How come Aries women can detach so quickly? (Libra man)

This topic was created in the Aries forum by aroolibra on Tuesday, May 15, 2018 and has 19 replies.

Why Aries Women Can Detach Quickly

Aries women tend to detach quickly due to their independent nature and desire for new experiences. They prioritize their personal growth and may not hold on to past relationships longer than necessary. This ability helps them move forward effortlessly and focus on future opportunities without lingering emotional attachment.

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@aroolibra
8 Years

So any Aries woman I've dated has been able to move on so quickly. I just personally can't move on so quickly.

The way I've seen all of the ones I've dated move on, like the relationship was another Monday. Very chill about it.

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@aroolibra
8 Years

I even approached one of them about us and she said.." I stop thinking about the past". No idea what that means

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@uwu
8 Years

For me at least, I move on quickly once I realize that maybe it just wasn't for me and I don't have time to deal with heartbreak/emotions for long periods of time. It really doesn't matter if I've been with a guy for so long or even just talking to one. I won't hesitate to move on from anyone or anything really. Falling head over heels for someone, yeah sure.. I'll have memories with them I cherish, but at the same time I'll wonder what I did wrong and what I could've done. I'll shove those feelings aside if I have other priorities, because once you don't make me one then you'll drop off from your pedestal. It is a lot to handle, wondering if an Aries woman cared for you, when you're in a relationship with one.. she'll see you as her whole world and will make it seem as a fairy tale for you. But once she realizes that somethings off about it, she'll quickly panic and prepare herself for the worst.

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@AriesJo
11 Years500+ Posts

This comes down to the masculine energy. Aries women will get down and try to work out what mistakes were made, they may get angry and blame the other person. But I think they move on relatively quickly, and they think like a guy. Probably go get another man. They also focus on the future. I think Aries women must be most likely to approach a guy too, so they easily find another man to preoccupy themselves, even if they guy isn’t interested.

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@bkbella86
15 Years5,000+ PostsAries

I can’t stand feeling sad or heartbroken also I usually know for a while that it’s over. Then I cut the string. It’s easy to move on from what hurts me or doesn’t fulfill me.

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@DonnaLibra
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Posted by aroolibra
So any Aries woman I've dated has been able to move on so quickly. I just personally can't move on so quickly.

The way I've seen all of the ones I've dated move on, like the relationship was another Monday. Very chill about it.

I'm curious, if Aries women you've dated always move on quickly; why do you continue to date Aries?

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@JJ4568
8 Years

Posted by aroolibra
So any Aries woman I've dated has been able to move on so quickly. I just personally can't move on so quickly.

The way I've seen all of the ones I've dated move on, like the relationship was another Monday. Very chill about it.

It depends on your behaviour and how you made us feel which makes us wanna end up far away from your company all together. And we forget about you but it’s all on you and the situation for me. Because if i’m not in control of something or someone’s behaviour that needs change we leave it. That’s usually it for me.

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@aroolibra
8 Years

Well, I'll say this. We are still on friendly terms. I'm by no means a jerk. But I guess they find it easier to move on

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@VenusAquarius
14 Years10,000+ Posts

Posted by aroolibra
So any Aries woman I've dated has been able to move on so quickly. I just personally can't move on so quickly.

The way I've seen all of the ones I've dated move on, like the relationship was another Monday. Very chill about it.

Look up their birthdays, charts... if they have Venus in Aquarius, or Pisces that may be your answer. Then, look up the description of theses placements. Finally, own your pattern of attraction, why you like or are attracted.

Knowledge is power, you can adapt to awareness of what you like or you can try to change what you are atracted to. And, this goes for any similarity you find in your love interests.

Right now, we know for certain a pattern of Aries sun. So, on the surface, that's one pattern.

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@solarflare
14 YearsAries

Probably best to find an Aries with lots of water in her chart, that'll make it tons harder for her to move on lol (this may or may not be something im personally going through and i may or may not be an aries with heavy water influence and i may or may not still be passive aggressive about the whole thing 🙂 )

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@tctaa
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Posted by pisceswoman123
As an Aries Venus if a guy doesn’t love me it’s no way I will love him back. It’s easy to move on because I want better. Next!

do you also find that if he likes you but you don't like him in that way that it's a definite no go - sort of like a turn off even ? or is that just another placement of mine ...

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@bkbella86
15 Years5,000+ PostsAries

Posted by solarflare
Probably best to find an Aries with lots of water in her chart, that'll make it tons harder for her to move on lol (this may or may not be something im personally going through and i may or may not be an aries with heavy water influence and i may or may not still be passive aggressive about the whole thing )

That’s not true at all. I’m mainly water. Pisces moon and mercury. Sun in the 12th Aries. I move on with ease. Never wanted any ex back. I truly detach. It leaves my lovers so baffled because I’m very devoted and try hard to make things work, that has never worked in my favor by the way. But once I’m done I’m done. You hurt me once or take me for granted I’m done. I hurt deeply and when that happens I can’t ever let you do it again.

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@Fancyface
8 Years

I can move on fast but it is just a cover I’m good at blocking shit and forgetting it at least temporarily Or it is because I have already moved on from it while we were still in it. Like my last boyfriend who was a Cappy and oh so annoying but sweet. He was very verbally abusive, jealous and insecure. We all are there is no reason to be so direcpectful with the accusations of cheating and just having to know my every move. So I moved out of that relationship about 2 years before it ended. So it’s really always there and we are trying are best to forget and move on! I always end up going back to what I know as well. So my 1 or 2 of my ex’s I always ended back with. Comfortable and already know what to expect.