aries and cancer get along??

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Not sure about pros and cons but I was hanging out with a cancer girl for a month earlier this year. I found her very thoughtful and sensitive and yet incredibly offensive and violent towards me at the same time!

She constantly attacked me verbally and my left shin has a line of scars along it's length from the kicking I got one evening. It was a good evening! She calmed right down when I eventually told her her behaviour was fun. Guess she wasn't expecting that! I don't see her any more but drove past her last week. When she saw me she looked away and tried to hide her smile.

Don't know if she was a typical Cancer, but probably wouldn't specifically go looking for another one.
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i've attracted 2 aries guys both are awesome my first aries we were only talking and one i'm with right now we get along great sometimes i don't understand him because he's not very expressive of his feelings, we've never had an argument i did go off on him 1-2 time because of some misunderstandings and him talking to other girls other than that i think we get along good he's having problems so right now i'm just standing by him and helping him as much as i can. i love him =]
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Cancers I've known:

Mom - We never got along and she is batshit crazy. Verbally, physically, and mentally abusive towards her family, but plays it off as she is a sweet, nurturing and caring person around co-workers and so-called friends. She is very sensitive, an angry person, plays victim all the time, and does not appreciate all that she has. Without my father, she would have nothing. She is also a cheater - cheated on my father several times throughout their marriage and still denies the fact she did it even when busted with evidence. She is very manipulative and a control freak.

Ex - Again, verbally, physically, and mentally abusive. Very insecure, depressed, moody, sensitive and I found out he abused prescription meds. The guy cheated on me with his ex and tried to hit on other girls when I was not around.

Cancers as ACQUAINTANCES are tolerable, but I would stay the hell away from them in relationships or any close friendships.
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I am Cancer Asc/Cancer Moon and I didn't think I knew any Cancers but turns out one of my oldest and bestest friends from back in high school is a Crab.
We got on famously from day one. Have never had a fight. (I don't have fights with anyone tho - I am boring like that)

Now of course we live on opposite sides of the world to each other and she is totally hopeless at communicating but I still send her cards and crap. Couple of years ago I literally turned up on her doorstep after not seeing her for a decade and it was just like old times.

Not sure if I would date one tho - the stories on the Cancer board have me a bit freaked out.
Maybe the guys are different? But I guess we only get to read about the odd ones, don't we?
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Posted by firewaterair
Cancers I've known:

Mom - We never got along and she is batshit crazy. Verbally, physically, and mentally abusive towards her family, but plays it off as she is a sweet, nurturing and caring person around co-workers and so-called friends. She is very sensitive, an angry person, plays victim all the time, and does not appreciate all that she has. Without my father, she would have nothing. She is also a cheater - cheated on my father several times throughout their marriage and still denies the fact she did it even when busted with evidence. She is very manipulative and a control freak.

Ex - Again, verbally, physically, and mentally abusive. Very insecure, depressed, moody, sensitive and I found out he abused prescription meds. The guy cheated on me with his ex and tried to hit on other girls when I was not around.

Cancers as ACQUAINTANCES are tolerable, but I would stay the hell away from them in relationships or any close friendships.




wow that is craaaazy
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Posted by bluemoon9043834
No to Cancers.

If I am going to be with a water sign, I'll just be with a Scorpio.



You are crazy girl! I only trust one scorp. and I have known her since we were born! I have even written my dad's sister off and out of my life... I literally do not trust them as far as I can see them!

They seem to be good in bed tho... they just talk too much during!

Cancer... my gran's a Cancer and what FireWaterAir said bout her mum seems to hit the nail on my gran! But I have two good male Cancer friends who I DO trust with a lot of my secrets and I know they care and won't judge or gossip or anything! I'm currently also crushing on a different Cancer... he seems to have baited me, reeled me in, caught me and then just went all quiet on me -- but is still very polite and friendly when I contact him and always says "yes, soon!"... like whatevz... I want to be over it but you know how we are with guys who play hard to get... it hooks us in even more!!! Nothing to do but ride it out I guess!
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Posted by impresswho
I am ok with Cancers as long as I don't have to spend too much time around them. I dated a Cancer when I was younger and after the relationship progressed I felt suffocated. Pisces are my favorite water sign. 😄



I find Pisces fun to party with -- one of my besties in UAE is Pisces and her and I get along like no other friendship I've had... like she thinks I'm mental with my free worldly views ( I believe her actual words were "It's like you're from another planet!") and she is always "It's either right or wrong, black or white.... but also doesn't judge. She just challenges my views and we have the greatest debates! But I've find many others to be whiny little bitches who love throwing pity parties for attention! I kinda guess that's what I was doing on the other thread I started hey....!!!!!!!! LMFAO!!! Now I know where that comes from! All my pisces planets! hahahahaha!
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Posted by ReallyNiceAriesPerson

We got on famously from day one. Have never had a fight. (I don't have fights with anyone tho - I am boring like that)





ah,mmmm, I suppose we shall overlook the occasional head butting......


I have known a Cancer for a long, long time. I really never know quite what to expect from this person. She isn't nasty or anything like that, rather some times she is quite animated and feisty, and then suddenly quite withdrawn and distant. Just do one or the other will you!!!!!
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i've gotten along with an aries girl at my old job we we're both really laid back and she was really nice but she was more talkative than me that's because i didn't like anyone there and she knew everybody had no idea we went to the same school. i only talked to her and another girl that's it. i used to somewhat date an aries guy (april 17th) in high school he was really soft spoken but a tough guy lol he really really liked me he said i were pretty and i dressed really nice that's what caught him and i also had another aries (the guy i'm currently dating) trying to talk to me at the same time (i had no idea he was an aries at the time) but i turned him down the first time for the april 17th aries. we didn't date for long nothing big i was a year older than him, he had moved away because he got into some trouble then 2 years later i'm dating the other aries guy lol he told me how he was hurt and upset because i turned him down, he said it broke his heart when he asked if i had a boyfriend i said "yes" i laughed =P
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Posted by ReallyNiceAriesPerson

We got on famously from day one. Have never had a fight. (I don't have fights with anyone tho - I am boring like that)





ah,mmmm, I suppose we shall overlook the occasional head butting......


I have known a Cancer for a long, long time. I really never know quite what to expect from this person. She isn't nasty or anything like that, rather some times she is quite animated and feisty, and then suddenly quite withdrawn and distant. Just do one or the other will you!!!!!
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Well I wanted to head butt her when she married some dikk who doesn't deserve her, but at least he
A) married her and
B) I don't think he beats her up

I just hold my tongue on the subject.
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Posted by pretty713
Well Im a Cancer with a LOT of Fire in my chart (which makes a difference!!!)

I get a long very well with Aries.

I have an ARIES: Mom, Sister, Bestfriend, Cousin (close like a sister), and Grandma.

I dated an Aries guy with a Cancer Moon (we got along great!!!!) But it didnt last 😢


It depends on your chart and the Cancer person chart too.



Oh Pretty I am very sad to hear about that😢 Was it the work situation or a personality thing?
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Posted by MystifyMe
Well I am currently dating a Cancer now. Love him to pieces.

My two ex-boyfriends were also Cancer males. By the way I am still close friends with both of these gentlemen.

I guess it all depends on your charts.




I love "Mystify Me" - it is a great song

All veils and misty
streets of blue
almond looks
that chill devine

some silken moment
goes on forever
and we're leavin
broken hearts
behind....

Read it and weep Adele.
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Cancer Here, with too much water and air going on.

I always read that Cancer and Aries aren't supposed to get along that well, right? That Aries' blunt words'll hurt.. and Cancer's pressure might run 'em off. But actually, the longest and closest relationship I've had is with an Aries girl. I found out that I'm really attracted to Aries for some reason. They give off a really good vibe.

I was reading this thread because I was hoping to learn more. xD
I thought she'd be intolerable, and get mad a lot.. but when she does, it's always at someone else, and she calms down right away. Specifically, after I say, 'Calm down.. '

Not only that, she's really understanding. There's no one I can talk to as long as the Aries girl, because she talks back. We can actually discuss things without it getting awkward, and it gives me confidence. I didn't think they were so loyal either, but I was touched by how wrong I was. Besides the temper, she's really romantically soft. Saying things like, 'I don't want to pressure you.. ' and, 'I miss you already,' and even things like making cookies for me, knowing I'd drop by without actually saying I would. Keep those kind of things up, and I don't mind her winning my Cancer company a little longer, you know. xDD
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Currently in an exhausting and emotional roller coaster ride of an affair with a Cancer man. Currently on the outs, maybe for good per him. But when we are together, d@mn the chemistry is amazing!! He's almost like a drug to me. Trying to get him back, and failing miserably. I feel like I'm being torn apart on the inside. Starting to feel my Aries ice coming on... Once this is over, I will avoid Cancer men from here on out!
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Aries And Cancer Love Match And Compatibility


Unique feature in Aries and Cancer relationship is that while both of them are devoted towards their families, Aries is not as highly devoted as Cancer. Aries loves freedom and too much affection or demands from the family might leave him or her suffocated at the end of it. For Aries, individual existence is premier consideration.

In contrast, cancer loves intimacy and prefers mutual dependence. To some Aries might look cold, callous and indifferent in comparison while cancer may look too needy and extremely sensitive. Interesting part of Aries-Cancer relationship is that Cancer may feel that he or she is the sole contributor in the relation with the counterpart making none at all.

Relationship and compatibility between these two Aries Cancer zodiac signs therefore hangs in balance and depends largely on the understanding of each other. Aries can make Cancer understand the ways of independence while on turn can learn a lesson or two in compassion and sensitivity. But the keyword in a harmonious relationship would be adjustment. Crab has to control excessive swings of mood, a natural tendency with Cancer and Ram on turn have to keep under control the outgoing spirit, natural for Aries.

The pairing is unique as it combines two completely different natures and therefore both partners should trade with caution. Aries may show intent interest in cancer making them both feel it is true love at the beginning. But once the tender heart of Cancer opens up and accepts it, there could be deep trouble when Aries suddenly loses interest in the relationship. While the Cancer would go back to his or her shell, Aries will get bored and move on to some other destiny.

And that could be the end of the Cancer Aries relationship.

Problem is that Aries fails to understand the indirect style s inherent to Cancer and thus lose patience. Aries may also feel the highly emotional world of Cancer irritable, limited, and unrealistic. Despite being deeply hurt, Cancer will try to cling to Aries as long as possible.

But once they get over these negative tendencies, the relationship could really flourish into something great. In result Cancer will open up Aries to emotional depths while Aries will inspire Cancer to relinquish his or her fears not based on facts.

When it comes to Aries woman and Cancer man, it is balancing between the outgoing and extrovert nature of the former with the comfort loving and introver
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introvert characteristics of the latter. Both Aries and Cancer have great attraction for each other but to ensure the relation works perfectly for long time they have to work hard. Otherwise, the attraction would wane too soon leaving them poles apart from each other.

Aries woman may find Cancer man a bit possessive and restraining and difficult to understand due to frequent mood swings. Problem point in the relationship is that while great understanding and adjustments are required, both of these partners are stubborn as well as inflexible in nature.

If each of the two partners bends a little, the relationship could flourish into one of the best possible while if the two do not relinquish their stubborn obstinacy, the relationship could be damaged beyond repair. Success and failure of the relationship are thus their own making most of the times.

In romantic relationship watery Cancer and flaming Aries will have both feelings of burning as well as tranquility. Aries is spontaneous in expressing the feelings while Cancer needs a little time in doing so. Cancer man is shy by nature but has immense love for money, fame, as well as recognition. He also gets everything he wants with dedication, determination, and discipline. But in love, Aries woman possesses him and showers passionate love as well. Faithful and loyal nature of Cancer man is usually appreciated by Aries woman.

However, Cancer man is sensitive in hurt and can get unwarrantedly offended by the careless attitude of the Aries woman.

On her part the Aries woman is not only impulsive but also sovereign lady meeting the obstacles in her way headlong that makes her look inconsiderate and thoughtless at times. But the real gentleman in Cancer overlooks these deficiencies and turns out to be an ideal partner in love and friendship.


Basically Aries man loves instability and this is one attribute that does not go well with the cancer woman. Casual remarks made by Aries man can break the soft and highly vulnerable heart of Cancer woman. On the other hand the showering of love and affection by Cancer woman may leave the Aries man smothered.

Cancer woman would visualize a small yet cozy love nest for the two but this may not appeal to Aries man much. Extrovert nature and outward moves of Aries man may make Cancer woman jealous.

Solution lies in Aries man learning exactly how to comfort his Cancer partner. To earn the much needed freedom he cherishes, he would have to comfort Canc
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comfort Cancer woman now and then. In such cases the relationship would not only flourish in love and friendship but will work smoothly for long term.

When thrill of Aries comes in contact with sensitivity of Cancer, the combination is strange that of fire with water. Yet the relationship would be warm and gentle for both. Like tides, the two will experience ups and downs in relationships but once the tide is over, they will have even more concrete relationship. Aries man provides security and protection to Cancer woman and becomes stimulating companion with exciting ideas as well as highly appreciating words.

With his possessiveness Aries man always generates sense of security in Cancer woman though at time his words may hurt the Cancer woman substantially. Cancer woman has delicate feelings but is very loyal to the lover. A synonym to calmness, love, and patience, Cancer woman is imaginative as well as intellectual.

Above all; she is an expert in fulfilling demands of love by Aries partner. Though extremely possessive about her man she may irritate the Aries man at times because he wants complete freedom and wishes that his woman should have complete faith in his strength and ability.

For perfect relationship; the Aries man has to learn not to make the Cancer woman feel insecure.

Aries by nature is impatient and this trait will not let them to sit in peace. They will keep challenging the problems of life and their environment. Both of them have different outlook on the life, Cancer gives great importance to home and their family whereas Aries comes with different tendency and they do not have much concern with this type of importance. This difference can make great dispute between two. Their ruling nature will enable them to be dominant over other, probably other would not like this very much. There is some compatibility for this zodiac star sign and if you are taking Cancer as compatibility with Aries then you will know the compatibility ratio between these two signs will be up to the mutual sense of understanding and cooperation. If both of them have some tolerance against their partner then they can survive in this combination. Cancer will also show their sensitive nature and the softness of their personality will be able to mold the fire of Aries. Cancer would like to have an attention of their partner in time of need whereas Aries has their own outlook while they will be moving their partner. For catching the right signals of Aries
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heart, you will have to give them sense of excitement, challenges and passion because these will fill Aries with rather full of energy. However, the flames of love and romance will ignite just for a while but they can make relationship with one another if they learn one another like a book.

Aries Man and Cancer Woman compatibility

In Aries man and Cancer woman compatibility, you will find them in love. There will something good between them especially Cancer woman will bring protection for her man just because of her sensitive nature and caring trait. Both of them will always try to see who is going to call the tunes because they can get into series arguments while speaking with one another. Their star elements are too different but for all this, they can enjoy their lives. Aries would like to give his hand to his miss right because he will find Cancer woman always in the clog of damsel in distress and this situation will compel the Aries to help her in time of need. However, he would never like to have any restriction on his independent nature. Thy will succeed to make fun and try to get in different places while in each others company.

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Cancer chick here. Don't know much about the astrology thing (did get my reading once and just know certain planets) but I did notice my Mom is an Aries and we had butt heads (ha!ha!) through life but now get along great. We lose touch sometimes (I'm working in another city while she has chased her retirement dream to have a cute house by the beach. And I visit when I can) but we reconnect and have a great time. I love her very much and I also like her and have a ton of respect and admiration for her. A couple of my best friends are Aries and we have been friends since high school and every time we meet up it's like we never missed a beat. They did get me in trouble for going along with their "smart plan" at the time but it wasn't like they put a gun to my head right? And I don't regret any of the good times or bad times because we're still great friends.

I'm also dating an Aries long distance. He had to move away to find a job. He met me during the process of job hunting/moving away plan and we both fought like Hell to keep it platonic but couldn't resist each other. There's just something there. It's crazy. Now everybody go AWWWWW! So far so good. We talk every couple of days. I make sure he sets the schedule and I make sure I have something new and exciting to say. He'll be here for New Years and I can't wait! We always have a ball and just laugh and hang out. I adore him. And he 'really really REALLY (yeah really) digs me'. 🙂

Not sure if I fit into the typical Cancer mold. Maybe it's because I'm a Scorpio rising/Moon Taurus/Venus Gemini/Saturn in Your Mom (couldn't resist) but I get along great with Aries. They can get a little kooky but that's everyone with a mind complex these days. I'm sure I've snapped at people but we're human. The ones with issues need self love and a therapist but they're too busy researching every psychiatrist to find a good one. Cancer joke there.... which bombed I'm sure. Anywho Aries people are awesome!
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The connection is instant with Rams.
I think the Ram is the only sign that feel I can freely express my spontaneous and passionate nature.
My most memorable and delicious experiences have been with the male Ram.
No tears, no mind games, no push pull, no guess work, no waiting and wondering.
They are very straight forward males and I know where I stand with them and they are always up for an adventure.
They are the best candidates to play my elusive tricks. 😉
They eat it up and they don't give up.
My problem with them is that they always need to have other women. Deal breaker.
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I've dated a quite a few Cancers... even a triple Cancer (Sun, Moon, and Ascendant). Got the cherry popped by a Cancer. First proposal of marriage, from a Cancer.

This is probably because I have a Cancer/Leo 7th House. Cancer and Leo are the signs I have attracted the most. Even when the guy is not a Cancer, his mother (a potential -inlaw) is a Cancer. I prefer Cancer Moons over Suns as the 7th house is also about open enemies.

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i dont think my rollercoaster with aries will ever end, but do i want it to, as daft as it feels and sounds no i dont think i do. the chemistry explodes in2 the mad passion when we have been together, we literally eat each other. so why oh why is he such a selfish dickhead and i cannot make him see it. It wrenches me. His personality is so hard i really really really do not know what to do next about him, but i know if i saw him i would regret it because of what hes like and how things always always end up and i carnt emotionally put go through it all again. Im a little more headstrong than i was a year ago but that doesnt make what i feel go away. Could anyone help and advise please?
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Posted by elaine67
i dont think my rollercoaster with aries will ever end, but do i want it to, as daft as it feels and sounds no i dont think i do. the chemistry explodes in2 the mad passion when we have been together, we literally eat each other. so why oh why is he such a selfish dickhead and i cannot make him see it. It wrenches me. His personality is so hard i really really really do not know what to do next about him, but i know if i saw him i would regret it because of what hes like and how things always always end up and i carnt emotionally go through it all again. Im a little more headstrong than i was a year ago but that doesnt make what i feel go away. Could anyone help and advise please?

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I am an aries girl. Dated a cancer. He fell for me I fell for him.
I run away (i felt insecure)

It's been a year since we broke up. I am still into him, he is into me.

He doesn't to be with me. He doesn't trust me (I am too much I guess) and he is convinced, what did work out for the first time, won't work for the second.

We get along very well. Or we GOT along very well 🙂
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I am a Cancer woman with an Aries man....... According to the description of our astrological personalities in love, it appears as though if he is the cancer and I am the aries.. I love to move around and go outdoors to have fun and engage in physical activities while he likes to stay home and cuddle watching movies. He enjoys doing housework while the only thing i like to do in my home is design and decorate it. He is very loyal and is extremely clingy. He doesnt give me any space to do to the things that I like to do alone like exercise and create music. It is very hard for me to just push him off because i dont want to hurt his feelings or make him feel as if he is wrong in his devotion toward me. He texts me all day while im at work and waits for me by my door when im on my way home. He is very sweet and i can be very mean. i like to take my space and give him his but he doesnt believe there should be any space within a partnership. He wants to have a baby because he feels it will make our relationship more solid than it already is . It can become a little overwhelming knowing that so much is expected me in such a short period of time, we only been an item for 7 months. I love him but I wish we would have taken things a bit slower so that I can actually have put my foot down about the space I need. When i create i like to create alone, that is the best way for me to work and between being a working mother and a woman to my aries man i no longer have time to do so.
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Posted by LunarMaiden
The connection is instant with Rams.
I think the Ram is the only sign that feel I can freely express my spontaneous and passionate nature.
My most memorable and delicious experiences have been with the male Ram.
No tears, no mind games, no push pull, no guess work, no waiting and wondering.
They are very straight forward males and I know where I stand with them and they are always up for an adventure.
They are the best candidates to play my elusive tricks. 😉
They eat it up and they don't give up.
My problem with them is that they always need to have other women. Deal breaker.

maybe they had venus in aries..the ones with earth or water venuses are usually very loyal.