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Aries stereotype-busting questionnaire
1. Are you really that competitive? Is winning really that important to you? Do you want to win at all costs?
winning feels damn good im not gonna lie but only when it's done in an honest way . playing dirty steals all the fun out of the game. i don't have to win at all costs but losing definitely sucks. depends on what i'm competing for though. there are some things in life that matter to me and some things that don't matter to me all that much so yeah it depends.
2. Do you think you're more selfish than the average person? How often do you get accused of being selfish (if, at all)? Do you think the world should just revolve around you?
i dunno i'm the oldest of my siblings (i have two younger brothers) so i wasn't really allowed to be that selfish growing up cuz i had to set a good example for them. so i got really used to accomodating other people. i think everyone is entitled to act selfish every now and then (in a way that won't hurt anyone) but if you're selfish 24/7 day in and day out then that's just fucking embarrassing lol especially if you're past the age of 16 lol
3.Do you really get bored that easily? Do you get accused of being impatient often? Do you always want to move quickly? Are you okay with waiting?
yeah i really do get bored that easily but that doesn't mean im gonna just completely abandon whatever it is that im working on lol if it needs to be finished, i'll finish it. i got a lot of self dicipline when it comes to tasks.
but when i'm trying out products and shiit, i better see some fucking results fast like within the first week or it's going straight to the trash lol i hate products/gadgets that guarantee to do sumthin and then turn out to be nothin but a piece of crap. its like wtf!! LOL
i'm okay with waiting for something that's worthwhile.
4.Are you straight up fickle in love? Do you sleep around? Do you hate commitment/being tied down? Are you a player? Do you only care about having fun for the most part?
lol i don't have time to sleep around. i go to work, school, then home lol i've never even been to a fucking club so i wanna go!!!! haha but yeah i take this relationship stuff pretty seriously. i wasn't raised to act like a ho and shiit lol
i like commitment but only when it's with someone fun lol never lose your sense of wonder and adventure lol im always gonna keep mine lol
winning feels damn good im not gonna lie but only when it's done in an honest way . playing dirty steals all the fun out of the game. i don't have to win at all costs but losing definitely sucks. depends on what i'm competing for though. there are some things in life that matter to me and some things that don't matter to me all that much so yeah it depends.
2. Do you think you're more selfish than the average person? How often do you get accused of being selfish (if, at all)? Do you think the world should just revolve around you?
i dunno i'm the oldest of my siblings (i have two younger brothers) so i wasn't really allowed to be that selfish growing up cuz i had to set a good example for them. so i got really used to accomodating other people. i think everyone is entitled to act selfish every now and then (in a way that won't hurt anyone) but if you're selfish 24/7 day in and day out then that's just fucking embarrassing lol especially if you're past the age of 16 lol
3.Do you really get bored that easily? Do you get accused of being impatient often? Do you always want to move quickly? Are you okay with waiting?
yeah i really do get bored that easily but that doesn't mean im gonna just completely abandon whatever it is that im working on lol if it needs to be finished, i'll finish it. i got a lot of self dicipline when it comes to tasks.
but when i'm trying out products and shiit, i better see some fucking results fast like within the first week or it's going straight to the trash lol i hate products/gadgets that guarantee to do sumthin and then turn out to be nothin but a piece of crap. its like wtf!! LOL
i'm okay with waiting for something that's worthwhile.
4.Are you straight up fickle in love? Do you sleep around? Do you hate commitment/being tied down? Are you a player? Do you only care about having fun for the most part?
lol i don't have time to sleep around. i go to work, school, then home lol i've never even been to a fucking club so i wanna go!!!! haha but yeah i take this relationship stuff pretty seriously. i wasn't raised to act like a ho and shiit lol
i like commitment but only when it's with someone fun lol never lose your sense of wonder and adventure lol im always gonna keep mine lol
5. Do you think very highly of yourself? In other words are you a conceited mofo? lol
lol no
lol no
1. Are you really that competitive? Is winning really that important to you? Do you want to win at all costs?
I'm extremely competitive- but I don't have to win at all costs. If I'm in an argument with someone I love, more often than not, I'll let them "win". Don't like to waste time on pettiness.
2. Do you think you're more selfish than the average person? How often do you get accused of being selfish (if, at all)? Do you think the world should just revolve around you?
Not at all. I wouldn't consider myself to be very selfish. I'd actually consider myself to be more self-less than selfish. I often put my needs aside (if I'm not passionate about them) for someone that I care about.
3.Do you really get bored that easily? Do you get accused of being impatient often? Do you always want to move quickly? Are you okay with waiting?
Yes. Bored very easily. Unbelievably impatient. I always move quickly- I walk fast, drive fast, work fast- I can fit a million errands into a day + go to work + come home and make dinner + take care of the pets + make sure the house is spotless before 7pm.
4.Are you straight up fickle in love? Do you sleep around? Do you hate commitment/being tied down? Are you a player? Do you only care about having fun for the most part?
Not fickle at all. I've had 4 relationships and my shortest of those was a year long. I've been with my current man for 6 years. I enjoy commitment and I relish in being "tied down". I feel like, when the "relationship" part of my life is solid and on-point, it gives me more time and mental energy to focus on everything else I have to do. Not a player at all- I enjoy monogamy. Of course I care about having fun- but I can have fun while in a relationship!
5. Do you think very highly of yourself? In other words are you a conceited mofo? lol
I'm confident- but not cocky. 🙂
I'm extremely competitive- but I don't have to win at all costs. If I'm in an argument with someone I love, more often than not, I'll let them "win". Don't like to waste time on pettiness.
2. Do you think you're more selfish than the average person? How often do you get accused of being selfish (if, at all)? Do you think the world should just revolve around you?
Not at all. I wouldn't consider myself to be very selfish. I'd actually consider myself to be more self-less than selfish. I often put my needs aside (if I'm not passionate about them) for someone that I care about.
3.Do you really get bored that easily? Do you get accused of being impatient often? Do you always want to move quickly? Are you okay with waiting?
Yes. Bored very easily. Unbelievably impatient. I always move quickly- I walk fast, drive fast, work fast- I can fit a million errands into a day + go to work + come home and make dinner + take care of the pets + make sure the house is spotless before 7pm.
4.Are you straight up fickle in love? Do you sleep around? Do you hate commitment/being tied down? Are you a player? Do you only care about having fun for the most part?
Not fickle at all. I've had 4 relationships and my shortest of those was a year long. I've been with my current man for 6 years. I enjoy commitment and I relish in being "tied down". I feel like, when the "relationship" part of my life is solid and on-point, it gives me more time and mental energy to focus on everything else I have to do. Not a player at all- I enjoy monogamy. Of course I care about having fun- but I can have fun while in a relationship!
5. Do you think very highly of yourself? In other words are you a conceited mofo? lol
I'm confident- but not cocky. 🙂
Answers:
1.) No, I am not that competitive but I will go after what I want. Although I can't see myself stepping on others to get there....that's a bit extreme. I guess it all depends.
2.) No, I don't think I'm MORE selfish than the average person. I think everyone is selfish to an extent but it's when they go overboard that it becomes unacceptable. You cannot expect people to just cater to you in this world. You must show consideration for others at times.
3.) I'm quite patient. I have no problems with waiting.
4.) No, my morals prevent me from acting in such ways.
5.) Well, I certainly don't hate myself.
Very interesting idea/topic by the way 🙂
1.) No, I am not that competitive but I will go after what I want. Although I can't see myself stepping on others to get there....that's a bit extreme. I guess it all depends.
2.) No, I don't think I'm MORE selfish than the average person. I think everyone is selfish to an extent but it's when they go overboard that it becomes unacceptable. You cannot expect people to just cater to you in this world. You must show consideration for others at times.
3.) I'm quite patient. I have no problems with waiting.
4.) No, my morals prevent me from acting in such ways.
5.) Well, I certainly don't hate myself.
Very interesting idea/topic by the way 🙂
Great answers everyone. Thanks!
Posted by aliaries
I walk fast, drive fast, work fast- I can fit a million errands into a day + go to work + come home and make dinner + take care of the pets + make sure the house is spotless before 7pm.
You're like Wonder Woman! lol
I wish I were as efficient as you 😢
Posted by Jesse91
i dunno i'm the oldest of my siblings (i have two younger brothers) so i wasn't really allowed to be that selfish growing up cuz i had to set a good example for them. so i got really used to accomodating other people. i think everyone is entitled to act selfish every now and then (in a way that won't hurt anyone) but if you're selfish 24/7 day in and day out then that's just fucking embarrassing lol especially if you're past the age of 16 lol
I can totally relate. I have a little sister who's 5 years younger than me. She's quite the handful lol I spoiled her too much in her early years and now I'm paying for it lol
Posted by Brittannie
You cannot expect people to just cater to you in this world. You must show consideration for others at times.
People will cater to you if you have lots of money but otherwise we're on our own lol
I've noticed a lot of Aries girls are shy. are these only certain ones or all of them? given the description of a typical Aries, i would think they would be the opposite.
Posted by bluemoon9043834Posted by UsernameTaken
I've noticed a lot of Aries girls are shy. are these only certain ones or all of them? given the description of a typical Aries, i would think they would be the opposite.
Aries are shy with people they like a lot. Otherwise, we can be aloof and sort of closed off to people we do not know or trust, but if you start a conversation with her, it should get her talking. If not, she may just be inside her head....click to expand
it's interesting you put it like that, my other Aries friend who is in a relationship acts like that. idk if its towards me or not, but i feel like there's a defensive barrier up between me and her, even though i'm not really interested in being with her like that. she's very good and loyal friend but sometimes won't pick up her phone for days. i know her n the bf argue a lot. but i do my best not to get involved in that. even the best intentions can sometimes be the worst ones. but if i do kick up a convo with her she'll start talking almost endlessly lol, i'm not complaining or anything, but that's a pretty good way to describe it.
1. Are you really that competitive? Is winning really that important to you? Do you want to win at all costs?
Yes, winning is extremely important to me. I must have been..what...4 or 5 years of age, but since then, I've always wanted to better than my peers, my siblings, my family at anything and everything I do. However, resorting to unfair means is a strict no-no. It takes all the joy out of winning. 🙂 I play hard and I play fair. And yes, I can turn *anything* into a competition.
2. Do you think you're more selfish than the average person? How often do you get accused of being selfish (if, at all)? Do you think the world should just revolve around you?
No, I'm not selfish. I just value myself more than others, so yeah, wanting something done for me holds more priority than anything else. However, in love, its a complete 360 degree flip. So yeah, now, I'm a little LESS selfish. Who coins these terms anyways? 😛
3.Do you really get bored that easily? Do you get accused of being impatient often? Do you always want to move quickly? Are you okay with waiting?
Yes, I do get bored with things quite easily if I'm not passionate about them. It's an "all or none" phenomenon for me. You will either see me submerged and engrossed in it, till it could make you sick, or you will see me nowhere in sight in relation to something I'm even moderately interested in. Yes, I do get accused of being impatient..especially by my folks. I've always been the unruly kid of the household. If I don't see results quick, I move on like nobody's business. Yeah, I move quickly, I eat quickly, I write quickly, I talk quickly, I run waaaay faster than the average joe (I think this was a competition..hehe 😛), I complete my assignments quickly, I cook and clean quickly. I basically love to compete with time. Most of the time I hate waiting. But I had to wait like shit crazy for my scorpio guy to be mine, so I did show *some* patience.
4.Are you straight up fickle in love? Do you sleep around? Do you hate commitment/being tied down? Are you a player? Do you only care about having fun for the most part?
No, I'm fall way deep in love. And I've only fallen in love once. I can't have crushes and fancies. I detest such an attitude even. Nope, no sleeping around for me. I love being committed to my guy. No issues with commitment. Definitely, not a player. Either in a serious committed relationship or none at all. (Courtesy Venus in Pisces) 😄
Yes, winning is extremely important to me. I must have been..what...4 or 5 years of age, but since then, I've always wanted to better than my peers, my siblings, my family at anything and everything I do. However, resorting to unfair means is a strict no-no. It takes all the joy out of winning. 🙂 I play hard and I play fair. And yes, I can turn *anything* into a competition.
2. Do you think you're more selfish than the average person? How often do you get accused of being selfish (if, at all)? Do you think the world should just revolve around you?
No, I'm not selfish. I just value myself more than others, so yeah, wanting something done for me holds more priority than anything else. However, in love, its a complete 360 degree flip. So yeah, now, I'm a little LESS selfish. Who coins these terms anyways? 😛
3.Do you really get bored that easily? Do you get accused of being impatient often? Do you always want to move quickly? Are you okay with waiting?
Yes, I do get bored with things quite easily if I'm not passionate about them. It's an "all or none" phenomenon for me. You will either see me submerged and engrossed in it, till it could make you sick, or you will see me nowhere in sight in relation to something I'm even moderately interested in. Yes, I do get accused of being impatient..especially by my folks. I've always been the unruly kid of the household. If I don't see results quick, I move on like nobody's business. Yeah, I move quickly, I eat quickly, I write quickly, I talk quickly, I run waaaay faster than the average joe (I think this was a competition..hehe 😛), I complete my assignments quickly, I cook and clean quickly. I basically love to compete with time. Most of the time I hate waiting. But I had to wait like shit crazy for my scorpio guy to be mine, so I did show *some* patience.
4.Are you straight up fickle in love? Do you sleep around? Do you hate commitment/being tied down? Are you a player? Do you only care about having fun for the most part?
No, I'm fall way deep in love. And I've only fallen in love once. I can't have crushes and fancies. I detest such an attitude even. Nope, no sleeping around for me. I love being committed to my guy. No issues with commitment. Definitely, not a player. Either in a serious committed relationship or none at all. (Courtesy Venus in Pisces) 😄
5. Do you think very highly of yourself? In other words are you a conceited mofo?
I am of the opinion that I have a healthy amount of self esteem, pride and ego. Iim not arrogant nor conceited.
I am of the opinion that I have a healthy amount of self esteem, pride and ego. Iim not arrogant nor conceited.
Posted by lonerPosted by aliaries
I walk fast, drive fast, work fast- I can fit a million errands into a day + go to work + come home and make dinner + take care of the pets + make sure the house is spotless before 7pm.
You're like Wonder Woman! lol
I wish I were as efficient as you 😢
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I can thank my Cap moon/mars for this! 🙂 Diligent. Quick. Efficient. Have to get things done as quickly and perfectly as possible.
But it is NOT always easy- and if I don't watch myself, I can turn into a major control freak!
firewatergurl: "I basically love to compete with time."
+1!
+1!
1. Are you really that competitive? Is winning really that important to you? Do you want to win at all costs?
I only get mad if I lose lol...not all the time, but if I begin to lose at every game, or whatever is happening then it starts to affect me.
2. Do you think you're more selfish than the average person? How often do you get accused of being selfish (if, at all)? Do you think the world should just revolve around you?
I've been accused a lot, I guess if I am, it's because I'm unaware of what I was doing. I've never been intentionally selfish, I love to give and help others. Almost to a fault.
3.Do you really get bored that easily? Do you get accused of being impatient often? Do you always want to move quickly? Are you okay with waiting?
I am the most impatient person in the world. I cannot stand waiting around for anything, I will pace, tape my feet, bite my nails, get anxious when I'm ready to move and others are still standing around. It has to be done now and only now. Why wait? Why delay it? NOW NOW NOW!
4.Are you straight up fickle in love? Do you sleep around? Do you hate commitment/being tied down? Are you a player? Do you only care about having fun for the most part?
Never. Never. No. No. No. In the back of my I thought that's what I wanted, but when the opportunities presented themselves, I chose not to follow them. It's easier to think "hey, let's forget feelings, love and all that stuff that sometimes I don't even know if I believe in and go get laid, who cares, right?" No...you can think that all you want but at the end of the day, all I really want is someone who cares, who I care about and can maintain a long and happy relationship with me. Challenge me, be my partner in all aspects of life. I want a connection, badly. Not just with anyone for the sake of having one, but if I find that person that strikes me, that's who I want. In my 34 years, of relationships, dating, and everything else, I've only had feelings for about 3 or 4 people out of many. 2 were long relationships, and the other 1 or 2 were people I was dating but didn't work out for one reason or another. My feelings are pretty deep and long-lasting when I find the right person to share things with.
tbc...
I only get mad if I lose lol...not all the time, but if I begin to lose at every game, or whatever is happening then it starts to affect me.
2. Do you think you're more selfish than the average person? How often do you get accused of being selfish (if, at all)? Do you think the world should just revolve around you?
I've been accused a lot, I guess if I am, it's because I'm unaware of what I was doing. I've never been intentionally selfish, I love to give and help others. Almost to a fault.
3.Do you really get bored that easily? Do you get accused of being impatient often? Do you always want to move quickly? Are you okay with waiting?
I am the most impatient person in the world. I cannot stand waiting around for anything, I will pace, tape my feet, bite my nails, get anxious when I'm ready to move and others are still standing around. It has to be done now and only now. Why wait? Why delay it? NOW NOW NOW!
4.Are you straight up fickle in love? Do you sleep around? Do you hate commitment/being tied down? Are you a player? Do you only care about having fun for the most part?
Never. Never. No. No. No. In the back of my I thought that's what I wanted, but when the opportunities presented themselves, I chose not to follow them. It's easier to think "hey, let's forget feelings, love and all that stuff that sometimes I don't even know if I believe in and go get laid, who cares, right?" No...you can think that all you want but at the end of the day, all I really want is someone who cares, who I care about and can maintain a long and happy relationship with me. Challenge me, be my partner in all aspects of life. I want a connection, badly. Not just with anyone for the sake of having one, but if I find that person that strikes me, that's who I want. In my 34 years, of relationships, dating, and everything else, I've only had feelings for about 3 or 4 people out of many. 2 were long relationships, and the other 1 or 2 were people I was dating but didn't work out for one reason or another. My feelings are pretty deep and long-lasting when I find the right person to share things with.
tbc...
5. Do you think very highly of yourself? In other words are you a conceited mofo? lol
Sometimes, I know I'm a good person, I don't do things intentionally to hurt anyone, I don't cheat, lie, steal. I don't do drugs, I don't go out with my friend's boyfriends. I think I'm a pretty awesome person who deserves to be treated with respect. I must be doing something wrong though because I have only a small handful of people who do care, which I suppose is better than none.
I got off-track but there in a nutshell is my Aries traits. I have a lot of Aries in other aspects of my chart as well, so it intensifies a lot of it. Hope I helped 🙂
Sometimes, I know I'm a good person, I don't do things intentionally to hurt anyone, I don't cheat, lie, steal. I don't do drugs, I don't go out with my friend's boyfriends. I think I'm a pretty awesome person who deserves to be treated with respect. I must be doing something wrong though because I have only a small handful of people who do care, which I suppose is better than none.
I got off-track but there in a nutshell is my Aries traits. I have a lot of Aries in other aspects of my chart as well, so it intensifies a lot of it. Hope I helped 🙂
Posted by SyntheticAnesthetic
Never. Never. No. No. No. In the back of my I thought that's what I wanted, but when the opportunities presented themselves, I chose not to follow them. It's easier to think "hey, let's forget feelings, love and all that stuff that sometimes I don't even know if I believe in and go get laid, who cares, right?" No...you can think that all you want but at the end of the day, all I really want is someone who cares, who I care about and can maintain a long and happy relationship with me. Challenge me, be my partner in all aspects of life. I want a connection, badly. Not just with anyone for the sake of having one, but if I find that person that strikes me, that's who I want. In my 34 years, of relationships, dating, and everything else, I've only had feelings for about 3 or 4 people out of many. 2 were long relationships, and the other 1 or 2 were people I was dating but didn't work out for one reason or another. My feelings are pretty deep and long-lasting when I find the right person to share things with.
tbc...
I feel the same way. I can't fool myself like that either. It has to be all or nothing. I feel like if I only put in a half-hearted effort in finding love, then my outcomes will reflect that. I'll attract nothing but half-hearted people to share superficial connections with and that's not what I want.
ok so i see that most of you guys are totally sane and civilized. i was expecting to see some crazy, ourtrageous replies (cuz of what i usually read on astrology websites) lol
i like aries 🙂
people are way too hard on you guys.
i like aries 🙂
people are way too hard on you guys.
Yeah, we're pretty boring folks lol Most of us are goody2shoes who don't really get into any trouble lol Yup....No drama over here lol jk Thanks though. We are pretty sane, I guess lol
1. Are you really that competitive? Is winning really that important to you? Do you want to win at all costs?
If it's something I'm good at, then I am competitive and I want to win (badly) but honestly and fairly - and not at all costs.
2. Do you think you're more selfish than the average person? How often do you get accused of being selfish (if, at all)? Do you think the world should just revolve around you?
A little selfish at times maybe - but not more than the average person.
3.Do you really get bored that easily? Do you get accused of being impatient often? Do you always want to move quickly? Are you okay with waiting?
I can get bored doing something I'm obligated to do. But I rarely get bored during my "free time". I might get bored in the midst of a particular task (and easily too) but I have no problem finding something different to entertain me. I have a lot of unfinished (recreational) projects as I get enthusiastic about starting them but then lose interest. I present as extraordinarily patient but my mind can get antsy. I get frustrated with slow people (inwardly) and I find it hard to sit still for long.
4.Are you straight up fickle in love? Do you sleep around? Do you hate commitment/being tied down? Are you a player? Do you only care about having fun for the most part?
Although I am in a relationship now, I've spent most of my life single. In my younger days I had a lot of no-strings attached flings. I wanted a real and committed relationship but I wasn't attracting the right ones. Then I became very selective and eventually stopped dating altogether for several years. During that stage I truly wanted and enjoyed being alone. In relationships I am loyal, straight-up and not a player.
5. Do you think very highly of yourself? In other words are you a conceited mofo? lol
Absolutely not. 🙂
If it's something I'm good at, then I am competitive and I want to win (badly) but honestly and fairly - and not at all costs.
2. Do you think you're more selfish than the average person? How often do you get accused of being selfish (if, at all)? Do you think the world should just revolve around you?
A little selfish at times maybe - but not more than the average person.
3.Do you really get bored that easily? Do you get accused of being impatient often? Do you always want to move quickly? Are you okay with waiting?
I can get bored doing something I'm obligated to do. But I rarely get bored during my "free time". I might get bored in the midst of a particular task (and easily too) but I have no problem finding something different to entertain me. I have a lot of unfinished (recreational) projects as I get enthusiastic about starting them but then lose interest. I present as extraordinarily patient but my mind can get antsy. I get frustrated with slow people (inwardly) and I find it hard to sit still for long.
4.Are you straight up fickle in love? Do you sleep around? Do you hate commitment/being tied down? Are you a player? Do you only care about having fun for the most part?
Although I am in a relationship now, I've spent most of my life single. In my younger days I had a lot of no-strings attached flings. I wanted a real and committed relationship but I wasn't attracting the right ones. Then I became very selective and eventually stopped dating altogether for several years. During that stage I truly wanted and enjoyed being alone. In relationships I am loyal, straight-up and not a player.
5. Do you think very highly of yourself? In other words are you a conceited mofo? lol
Absolutely not. 🙂
Posted by bluemoon9043834Posted by UsernameTaken
I've noticed a lot of Aries girls are shy. are these only certain ones or all of them? given the description of a typical Aries, i would think they would be the opposite.
Aries are shy with people they like a lot. Otherwise, we can be aloof and sort of closed off to people we do not know or trust, but if you start a conversation with her, it should get her talking. If not, she may just be inside her head....click to expand
Exactly! Maybe I'm more Aries than I thought 🙂
1. Yes I am very competitive, in all areas of my life...career, love life, sports and more. I hate losing. I have thrown tantrums. But with age comes temperance, not a sore loser anymore. I've learned it's better to calculate, strategize, and come back swinging,
2. The world should revolve around me, but doesn't that apply to everyone. Each person is the center of their own universe. I'm no wayward planet floating in someone else's orbit. I've been accused of being selfish, usually by people who have sublimated their own desires to make other people happy, and are therefore miserable because they're not being true to their own wants and needs.
3. If I'm working towards a goal I'm never bored. An Aries on a mission cannot be deterred. Stand in our way at your own risk. I'm impatient, but, never enough to walk away from my goals. I'm a stickler for deadlines and loathe tardiness.
4. I'm very faithful and loyal. Cheating is a waste of time and energy. It reeks of indecisiveness and weakness. I had friends in the past that would carry on multiple relationships. They invested so much in keeping up with their lies and hiding. I couldn't help but wonder if they invested half of the time they spent chasing women as they did furthering their career or education, they'd probably be millionaires by now.
5. I think very highly of myself. I have high self esteem, and I'm confident. If that's conceited, so be it.
2. The world should revolve around me, but doesn't that apply to everyone. Each person is the center of their own universe. I'm no wayward planet floating in someone else's orbit. I've been accused of being selfish, usually by people who have sublimated their own desires to make other people happy, and are therefore miserable because they're not being true to their own wants and needs.
3. If I'm working towards a goal I'm never bored. An Aries on a mission cannot be deterred. Stand in our way at your own risk. I'm impatient, but, never enough to walk away from my goals. I'm a stickler for deadlines and loathe tardiness.
4. I'm very faithful and loyal. Cheating is a waste of time and energy. It reeks of indecisiveness and weakness. I had friends in the past that would carry on multiple relationships. They invested so much in keeping up with their lies and hiding. I couldn't help but wonder if they invested half of the time they spent chasing women as they did furthering their career or education, they'd probably be millionaires by now.
5. I think very highly of myself. I have high self esteem, and I'm confident. If that's conceited, so be it.
Posted by RamsesTheGreat
1. Yes I am very competitive, in all areas of my life...career, love life, sports and more. I hate losing. I have thrown tantrums. But with age comes temperance, not a sore loser anymore. I've learned it's better to calculate, strategize, and come back swinging,
2. The world should revolve around me, but doesn't that apply to everyone. Each person is the center of their own universe. I'm no wayward planet floating in someone else's orbit. I've been accused of being selfish, usually by people who have sublimated their own desires to make other people happy, and are therefore miserable because they're not being true to their own wants and needs.
3. If I'm working towards a goal I'm never bored. An Aries on a mission cannot be deterred. Stand in our way at your own risk. I'm impatient, but, never enough to walk away from my goals. I'm a stickler for deadlines and loathe tardiness.
4. I'm very faithful and loyal. Cheating is a waste of time and energy. It reeks of indecisiveness and weakness. I had friends in the past that would carry on multiple relationships. They invested so much in keeping up with their lies and hiding. I couldn't help but wonder if they invested half of the time they spent chasing women as they did furthering their career or education, they'd probably be millionaires by now.
5. I think very highly of myself. I have high self esteem, and I'm confident. If that's conceited, so be it.
A man of great integrity. Your confidence is very refreshing lol
1. Are you really that competitive? Is winning really that important to you? Do you want to win at all costs?
I don't like to lose, but I won't want to win at all costs. I can agree to disagree, but if my "opponent" is really stubborn or a smart ass or an idiot I won't.
2. Do you think you're more selfish than the average person? How often do you get accused of being selfish (if, at all)? Do you think the world should just revolve around you?
No, the difference is that I'm pretty straight forward with my needs in contrast to other people (well, speaking of women here mostly because I am one and I don't think you can really compare male and female behaviour that well) who try to get what they want by being flirtatious and playing dumb. They seem to be less selfish, but in the end they aren't.
3.Do you really get bored that easily? Do you get accused of being impatient often? Do you always want to move quickly? Are you okay with waiting?
Guilty as charged, I am impatient =) And I want things done quickly. Well, not all of them :-P
4.Are you straight up fickle in love? Do you sleep around? Do you hate commitment/being tied down? Are you a player? Do you only care about having fun for the most part?
I used to be fickle, but I'm not now. In my twenties I did sleep around and it was good that way because I'm sure I would feel I missed something if I hadn't. I would even go as far to say that I can only live in the same house and have a settled, serious relationship with my leo now because I had the fickleness and the fun when I was younger. It was fun, been there, done it, but it was boring the s*** out of me in the end.
5. Do you think very highly of yourself? In other words are you a conceited mofo? lol
Erm, I hope not lol
I don't like to lose, but I won't want to win at all costs. I can agree to disagree, but if my "opponent" is really stubborn or a smart ass or an idiot I won't.
2. Do you think you're more selfish than the average person? How often do you get accused of being selfish (if, at all)? Do you think the world should just revolve around you?
No, the difference is that I'm pretty straight forward with my needs in contrast to other people (well, speaking of women here mostly because I am one and I don't think you can really compare male and female behaviour that well) who try to get what they want by being flirtatious and playing dumb. They seem to be less selfish, but in the end they aren't.
3.Do you really get bored that easily? Do you get accused of being impatient often? Do you always want to move quickly? Are you okay with waiting?
Guilty as charged, I am impatient =) And I want things done quickly. Well, not all of them :-P
4.Are you straight up fickle in love? Do you sleep around? Do you hate commitment/being tied down? Are you a player? Do you only care about having fun for the most part?
I used to be fickle, but I'm not now. In my twenties I did sleep around and it was good that way because I'm sure I would feel I missed something if I hadn't. I would even go as far to say that I can only live in the same house and have a settled, serious relationship with my leo now because I had the fickleness and the fun when I was younger. It was fun, been there, done it, but it was boring the s*** out of me in the end.
5. Do you think very highly of yourself? In other words are you a conceited mofo? lol
Erm, I hope not lol
1. Are you really that competitive? Is winning really that important to you? Do you want to win at all costs?
Yes. Winning is very important, but I'm not as bad as I used to be with it - I don't think!
Second question is regarding our "selfishness".
2. Do you think you're more selfish than the average person? How often do you get accused of being selfish (if, at all)? Do you think the world should just revolve around you?
The funny thing is I have been accused of being selfish but I don't view myself that way since I do care about other people's needs and whatnot. The world revolving around me...I admit in a relationship I want that to revolve around me - meaning I'm always put first.
Third question is regarding our "impatience" and "short attention span".
3.Do you really get bored that easily? Do you get accused of being impatient often? Do you always want to move quickly? Are you okay with waiting?
Yes, boredom has always been a problem for me. I drove my mother nuts when I was a kid, I had to constantly have something to do but then I would bored with it! I am impatient and I do get accused of it - well, all my life! I do move quickly, isn't that normal?? 🙂 Waiting is a problem for me unless I know the wait will be worth it, if I don't think it will, then I abandon ship!
Fourth question is regarding our "fickleness in love".
4.Are you straight up fickle in love? Do you sleep around? Do you hate commitment/being tied down? Are you a player? Do you only care about having fun for the most part?
I have been known to change my mind from one day to the next giving a feeling of "fire and ice" to women I have dated, however, once commited, I'm loyal. I don't sleep around - I mean, not with strangers. Right now I am having issues with not wanting to be tied down thanks to 6 months with a Cancer woman. Prior to that I really wasn't but I was in my 20s - I'm in my 40s now. I'm not a player though if I am single as I am now - I may date a couple of women at one time until I feel it getting a little more exclusive. Having fun is well, FUN! I love it, but there's more to life than just fun, right??
Fifth question is regarding our "arrogance".
5. Do you think very highly of yourself? In other words are you a conceited mofo? lol
This has been a downside of mine - I do think highly of myself but I always thought that was just having a good self-esteem?
Yes. Winning is very important, but I'm not as bad as I used to be with it - I don't think!
Second question is regarding our "selfishness".
2. Do you think you're more selfish than the average person? How often do you get accused of being selfish (if, at all)? Do you think the world should just revolve around you?
The funny thing is I have been accused of being selfish but I don't view myself that way since I do care about other people's needs and whatnot. The world revolving around me...I admit in a relationship I want that to revolve around me - meaning I'm always put first.
Third question is regarding our "impatience" and "short attention span".
3.Do you really get bored that easily? Do you get accused of being impatient often? Do you always want to move quickly? Are you okay with waiting?
Yes, boredom has always been a problem for me. I drove my mother nuts when I was a kid, I had to constantly have something to do but then I would bored with it! I am impatient and I do get accused of it - well, all my life! I do move quickly, isn't that normal?? 🙂 Waiting is a problem for me unless I know the wait will be worth it, if I don't think it will, then I abandon ship!
Fourth question is regarding our "fickleness in love".
4.Are you straight up fickle in love? Do you sleep around? Do you hate commitment/being tied down? Are you a player? Do you only care about having fun for the most part?
I have been known to change my mind from one day to the next giving a feeling of "fire and ice" to women I have dated, however, once commited, I'm loyal. I don't sleep around - I mean, not with strangers. Right now I am having issues with not wanting to be tied down thanks to 6 months with a Cancer woman. Prior to that I really wasn't but I was in my 20s - I'm in my 40s now. I'm not a player though if I am single as I am now - I may date a couple of women at one time until I feel it getting a little more exclusive. Having fun is well, FUN! I love it, but there's more to life than just fun, right??
Fifth question is regarding our "arrogance".
5. Do you think very highly of yourself? In other words are you a conceited mofo? lol
This has been a downside of mine - I do think highly of myself but I always thought that was just having a good self-esteem?
Thank you for your replies everyone 🙂 I really enjoy getting to know my fellow rams. I feel sort of emotionally closer to you guys now haha
1. Are you really that competitive? Is winning really that important to you? Do you want to win at all costs?
Yes I am very competitive - sports and stuff - winners are grinners baby!
Second question is regarding our "selfishness".
2. Do you think you're more selfish than the average person? How often do you get accused of being selfish (if, at all)? Do you think the world should just revolve around you?
Not selfish. Never been accused of that, UNselfishness has actually been (part of) my downfall, but taking steps to fix that
Third question is regarding our "impatience" and "short attention span".
3.Do you really get bored that easily? Do you get accused of being impatient often? Do you always want to move quickly? Are you okay with waiting?
I don't get bored.
I do get impatient with people who are just being ignorant/lazy/selfish/rude. And people who dawdle on the the street (they should have their own lane.) I do walk quickly.....dammit I have stuff to do.
Very patient with animals and the people I love.
Depends what I am waiting for - if I put the work into something I expect results.
Waiting for a train or something is a friggin waste of my time - I could have walked there by now. grrrr.
I don't like arsing around when I could be doing something constructive.
Fourth question is regarding our "fickleness in love".
4.Are you straight up fickle in love? Do you sleep around? Do you hate commitment/being tied down? Are you a player? Do you only care about having fun for the most part?
Not fickle. One dog one bone. I want to be 'tying down and having fun' with the one guy forever, until we are tip toeing into each other's room at the nursing home. Aries love just gets bigger and better with time🙂
Not a player.
I am the human Uncle Sam sign "I WANT YOU"
No one else. Just you. Forevuh.
Fifth question is regarding our "arrogance".
5. Do you think very highly of yourself? In other words are you a conceited mofo? lol
No I don't think highly enough of myself, but trying to address that self esteem thing.
I am a good person with a good heart, but I don't think you could ever describe me as a conceited mofo.
Yes I am very competitive - sports and stuff - winners are grinners baby!
Second question is regarding our "selfishness".
2. Do you think you're more selfish than the average person? How often do you get accused of being selfish (if, at all)? Do you think the world should just revolve around you?
Not selfish. Never been accused of that, UNselfishness has actually been (part of) my downfall, but taking steps to fix that
Third question is regarding our "impatience" and "short attention span".
3.Do you really get bored that easily? Do you get accused of being impatient often? Do you always want to move quickly? Are you okay with waiting?
I don't get bored.
I do get impatient with people who are just being ignorant/lazy/selfish/rude. And people who dawdle on the the street (they should have their own lane.) I do walk quickly.....dammit I have stuff to do.
Very patient with animals and the people I love.
Depends what I am waiting for - if I put the work into something I expect results.
Waiting for a train or something is a friggin waste of my time - I could have walked there by now. grrrr.
I don't like arsing around when I could be doing something constructive.
Fourth question is regarding our "fickleness in love".
4.Are you straight up fickle in love? Do you sleep around? Do you hate commitment/being tied down? Are you a player? Do you only care about having fun for the most part?
Not fickle. One dog one bone. I want to be 'tying down and having fun' with the one guy forever, until we are tip toeing into each other's room at the nursing home. Aries love just gets bigger and better with time🙂
Not a player.
I am the human Uncle Sam sign "I WANT YOU"
No one else. Just you. Forevuh.
Fifth question is regarding our "arrogance".
5. Do you think very highly of yourself? In other words are you a conceited mofo? lol
No I don't think highly enough of myself, but trying to address that self esteem thing.
I am a good person with a good heart, but I don't think you could ever describe me as a conceited mofo.
Posted by lonerPosted by Brittannie
You cannot expect people to just cater to you in this world. You must show consideration for others at times.
People will cater to you if you have lots of money but otherwise we're on our own lolclick to expand
lol Yes, that's very true unfortunately.
1. Are you really that competitive? Is winning really that important to you? Do you want to win at all costs?
Im more of a silent competitor. I go to design school and my studio classes can get quite intense once all the projects are well on their way and ill usually have 1 or 2 peers that consider my competition and I will always look at their projects when they are gone to make mine better... but i know they do the same so it sort of makes it fun. I'm not crazy into sports though or feel like i need to win an argument if i feel the other has mentioned valid points. I'm competitive but not irrational.
2. Do you think you're more selfish than the average person? How often do you get accused of being selfish (if, at all)? Do you think the world should just revolve around you?
If someone needs my help I will more then likely drop everything that I am doing to go and help them as much as I can and as often as they need. However, I loath asking for help even if its from the same person that I helped, almost to the point of wanting to vomit at the thought of bothering them or being a waste of their time. And I super dislike when they don't offer to help me, even if I don't need it, just the thought is highly appreciated.
3.Do you really get bored that easily? Do you get accused of being impatient often? Do you always want to move quickly? Are you okay with waiting?
Ive grown accustomed to living my life 10 weeks at a time, at a super fast pace, with a lot of chaos, very little sleep and constant activity. When something is super slow or very laid back I lose interest and won't give it my all. Never been told to my face that I'm impatient, but I know I can have the patience of a saint or ready to kill someone if I'm kept too long, even if it's a minute.
4.Are you straight up fickle in love? Do you sleep around? Do you hate commitment/being tied down? Are you a player? Do you only care about having fun for the most part?
I've never been one to go searching for love or yearn to hook up with a guy. I like knowing how we are as friends before I ever consider being more - but once Im hooked, I'm hooked. I like guys that are independent but know if they need me ill be there, vis versa - so I don't consider it tied down, I consider it secured loyalty. If I have that, then I can achieve anything during the day and be the happiest person. If it disappears, I shut down.
5. Do you think very highly of yourself?
Very confident, but I don't feel
Im more of a silent competitor. I go to design school and my studio classes can get quite intense once all the projects are well on their way and ill usually have 1 or 2 peers that consider my competition and I will always look at their projects when they are gone to make mine better... but i know they do the same so it sort of makes it fun. I'm not crazy into sports though or feel like i need to win an argument if i feel the other has mentioned valid points. I'm competitive but not irrational.
2. Do you think you're more selfish than the average person? How often do you get accused of being selfish (if, at all)? Do you think the world should just revolve around you?
If someone needs my help I will more then likely drop everything that I am doing to go and help them as much as I can and as often as they need. However, I loath asking for help even if its from the same person that I helped, almost to the point of wanting to vomit at the thought of bothering them or being a waste of their time. And I super dislike when they don't offer to help me, even if I don't need it, just the thought is highly appreciated.
3.Do you really get bored that easily? Do you get accused of being impatient often? Do you always want to move quickly? Are you okay with waiting?
Ive grown accustomed to living my life 10 weeks at a time, at a super fast pace, with a lot of chaos, very little sleep and constant activity. When something is super slow or very laid back I lose interest and won't give it my all. Never been told to my face that I'm impatient, but I know I can have the patience of a saint or ready to kill someone if I'm kept too long, even if it's a minute.
4.Are you straight up fickle in love? Do you sleep around? Do you hate commitment/being tied down? Are you a player? Do you only care about having fun for the most part?
I've never been one to go searching for love or yearn to hook up with a guy. I like knowing how we are as friends before I ever consider being more - but once Im hooked, I'm hooked. I like guys that are independent but know if they need me ill be there, vis versa - so I don't consider it tied down, I consider it secured loyalty. If I have that, then I can achieve anything during the day and be the happiest person. If it disappears, I shut down.
5. Do you think very highly of yourself?
Very confident, but I don't feel
1. Are you really that competitive?
I can be when I feel threatened.
Is winning really that important to you?
Sometimes
Do you want to win at all costs?
LOL??_.ummmm NOPE??_.I can be a sore loser but I don't NEED to win but I may WANT to win.
2. Do you think you're more selfish than the average person?
NOPE
How often do you get accused of being selfish (if, at all)?
Once to my face??_I was teen??_Oh well then excuse me for a being a teenager with raging hormones.
Do you think the world should just revolve around you?
LOL, my world or someone else's world or do we live in the same world. Ummm??_.next question.
3.Do you really get bored that easily?
Yep??_
Do you get accused of being impatient often?
Oh yes! ALL THE TIME??_I am working on it.
Do you always want to move quickly?
Nope
Are you okay with waiting?
This depends on what and who I am waiting for.
4.Are you straight up fickle in love?
NOPE??_Ummm well it depends.
Do you sleep around?
Nope
Do you hate commitment/being tied down?
Ummmm....
Are you a player?
Nope
Do you only care about having fun for the most part?
Nope
I can be when I feel threatened.
Is winning really that important to you?
Sometimes
Do you want to win at all costs?
LOL??_.ummmm NOPE??_.I can be a sore loser but I don't NEED to win but I may WANT to win.
2. Do you think you're more selfish than the average person?
NOPE
How often do you get accused of being selfish (if, at all)?
Once to my face??_I was teen??_Oh well then excuse me for a being a teenager with raging hormones.
Do you think the world should just revolve around you?
LOL, my world or someone else's world or do we live in the same world. Ummm??_.next question.
3.Do you really get bored that easily?
Yep??_
Do you get accused of being impatient often?
Oh yes! ALL THE TIME??_I am working on it.
Do you always want to move quickly?
Nope
Are you okay with waiting?
This depends on what and who I am waiting for.
4.Are you straight up fickle in love?
NOPE??_Ummm well it depends.
Do you sleep around?
Nope
Do you hate commitment/being tied down?
Ummmm....
Are you a player?
Nope
Do you only care about having fun for the most part?
Nope
Posted by doesntmatter
If someone needs my help I will more then likely drop everything that I am doing to go and help them as much as I can and as often as they need. However, I loath asking for help even if its from the same person that I helped, almost to the point of wanting to vomit at the thought of bothering them or being a waste of their time. And I super dislike when they don't offer to help me.
Ive grown accustomed to living my life 10 weeks at a time, at a super fast pace, with a lot of chaos, very little sleep and constant activity.
I've never been one to go searching for love or yearn to hook up with a guy. I like knowing how we are as friends before I ever consider being more - but once Im hooked, I'm hooked. I like guys that are independent but know if they need me ill be there, vis versa - so I don't consider it tied down, I consider it secured loyalty. If I have that, then I can achieve anything during the day and be the happiest person. If it disappears, I shut down.
yo mama
We have some new members so I'm bumping this up to see if anyone else would like to take a shot at it lol
1. Are you really that competitive? Is winning really that important to you? Do you want to win at all costs?
I am extremely competitive. I love to be first and win but I'm not a sore loser if someone is better i totally give them props. I'm competitive about stupid things like i'll secretly race people in office getting from the break room to the copy machine. Generally I don't cheat to win unless i think it'll be funny like in a card game and i'll usually tell the others in the end for good laughs regardless if i win or lose.
2. Do you think you're more selfish than the average person? How often do you get accused of being selfish (if, at all)? Do you think the world should just revolve around you?
I think I'm extremely other centered, mostly because of my upbringing. I often in conversation tend to internalize anything and everything said. I also can be super interrupting and change or redirect the conversation easily and most people will take that the wrong way. so i can see how others accuse me of that.
3.Do you really get bored that easily? Do you get accused of being impatient often? Do you always want to move quickly? Are you okay with waiting?
I am ridiculously impatient... and so easily bored. To me if anything moves quickly (job,relationship, friendship) then it's a sign that it is meant to be because it flows. Like getting all the green lights on a street! I'm not sure this makes much sense...
4.Are you straight up fickle in love? Do you sleep around? Do you hate commitment/being tied down? Are you a player? Do you only care about having fun for the most part?
Now that I am older I have learned what true love and commit take. When i was younger I was very resentful of being forced into a relationship and would rebel by being unfaithful. I have never been promiscuous and that type of "having fun". My idea of fun is an adventure like an alligator photo shoot in the everglades or spear fishing in the keys or racing motorcycles at night.
5. Do you think very highly of yourself? In other words are you a conceited mofo? lol
I don't think highly of myself. Now that I'm older I'm extremely humble and want to dedicate as much as i can to helping those who are around me. Although I am extremely lucky because I always get the last of anything i go looking to buy (long story). I can also do anything with my hands like makeup, carpentry, photography, illustrations, hair, cooking, sewing, basic mechanics, jack of all trades maste
I am extremely competitive. I love to be first and win but I'm not a sore loser if someone is better i totally give them props. I'm competitive about stupid things like i'll secretly race people in office getting from the break room to the copy machine. Generally I don't cheat to win unless i think it'll be funny like in a card game and i'll usually tell the others in the end for good laughs regardless if i win or lose.
2. Do you think you're more selfish than the average person? How often do you get accused of being selfish (if, at all)? Do you think the world should just revolve around you?
I think I'm extremely other centered, mostly because of my upbringing. I often in conversation tend to internalize anything and everything said. I also can be super interrupting and change or redirect the conversation easily and most people will take that the wrong way. so i can see how others accuse me of that.
3.Do you really get bored that easily? Do you get accused of being impatient often? Do you always want to move quickly? Are you okay with waiting?
I am ridiculously impatient... and so easily bored. To me if anything moves quickly (job,relationship, friendship) then it's a sign that it is meant to be because it flows. Like getting all the green lights on a street! I'm not sure this makes much sense...
4.Are you straight up fickle in love? Do you sleep around? Do you hate commitment/being tied down? Are you a player? Do you only care about having fun for the most part?
Now that I am older I have learned what true love and commit take. When i was younger I was very resentful of being forced into a relationship and would rebel by being unfaithful. I have never been promiscuous and that type of "having fun". My idea of fun is an adventure like an alligator photo shoot in the everglades or spear fishing in the keys or racing motorcycles at night.
5. Do you think very highly of yourself? In other words are you a conceited mofo? lol
I don't think highly of myself. Now that I'm older I'm extremely humble and want to dedicate as much as i can to helping those who are around me. Although I am extremely lucky because I always get the last of anything i go looking to buy (long story). I can also do anything with my hands like makeup, carpentry, photography, illustrations, hair, cooking, sewing, basic mechanics, jack of all trades maste
Posted by rachelsnow12
Not an Aries, I'm an Aqua, but thanks for all of the postings! They were all so helpful with understanding your sign! :-)
I'm glad you found this thread helpful 🙂
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First question is regarding our "competitive nature".
1. Are you really that competitive? Is winning really that important to you? Do you want to win at all costs?
Second question is regarding our "selfishness".
2. Do you think you're more selfish than the average person? How often do you get accused of being selfish (if, at all)? Do you think the world should just revolve around you?
Third question is regarding our "impatience" and "short attention span".
3.Do you really get bored that easily? Do you get accused of being impatient often? Do you always want to move quickly? Are you okay with waiting?
Fourth question is regarding our "fickleness in love".
4.Are you straight up fickle in love? Do you sleep around? Do you hate commitment/being tied down? Are you a player? Do you only care about having fun for the most part?
Fifth question is regarding our "arrogance".
5. Do you think very highly of yourself? In other words are you a conceited mofo? lol
Thank you in advance for your participation 😉