Would an aquarius GUY send messages like this?

theres aquarius guy i know, who hugs alot of people, hes definately a peoples type of person. We hugged once and after that things became different. I texted him and he would text me things like, so we wont see eachother for a while what will you do without me 😢, or i thought you cared about me or how much do you care about me 😛 ? i thought these were the kinda things a girl would text a guy. it felt odd because for the first time i felt like i was the guy and he was the girl asking me these kind of of questions. When i saw him again he gave this snuggly hug, i so felt like i was a guy once again lol.
However on other days its totally different!! he sometimes completely ignores me asthough he doesnt know me, if i say hi to him he would just say a half hearted hi (it would sound more like a grunt).He would talk to my friends or other people much more openly but never even makes eye contact with me 😢 its almost like hes avoiding to look at me, he would do this on and off thing alot.
I got fed up and i asked him why he does that he would just say what are you talking about, i am not like that, and you didnt even talk to me and then just says ok fine be like that then changes the subject. What is up with him—?
What i want to know is that is it common for for aqauarius guys to send these sorts of messages to girls? does this guy have self esteem issues or something, why does he act so stand offish sometimes then makes me feel like a fool when i confront him about it?

Yea i basically just wrote a essay 😛

oh and he also sometimes asks me when i will invite him over to my house, its like one moment very interested others not ATALL!!!

oh, the old hot and cold bit eh? i see this one all the time!

just be friends with him. don't get overly emotional with him. just be cool and just be u. let him do his thing and u keep doing yours. if he wants to blow hot and cold, don't get worked up over it. when he asks u if u care about him be honest about it. tell him that u do and that u will miss him while he's away. u just have to keep that air of nonchalance about u. let him know u like him but not that u need him. any signs of neediness on ur end will make him bolt.

9 times out of 10 aquarians want to be your friend first. so treat him as such. i know how u aries can be so good luck with this one 😉

I agree with Ninja. It seems like this guy is not very serious about you. The reason I say this is b/c Aquarians generally only display this type of behavior when they are on the fence about someone. They kind of like you, but then again commitment is not a definite yet. So Aquarian men will LITERALLY treat you & act the way their emotions are going, considering their emotions about people often flip flop around; hence, his signals towards you will seem definite one minute & confusing the next. I don't necessarily think he's playing mind games with you b/c after all, if an Aquarian man knew already & up front that he didn't have any real use for you, he wouldn't have even gone as far to geek your head up about anything.

I agree that you should stop trying to over-analyze things so much. It's clear that you are a little bit more emotionally involved in the situation than he is & even though I'm sure you wished things were more mutual & equal, all you can do is deal with the cards you are currently being dealt. How you deal with this situation is, do exactly what he's doing, but not in a mind-game playing kind of way. Find a way to like him AND admit that you do when asked, BUT don't make it obvious that his every move has the power to affect you in some kind of way b/c believe it or not, he will be able to pick up on that. Just sit back, relax & enjoy the friendship. Know that there is SOMETHING he feels for you or else he wouldn't waste his energy to tell you all of those sweet things. BUT, he may not be seeing you in the huge way that you probably want him too, thus that explains why the next day he acts as if you're just some stranger. It sucks but it is what it is. When he decides to get serious about you, his signals won't be so mixed; they'll be more stable. The best way to be more desirable to him is to change up the pace (assuming that he has already picked up on your emotions/reactions to what he does) & do exactly what he does. Be there when he calls for you, but don't answer before the phone even rings (figure of speech). Get what I'm saying? Just relax. Have fun. You'll know when he's more serious about you b/c he'll be more consistent. And hey, after a while, if he continues to give mixed signals that turn into mind games then you'll know you have a decision to make

thanks for all your suggestions everyone, much appreciated, but found out few days ago that he has a girlfriend *ouch* i guess that does explain alot.

Bumped into him today, we just talked about university, the whole conversation felt awkward and i could sense the awkwardness 😢

well i guess thats the end of this discussion...

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