe he does it to get a rise out of mePosted by LovelyladybullPosted by FutureSeeker
I'm an aqua venus. I don't do big expressions of love. I'm aloof. Aquas can intellectualize their emotions pretty well, just more difficult to express and deeply feel them. I want to be close, but sometimes I want space- especially if all the gushy feelings are overwhelming. I picked a fight with my man last night (I didn't realize it at the time) and I was feeling so overwhelmed with mushy feelings. Picking the fight had me putting him at arms length. When I realized what was going on, I said sorry.
He sometimes says things he knows will push my buttons. Reading what you said I wonder if that's his way of saying leave me alone today. I've called him out on everytime he gets too close or things get too good he finds excuses not to see me. He will still text and call everyday just won't see me as much
Wellll sometimes I push buttons just to get a response. Or to tease a little, sometimes a lot.
I would put money on it. My man shows passion when we bicker
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Posted by malloryormen are always gonna be different than women anyway.
@Lovelyladybull
@lisabethur8
@Koniuchaa
I would agree. I would say my Pisces sun maybe makes me more attached to my emotions but I have a lot of weird combos that I feel kinda counteract with one another, like my Pisces sun, Aries moon or my Pisces sun vs my Leo ASC or my Pisces sun vs my Aqua Venus/Mars and Aries Merc.
All I know is I love all that lovey dovey, cuddly stuff. But I would say @lisabethur8 our environments either stiffle or ignite such placements. That is my only explanation.
Posted by aquanibaren't you an aquarius venus man, with a lot of aqua and libra—Posted by starloverI think the dynamic of this needs to be explained 😄
Interesting placement but not for me....leaves me cold
When it's blowing hot, it can be super hot, you'd get lost in all those words and deeds (the behaviour that prompts "my aqua is so sweet" comments), but when it doesn't blow hot, nothing has really changed, the love is still there.
As for weird, unorthodox, non-traditional relationships....idk, i kinda think that all goes out of fashion once you're past 30. Now I just want someone to share my life with, have some kids and grow old with her 😛 (don't take me as so lifeless that this is the essence of my existence, but that's the "rough blueprint" of what i want to work towards in the next few years)
I also want 3-4 kids! And since kids take more genes from the mother, she needs to be both smart and beautiful! 😄 😄
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Posted by malloryorMy boyfriend has your Sun/Venus/Mars and he looks at it the same way you do. He's nothing but consistent.Posted by SofiaV87So I have an Aqua in Venus and Mars. Why arent I like that? I hate distance in love...I am cool doing my own thing and will disappear off the face of the earth when dealing with life but when I am in love or like someone I dont understand the point in disappearing for a few days. I personally find emoting your feelings a good thing, I am also an extrovert so idk. I am just gonna start saying my Venus is in Pisces cuz I am always too in touch with my feelings.
He's into you. Just let him do his thing & don't take it to heart. I'm an Aqua Venus & can be like him too.click to expand
Posted by malloryorI don't disappear when I'm in love but I need my alone time. I need it like I need air. I don't like to be smothered. I will stay in contact with my significant other but I may go a week without seeing them. I'm an ambivert which is both extrovert & introvert. Lately I have been more introverted.Posted by SofiaV87So I have an Aqua in Venus and Mars. Why arent I like that? I hate distance in love...I am cool doing my own thing and will disappear off the face of the earth when dealing with life but when I am in love or like someone I dont understand the point in disappearing for a few days. I personally find emoting your feelings a good thing, I am also an extrovert so idk. I am just gonna start saying my Venus is in Pisces cuz I am always too in touch with my feelings.
He's into you. Just let him do his thing & don't take it to heart. I'm an Aqua Venus & can be like him too.click to expand
Posted by SofiaV87He never breaks contact but he will go a week without seeing mePosted by malloryorI don't disappear when I'm in love but I need my alone time. I need it like I need air. I don't like to be smothered. I will stay in contact with my significant other but I may go a week without seeing them. I'm an ambivert which is both extrovert & introvert. Lately I have been more introverted.Posted by SofiaV87So I have an Aqua in Venus and Mars. Why arent I like that? I hate distance in love...I am cool doing my own thing and will disappear off the face of the earth when dealing with life but when I am in love or like someone I dont understand the point in disappearing for a few days. I personally find emoting your feelings a good thing, I am also an extrovert so idk. I am just gonna start saying my Venus is in Pisces cuz I am always too in touch with my feelings.
He's into you. Just let him do his thing & don't take it to heart. I'm an Aqua Venus & can be like him too.
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