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Posted by bkbella86Posted by VenusAquariusPosted by Wolfine
Idk this is crazy. I always thought I am very Aries. I grew up with two Aries best friends, a girl and a boy. We were very alike, so I thought we were true Aries. All of us were very shy, quite, straight-A students. We were short with baby faces. I was called a "doll" until my teenage years, after that I was called "Barbie" lol. But, after reading zodiac description, nothing really related. All that loud mouth, energetic, likes to fight, very masculine. No! No! No! I feel some internal power, masculine logic maybe. I don't follow heart and emotions, I listen to logic and brain, only this sounds true.
Me too... short, baby face, called doll and Barbie, straight A student, super logic, no heart or emotion....
But, I will and did fight like a muthafucka, lol.
I am "masculine" when the tradional pych/sociological terms: logic, ambition, independence, violent, aggressive, stoic, etc.
But, I look very feminine...no man looking at deep dimples, 34F's on a 5'2, 130 lb. frame, and juicy booty thinks "damn, she masculine," Lol.
I’m 5’2 too lol and busty
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Me three lol, apparently that’s down to my Cancer placement, mine is Cancer rising. Anyone else with a Cancer placement?
Posted by Aniesha23Posted by bkbella86Posted by VenusAquariusPosted by Wolfine
Idk this is crazy. I always thought I am very Aries. I grew up with two Aries best friends, a girl and a boy. We were very alike, so I thought we were true Aries. All of us were very shy, quite, straight-A students. We were short with baby faces. I was called a "doll" until my teenage years, after that I was called "Barbie" lol. But, after reading zodiac description, nothing really related. All that loud mouth, energetic, likes to fight, very masculine. No! No! No! I feel some internal power, masculine logic maybe. I don't follow heart and emotions, I listen to logic and brain, only this sounds true.
Me too... short, baby face, called doll and Barbie, straight A student, super logic, no heart or emotion....
But, I will and did fight like a muthafucka, lol.
I am "masculine" when the tradional pych/sociological terms: logic, ambition, independence, violent, aggressive, stoic, etc.
But, I look very feminine...no man looking at deep dimples, 34F's on a 5'2, 130 lb. frame, and juicy booty thinks "damn, she masculine," Lol.
I’m 5’2 too lol and busty
Me three lol, apparently that’s down to my Cancer placement, mine is Cancer rising. Anyone else with a Cancer placement?click to expand
I have zero cancer placements
I have Pisces, cap and Taurus as my major signs besides my sun and rising. I’m an Aries rising and sun
Posted by VenusAquariusPosted by bkbella86Posted by VenusAquariusPosted by Wolfine
Idk this is crazy. I always thought I am very Aries. I grew up with two Aries best friends, a girl and a boy. We were very alike, so I thought we were true Aries. All of us were very shy, quite, straight-A students. We were short with baby faces. I was called a "doll" until my teenage years, after that I was called "Barbie" lol. But, after reading zodiac description, nothing really related. All that loud mouth, energetic, likes to fight, very masculine. No! No! No! I feel some internal power, masculine logic maybe. I don't follow heart and emotions, I listen to logic and brain, only this sounds true.
Me too... short, baby face, called doll and Barbie, straight A student, super logic, no heart or emotion....
But, I will and did fight like a muthafucka, lol.
I am "masculine" when the tradional pych/sociological terms: logic, ambition, independence, violent, aggressive, stoic, etc.
But, I look very feminine...no man looking at deep dimples, 34F's on a 5'2, 130 lb. frame, and juicy booty thinks "damn, she masculine," Lol.
I’m 5’2 too lol and busty
You have a baby doll face too.click to expand
Thanks darling so do you! We fine over here!
Posted by WolfinePosted by VenusAquariusPosted by Wolfine
Idk this is crazy. I always thought I am very Aries. I grew up with two Aries best friends, a girl and a boy. We were very alike, so I thought we were true Aries. All of us were very shy, quite, straight-A students. We were short with baby faces. I was called a "doll" until my teenage years, after that I was called "Barbie" lol. But, after reading zodiac description, nothing really related. All that loud mouth, energetic, likes to fight, very masculine. No! No! No! I feel some internal power, masculine logic maybe. I don't follow heart and emotions, I listen to logic and brain, only this sounds true.
Me too... short, baby face, called doll and Barbie, straight A student, super logic, no heart or emotion....
But, I will and did fight like a muthafucka, lol.
I am "masculine" when the tradional pych/sociological terms: logic, ambition, independence, violent, aggressive, stoic, etc.
But, I look very feminine...no man looking at deep dimples, 34F's on a 5'2, 130 lb. frame, and juicy booty thinks "damn, she masculine," Lol.
I was getting into physical fights too lol. Last time when it happened was when I was 13 or so.click to expand
I was 36.
Posted by WolfinePosted by VenusAquariusPosted by WolfinePosted by VenusAquariusPosted by Wolfine
Idk this is crazy. I always thought I am very Aries. I grew up with two Aries best friends, a girl and a boy. We were very alike, so I thought we were true Aries. All of us were very shy, quite, straight-A students. We were short with baby faces. I was called a "doll" until my teenage years, after that I was called "Barbie" lol. But, after reading zodiac description, nothing really related. All that loud mouth, energetic, likes to fight, very masculine. No! No! No! I feel some internal power, masculine logic maybe. I don't follow heart and emotions, I listen to logic and brain, only this sounds true.
Me too... short, baby face, called doll and Barbie, straight A student, super logic, no heart or emotion....
But, I will and did fight like a muthafucka, lol.
I am "masculine" when the tradional pych/sociological terms: logic, ambition, independence, violent, aggressive, stoic, etc.
But, I look very feminine...no man looking at deep dimples, 34F's on a 5'2, 130 lb. frame, and juicy booty thinks "damn, she masculine," Lol.
I was getting into physical fights too lol. Last time when it happened was when I was 13 or so.
I was 36.
I'm not 36 yet, anything can happen 😂.click to expand
FITE ME
Posted by bkbella86Posted by black773Posted by Aniesha23Posted by black773
You clearly are still immature if you have to bring up all those other signs to make yourself seem better or strong. @alexcaries
No one likes someone who talks the talk but isn’t walking the walk. I actually like the Aries friends I have IRL, but not ones like you who talk big but are actually small and pathetic. You’re trash.
Sweetie you’re doing a little bit too much, the name calling was uncalled for.
No one here is pathetic or trash. We are all adults here, do better.
Not your sweetie. You all are clearly young and dumb. Get it together.
Lol You sound like a Cancer or Cap
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I have Aries friends so I like Aries but I don’t see the point in needing to bring up other signs when trying to make themselves appear better or stronger. I just don’t find the post above mature. And not everyone is out to get Aries. I don’t see the correlation of that to Cancer or Capricorn tbh.
I don’t remember if I posted in this thread or another one but Aries are not even like astrology paints them. The only thing I’ve noticed is they can be excitable and childlike.
Astrology reputations have no bearings in the real world. Y’all aren’t that bad.
Astrology reputations have no bearings in the real world. Y’all aren’t that bad.
Posted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturnsPosted by SmidgePosted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturnsPosted by Smidge
eeew cancer moon 😭 I'm not a very obvious aries. 🙁
Why you gotta hurt me? 😭
soz.
actually, I made a new friend last year, she's amazing i love her and I just recently found out shes a pisces sun with cancer moon.. they're the two placements I swear against sooo, my life is a lie. 🤷
See, we’re awesome 😎click to expand
An awesome pain in the arse.
*hands you a box of tissues*
Posted by bkbella86Posted by black773Posted by Aniesha23Posted by black773
You clearly are still immature if you have to bring up all those other signs to make yourself seem better or strong. @alexcaries
No one likes someone who talks the talk but isn’t walking the walk. I actually like the Aries friends I have IRL, but not ones like you who talk big but are actually small and pathetic. You’re trash.
Sweetie you’re doing a little bit too much, the name calling was uncalled for.
No one here is pathetic or trash. We are all adults here, do better.
Not your sweetie. You all are clearly young and dumb. Get it together.
Lol You sound like a Cancer or Cap
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If you recall, he's the Libra that went crazy making like three threads about how masculine Aries fems are. The threads were like back-to-back you and I and some other Aries responded. Forgot which Aries set him off but, he would frequent the forum anyway. I think there was a posh, snobby, condescending Aries fem with quick jabs.
Our opposite sign, Libra, are often here with the negativity. Caps like us... well, online at least.
Posted by LastwillPosted by DonnaLibra
Aries rock! My best friends forever have been Aries women. They don't take butter from anyone but there is nothing at all masculine about any of them. I'm weak for Aries men and need to work on that. However, Aries people don't change a thing.
Are you a sept. Or Oct libra?click to expand
October 15
Posted by NoName282
I think scorpios tend to be the bad ones.
Once (about 20 years ago) I was wearing a jacket and had a Scorpio patch, someone came up to me and said “oh no, you are a Scorpio!” But told him I was an Aries and he seemed relieved.
I never understood why people are afraid of them.
I'm not. Scorpio's don't scare me one bit. My Dad is one and I have him wrapped around my finger. I used to date one who was great in bed but I couldn't stand his jealousy and highly emotional personality. I'm better with Gemini's who understand me.
Posted by alexscariesPosted by BllPosted by alexscariesPosted by BllPosted by alexscariesPosted by BllPosted by Wolfine
Idk this is crazy. I always thought I am very Aries. I grew up with two Aries best friends, a girl and a boy. We were very alike, so I thought we were true Aries. All of us were very shy, quite, straight-A students. We were short with baby faces. I was called a "doll" until my teenage years, after that I was called "Barbie" lol. But, after reading zodiac description, nothing really related. All that loud mouth, energetic, likes to fight, very masculine. No! No! No! I feel some internal power, masculine logic maybe. I don't follow heart and emotions, I listen to logic and brain, only this sounds true.
I never understood that ‘likes to fight’ thing. Surely no one likes to fight, right? I see that aries men tend to relate to this more than the women, though.
Don't think of it as physical fighting, think of it as standing up for yourself. It's pretty much either dated or become misconstrued over time. Much like aries masculinity when it should be classed more as assertiveness or action as opposed to "feminine" emotion driven zodiac signs.
That makes sense. Still, I don’t LIKE it; I HAVE to do it. There’s a difference. I can’t help but stand up for myself or my friends, or the underdog, anyone who’s not able to defend themselves for whatever reason, because I can’t stand all the egocentricity and unnecessary rudeness I encounter in my daily life. That tags me as the aggressive noisemaker who loves to fight, lol. How ironic.
More ‘feminine’ energy, with their passive aggression, usually isn’t considered rude or aggressive by most people I know, but to me it is. Some of the rudest people I know are caps and pisceans (not bashing the signs, but these individuals I know often happen to be caps or pisces)
I agree. I stand up for underdogs as well I hate to see people being bullied especially if they are disabled, elderly or due to their sexuality. I will also defend someone's right to their political beliefs even if they are different to mine.
I have a cappy friend whose female she is very outspoken and swears a lot, I don't consider her to be rude as she has a kind heart. Pisceans I've not had loads of experience with. I agree that passive-aggressive is rude and in some cases even a form of bullying.
If anything what people find confusing is everything is black or white for us, no (50) shades of grey. The same applies to Scorpio as well, which I think is one reason some people find them aggressive. With Aries and a few other signs like Taurus, Scorpio, Virgo you know where you stand, no bitchiness as they will tell you they don't like you, also no pretending to like what you like or telling you what they think you want to hear.
Do you think it also has something to do with your scorpio moon? My brother has this placement, and he’s very sensitive to witnessing injustice, violence, anything like that. He’s not really the assertive type, though, so he won’t outright stand up for these people. But he says he can’t watch Game of Thrones, for example, because he can’t watch women being mistreated, even if it’s just a show. I always thought it had something to do with his scorpio moon.
I generally find the winter signs harder to stomach, they’re often ‘darker’ than what I’m used to. I’ll give most people a chance if they seem genuinely nice, cap and pisces included.
I agree, a lot of people can’t handle our direct attitude. One of my best friends is a virgo, she told me she appreciates how direct I am, because then she always knows where she stands with me, she doesn’t need to overanalyze and look for hidden clues that I don’t actually like her, etc. I don’t trust really scorpio or taurus females anymore tbh (I don’t have any reason to dislike the males, though) - but I always attract a lot of them, plus virgos
It could be partly to do with my moon I'm honestly not sure. To me it just seems unfair. It could be Scorpio moon empathy, some people say Aquarians are usually friendly due to being excluded when they were younger e.g. not picked for the sports team. So maybe a bit of life experience, mixed with moon and Aries energy.
I am on the dark side as I've said it mainly comes out in humour, but I'm quite stoic and maybe even serious. Certainly compared to say a Leo I will appear darker.
From my experiences virgos are usually direct. I think it's important to be honest with people, if I don't like somebody unlike say some Libras and Pisceans I won't pretend I do.click to expand
Hey, I'm a Libra and if I don't like you I won't interact with you. However, if you speak to me in public I will speak and keep it moving. Libra's get a bad rap for that but the Libra's I know don't take butter. I think astrology has said this so much that Libra's are starting to reveal their dark side and it ain't pretty.
Posted by VenusAquariusPosted by bkbella86Posted by black773Posted by Aniesha23Posted by black773
You clearly are still immature if you have to bring up all those other signs to make yourself seem better or strong. @alexcaries
No one likes someone who talks the talk but isn’t walking the walk. I actually like the Aries friends I have IRL, but not ones like you who talk big but are actually small and pathetic. You’re trash.
Sweetie you’re doing a little bit too much, the name calling was uncalled for.
No one here is pathetic or trash. We are all adults here, do better.
Not your sweetie. You all are clearly young and dumb. Get it together.
Lol You sound like a Cancer or Cap
If you recall, he's the Libra that went crazy making like three threads about how masculine Aries fems are. The threads were like back-to-back you and I and some other Aries responded. Forgot which Aries set him off but, he would frequent the forum anyway. I think there was a posh, snobby, condescending Aries fem with quick jabs.
Our opposite sign, Libra, are often here with the negativity. Caps like us... well, online at least.click to expand
I never made any threads about Aries so that’s a lie. I also never made threads back to back so that’s another lie. I also didn’t bring negativity to this Aries thread. If you read through the thread I mentioned Aries aren’t that bad so and that astrology reputations don’t define others.
But you’ve got me all figured out...
Posted by LastwillPosted by DonnaLibraPosted by LastwillPosted by DonnaLibra
Aries rock! My best friends forever have been Aries women. They don't take butter from anyone but there is nothing at all masculine about any of them. I'm weak for Aries men and need to work on that. However, Aries people don't change a thing.
Are you a sept. Or Oct libra?
October 15
Oct libras are evil af. It's cuteclick to expand
I'm not. What are you and what month? You're probably the devil himself.
Posted by black773Posted by VenusAquariusPosted by bkbella86Posted by black773Posted by Aniesha23Posted by black773
You clearly are still immature if you have to bring up all those other signs to make yourself seem better or strong. @alexcaries
No one likes someone who talks the talk but isn’t walking the walk. I actually like the Aries friends I have IRL, but not ones like you who talk big but are actually small and pathetic. You’re trash.
Sweetie you’re doing a little bit too much, the name calling was uncalled for.
No one here is pathetic or trash. We are all adults here, do better.
Not your sweetie. You all are clearly young and dumb. Get it together.
Lol You sound like a Cancer or Cap
If you recall, he's the Libra that went crazy making like three threads about how masculine Aries fems are. The threads were like back-to-back you and I and some other Aries responded. Forgot which Aries set him off but, he would frequent the forum anyway. I think there was a posh, snobby, condescending Aries fem with quick jabs.
Our opposite sign, Libra, are often here with the negativity. Caps like us... well, online at least.
I never made any threads about Aries so that’s a lie. I also never made threads back to back so that’s another lie. I also didn’t bring negativity to this Aries thread. If you read through the thread I mentioned Aries aren’t that bad so and that astrology reputations don’t define others.
But you’ve got me all figured out...click to expand
Are you Tirano24?
I love and hate Aries at the same time.
I find that some aries woman have certain behaviors that are offputting. Many think
they are a strong woman if they talk with a very stern voice, they fly off the handle in public, they interrupt, they barge in rooms, act impulsively snd not stick to plans.
When confronted they smirk or or tell you cant handle a strong woman. I suspect some of those are posting here.
I think thats bad behavior and justifying it with ideology instead of being selfcritical makes them even ore disgisting.
I will never let a person with a temper be boss. My methodical ways arm mevwith lnowledge and arguments. If they misbehave i humiliate them.
People dont find aries in general bad just certain behaviors in certain situations. So if you tell yourself people cant handle you dont own your shortcomongs i know you are a bad person.
I get really furious when they you cant handle me. I dont want to deal with the negativity you need to handle yourself and not dump your shit on us.
Why dont you think about a situation and analyze your own behavior inszead of glorifying yourselv here?
Posted by alexscariesPosted by Parkourler
I love and hate Aries at the same time.
I find that some aries woman have certain behaviors that are offputting. Many think
they are a strong woman if they talk with a very stern voice, they fly off the handle in public, they interrupt, they barge in rooms, act impulsively snd not stick to plans.
When confronted they smirk or or tell you cant handle a strong woman. I suspect some of those are posting here.
I think thats bad behavior and justifying it with ideology instead of being selfcritical makes them even ore disgisting.
I will never let a person with a temper be boss. My methodical ways arm mevwith lnowledge and arguments. If they misbehave i humiliate them.
People dont find aries in general bad just certain behaviors in certain situations. So if you tell yourself people cant handle you dont own your shortcomongs i know you are a bad person.
I get really furious when they you cant handle me. I dont want to deal with the negativity you need to handle yourself and not dump your shit on us.
Why dont you think about a situation and analyze your own behavior inszead of glorifying yourselv here?
Aries can be self absorbed, but some people genuinely don't know how to handle us. There is a right way and a wrong way. I will tell you the secret either dominate over us and subtely earn our respect or be really gentle without being sentmental.
Give us the silent treatment and we get mad, act like a little bitch and we get mad and of course argue with us and be prepared to cancel any plans because we go on.click to expand
Yeah that happened too of they get rude and you get angry about that you get called a little bitch, which is another insult.
I dont even try to handle them, i am not their father, if they dont get a hold of themselves and act bad i make sure they have to deal with the consequences
Posted by BllPosted by Parkourler
I love and hate Aries at the same time.
I find that some aries woman have certain behaviors that are offputting. Many think
they are a strong woman if they talk with a very stern voice, they fly off the handle in public, they interrupt, they barge in rooms, act impulsively snd not stick to plans.
When confronted they smirk or or tell you cant handle a strong woman. I suspect some of those are posting here.
I think thats bad behavior and justifying it with ideology instead of being selfcritical makes them even ore disgisting.
I will never let a person with a temper be boss. My methodical ways arm mevwith lnowledge and arguments. If they misbehave i humiliate them.
People dont find aries in general bad just certain behaviors in certain situations. So if you tell yourself people cant handle you dont own your shortcomongs i know you are a bad person.
I get really furious when they you cant handle me. I dont want to deal with the negativity you need to handle yourself and not dump your shit on us.
Why dont you think about a situation and analyze your own behavior inszead of glorifying yourselv here?
Yeah, judging from this little bitch rant, you’re not much better. I especially see a lack of self awareness here.click to expand
Thats classy and thank you very much you are proving my point.
Whenever aries get criticized they immediately resort to calling little bitch.
And since you are belittling me you immediately point the finger at me which is ironic, cause you tell me that i lack aelf awareness. Unlike you i didnt resort to name calling, i deliberately used the word some to imply there are exceptions and i was specific to avoid generalisations.
You deserve to be treated like a bad person.
I am seriously don’t understand all of this shit about Rams.
2 men I know very well are strong as a Earth itself. Both are funny and amazing people as friends. Parents out of this world. Considering how many men are leaving their children and trying not to support - Rams I know are just an opposite.
Independent. Caring. Loving.
And if we are talking about not taking shit and standing up for themselves, being men that men supposed to be - then of course - they are BAAD! Lol
I’ve read tons of crap from women who weren’t lucky with Arieses men but I had not read yet valid argument. Yelling ‘Aries never again’ doesn’t mean she wasn’t a stupid bitch and he just wouldn’t kiss her ass...
I am yet to see what is so bad about this sign. I can wait. Lol
2 men I know very well are strong as a Earth itself. Both are funny and amazing people as friends. Parents out of this world. Considering how many men are leaving their children and trying not to support - Rams I know are just an opposite.
Independent. Caring. Loving.
And if we are talking about not taking shit and standing up for themselves, being men that men supposed to be - then of course - they are BAAD! Lol
I’ve read tons of crap from women who weren’t lucky with Arieses men but I had not read yet valid argument. Yelling ‘Aries never again’ doesn’t mean she wasn’t a stupid bitch and he just wouldn’t kiss her ass...
I am yet to see what is so bad about this sign. I can wait. Lol
@Parkourler
I am still waiting on a valid point about Bad Aries.
So far nothing.
Have you done something stupid and got burnt? Fess up! Don’t just spit a shit. Do everyone a favor. Or forever hold your ✌️ peace!
I am still waiting on a valid point about Bad Aries.
So far nothing.
Have you done something stupid and got burnt? Fess up! Don’t just spit a shit. Do everyone a favor. Or forever hold your ✌️ peace!
Posted by xoxflutePosted by Parkourler
I love and hate Aries at the same time.
I find that some aries woman have certain behaviors that are offputting. Many think
they are a strong woman if they talk with a very stern voice, they fly off the handle in public, they interrupt, they barge in rooms, act impulsively snd not stick to plans.
When confronted they smirk or or tell you cant handle a strong woman. I suspect some of those are posting here.
I think thats bad behavior and justifying it with ideology instead of being selfcritical makes them even ore disgisting.
I will never let a person with a temper be boss. My methodical ways arm mevwith lnowledge and arguments. If they misbehave i humiliate them.
People dont find aries in general bad just certain behaviors in certain situations. So if you tell yourself people cant handle you dont own your shortcomongs i know you are a bad person.
I get really furious when they you cant handle me. I dont want to deal with the negativity you need to handle yourself and not dump your shit on us.
Why dont you think about a situation and analyze your own behavior inszead of glorifying yourselv here?
What makes you think we can't do both. 😛
Aries has shortcomings, like all other signs. Aries is competitive, but more with ourselves than anyone else. I think most Rams as they get older, would have some control or another over the infamous temper that we are known for. I don't relate to the not sticking to plans part. I use to relate to the other things you mentioned. I don't anymore. However, Aries don't usually verbally express their shortcomings, regardless of whether they are aware of them or not.
I wouldn't personally say other people can't handle me, but I do find some people tend to have trouble seeing Aries as it is...because Aries don't express well in general, especially when it comes to anger. If a Ram blows a fuse, some people just see that part, very rarely do they ponder on why the Ram got angry in the first place, imo. Contrary to popular opinion, Aries don't just say things to piss people off. It's just driven by the desire to express (what Aries believes to be) the truth. Aries saying other people can't handle them is the same as Taurus saying non-Taurus are just jealous (ie. RedBull's Taurus Envy thread). Both boils down to being misunderstood and how each sign treats it.
I'll be the first to admit that obliviousness is one of the shortcomings. Awareness is just not something that comes naturally for us, imo. So when it comes to bringing up faults and wrongdoings to a Ram, it's a bit of a double standard. Despite Aries lacks delivery and likes to advise people, if other person say something that remotely indicates that they are telling the Ram what to do or even a belittling tone, I don't think the Ram will take it well at all. I can take constructive criticisms but if it comes off condescending to me, it will frustrate the heck out of me, no matter how much I try to understand it.
So if you are confronting an Aries and they take it really badly, chances are they think you are telling them what to do or being condescending.
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Yes you guys dont show vulnerability, you are seemingly selfish and then you blow up without giving context, so everybody goes like wtf? And since you are stern and unapologetic, we only see that you responded harshly and brushed of complaints after you got pudhy cause you want to win or be in charge. So we think you are a dictator who puts people down harshly. Bit there is a lot going underneath.
So I think it also comes down for making mistakea beforehand, the way you and we communicate and behave. Just like us taurusses. I actually think we are not that stubborn. Its just we think a lot then come to a conclusion but instead of explaining our reasoning or sharing on what we chew on we develop a lot pf thoughts quietly and then give people cryptic answers and people can only agree or disagree with the little we say. We just say no a hundred times without opening up. People get frustrated and rightly want to change that (meaning us) we just resist that.
Posted by BllPosted by ParkourlerPosted by BllPosted by Parkourler
I love and hate Aries at the same time.
I find that some aries woman have certain behaviors that are offputting. Many think
they are a strong woman if they talk with a very stern voice, they fly off the handle in public, they interrupt, they barge in rooms, act impulsively snd not stick to plans.
When confronted they smirk or or tell you cant handle a strong woman. I suspect some of those are posting here.
I think thats bad behavior and justifying it with ideology instead of being selfcritical makes them even ore disgisting.
I will never let a person with a temper be boss. My methodical ways arm mevwith lnowledge and arguments. If they misbehave i humiliate them.
People dont find aries in general bad just certain behaviors in certain situations. So if you tell yourself people cant handle you dont own your shortcomongs i know you are a bad person.
I get really furious when they you cant handle me. I dont want to deal with the negativity you need to handle yourself and not dump your shit on us.
Why dont you think about a situation and analyze your own behavior inszead of glorifying yourselv here?
Yeah, judging from this little bitch rant, you’re not much better. I especially see a lack of self awareness here.
Thats classy and thank you very much you are proving my point.
Whenever aries get criticized they immediately resort to calling little bitch.
And since you are belittling me you immediately point the finger at me which is ironic, cause you tell me that i lack aelf awareness. Unlike you i didnt resort to name calling, i deliberately used the word some to imply there are exceptions and i was specific to avoid generalisations.
You deserve to be treated like a bad person.
Seriously step back and take a look at what you’re writing. Seriously. I’m a bad person for not enjoying your holier-than-thou attitude? Lol. You’re too much.
‘Whenever aries get criticized they immediately resort to calling little bitch.’ - yeah, you’re not generalizing at all...
Anyway, I’m not fighting with you - I have better things to do. But yea, seeing how you go off on aries, thinking you’re so superior, yet acting the way you do, indeed shows lack of self awareness.click to expand
Have fun and thank you for not stopping to act like a prime example of what i am talking about. Keep on being emotional and name calling.
Posted by alexscariesPosted by xoxflutePosted by Parkourler
I love and hate Aries at the same time.
I find that some aries woman have certain behaviors that are offputting. Many think
they are a strong woman if they talk with a very stern voice, they fly off the handle in public, they interrupt, they barge in rooms, act impulsively snd not stick to plans.
When confronted they smirk or or tell you cant handle a strong woman. I suspect some of those are posting here.
I think thats bad behavior and justifying it with ideology instead of being selfcritical makes them even ore disgisting.
I will never let a person with a temper be boss. My methodical ways arm mevwith lnowledge and arguments. If they misbehave i humiliate them.
People dont find aries in general bad just certain behaviors in certain situations. So if you tell yourself people cant handle you dont own your shortcomongs i know you are a bad person.
I get really furious when they you cant handle me. I dont want to deal with the negativity you need to handle yourself and not dump your shit on us.
Why dont you think about a situation and analyze your own behavior inszead of glorifying yourselv here?
What makes you think we can't do both. 😛
Aries has shortcomings, like all other signs. Aries is competitive, but more with ourselves than anyone else. I think most Rams as they get older, would have some control or another over the infamous temper that we are known for. I don't relate to the not sticking to plans part. I use to relate to the other things you mentioned. I don't anymore. However, Aries don't usually verbally express their shortcomings, regardless of whether they are aware of them or not.
I wouldn't personally say other people can't handle me, but I do find some people tend to have trouble seeing Aries as it is...because Aries don't express well in general, especially when it comes to anger. If a Ram blows a fuse, some people just see that part, very rarely do they ponder on why the Ram got angry in the first place, imo. Contrary to popular opinion, Aries don't just say things to piss people off. It's just driven by the desire to express (what Aries believes to be) the truth. Aries saying other people can't handle them is the same as Taurus saying non-Taurus are just jealous (ie. RedBull's Taurus Envy thread). Both boils down to being misunderstood and how each sign treats it.
I'll be the first to admit that obliviousness is one of the shortcomings. Awareness is just not something that comes naturally for us, imo. So when it comes to bringing up faults and wrongdoings to a Ram, it's a bit of a double standard. Despite Aries lacks delivery and likes to advise people, if other person say something that remotely indicates that they are telling the Ram what to do or even a belittling tone, I don't think the Ram will take it well at all. I can take constructive criticisms but if it comes off condescending to me, it will frustrate the heck out of me, no matter how much I try to understand it.
So if you are confronting an Aries and they take it really badly, chances are they think you are telling them what to do or being condescending.
IMO
I agree with all of this, but you missed one key point it's whether or not we trust or respect the person telling us off. If we don't we will either annoy until they give up or just dominate them.click to expand
How do you dominate them?
Posted by alexscariesPosted by xoxflutePosted by Parkourler
I love and hate Aries at the same time.
I find that some aries woman have certain behaviors that are offputting. Many think
they are a strong woman if they talk with a very stern voice, they fly off the handle in public, they interrupt, they barge in rooms, act impulsively snd not stick to plans.
When confronted they smirk or or tell you cant handle a strong woman. I suspect some of those are posting here.
I think thats bad behavior and justifying it with ideology instead of being selfcritical makes them even ore disgisting.
I will never let a person with a temper be boss. My methodical ways arm mevwith lnowledge and arguments. If they misbehave i humiliate them.
People dont find aries in general bad just certain behaviors in certain situations. So if you tell yourself people cant handle you dont own your shortcomongs i know you are a bad person.
I get really furious when they you cant handle me. I dont want to deal with the negativity you need to handle yourself and not dump your shit on us.
Why dont you think about a situation and analyze your own behavior inszead of glorifying yourselv here?
What makes you think we can't do both. 😛
Aries has shortcomings, like all other signs. Aries is competitive, but more with ourselves than anyone else. I think most Rams as they get older, would have some control or another over the infamous temper that we are known for. I don't relate to the not sticking to plans part. I use to relate to the other things you mentioned. I don't anymore. However, Aries don't usually verbally express their shortcomings, regardless of whether they are aware of them or not.
I wouldn't personally say other people can't handle me, but I do find some people tend to have trouble seeing Aries as it is...because Aries don't express well in general, especially when it comes to anger. If a Ram blows a fuse, some people just see that part, very rarely do they ponder on why the Ram got angry in the first place, imo. Contrary to popular opinion, Aries don't just say things to piss people off. It's just driven by the desire to express (what Aries believes to be) the truth. Aries saying other people can't handle them is the same as Taurus saying non-Taurus are just jealous (ie. RedBull's Taurus Envy thread). Both boils down to being misunderstood and how each sign treats it.
I'll be the first to admit that obliviousness is one of the shortcomings. Awareness is just not something that comes naturally for us, imo. So when it comes to bringing up faults and wrongdoings to a Ram, it's a bit of a double standard. Despite Aries lacks delivery and likes to advise people, if other person say something that remotely indicates that they are telling the Ram what to do or even a belittling tone, I don't think the Ram will take it well at all. I can take constructive criticisms but if it comes off condescending to me, it will frustrate the heck out of me, no matter how much I try to understand it.
So if you are confronting an Aries and they take it really badly, chances are they think you are telling them what to do or being condescending.
IMO
I agree with all of this, but you missed one key point it's whether or not we trust or respect the person telling us off. If we don't we will either annoy until they give up or just dominate them.click to expand
That's your Scorpio moon talking. I know because your point applies to me as well. However, I stopped trying to dominate people a long time ago. I just walk away instead.
Posted by alexscariesPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by alexscariesPosted by xoxflutePosted by Parkourler
I love and hate Aries at the same time.
I find that some aries woman have certain behaviors that are offputting. Many think
they are a strong woman if they talk with a very stern voice, they fly off the handle in public, they interrupt, they barge in rooms, act impulsively snd not stick to plans.
When confronted they smirk or or tell you cant handle a strong woman. I suspect some of those are posting here.
I think thats bad behavior and justifying it with ideology instead of being selfcritical makes them even ore disgisting.
I will never let a person with a temper be boss. My methodical ways arm mevwith lnowledge and arguments. If they misbehave i humiliate them.
People dont find aries in general bad just certain behaviors in certain situations. So if you tell yourself people cant handle you dont own your shortcomongs i know you are a bad person.
I get really furious when they you cant handle me. I dont want to deal with the negativity you need to handle yourself and not dump your shit on us.
Why dont you think about a situation and analyze your own behavior inszead of glorifying yourselv here?
What makes you think we can't do both. 😛
Aries has shortcomings, like all other signs. Aries is competitive, but more with ourselves than anyone else. I think most Rams as they get older, would have some control or another over the infamous temper that we are known for. I don't relate to the not sticking to plans part. I use to relate to the other things you mentioned. I don't anymore. However, Aries don't usually verbally express their shortcomings, regardless of whether they are aware of them or not.
I wouldn't personally say other people can't handle me, but I do find some people tend to have trouble seeing Aries as it is...because Aries don't express well in general, especially when it comes to anger. If a Ram blows a fuse, some people just see that part, very rarely do they ponder on why the Ram got angry in the first place, imo. Contrary to popular opinion, Aries don't just say things to piss people off. It's just driven by the desire to express (what Aries believes to be) the truth. Aries saying other people can't handle them is the same as Taurus saying non-Taurus are just jealous (ie. RedBull's Taurus Envy thread). Both boils down to being misunderstood and how each sign treats it.
I'll be the first to admit that obliviousness is one of the shortcomings. Awareness is just not something that comes naturally for us, imo. So when it comes to bringing up faults and wrongdoings to a Ram, it's a bit of a double standard. Despite Aries lacks delivery and likes to advise people, if other person say something that remotely indicates that they are telling the Ram what to do or even a belittling tone, I don't think the Ram will take it well at all. I can take constructive criticisms but if it comes off condescending to me, it will frustrate the heck out of me, no matter how much I try to understand it.
So if you are confronting an Aries and they take it really badly, chances are they think you are telling them what to do or being condescending.
IMO
I agree with all of this, but you missed one key point it's whether or not we trust or respect the person telling us off. If we don't we will either annoy until they give up or just dominate them.
How do you dominate them?
It's a bit like a headmaster talking to a student. The right tone and if need be keep repeating the same point. I don't shout, but not always but I find people usually back down if not if I'm in a good mood indifference.click to expand
Smiling and letting them rant often works too, they often have nowhere to go with that and end up looking silly 🙃
We can never ultimately control or dominante anyone, only ourselves
It's one of Scorpios most valuable lessons...let go of control, let go of everything and surrender. Until we do that, we never find peace 💙
Posted by Ram416Posted by alexscariesPosted by xoxflutePosted by Parkourler
I love and hate Aries at the same time.
I find that some aries woman have certain behaviors that are offputting. Many think
they are a strong woman if they talk with a very stern voice, they fly off the handle in public, they interrupt, they barge in rooms, act impulsively snd not stick to plans.
When confronted they smirk or or tell you cant handle a strong woman. I suspect some of those are posting here.
I think thats bad behavior and justifying it with ideology instead of being selfcritical makes them even ore disgisting.
I will never let a person with a temper be boss. My methodical ways arm mevwith lnowledge and arguments. If they misbehave i humiliate them.
People dont find aries in general bad just certain behaviors in certain situations. So if you tell yourself people cant handle you dont own your shortcomongs i know you are a bad person.
I get really furious when they you cant handle me. I dont want to deal with the negativity you need to handle yourself and not dump your shit on us.
Why dont you think about a situation and analyze your own behavior inszead of glorifying yourselv here?
What makes you think we can't do both. 😛
Aries has shortcomings, like all other signs. Aries is competitive, but more with ourselves than anyone else. I think most Rams as they get older, would have some control or another over the infamous temper that we are known for. I don't relate to the not sticking to plans part. I use to relate to the other things you mentioned. I don't anymore. However, Aries don't usually verbally express their shortcomings, regardless of whether they are aware of them or not.
I wouldn't personally say other people can't handle me, but I do find some people tend to have trouble seeing Aries as it is...because Aries don't express well in general, especially when it comes to anger. If a Ram blows a fuse, some people just see that part, very rarely do they ponder on why the Ram got angry in the first place, imo. Contrary to popular opinion, Aries don't just say things to piss people off. It's just driven by the desire to express (what Aries believes to be) the truth. Aries saying other people can't handle them is the same as Taurus saying non-Taurus are just jealous (ie. RedBull's Taurus Envy thread). Both boils down to being misunderstood and how each sign treats it.
I'll be the first to admit that obliviousness is one of the shortcomings. Awareness is just not something that comes naturally for us, imo. So when it comes to bringing up faults and wrongdoings to a Ram, it's a bit of a double standard. Despite Aries lacks delivery and likes to advise people, if other person say something that remotely indicates that they are telling the Ram what to do or even a belittling tone, I don't think the Ram will take it well at all. I can take constructive criticisms but if it comes off condescending to me, it will frustrate the heck out of me, no matter how much I try to understand it.
So if you are confronting an Aries and they take it really badly, chances are they think you are telling them what to do or being condescending.
IMO
I agree with all of this, but you missed one key point it's whether or not we trust or respect the person telling us off. If we don't we will either annoy until they give up or just dominate them.
That's your Scorpio moon talking. I know because your point applies to me as well. However, I stopped trying to dominate people a long time ago. I just walk away instead.click to expand
You grew up 😀
Posted by BllPosted by ParkourlerPosted by BllPosted by ParkourlerPosted by BllPosted by Parkourler
I love and hate Aries at the same time.
I find that some aries woman have certain behaviors that are offputting. Many think
they are a strong woman if they talk with a very stern voice, they fly off the handle in public, they interrupt, they barge in rooms, act impulsively snd not stick to plans.
When confronted they smirk or or tell you cant handle a strong woman. I suspect some of those are posting here.
I think thats bad behavior and justifying it with ideology instead of being selfcritical makes them even ore disgisting.
I will never let a person with a temper be boss. My methodical ways arm mevwith lnowledge and arguments. If they misbehave i humiliate them.
People dont find aries in general bad just certain behaviors in certain situations. So if you tell yourself people cant handle you dont own your shortcomongs i know you are a bad person.
I get really furious when they you cant handle me. I dont want to deal with the negativity you need to handle yourself and not dump your shit on us.
Why dont you think about a situation and analyze your own behavior inszead of glorifying yourselv here?
Yeah, judging from this little bitch rant, you’re not much better. I especially see a lack of self awareness here.
Thats classy and thank you very much you are proving my point.
Whenever aries get criticized they immediately resort to calling little bitch.
And since you are belittling me you immediately point the finger at me which is ironic, cause you tell me that i lack aelf awareness. Unlike you i didnt resort to name calling, i deliberately used the word some to imply there are exceptions and i was specific to avoid generalisations.
You deserve to be treated like a bad person.
Seriously step back and take a look at what you’re writing. Seriously. I’m a bad person for not enjoying your holier-than-thou attitude? Lol. You’re too much.
‘Whenever aries get criticized they immediately resort to calling little bitch.’ - yeah, you’re not generalizing at all...
Anyway, I’m not fighting with you - I have better things to do. But yea, seeing how you go off on aries, thinking you’re so superior, yet acting the way you do, indeed shows lack of self awareness.
Have fun and thank you for not stopping to act like a prime example of what i am talking about. Keep on being emotional and name calling.
Anyone who criticizes you = ‘too emotional’click to expand
Critique = refuting arguments. So far you difld namecalling, accusations, and attesting negative behavior. I attribute that too fefensive snappy people, insulting peoole like you would probably call little bitches.
Anyway i ve made my point and we both have better things to do unless you have one last word to add to your point. Life is short, everyday is a gift.
Posted by Lionheart917Posted by GemitatiPosted by Lionheart917
I’m cool with Aries 👍
Try cuddling...🤣
lol I do more than cuddles.click to expand
And you are still cool— 🤷♀️
Posted by Lionheart917Posted by GemitatiPosted by Lionheart917Posted by GemitatiPosted by Lionheart917
I’m cool with Aries 👍
Try cuddling...🤣
lol I do more than cuddles.
And you are still cool— 🤷♀️
Yea I’m dating a Aries right now and I see no probs lolclick to expand
If you are cool - it’s a problem! 😂😂
Posted by Lionheart917Posted by GemitatiPosted by Lionheart917Posted by GemitatiPosted by Lionheart917Posted by GemitatiPosted by Lionheart917
I’m cool with Aries 👍
Try cuddling...🤣
lol I do more than cuddles.
And you are still cool— 🤷♀️
Yea I’m dating a Aries right now and I see no probs lol
If you are cool - it’s a problem! 😂😂
Lol I think you’re forgetting I’m Aries dominant lolclick to expand
Same! He is dominating my ass...😂
Posted by Lionheart917Posted by GemitatiPosted by Lionheart917Posted by GemitatiPosted by Lionheart917Posted by GemitatiPosted by Lionheart917Posted by GemitatiPosted by Lionheart917
I’m cool with Aries 👍
Try cuddling...🤣
lol I do more than cuddles.
And you are still cool— 🤷♀️
Yea I’m dating a Aries right now and I see no probs lol
If you are cool - it’s a problem! 😂😂
Lol I think you’re forgetting I’m Aries dominant lol
Same! He is dominating my ass...😂
Lol so bossin me around and the attitude wouldn’t work lolclick to expand
I’ve got THAT part learned. No problems as long as I am very warm and wet...
Posted by Lionheart917Posted by GemitatiPosted by Lionheart917Posted by GemitatiPosted by Lionheart917Posted by GemitatiPosted by Lionheart917Posted by GemitatiPosted by Lionheart917Posted by GemitatiPosted by Lionheart917
I’m cool with Aries 👍
Try cuddling...🤣
lol I do more than cuddles.
And you are still cool— 🤷♀️
Yea I’m dating a Aries right now and I see no probs lol
If you are cool - it’s a problem! 😂😂
Lol I think you’re forgetting I’m Aries dominant lol
Same! He is dominating my ass...😂
Lol so bossin me around and the attitude wouldn’t work lol
I’ve got THAT part learned. No problems as long as I am very warm and wet...
Sounds like you know the drill hahaclick to expand
...learned it hard way! Cave man don’t fucking around...😂
I like Aries
Posted by BllPosted by ParkourlerPosted by BllPosted by ParkourlerPosted by BllPosted by ParkourlerPosted by BllPosted by Parkourler
I love and hate Aries at the same time.
I find that some aries woman have certain behaviors that are offputting. Many think
they are a strong woman if they talk with a very stern voice, they fly off the handle in public, they interrupt, they barge in rooms, act impulsively snd not stick to plans.
When confronted they smirk or or tell you cant handle a strong woman. I suspect some of those are posting here.
I think thats bad behavior and justifying it with ideology instead of being selfcritical makes them even ore disgisting.
I will never let a person with a temper be boss. My methodical ways arm mevwith lnowledge and arguments. If they misbehave i humiliate them.
People dont find aries in general bad just certain behaviors in certain situations. So if you tell yourself people cant handle you dont own your shortcomongs i know you are a bad person.
I get really furious when they you cant handle me. I dont want to deal with the negativity you need to handle yourself and not dump your shit on us.
Why dont you think about a situation and analyze your own behavior inszead of glorifying yourselv here?
Yeah, judging from this little bitch rant, you’re not much better. I especially see a lack of self awareness here.
Thats classy and thank you very much you are proving my point.
Whenever aries get criticized they immediately resort to calling little bitch.
And since you are belittling me you immediately point the finger at me which is ironic, cause you tell me that i lack aelf awareness. Unlike you i didnt resort to name calling, i deliberately used the word some to imply there are exceptions and i was specific to avoid generalisations.
You deserve to be treated like a bad person.
Seriously step back and take a look at what you’re writing. Seriously. I’m a bad person for not enjoying your holier-than-thou attitude? Lol. You’re too much.
‘Whenever aries get criticized they immediately resort to calling little bitch.’ - yeah, you’re not generalizing at all...
Anyway, I’m not fighting with you - I have better things to do. But yea, seeing how you go off on aries, thinking you’re so superior, yet acting the way you do, indeed shows lack of self awareness.
Have fun and thank you for not stopping to act like a prime example of what i am talking about. Keep on being emotional and name calling.
Anyone who criticizes you = ‘too emotional’
Critique = refuting arguments. So far you difld namecalling, accusations, and attesting negative behavior. I attribute that too fefensive snappy people, insulting peoole like you would probably call little bitches.
Anyway i ve made my point and we both have better things to do unless you have one last word to add to your point. Life is short, everyday is a gift.
You’re acting the exact same way as you are accusing me and ‘SOME aries women’ of. That’s one of the reasons I called you out in the first place. I really don’t understand how you don’t see that. That’s why I tried to get you to take another look at what you wrote, but it has become clear that you lack a good dose of self-awareness, so there’s really nothing I can do about that.
But to give you an example: I never said you were a ‘little bitch’, lol. I’m not 12. But your rant was bitchy, hence a ‘bitch rant’ - bitchy rant, if you will. The judgment you passed on the women who posted in this thread was completely uncalled for imo. It was bitchy. I call it like I see it. Then you got all in your feels and said I deserved to be treated like a bad person - for calling your post for exactly what it was? Lmao. Yet I’m the emotional one, in your opinion... All of this is just laughable. Name calling? Being emotional? All you. I’m perfectly calm, it takes more than an internet stranger to get me all worked up.
If anything, all of this just proves why you ‘hate’ aries (your words, not mine). You act superior, and throw fits when someone calls you out on it. And an aries WILL call you out on this. And you’ve proven that you can’t handle that, so there you go.
You also don’t seem to understand that if you’re disrespectful or rude towards an aries for no reason, they’ll mirror that behavior right back to you. If someone mistreats me for no reason, I won’t bother being nice to them anymore. And suddenly they’re confused; ‘You don’t seem to like me - why?’. If you’re having problems with an aries, you should take a look at your own behavior first, before jumping to conclusions. They might just be mirroring your behavior back at you. Maybe these aries women you hate didn’t like how YOU approached THEM. You know? Maybe, maybe, everything isn’t our/their fault - maybe you share some of the blame. It’s just my two cents...
I’ll leave you with this. I initially couldn’t be bothered to defend all the accusations you threw at me, but... eh. I finally had some time to kill. Now, back to the real world 💃click to expand
I give that you said bitchrant not tham i a bitch. Other than that i dont see why its a bitchrant cause i made sure i dont generalize and i was specific. I also didnt find unSo calling description of bad behavior is yet another rude thing to do but that was instructive, i am dismiss everything that doesnt have examples. If people use words like bitchrant or call you not selfaware thats just bad behavior for me. I cannot expect other people to think like this. But at least i know where the miscommunication is happening. To me if i had something wrong interrupting, yelling, bossiness is uncalled for. Confront me calmly without aggression or you are just rude. Thats why you attested me lack of selfawareness but you didnt give me a reason not were you neutral so i thought you are just beligerant. They dont act like this without a reason.But people think aggression is not bad. WTF?
Anyway our argument exposed many of communications mistakes I do, that i have very specific expectations and it gave me insight into how aries think and act diffetent from me. Unless people are specific and don't give examples I feel attacked and mistreated you are being honest according to yourself. I am too spocklike with rules, i think aggressive behavior is bad and horrible, I cannot change aries but the mistakes i am making on my part. I think even if you got wronged fuming, interrupting and yelling is still bad and unwarranted you still need to be calm and specific.
Aries are not like that, they say what they feel and think they have mental and emotional operating systems that are different from mine. Thank you I wanted to discuss everything until its articulated and clear and specific.
Doesnt mean that i agree or like it entirely. Interrupting, words like bitchrant without elaborating and many other behaviors are incredibly poor taste . I have a better understanding now but certain behaviors are dealbreakers and a declaration of war.
Aries are raw you get misunderstood by people and looked down by people like me,
but I will not change my mind entirely for two reasons. In threads like this users rarely acknowledge their own flaws and say they get misunderstood and slandered so they think everybody else is wrong which is narcissistic and arrogant. Second there are raw behaviors that are just unacceptable even if i fet past my feels they are still wrong.
Posted by CancerAquaSaggPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by alexscariesPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by alexscariesPosted by xoxflutePosted by Parkourler
I love and hate Aries at the same time.
I find that some aries woman have certain behaviors that are offputting. Many think
they are a strong woman if they talk with a very stern voice, they fly off the handle in public, they interrupt, they barge in rooms, act impulsively snd not stick to plans.
When confronted they smirk or or tell you cant handle a strong woman. I suspect some of those are posting here.
I think thats bad behavior and justifying it with ideology instead of being selfcritical makes them even ore disgisting.
I will never let a person with a temper be boss. My methodical ways arm mevwith lnowledge and arguments. If they misbehave i humiliate them.
People dont find aries in general bad just certain behaviors in certain situations. So if you tell yourself people cant handle you dont own your shortcomongs i know you are a bad person.
I get really furious when they you cant handle me. I dont want to deal with the negativity you need to handle yourself and not dump your shit on us.
Why dont you think about a situation and analyze your own behavior inszead of glorifying yourselv here?
What makes you think we can't do both. 😛
Aries has shortcomings, like all other signs. Aries is competitive, but more with ourselves than anyone else. I think most Rams as they get older, would have some control or another over the infamous temper that we are known for. I don't relate to the not sticking to plans part. I use to relate to the other things you mentioned. I don't anymore. However, Aries don't usually verbally express their shortcomings, regardless of whether they are aware of them or not.
I wouldn't personally say other people can't handle me, but I do find some people tend to have trouble seeing Aries as it is...because Aries don't express well in general, especially when it comes to anger. If a Ram blows a fuse, some people just see that part, very rarely do they ponder on why the Ram got angry in the first place, imo. Contrary to popular opinion, Aries don't just say things to piss people off. It's just driven by the desire to express (what Aries believes to be) the truth. Aries saying other people can't handle them is the same as Taurus saying non-Taurus are just jealous (ie. RedBull's Taurus Envy thread). Both boils down to being misunderstood and how each sign treats it.
I'll be the first to admit that obliviousness is one of the shortcomings. Awareness is just not something that comes naturally for us, imo. So when it comes to bringing up faults and wrongdoings to a Ram, it's a bit of a double standard. Despite Aries lacks delivery and likes to advise people, if other person say something that remotely indicates that they are telling the Ram what to do or even a belittling tone, I don't think the Ram will take it well at all. I can take constructive criticisms but if it comes off condescending to me, it will frustrate the heck out of me, no matter how much I try to understand it.
So if you are confronting an Aries and they take it really badly, chances are they think you are telling them what to do or being condescending.
IMO
I agree with all of this, but you missed one key point it's whether or not we trust or respect the person telling us off. If we don't we will either annoy until they give up or just dominate them.
How do you dominate them?
It's a bit like a headmaster talking to a student. The right tone and if need be keep repeating the same point. I don't shout, but not always but I find people usually back down if not if I'm in a good mood indifference.
Smiling and letting them rant often works too, they often have nowhere to go with that and end up looking silly 🙃
We can never ultimately control or dominante anyone, only ourselves
It's one of Scorpios most valuable lessons...let go of control, let go of everything and surrender. Until we do that, we never find peace 💙
I'm not a Scorpio although I have a 8th house stellium but wow I learnt this the hard way. I was about to go literally mad because I didn't understand why my life didn't turn out the way I thought it should have. Now that I've let go of trying to control it I feel so much more at peace. It seems obvious but it took me years to properly understand this.click to expand
Yes, it can take some time, for sure and several reminders ....kicks up the arse etc before it sinks in
Control = fear and insecurity
As if I need reminding....fixed chart, Scorpio dominant 😬
Posted by xoxflutePosted by Parkourler
I give that you said bitchrant not tham i a bitch. Other than that i dont see why its a bitchrant cause i made sure i dont generalize and i was specific.
Well, it was probably cuz your initial post got interpreted as condescending. You yourself have said that you had looked down on certain Aries.
"Seriously. I’m a bad person for not enjoying your holier-than-thou attitude?" - Bll
I also did mention that Aries don't take it well to condescending or belittling tone 😛 , regardless of whether or not the points are valid.Posted by Parkourler
In threads like this users rarely acknowledge their own flaws and say they get misunderstood and slandered so they think everybody else is wrong which is narcissistic and arrogant.
If you got misunderstood and didn't see a valid reason for the misunderstanding, would you think of yourself being in the wrong?
Yes it comes down to not seeing valid reason, even though are valid reasons.
I already gave examples. And maybe some cant see valid reasons if they are oblivious (not my words) which is holier than thou at its best. If people constantly react badly you are the commnlon demoninator if you still think you dont do anything wrong you are implying everybody else is wrong i am alaways right.
If people behave bad i rightfully so look down on them.
At the end of the day i can only voice my frustrations keep on replying here like a little bitch even though its sunny outside and cut out the people i dont want to have in my life.
I bet aries loves summer too.click to expand
Posted by xoxflutePosted by Parkourler
I give that you said bitchrant not tham i a bitch. Other than that i dont see why its a bitchrant cause i made sure i dont generalize and i was specific.
Well, it was probably cuz your initial post got interpreted as condescending. You yourself have said that you had looked down on certain Aries.
"Seriously. I’m a bad person for not enjoying your holier-than-thou attitude?" - Bll
I also did mention that Aries don't take it well to condescending or belittling tone 😛 , regardless of whether or not the points are valid.Posted by Parkourler
In threads like this users rarely acknowledge their own flaws and say they get misunderstood and slandered so they think everybody else is wrong which is narcissistic and arrogant.
If you got misunderstood and didn't see a valid reason for the misunderstanding, would you think of yourself being in the wrong?
Yes it comes down to not seeing valid reason, even though are valid reasons.
I already gave examples. And maybe some cant see valid reasons if they are oblivious (not my words) which is holier than thou at its best. If people constantly react badly you are the commnlon demoninator if you still think you dont do anything wrong you are implying everybody else is wrong i am alaways right.
If people behave bad i rightfully so look down on them.
At the end of the day i can only voice my frustrations keep on replying here like a little bitch even though its sunny outside and cut out the people i dont want to have in my life.
I bet aries loves summer too.click to expand
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I love and hate Aries at the same time.
I find that some aries woman have certain behaviors that are offputting. Many think
they are a strong woman if they talk with a very stern voice, they fly off the handle in public, they interrupt, they barge in rooms, act impulsively snd not stick to plans.
When confronted they smirk or or tell you cant handle a strong woman. I suspect some of those are posting here.
I think thats bad behavior and justifying it with ideology instead of being selfcritical makes them even ore disgisting.
I will never let a person with a temper be boss. My methodical ways arm mevwith lnowledge and arguments. If they misbehave i humiliate them.
People dont find aries in general bad just certain behaviors in certain situations. So if you tell yourself people cant handle you dont own your shortcomongs i know you are a bad person.
I get really furious when they you cant handle me. I dont want to deal with the negativity you need to handle yourself and not dump your shit on us.
Why dont you think about a situation and analyze your own behavior inszead of glorifying yourselv here?
Yeah, judging from this little bitch rant, you’re not much better. I especially see a lack of self awareness here.
Thats classy and thank you very much you are proving my point.
Whenever aries get criticized they immediately resort to calling little bitch.
And since you are belittling me you immediately point the finger at me which is ironic, cause you tell me that i lack aelf awareness. Unlike you i didnt resort to name calling, i deliberately used the word some to imply there are exceptions and i was specific to avoid generalisations.
You deserve to be treated like a bad person.
Seriously step back and take a look at what you’re writing. Seriously. I’m a bad person for not enjoying your holier-than-thou attitude? Lol. You’re too much.
‘Whenever aries get criticized they immediately resort to calling little bitch.’ - yeah, you’re not generalizing at all...
Anyway, I’m not fighting with you - I have better things to do. But yea, seeing how you go off on aries, thinking you’re so superior, yet acting the way you do, indeed shows lack of self awareness.
Have fun and thank you for not stopping to act like a prime example of what i am talking about. Keep on being emotional and name calling.
Anyone who criticizes you = ‘too emotional’
Critique = refuting arguments. So far you difld namecalling, accusations, and attesting negative behavior. I attribute that too fefensive snappy people, insulting peoole like you would probably call little bitches.
Anyway i ve made my point and we both have better things to do unless you have one last word to add to your point. Life is short, everyday is a gift.
You’re acting the exact same way as you are accusing me and ‘SOME aries women’ of. That’s one of the reasons I called you out in the first place. I really don’t understand how you don’t see that. That’s why I tried to get you to take another look at what you wrote, but it has become clear that you lack a good dose of self-awareness, so there’s really nothing I can do about that.
But to give you an example: I never said you were a ‘little bitch’, lol. I’m not 12. But your rant was bitchy, hence a ‘bitch rant’ - bitchy rant, if you will. The judgment you passed on the women who posted in this thread was completely uncalled for imo. It was bitchy. I call it like I see it. Then you got all in your feels and said I deserved to be treated like a bad person - for calling your post for exactly what it was? Lmao. Yet I’m the emotional one, in your opinion... All of this is just laughable. Name calling? Being emotional? All you. I’m perfectly calm, it takes more than an internet stranger to get me all worked up.
If anything, all of this just proves why you ‘hate’ aries (your words, not mine). You act superior, and throw fits when someone calls you out on it. And an aries WILL call you out on this. And you’ve proven that you can’t handle that, so there you go.
You also don’t seem to understand that if you’re disrespectful or rude towards an aries for no reason, they’ll mirror that behavior right back to you. If someone mistreats me for no reason, I won’t bother being nice to them anymore. And suddenly they’re confused; ‘You don’t seem to like me - why?’. If you’re having problems with an aries, you should take a look at your own behavior first, before jumping to conclusions. They might just be mirroring your behavior back at you. Maybe these aries women you hate didn’t like how YOU approached THEM. You know? Maybe, maybe, everything isn’t our/their fault - maybe you share some of the blame. It’s just my two cents...
I’ll leave you with this. I initially couldn’t be bothered to defend all the accusations you threw at me, but... eh. I finally had some time to kill. Now, back to the real world 💃
I give that you said bitchrant not tham i a bitch. Other than that i dont see why its a bitchrant cause i made sure i dont generalize and i was specific. I also didnt find unSo calling description of bad behavior is yet another rude thing to do but that was instructive, i am dismiss everything that doesnt have examples. If people use words like bitchrant or call you not selfaware thats just bad behavior for me. I cannot expect other people to think like this. But at least i know where the miscommunication is happening. To me if i had something wrong interrupting, yelling, bossiness is uncalled for. Confront me calmly without aggression or you are just rude. Thats why you attested me lack of selfawareness but you didnt give me a reason not were you neutral so i thought you are just beligerant. They dont act like this without a reason.But people think aggression is not bad. WTF?
Anyway our argument exposed many of communications mistakes I do, that i have very specific expectations and it gave me insight into how aries think and act diffetent from me. Unless people are specific and don't give examples I feel attacked and mistreated you are being honest according to yourself. I am too spocklike with rules, i think aggressive behavior is bad and horrible, I cannot change aries but the mistakes i am making on my part. I think even if you got wronged fuming, interrupting and yelling is still bad and unwarranted you still need to be calm and specific.
Aries are not like that, they say what they feel and think they have mental and emotional operating systems that are different from mine. Thank you I wanted to discuss everything until its articulated and clear and specific.
Doesnt mean that i agree or like it entirely. Interrupting, words like bitchrant without elaborating and many other behaviors are incredibly poor taste . I have a better understanding now but certain behaviors are dealbreakers and a declaration of war.
Aries are raw you get misunderstood by people and looked down by people like me,
but I will not change my mind entirely for two reasons. In threads like this users rarely acknowledge their own flaws and say they get misunderstood and slandered so they think everybody else is wrong which is narcissistic and arrogant. Second there are raw behaviors that are just unacceptable even if i fet past my feels they are still wrong.
Do you have taurus mercury? I thought I saw mentioned somewhere that you’re a taurus... You sound like my taurus mercury friends - I do upset them sometimes with my direct and sometimes brash attitude (but that’s usually online, where misunderstandings are more likely). Anyway, especially the need for examples in order to accept a statement, reminded me of them. They will often reject a statement or concept altogether, unless you offer a context they can relate to. I need that too, but I will just outright ask for the example myself.
I think what you’re talking about is the fact that aries’ mind usually run sooo fast. People will often have a problem keeping up, and that causes us to feel misunderstood (I think that’s one of the reasons the OP even started this topic in the first place), because a lot of other people spend more time attending to details or simply just thinking things over before going into action.click to expand
Yes i have taurus mercury and i can handle aries offline so much better because your facial expression gives me info about the subtext. I am not willing to accept a statement in krass language cause i associate that with sensational tabloid papers and bad behavior. You gotta give me facts cause facts are rarely debatable.
Yes i agree that speed has sideeffects, some people feel mistreated if you go faster than them they want all the information, but to be honest that is often a recipe for procrastination. Unless you are pissed can you tell me more about that?
Is it cause you are driven more by fire than gut? Are you comfortable with less information cause you adapt right then and
.. there? Thats what i admire about aries. You also stay on point cause you never have time for extensive intel gathering. I dont fuck around if i have impossible deadlines.
I read books about Aries psychology cause you dont have taurus weaknesses.
Posted by Parkourler
.. there? Thats what i admire about aries. You also stay on point cause you never have time for extensive intel gathering. I dont fuck around if i have impossible deadlines.
I read books about Aries psychology cause you dont have taurus weaknesses.
What have you learned about Aries that you can share if anything?
Posted by BllPosted by Parkourler
.. there? Thats what i admire about aries. You also stay on point cause you never have time for extensive intel gathering. I dont fuck around if i have impossible deadlines.
I read books about Aries psychology cause you dont have taurus weaknesses.
Hmm... I often have a good gut feeling about people (but still I usually give them a fair chance before I dismiss them completely). I observe a lot, a lot more than people realize, and I analyze their behavior at a pretty fast speed. So they get surprised when I ‘randomly’ (to them) tell them ‘I don’t like that person, he/she has some pretty bad personality traits’. Most people need a lot more time to see someone’s true colors, in my experience, but I feel like aries has animal-like instincts when it comes to figuring out who their ‘enemies’ are, and who their allies are.
Sometimes I’m wrong, though, and it turns out their outward behavior just threw me off.
I’m not so much driven by fire anymore, not as much as I once was. So I guess it’s rather because I adapt pretty fast, I don’t need a lot of information initially, as you say. I’m not that impulsive anymore, but I’m practical and action oriented. I collect data at a fast speed and try to act fast. I think I work pretty great when fast decisions needs to be made, but I’m having more trouble when the decision has to take excisting laws and rules and what not into account. That’s too much detail and pondering for me - instead I look at the big picture.
I find a lot of great philosophers are taureans, though. Wittgenstein is one of my favorites.click to expand
I judge people quickly too cause there are reliable clues, some people chuckle when they say "i should be more respectful of his belongings". Out. Thats an obvious one though.
How do you collect data without being specific? Are you internalizing the underlying principles of the data?
I find Aries are good at handling emergency situations for the reason you stated. You immediately know what matters and then act instantly. Thats where brashness and instant doing something is a super power.
My brother is an aries. He always observes work processes and then knows what to do in a given situation.
He calmly tells his boss what to do at times.
WTF.
Posted by xoxflutePosted by Parkourler
Yes it comes down to not seeing valid reason, even though are valid reasons.
I already gave examples. And maybe some cant see valid reasons if they are oblivious (not my words) which is holier than thou at its best. If people constantly react badly you are the commnlon demoninator if you still think you dont do anything wrong you are implying everybody else is wrong i am alaways right.
If people behave bad i rightfully so look down on them.
At the end of the day i can only voice my frustrations keep on replying here like a little bitch even though its sunny outside and cut out the people i dont want to have in my life.
I bet aries loves summer too.
My point in the question contained both of the two conditions, meaning that I would think any sane adult human being would have some form of thought process before reaching a conclusion. What I'm saying is that if you, as you put it, react badly to an Aries AND the Aries in question don't think they are in the wrong, it is probably one or more of the following reasons:
1) They didn't understand what you are trying to say
2) They don't think your reasons are valid
3) Your tone triggered a bad reaction
In my experience, #3 here is not unique to Aries. On dxp, I had a Virgo who lost it on me and a Taurus who thought I was attacking him, even though I was just voicing opinions.
While I agree that if most people reacted badly to you, then you are likely the common cause. But, it does not mean that each time, the other party has valid reasons for it and presented them. Just as you would dismiss any notions that lacks factual support, if an opinion (valid or not) didn't make sense to the Ram in question, why wouldn't the Ram dismiss it?click to expand
In my experience, #3 here is not unique to Aries. On dxp, I had a Virgo who lost it on me and a Taurus who thought I was attacking him, even though I was just voicing opinions.
While I agree that if most people reacted badly to you, then you are likely the common cause. But, it does not mean that each time, the other party has valid reasons for it and presented them. Just as you would dismiss any notions that lacks factual support, if an opinion (valid or not) didn't make sense to the Ram in question, why wouldn't the Ram dismiss it?
Of course people dont always give you specific reasons when they are pissed. But enraging people often should make you selfcritical instead of saying people cant handle. Thats why i didnt stop disagreeing until i get your poibt loud and clear.
People get angry by how not what you communicate so you didnt just voice your opinion. Why would people use it if you just voice your opinion. Emotions and sensitivities clearly mattee (if it wouldnt a condescending tone wouldnt bother aries), which is why people learn rules such as say please, watch your tone etc.
Posted by xoxflutePosted by Parkourler
Of course people dont always give you specific reasons when they are pissed. But enraging people often should make you selfcritical instead of saying people cant handle. Thats why i didnt stop disagreeing until i get your poibt loud and clear.
People get angry by how not what you communicate so you didnt just voice your opinion. Why would people use it if you just voice your opinion. Emotions and sensitivities clearly mattee (if it wouldnt a condescending tone wouldnt bother aries), which is why people learn rules such as say please, watch your tone etc.
As a fellow taurus mercury, I completely get where you are coming from. Having said that, assumptions tend to occur in the absence of words, meaning the less you say, the more likely people tend to assume.
Anger itself has a number of possible causes, especially if involves a person's pride or ego, and tone is most certainly one of them. As people take pride in different things, a hurt ego can have more than one possible cause. Sometimes, the cause of the anger involves an extended period time. Earth signs in particular, sometimes does not bring up things on first occurrence. This makes it difficult to determine the exact cause if it is not something that recently happened. I had a Virgo guy who hated me and for some reason, never bothered to tell me ever (I found out through a Cap friend), and the actual event that started this whole thing was something very small that happened months prior.
Despite that good educated guesses can be made, until the other person is ready to talk about it, there's not much that can be done to fix the actual situation that involved the anger. Aries is an action-oriented sign and like to proceed directly to doing things. Rams don't like to dwell on things that they cannot do anything about it. Aries would rather spend such time doing things that they can do something about.
"People get angry by how not what you communicate so you didnt just voice your opinion. Why would people use it if you just voice your opinion. "
---> Because interpretation differences can exist regardless of wording and content. Taurus Mercury still gets misunderstood often, despite being one of the few placements that place heavy emphasis on the right wording. Misunderstandings can lead to anger just as much as other causes, especially if there exists believes of bad intentions. Like for example, if I was trying to help and in doing so, caused something to happen that hurt you, you might get pissed thinking that my intent was trying to hurt you.click to expand
Because of your reasons its so important to add a ittle bir of diplomacy. My aries boss is good at this. She makes jokes, asks questions, tells you i gotta be blunt now. There is so much you can do to make people open for what is about to come.
Posted by xoxflutePosted by Parkourler
Of course people dont always give you specific reasons when they are pissed. But enraging people often should make you selfcritical instead of saying people cant handle. Thats why i didnt stop disagreeing until i get your poibt loud and clear.
People get angry by how not what you communicate so you didnt just voice your opinion. Why would people use it if you just voice your opinion. Emotions and sensitivities clearly mattee (if it wouldnt a condescending tone wouldnt bother aries), which is why people learn rules such as say please, watch your tone etc.
As a fellow taurus mercury, I completely get where you are coming from. Having said that, assumptions tend to occur in the absence of words, meaning the less you say, the more likely people tend to assume.
Anger itself has a number of possible causes, especially if involves a person's pride or ego, and tone is most certainly one of them. As people take pride in different things, a hurt ego can have more than one possible cause. Sometimes, the cause of the anger involves an extended period time. Earth signs in particular, sometimes does not bring up things on first occurrence. This makes it difficult to determine the exact cause if it is not something that recently happened. I had a Virgo guy who hated me and for some reason, never bothered to tell me ever (I found out through a Cap friend), and the actual event that started this whole thing was something very small that happened months prior.
Despite that good educated guesses can be made, until the other person is ready to talk about it, there's not much that can be done to fix the actual situation that involved the anger. Aries is an action-oriented sign and like to proceed directly to doing things. Rams don't like to dwell on things that they cannot do anything about it. Aries would rather spend such time doing things that they can do something about.
"People get angry by how not what you communicate so you didnt just voice your opinion. Why would people use it if you just voice your opinion. "
---> Because interpretation differences can exist regardless of wording and content. Taurus Mercury still gets misunderstood often, despite being one of the few placements that place heavy emphasis on the right wording. Misunderstandings can lead to anger just as much as other causes, especially if there exists believes of bad intentions. Like for example, if I was trying to help and in doing so, caused something to happen that hurt you, you might get pissed thinking that my intent was trying to hurt you.click to expand
Because of your reasons its so important to add a ittle bir of diplomacy. My aries boss is good at this. She makes jokes, asks questions, tells you i gotta be blunt now. There is so much you can do to make people open for what is about to come.
Thats a weak argument just because some libras are bad at diplomacy doesnt mean its bad. Even if there is no right or wrong way diplomacy is still the way of handling things the majority of people has agreed on.
If you yell, devalue, make scenes in public that is painful in a way its violence.
Being a 100% honest instead of being socially aware is wrong and antisocial.ItsTaking a few seconds to consciously phrase and modulate your voice.
It just still angers me that aries make so many bad things such as invading your space, interrupt tell people what to do but are rarely sorry about that. In threads they blame other people and their weaknesses, they imply people cant handle them if they werent funloving and childish i would be completely done with them.
Posted by alexscariesPosted by Parkourler
Thats a weak argument just because some libras are bad at diplomacy doesnt mean its bad. Even if there is no right or wrong way diplomacy is still the way of handling things the majority of people has agreed on.
If you yell, devalue, make scenes in public that is painful in a way its violence.
Being a 100% honest instead of being socially aware is wrong and antisocial.ItsTaking a few seconds to consciously phrase and modulate your voice.
It just still angers me that aries make so many bad things such as invading your space, interrupt tell people what to do but are rarely sorry about that. In threads they blame other people and their weaknesses, they imply people cant handle them if they werent funloving and childish i would be completely done with them.
Why would we be sorry if we are right.click to expand
Cause its about your behavior not about being right or wrong, I can be right and a still act like a little shit. Did you follow my lengthy argument and do you agree with her?
Posted by alexscariesPosted by Parkourler
Thats a weak argument just because some libras are bad at diplomacy doesnt mean its bad. Even if there is no right or wrong way diplomacy is still the way of handling things the majority of people has agreed on.
If you yell, devalue, make scenes in public that is painful in a way its violence.
Being a 100% honest instead of being socially aware is wrong and antisocial.ItsTaking a few seconds to consciously phrase and modulate your voice.
It just still angers me that aries make so many bad things such as invading your space, interrupt tell people what to do but are rarely sorry about that. In threads they blame other people and their weaknesses, they imply people cant handle them if they werent funloving and childish i would be completely done with them.
Why would we be sorry if we are right.click to expand
Cause its about your behavior not about being right or wrong, I can be right and a still act like a little shit. Did you follow my lengthy argument and do you agree with her?
Posted by Aniesha23
Any Aries personally feel like we are very misunderstood. Maybe I don’t relate as much to the things that people say as my chart is water dominate (also 2nd decan Aries) but I don’t think we are as bad as people make us out to be or are we?
I personally don’t give a fuck, everybody who’s opinion matters - typically understands.
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