Posted by fem_femmeThat's how it works on the iPhone. Is that what he has? Yea odd he blocked you. You should just be straight with him and call him out on itPosted by pinkbird03That's what I was thinking definitely makes sense, but since he blocked me for no reason this pisses me off. Thanks for your comment by the way.
Ok here's what happened. He blocked you awhile ago and forgot that he did. He hasn't unblocked you yet and he hasn't realized that. He cAn still text u but won't see ur messages until he does unblock you. You'll have to email him somewhere else to get ahold of him.click to expand
Posted by pinkbird03Lol, I would imagine phones if not people are smarter than that 😄
Ok here's what happened. He blocked you awhile ago and forgot that he did. He hasn't unblocked you yet and he hasn't realized that. He cAn still text u but won't see ur messages until he does unblock you. You'll have to email him somewhere else to get ahold of him.
Posted by Undine
A third scenario is far more likely.
He wanted to end the possibility of a future contact by phone. He sent a 2-word text to see if you blocked him. Since you did not, he proceeded to block you.
Why blocking? It means enough is enough. It does not have to be something bad. Just something he does not need ever again.
Carry on dating other people, it will help shift your focus from this person and maybe find someone who is right for you.
Posted by fem_femmeFFS! Stop bullshitting yourself! He didn't crawl back, he just blocked you, since you were too chicken to block him!Posted by VageenkaOK, well even though I replied but it doesn't matter anymore since i didn't reply with much and he didn't even get it, must be butt hurt to see me 'ignoring' him in his mind. So i just continue ignoring him even if he emails then right especially now that i saw that he blocked me in the past. Well, I felt so low and depressed as I had feelings for him and the fact that I just didn't understand why the hell he disappeared that now i feel so much relief and feel at ease seeing that he did crawl back after 2.5 months and now I realize that it wasn't anything I might have said and the problem was him yet I struggled to understand what it is that I said but couldn't think of anything wrong or bad that I have said. So his return proved me that it's nothing that I did or say that made him ghost me otherwise he wouldn't even bother to return had I said anything wrong and had I turned him off somehow, so now I feel better and that dark cloud that ahs been over my head and raining on me for 2.5 months is gradually lifting thanks to his crawling back to me. He sure will miss me because I had no bounaris with him and i feel like he felt comfy with me and he even said it yet other women wouldn't tolerate some of his shit I think. His loss anyways! My no contact helped me to understand myself better and heal so now i understand why it is so important to go no contact when these thing happen.Posted by fem_femmePosted by VageenkaI understand but why block me if I don't even contact him myself...it doesn't make sense. So you think he was seeing someone then, but even if that was the case, why block me if we weren't contacting each other. Still makes no sense. He's 50, I am 33.
Girl you are way too old to be wrapped up in this teenage "I liked you why did you ghost on me?" mess.
Move on. I also think you're over thinking it. He didn't know what he wanted, or maybe pursued someone he thought would be better for him and that didn't work out, so now he contacted you.
Either way he seems like he has no idea what he wants and is a moron. A guy who is genuinely into someone will not act that way. No one would. If you're into someone you can't wait to speak to them, see them, etc.
Move on
Honestly I do think he was seeing someone else. I think he could have been dating a few other girls to see what's out there or what he wants. He probably picked one and then blocked you to get you out of his thoughts... Then when things fell through with his original pick he came crawling back to you. But this is just MY theory. Why else would he block you? Or maybe he just didn't know if he wanted you, blocked you and then realized he still wanted to move forward.
Either way, like I said, this is not how someone treats a person they like and respect. He thinks he can drop and pick you up whenever he wants? Tsk, tsk, tsk. And if you let him back into your life, it's like confirming to him that you're a doormat and you give him permission to treat you like that.
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Posted by fem_femmeBecause that is what people do to get someone off their ass completely, silly! Otherwise there is still the possibility YOU WILL BE CRAWLING BACK TO THEM and they have to be harsh with you, which they try to avoid.Posted by Undine
A third scenario is far more likely.
He wanted to end the possibility of a future contact by phone. He sent a 2-word text to see if you blocked him. Since you did not, he proceeded to block you.
Why blocking? It means enough is enough. It does not have to be something bad. Just something he does not need ever again.
Carry on dating other people, it will help shift your focus from this person and maybe find someone who is right for you.
I am sorry but are you reading what I said?! What possibility if I didn't bother to contact him for 2.5 months after he ghosted me and obviously had no plans to do so I mean our contact WAS over for 2.5 mts and I never bothered to contact so why would he think that I would contact him again lol. You said "It means enough is enough..." Enough of what if there hasn't been any contact at all from me for a long time? Why would he think that I would end up contacting him again if i obviously don't care and didn't do it? It doesn't make sense. You sound like he doesn't want a contact but I was contacting him so he wanted to end things by contacting me himself? lol Do you see a logic in it? Why block someone from contacting you if that person doesn't contact you herself at all? Why block that person after 2.5 months of no contact? Isn't 2.5 months enough time to realize that I ain't contacting him for him to finally block me?!click to expand
Posted by fem_femmeSMH. You are really an idiot.
P.S. To the above commenter: UNLESS...he is only butt hurt that I have been ignoring him all this time by not bothering to contact him to see what is going on, so he decided to 'put me down' because of insecurity by texting me then blocking me so that I will see that I am blocked so that I would feel bad myself...this only would show that he's been feeling sad that I didnt' chase him and was expecting me to text him to see why he disappeared and when he didn't and realized that I don't give a crap that he's gone, he tried to pull this blocking just now just to show me that I am blocked lol....if this is the scenario he pulled then he must be very insecure 50 year old and this also will show me that he is butt hurt because people who are not butt hurt won't be pulling such games to try to put the other person down just because inside he is feeling down himself over my 'i dont care attitude' so this shows that he is bothered greatly by my 'i dont care attitude.'
Posted by UndinePosted by fem_femmeFFS! Stop bullshitting yourself! He didn't crawl back, he just blocked you, since you were too chicken to block him!Posted by VageenkaOK, well even though I replied but it doesn't matter anymore since i didn't reply with much and he didn't even get it, must be butt hurt to see me 'ignoring' him in his mind. So i just continue ignoring him even if he emails then right especially now that i saw that he blocked me in the past. Well, I felt so low and depressed as I had feelings for him and the fact that I just didn't understand why the hell he disappeared that now i feel so much relief and feel at ease seeing that he did crawl back after 2.5 months and now I realize that it wasn't anything I might have said and the problem was him yet I struggled to understand what it is that I said but couldn't think of anything wrong or bad that I have said. So his return proved me that it's nothing that I did or say that made him ghost me otherwise he wouldn't even bother to return had I said anything wrong and had I turned him off somehow, so now I feel better and that dark cloud that ahs been over my head and raining on me for 2.5 months is gradually lifting thanks to his crawling back to me. He sure will miss me because I had no bounaris with him and i feel like he felt comfy with me and he even said it yet other women wouldn't tolerate some of his shit I think. His loss anyways! My no contact helped me to understand myself better and heal so now i understand why it is so important to go no contact when these thing happen.Posted by fem_femmePosted by VageenkaI understand but why block me if I don't even contact him myself...it doesn't make sense. So you think he was seeing someone then, but even if that was the case, why block me if we weren't contacting each other. Still makes no sense. He's 50, I am 33.
Girl you are way too old to be wrapped up in this teenage "I liked you why did you ghost on me?" mess.
Move on. I also think you're over thinking it. He didn't know what he wanted, or maybe pursued someone he thought would be better for him and that didn't work out, so now he contacted you.
Either way he seems like he has no idea what he wants and is a moron. A guy who is genuinely into someone will not act that way. No one would. If you're into someone you can't wait to speak to them, see them, etc.
Move on
Honestly I do think he was seeing someone else. I think he could have been dating a few other girls to see what's out there or what he wants. He probably picked one and then blocked you to get you out of his thoughts... Then when things fell through with his original pick he came crawling back to you. But this is just MY theory. Why else would he block you? Or maybe he just didn't know if he wanted you, blocked you and then realized he still wanted to move forward.
Either way, like I said, this is not how someone treats a person they like and respect. He thinks he can drop and pick you up whenever he wants? Tsk, tsk, tsk. And if you let him back into your life, it's like confirming to him that you're a doormat and you give him permission to treat you like that.
You did nothing wrong! He was not enough into you and most likely the competition won. He use you as gas for his ego till he found someone to replace you. Have some dignity and find someone who is interested in a LTR with you, while blocking those who don't!
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Posted by UndineSilly...i cut off contact with him 5 times in the past, he crawled back...i have never crawled back to him for him to think that there's a chance that I might crawl back to him this time if I am not even bothered by his disappearance by not asking him WHY did he ghost me. Why would he think that if the last 5 times he crawled back to me to initiate contact, then the 6th time it is me who would crawl back to him?! This is the 6th time he is texting me per his initiation not mine! When you do initiate contact 6 times then it is crawling back.Posted by fem_femmeBecause that is what people do to get someone off their ass completely, silly! Otherwise there is still the possibility YOU WILL BE CRAWLING BACK TO THEM and they have to be harsh with you, which they try to avoid.Posted by Undine
A third scenario is far more likely.
He wanted to end the possibility of a future contact by phone. He sent a 2-word text to see if you blocked him. Since you did not, he proceeded to block you.
Why blocking? It means enough is enough. It does not have to be something bad. Just something he does not need ever again.
Carry on dating other people, it will help shift your focus from this person and maybe find someone who is right for you.
I am sorry but are you reading what I said?! What possibility if I didn't bother to contact him for 2.5 months after he ghosted me and obviously had no plans to do so I mean our contact WAS over for 2.5 mts and I never bothered to contact so why would he think that I would contact him again lol. You said "It means enough is enough..." Enough of what if there hasn't been any contact at all from me for a long time? Why would he think that I would end up contacting him again if i obviously don't care and didn't do it? It doesn't make sense. You sound like he doesn't want a contact but I was contacting him so he wanted to end things by contacting me himself? lol Do you see a logic in it? Why block someone from contacting you if that person doesn't contact you herself at all? Why block that person after 2.5 months of no contact? Isn't 2.5 months enough time to realize that I ain't contacting him for him to finally block me?!click to expand
Posted by UndineYour stupid logic shows who is the idiot. Watch your language please no one offended you for you to be pretending like you know the situation better than I do. One more offensive language for no reason and I will report you. Can't write normally without your stupid aggressive tone then get the hell out of the thread if you can't be constructive in your argument. Additionally, I already corrected you a few times by providing you additional info as an evidence that it has been him who kept crawling back so be nice and listen instead of throwing your dumbass arguments at me without knowing the whole situation. Like I said watch your nasty mouth and curb your meaningless aggression in my thread next time or just get out of her.Posted by fem_femmeSMH. You are really an idiot.
P.S. To the above commenter: UNLESS...he is only butt hurt that I have been ignoring him all this time by not bothering to contact him to see what is going on, so he decided to 'put me down' because of insecurity by texting me then blocking me so that I will see that I am blocked so that I would feel bad myself...this only would show that he's been feeling sad that I didnt' chase him and was expecting me to text him to see why he disappeared and when he didn't and realized that I don't give a crap that he's gone, he tried to pull this blocking just now just to show me that I am blocked lol....if this is the scenario he pulled then he must be very insecure 50 year old and this also will show me that he is butt hurt because people who are not butt hurt won't be pulling such games to try to put the other person down just because inside he is feeling down himself over my 'i dont care attitude' so this shows that he is bothered greatly by my 'i dont care attitude.'click to expand
Posted by UndineIdiot is you head to toe....get the hell out of my profile and I am reporting you now.
You are the first person I called an idiot on dxpnet, in 4 years! You earn it, lol. I remember your previous posts. I have never seen someone as deluded as you are!
Posted by pinkbird03Yep, you are right! I did a test, texting someone I had on my blocking list for months and it went through! I just said "test" so he doesn't get the wrong idea, lol. And then deleted his number. Because I don't want to ever contact him by mistake!
Ok here's what happened. He blocked you awhile ago and forgot that he did. He hasn't unblocked you yet and he hasn't realized that. He cAn still text u but won't see ur messages until he does unblock you. You'll have to email him somewhere else to get ahold of him.
Posted by UndineI have a unique name so I certainly know that he didn't mistake me for someone else. He's the one who told me what a unique name I have so it's not like there's 5 of us in his phone, so this isn't the case for sure. He also told me that he hadn't heard my name before. Also, it is certainly not your previous 'logic' of him only wanting to check if I blocked him or not to decide whether he should block me after such a long time of ALREADY no contact. How about simply blocking me like he already did without texting me! lol why does he have to text me first before deciding to block me...makes zero sense. And like i had said..he has returned 5 times now after i ended it, so no one was chasing him or contacting him for him to feel like he needs to get rid of me....i silently went my way poof gone; therefore, no need to be blocking me to be gone.Posted by pinkbird03Yep, you are right! I did a test, texting someone I had on my blocking list for months and it went through! I just said "test" so he doesn't get the wrong idea, lol. And then deleted his number. Because I don't want to ever contact him by mistake!
Ok here's what happened. He blocked you awhile ago and forgot that he did. He hasn't unblocked you yet and he hasn't realized that. He cAn still text u but won't see ur messages until he does unblock you. You'll have to email him somewhere else to get ahold of him.
If the Aqua sent that "hi there" text to the wrong person, I bet he now deleted her number.click to expand
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