Will He Come Back?

Hi everyone. So I dated an Aquarius man for almost 4 months. We broke up November 14. He broke up with me after a big fight. I was drunk during the fight. He stormed out of my house and texted me "have a nice life." Now, the kicker is we have known each other and been friends for a very long time. I know his family and friends well still. I did everything you are not supposed to do after a break up. I kept trying to get in touch with him by texting and calling. I texted horribly mean things first, then I apologized and begged we worked things out. I showed up at his house at one point, and he called the cops on me.

About the relationship. It was great! He always said he had never been so in love and so happy. This was confirmed by his family and friends. We only had 2 arguments prior, which were sorted out. Now, problems kind of arrived after his ex girlfriend started trying to contact him. With our time apart now, (I have not tried to contact him in about 4 weeks) I have realized he is not over the damage of what his ex did to him. He did talk horribly about her quite often. Problems did not exactly arrive, but that is when he started acting different and not as loving as he was in the beginning. He would tell me that me cooking dinner every night, folding his laundry as well as my own, or keeping his house clean was me trying too hard. This pissed me off, but I did not say or do anything. The initial fight was me bringing up his lack of attention. I know this is a mistake to do to an Aquarius, but boy have I learned. Now, I feel as though he took everything bad his ex did to him out on me. Maybe I scared him due to my truly loving him? I am not sure.

Anyway, after everything, and the few times he would reply to my texts it would be stuff like "yes it was supposed to work out but I just went through this, I cannot do it again...yes I still love you but not as a girlfriend." I told him I would stop drinking (which I have, I am not a fun drunk) and he said to call him when I get help with it. Before I went to his house, he said he was thinking of coming back around soon, but he needs another week. I still have received no form of communication from him. His mom had passed away in 2012 (which was horrible) and I have a picture of him, his mom, and his brother that I blew up, framed, and mailed to his house with a nice "Merry Christmas" note as a Christmas gift. He would have received it a few days ago and still nothing. I think I was at least hoping for "thank you" but nothing.

Did I completely blow it? Any chance he'll ever come back around? I am hoping he is taking this time to heal from what his ex did to him in the past. I do not feel like this is supposed to be over and I am hoping it is just a bump in the road.

Posted by libralady924

Hi everyone. So I dated an Aquarius man for almost 4 months. We broke up November 14. He broke up with me after a big fight. I was drunk during the fight. He stormed out of my house and texted me "have a nice life." Now, the kicker is we have known each other and been friends for a very long time. I know his family and friends well still. I did everything you are not supposed to do after a break up. I kept trying to get in touch with him by texting and calling. I texted horribly mean things first, then I apologized and begged we worked things out. I showed up at his house at one point, and he called the cops on me.

About the relationship. It was great! He always said he had never been so in love and so happy. This was confirmed by his family and friends. We only had 2 arguments prior, which were sorted out. Now, problems kind of arrived after his ex girlfriend started trying to contact him. With our time apart now, (I have not tried to contact him in about 4 weeks) I have realized he is not over the damage of what his ex did to him. He did talk horribly about her quite often. Problems did not exactly arrive, but that is when he started acting different and not as loving as he was in the beginning. He would tell me that me cooking dinner every night, folding his laundry as well as my own, or keeping his house clean was me trying too hard. This pissed me off, but I did not say or do anything. The initial fight was me bringing up his lack of attention. I know this is a mistake to do to an Aquarius, but boy have I learned. Now, I feel as though he took everything bad his ex did to him out on me. Maybe I scared him due to my truly loving him? I am not sure.

Anyway, after everything, and the few times he would reply to my texts it would be stuff like "yes it was supposed to work out but I just went through this, I cannot do it again...yes I still love you but not as a girlfriend." I told him I would stop drinking (which I have, I am not a fun drunk) and he said to call him when I get help with it. Before I went to his house, he said he was thinking of coming back around soon, but he needs another week. I still have received no form of communication from him. His mom had passed away in 2012 (which was horrible) and I have a picture of him, his mom, and his brother that I blew up, framed, and mailed to his house with a nice "Merry Christmas" note as a Christmas gift. He would have received it a few days ago and still nothing. I think I was at least hoping for "thank you" but nothing.

Did I completely blow it? Any chance he'll ever come back around? I am hoping he is taking this time to heal from what his ex did to him in the past. I do not feel like this is supposed to be over and I am hoping it is just a bump in the road.

Also, he is Aqua sun, Aries moon, Cap venus

I am Libra sun, Aries moon, Leo venus

Anyone?

Do no contact for 10 weeks. Then try again. They need enough space to clear their heads.

Posted by pinkbird03

Do no contact for 10 weeks. Then try again. They need enough space to clear their heads.

I tried to last night 🤦🏽‍♀️ Whoops. I just said happy new year and apologized for everything I did. He read it, or “viewed” it but nothing. Last thing I said was “I hope we can be friends again someday when you’re ready”

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Posted by pinkbird03

Do no contact for 10 weeks. Then try again. They need enough space to clear their heads.

I tried to last night 🤦🏽‍♀️ Whoops. I just said happy new year and apologized for everything I did. He read it, or “viewed” it but nothing. Last thing I said was “I hope we can be friends again someday when you’re ready”

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Tooo emotional. You definitely need space from him. The more you have the better chance you have.

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Posted by pinkbird03

Do no contact for 10 weeks. Then try again. They need enough space to clear their heads.

I tried to last night 🤦🏽‍♀️ Whoops. I just said happy new year and apologized for everything I did. He read it, or “viewed” it but nothing. Last thing I said was “I hope we can be friends again someday when you’re ready”

Tooo emotional. You definitely need space from him. The more you have the better chance you have.

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Thank you! It’s hard and I wish I didn’t last night but will do my best. I’ve heard Aquarian’s are usually forgiving

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Posted by pinkbird03

Do no contact for 10 weeks. Then try again. They need enough space to clear their heads.

I tried to last night 🤦🏽‍♀️ Whoops. I just said happy new year and apologized for everything I did. He read it, or “viewed” it but nothing. Last thing I said was “I hope we can be friends again someday when you’re ready”

Tooo emotional. You definitely need space from him. The more you have the better chance you have.

Thank you! It’s hard and I wish I didn’t last night but will do my best. I’ve heard Aquarian’s are usually forgiving

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Yea I can agree with that. But they need space. And to know you’re not still crazy.

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Posted by pinkbird03

Do no contact for 10 weeks. Then try again. They need enough space to clear their heads.

I tried to last night 🤦🏽‍♀️ Whoops. I just said happy new year and apologized for everything I did. He read it, or “viewed” it but nothing. Last thing I said was “I hope we can be friends again someday when you’re ready”

Tooo emotional. You definitely need space from him. The more you have the better chance you have.

Thank you! It’s hard and I wish I didn’t last night but will do my best. I’ve heard Aquarian’s are usually forgiving

Yea I can agree with that. But they need space. And to know you’re not still crazy.

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True that 😂 I just wish they’d realize its them that can make us crazy

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Do no contact for 10 weeks. Then try again. They need enough space to clear their heads.

I tried to last night 🤦🏽‍♀️ Whoops. I just said happy new year and apologized for everything I did. He read it, or “viewed” it but nothing. Last thing I said was “I hope we can be friends again someday when you’re ready”

Tooo emotional. You definitely need space from him. The more you have the better chance you have.

Thank you! It’s hard and I wish I didn’t last night but will do my best. I’ve heard Aquarian’s are usually forgiving

Yea I can agree with that. But they need space. And to know you’re not still crazy.

True that 😂 I just wish they’d realize its them that can make us crazy

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Lol good luck! I hope it works out!

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Posted by pinkbird03

Do no contact for 10 weeks. Then try again. They need enough space to clear their heads.

I tried to last night 🤦🏽‍♀️ Whoops. I just said happy new year and apologized for everything I did. He read it, or “viewed” it but nothing. Last thing I said was “I hope we can be friends again someday when you’re ready”

Tooo emotional. You definitely need space from him. The more you have the better chance you have.

Thank you! It’s hard and I wish I didn’t last night but will do my best. I’ve heard Aquarian’s are usually forgiving

Yea I can agree with that. But they need space. And to know you’re not still crazy.

True that 😂 I just wish they’d realize its them that can make us crazy

Lol good luck! I hope it works out!

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Thank you!

HOLY SHIT! So fuck the ex Aquarius in this post. I just heard from another ex Aquarius that I was with on and off from 2013-2017. Haven’t talked in almost 2 years and boom there he is now. I’m pretty excited. I actually appreciated him more since this relationship ended because he was always there. WOW

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HOLY SHIT! So fuck the ex Aquarius in this post. I just heard from another ex Aquarius that I was with on and off from 2013-2017. Haven’t talked in almost 2 years and boom there he is now. I’m pretty excited. I actually appreciated him more since this relationship ended because he was always there. WOW

It could be different now! He’s 8 months sober and I’m about 8 days sober. I’m treading cautiously as to just be cool, as is he. We agreed to meet up for coffee soon and we both apologized for all the bullshit we put each other through. Sooo weird. He started dating a new girl a few days after I made it public I was with dickbag I originally posted about. His now ex gf name has the same name as me (I’m named after a certain gem, my name isn’t sally or Susan or anything popular) and the broke up a few days before dickbag dumped me

wow you go from talking about how much you miss him and want him back to dickbag because a flaky ex reached out to you.

ya you really care about his guy... 🙄

Posted by justagirl

wow you go from talking about how much you miss him and want him back to dickbag because a flaky ex reached out to you.

ya you really care about his guy... 🙄

Thinking the same thing

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wow you go from talking about how much you miss him and want him back to dickbag because a flaky ex reached out to you.

ya you really care about his guy... 🙄

Thinking the same thing

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🤨 it's a libra woman a scubbus demon from the underworld 😂

I stopped reading your post at the "begged we work things out". No one should ever "beg".

I also didn't know ending a fight with "Have a nice life" is still a thing in 2019. Anyway it's just 4 months of dating. What's done is done. Move along.

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wow you go from talking about how much you miss him and want him back to dickbag because a flaky ex reached out to you.

ya you really care about his guy... 🙄

I'm starting to think this isn't real. Sounds too much like that other thread where someone hit up her ex just to get back at her Taurus.

Yes, you blew it.

He said, "have a nice life." while being drunk.

What did you respond?

Thinking all the jizz about him..

Smh..

It's not about the ex. He simply just had some unfinished business with her or trying to find a clue about you..

Smdh about all these insecurities..

Is it Ruby? The second ex whom just contacted you is just going back to see what he missed...my guess is he won't last ...yr both in vulnerable places..

It was a great time. Went to coffee, which turned into lunch. Def still feelings there. What we broke up about has been dissolved. We’ll see what happens 🤷🏼‍♀️

And for those of you saying I clearly don’t care about whom this post was about; duh!! Wtf should I when he clearly doesn’t care after I’ve gone out of my way to persistently apologize, and get him a beautiful Christmas gift with no response? Clearly it’s over. Maybe I’ll hear from him in 2 years like this ex Aquarius 🤷🏼‍♀️🤙🏽👋🏼