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Posted by MoonArtist
It's good to have people who can be a balance for that. I find that organizing a plan of action interferes with my flow, which is why it annoys me so much. My brain says "I can't be bothered with that! Onward!" That's probably why I hate doing dishes so much, too. I'd rather cook (create).my man got me a dishwasher. after that, it is wayyyy easier to clean up. I still have to clean up the kitchen . we dont have cooks and house maids around here. lol
but rinsing them and stacking them in the dishwasher is way better than soaking them up in the sink and washing them by hand.
He gets bonus points for that. Reminds me of when I first got married, and we didn't have a dishwasher. The ex (then husband) got annoyed that dishes were in the sink and went ahead to wash them by hand. Part way through he says, "This sucks! We're getting a dishwasher!"
the kitchen is MY domain.....truthfully, once he bought all the materials to build the kitchen for me, he basically said, it's ALL YOURS.
he doesn't do dishes. lol i think his momma spoiled him.
I don't mind sharing the space, so long as no one messes up my organization. Even with a dishwasher I'd love to skip doing the dishes. I guess I need to find someone who likes to do that but hates to cook, because I love to cook but hate the cleanup. lol
you need a clean up man? but you can do the cooking?
i dont know many men who like to clean up. lol the ones i Always know, are the types of men who never go in the kitchen unless it's to grab a beer. lol
Yes! One secure enough to do it, and who actually likes maintaining that order. Either that or I need a virgo sister wife. 😆
btw there's plenty of men who are in the kitchen helping out. dont lose hope!!! it's gonna be a partnership for you both.
Yep, and that's how I've always wanted things to be: an equal partnership. 🙂
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mine is different.
He's the man and he stays away from the ktichen and i do serve him and he takes care of me, the provider and breadwinner. that's how i like it. and love it. we are all different, Moon, and i love that. My man doesn't go for career women types. and that's why everyone should have someone that FITS them.
Posted by lisabethur8
He's the man and he stays away from the ktichen and i do serve him and he takes care of me, the provider and breadwinner. that's how i like it. and love it. we are all different, Moon, and i love that. My man doesn't go for career women types. and that's why everyone should have someone that FITS them.
That's still a partnership built on equality, IMO, because you both know what you want in your partner, and you fit. I'm willing to bet he doesn't tell you you're worthless, or that you don't do anything, and vice versa. It's a relationship of communication and respect, as they all should be, no matter how the roles are, or who does what, where, when and why. That's how any healthy relationship should be.
Posted by lisabethur8
He's the man and he stays away from the ktichen and i do serve him and he takes care of me, the provider and breadwinner. that's how i like it. and love it. we are all different, Moon, and i love that. My man doesn't go for career women types. and that's why everyone should have someone that FITS them.That's still a partnership built on equality, IMO, because you both know what you want in your partner, and you fit. I'm willing to bet he doesn't tell you you're worthless, or that you don't do anything, and vice versa. It's a relationship of communication and respect, as they all should be, no matter how the roles are, or who does what, where, when and why. That's how any healthy relationship should be.
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oh yes youre right.
oh hell no, he doesn't say that to me at all. i'd be in tears all the time and feel worthless. Infact he makes me feel like a queen.
i kind of ....baby him too, like a momma. but i'm not. meaning i serve him, and make him his breakfast, lunch, do his laundry, clean everything, go shopping. i'm kind of like the busy bee...so when i'm done, i get to just sit and relax and read and study. but i get everything done first. so it feels good to just relax afterward.
and yes, healthy relationships should be about that, Moon.
that inspired me to look up the healthy ways of relationship cues, they even have that ONLINE.
https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/in-practice/201301/50-characteristics-healthy-relationships
If you can say yes to most of these, it's very likely you're in a healthy relationship:
1. You can name your partner’s best friend and identify a positive quality that the person has.
2. You and your partner are playful with each other.
3. You think your partner has good ideas.
4. You’d like to become more like your partner, at least in some ways.
5. Even when you disagree, you can acknowledge your partner makes sensible points.
6. You think about each other when you’re not physically together.
7. You see your partner as trustworthy.
8. In relationship-relevant areas such as warmth and attractiveness, you view your partner a little bit more positively than they view themselves or than most other people view them.
9. You enjoy the ways your partner has changed and grown since you met.
10. Your partner is enthusiastic when something goes right for you.
11. When you reunite at the end of the day, you say something positive before you say something negative.
12. You reminisce about positive experiences you've had together in the past.
13. You can name one of your partner’s favorite books.
14. You know your partner’s aspirations in life.
15. You can recall something you did together that was new and challenging for both of you.
16. You kiss every day.
17. You’re comfortable telling your partner about things that make you feel vulnerable such as worries about getting laid off.
18. You have your own “love language” (pet names or special signs you give each other).
19. You know your partner’s most embarrassing moment from childhood.
20. You know your partner’s proudest moment from childhood
Posted by AjnaRe
0% air . _ .
do you have air houses?
Posted by lisabethur8
He's the man and he stays away from the ktichen and i do serve him and he takes care of me, the provider and breadwinner. that's how i like it. and love it. we are all different, Moon, and i love that. My man doesn't go for career women types. and that's why everyone should have someone that FITS them.That's still a partnership built on equality, IMO, because you both know what you want in your partner, and you fit. I'm willing to bet he doesn't tell you you're worthless, or that you don't do anything, and vice versa. It's a relationship of communication and respect, as they all should be, no matter how the roles are, or who does what, where, when and why. That's how any healthy relationship should be.
oh yes youre right.
oh hell no, he doesn't say that to me at all. i'd be in tears all the time and feel worthless. Infact he makes me feel like a queen.
i kind of ....baby him too, like a momma. but i'm not. meaning i serve him, and make him his breakfast, lunch, do his laundry, clean everything, go shopping. i'm kind of like the busy bee...so when i'm done, i get to just sit and relax and read and study. but i get everything done first. so it feels good to just relax afterward.
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I'm glad he's good to you. It's the worst feeling to have someone you love be abusive.
Posted by lisabethur8
He's the man and he stays away from the ktichen and i do serve him and he takes care of me, the provider and breadwinner. that's how i like it. and love it. we are all different, Moon, and i love that. My man doesn't go for career women types. and that's why everyone should have someone that FITS them.That's still a partnership built on equality, IMO, because you both know what you want in your partner, and you fit. I'm willing to bet he doesn't tell you you're worthless, or that you don't do anything, and vice versa. It's a relationship of communication and respect, as they all should be, no matter how the roles are, or who does what, where, when and why. That's how any healthy relationship should be.
oh yes youre right.
oh hell no, he doesn't say that to me at all. i'd be in tears all the time and feel worthless. Infact he makes me feel like a queen.
i kind of ....baby him too, like a momma. but i'm not. meaning i serve him, and make him his breakfast, lunch, do his laundry, clean everything, go shopping. i'm kind of like the busy bee...so when i'm done, i get to just sit and relax and read and study. but i get everything done first. so it feels good to just relax afterward.
I'm glad he's good to you. It's the worst feeling to have someone you love be abusive.
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thanks. i hope you find someone who is good to you too, Moon. you deserve it.
Posted by lisabethur8
He's the man and he stays away from the ktichen and i do serve him and he takes care of me, the provider and breadwinner. that's how i like it. and love it. we are all different, Moon, and i love that. My man doesn't go for career women types. and that's why everyone should have someone that FITS them.Let me ask was his mother a housewife. I have a theory lol
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what does it matter?
and no she was never. she was a career woman. his grandmother is the housewife but a farmer's/preacher's wife.
he loves both women alot.
he is surrounded by lots of career women in the past.
his cousin is the same. Scorpio sun, leo moon/leo mars/ he married a housewife, but she did do some part time work before they married.
that's the pro athlete i was talking about. and yes career women get on her ass all the time. lol but they dont care. they are very happy with their life.
plus they make 100x more than any of us regular folks. lol
Posted by lisabethur8
He's the man and he stays away from the ktichen and i do serve him and he takes care of me, the provider and breadwinner. that's how i like it. and love it. we are all different, Moon, and i love that. My man doesn't go for career women types. and that's why everyone should have someone that FITS them.That's still a partnership built on equality, IMO, because you both know what you want in your partner, and you fit. I'm willing to bet he doesn't tell you you're worthless, or that you don't do anything, and vice versa. It's a relationship of communication and respect, as they all should be, no matter how the roles are, or who does what, where, when and why. That's how any healthy relationship should be.
oh yes youre right.
oh hell no, he doesn't say that to me at all. i'd be in tears all the time and feel worthless. Infact he makes me feel like a queen.
i kind of ....baby him too, like a momma. but i'm not. meaning i serve him, and make him his breakfast, lunch, do his laundry, clean everything, go shopping. i'm kind of like the busy bee...so when i'm done, i get to just sit and relax and read and study. but i get everything done first. so it feels good to just relax afterward.
I'm glad he's good to you. It's the worst feeling to have someone you love be abusive.
thanks. i hope you find someone who is good to you too, Moon. you deserve it.
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Awww, thanks! Well, if it happens, it happens, and if not, then there's always another life. 🙂
Posted by lisabethur8
He's the man and he stays away from the ktichen and i do serve him and he takes care of me, the provider and breadwinner. that's how i like it. and love it. we are all different, Moon, and i love that. My man doesn't go for career women types. and that's why everyone should have someone that FITS them.That's still a partnership built on equality, IMO, because you both know what you want in your partner, and you fit. I'm willing to bet he doesn't tell you you're worthless, or that you don't do anything, and vice versa. It's a relationship of communication and respect, as they all should be, no matter how the roles are, or who does what, where, when and why. That's how any healthy relationship should be.
oh yes youre right.
oh hell no, he doesn't say that to me at all. i'd be in tears all the time and feel worthless. Infact he makes me feel like a queen.
i kind of ....baby him too, like a momma. but i'm not. meaning i serve him, and make him his breakfast, lunch, do his laundry, clean everything, go shopping. i'm kind of like the busy bee...so when i'm done, i get to just sit and relax and read and study. but i get everything done first. so it feels good to just relax afterward.
I'm glad he's good to you. It's the worst feeling to have someone you love be abusive.
thanks. i hope you find someone who is good to you too, Moon. you deserve it.
Awww, thanks! Well, if it happens, it happens, and if not, then there's always another life. 🙂
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i hope this life, at least even if you reach george Clooney route, later in life, that's still good!! never too late.
Posted by lisabethur8
He's the man and he stays away from the ktichen and i do serve him and he takes care of me, the provider and breadwinner. that's how i like it. and love it. we are all different, Moon, and i love that. My man doesn't go for career women types. and that's why everyone should have someone that FITS them.That's still a partnership built on equality, IMO, because you both know what you want in your partner, and you fit. I'm willing to bet he doesn't tell you you're worthless, or that you don't do anything, and vice versa. It's a relationship of communication and respect, as they all should be, no matter how the roles are, or who does what, where, when and why. That's how any healthy relationship should be.
oh yes youre right.
oh hell no, he doesn't say that to me at all. i'd be in tears all the time and feel worthless. Infact he makes me feel like a queen.
i kind of ....baby him too, like a momma. but i'm not. meaning i serve him, and make him his breakfast, lunch, do his laundry, clean everything, go shopping. i'm kind of like the busy bee...so when i'm done, i get to just sit and relax and read and study. but i get everything done first. so it feels good to just relax afterward.
I'm glad he's good to you. It's the worst feeling to have someone you love be abusive.
thanks. i hope you find someone who is good to you too, Moon. you deserve it.
Awww, thanks! Well, if it happens, it happens, and if not, then there's always another life. 🙂
i hope this life, at least even if you reach george Clooney route, later in life, that's still good!! never too late.
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Very true, it's never too late! And he's still handsome. 😄
Posted by starwars
its really bugging me that I lack fire! I need to be extra dope 😭
do you have alot of planets/placements in a fire house?? that would help.
damn girl you have ALOT of air. O__O
no wonder you are attraced to, and they are attracted to you -- airy types.
the only air types that i attract and was with was with aqua, but he was dominant aries with cap moon.
dominant air is very good with domiannt air though i notice when i did some research with successful couples. maybe an earth sun or water sun guy with lots of air?? or vice versa a watery air or fire sun guy? but you dont like any fire sun or air sun except libra, so maybe a libra sun with lots of water. because you are water sun in a water house, and have water house moon, so you still need water...water Always needs water.
I lack nothing...both in elements in placements and houses.
/ForeverAloneCuzNoPartnerCanCompleteMe
Posted by starwars
its really bugging me that I lack fire! I need to be extra dope 😭do you have alot of planets/placements in a fire house?? that would help.
oh yes! most of my placements are in sag house! i knew i was dope enough. thanks for the remark ��'�
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i just realized....
you like them Sagittarius men then? or at least sag dominant men? 😛 😆
with your 9th house stellium.
Posted by Damnata
I lack nothing...both in elements in placements and houses./ForeverAloneCuzNoPartnerCanCompleteMe
you are too perfect!!!!
speaking of sag men, you know that Maxwell Caulfield from Grease 2??
he's got Leo moon, Libra Venus, Scorpio Mars, Sag merc.
he married a Scorpio sun, Scorpio mercury, Cap moon, Cap venus, Aries Mars, Juliet Mills for a long time now...
her only air sign is in an air house, Jupiter Gemini in the 11th house
and she has taurus, in Uranus, lilith and saturn,
http://www.astrotheme.com/astrology/Juliet_Mills
Born: November 21, 1941, 10:45 PM
In: London (United Kingdom)
Sun: 29°12' Scorpio AS: 15°31' Leo
Moon: 10°14' Capricorn MC: 28°36' Aries
Dominants: Scorpio, Leo, Aries
Sun, Mars, Pluto
Houses 4, 9, 10 / Fire, Earth / Fixed
Posted by Damnata
I lack nothing...both in elements in placements and houses./ForeverAloneCuzNoPartnerCanCompleteMe
you are too perfect!!!!
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Jack of all trades, master of none.
The pain of it all. 😄
Posted by starwars
its really bugging me that I lack fire! I need to be extra dope 😭do you have alot of planets/placements in a fire house?? that would help.
oh yes! most of my placements are in sag house! i knew i was dope enough. thanks for the remark ��'�
i just realized....
you like them Sagittarius men then? or at least sag dominant men? 😛 😆
with your 9th house stellium.
I don't know because I haven't met any tbh 😏
I only know one person who is sag dominant and is my buddy.
I'm usually drown to cancers and aries energies 😛click to expand
you a 4th houser and 1st?? that would explain it.
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Yep, and that's how I've always wanted things to be: an equal partnership. 🙂