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Posted by Ram416
Yes.Especially if they have water mars/moon.
He is Pisces moon...just what I thought also after posting this...
He has told you what he wants without telling you. They are very passive aggressive (pisces moon). He is not happy. Can I ask you a serious question? Are you clingy? My closest friend is a pisces moon and he uses work to escape clingy people.
I'd say he is the clingy one but I dont push him away ever...I actually think he may be Aries moon-different sites giving me different results. Thanks for your insight it definately entered my mind already work might just be an escape. He seems absolutely fine now and I checked in with him again on that topic-he's said that he thinks it may have just been the "breakdown" that everyone had mentioned to him was coming. He is off on vacation in a few days for 2 weeks, well overdue!
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Okay cool but if he is a Pisces moon know that they are people pleasers who would sacrifice themselves before they do or say anything they feel would hurt someone. I love my friend but this part of him annoys me because being that way is not forthcoming it is deceiving in a way. He would often take sick days when his spouse and child were at work, pretend like he was leaving for work and take the day off so he could rest by himself at home.
Posted by Ram416
Yes.Especially if they have water mars/moon.
He is Pisces moon...just what I thought also after posting this...
He has told you what he wants without telling you. They are very passive aggressive (pisces moon). He is not happy. Can I ask you a serious question? Are you clingy? My closest friend is a pisces moon and he uses work to escape clingy people.
I'd say he is the clingy one but I dont push him away ever...I actually think he may be Aries moon-different sites giving me different results. Thanks for your insight it definately entered my mind already work might just be an escape. He seems absolutely fine now and I checked in with him again on that topic-he's said that he thinks it may have just been the "breakdown" that everyone had mentioned to him was coming. He is off on vacation in a few days for 2 weeks, well overdue!
Do you have his birth time, Libra? Aries and Pisces moon are very very different
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I don't have it, not gotten around to asking for it yet hehe, i'll wait for the right opportunity.
Posted by Ram416
Yes.Especially if they have water mars/moon.
He is Pisces moon...just what I thought also after posting this...
He has told you what he wants without telling you. They are very passive aggressive (pisces moon). He is not happy. Can I ask you a serious question? Are you clingy? My closest friend is a pisces moon and he uses work to escape clingy people.
I'd say he is the clingy one but I dont push him away ever...I actually think he may be Aries moon-different sites giving me different results. Thanks for your insight it definately entered my mind already work might just be an escape. He seems absolutely fine now and I checked in with him again on that topic-he's said that he thinks it may have just been the "breakdown" that everyone had mentioned to him was coming. He is off on vacation in a few days for 2 weeks, well overdue!
Do you have his birth time, Libra? Aries and Pisces moon are very very different
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My first guess is that he is Pisces moon though...we shall see
Posted by Ram416
Yes.Especially if they have water mars/moon.
He is Pisces moon...just what I thought also after posting this...
He has told you what he wants without telling you. They are very passive aggressive (pisces moon). He is not happy. Can I ask you a serious question? Are you clingy? My closest friend is a pisces moon and he uses work to escape clingy people.
I'd say he is the clingy one but I dont push him away ever...I actually think he may be Aries moon-different sites giving me different results. Thanks for your insight it definately entered my mind already work might just be an escape. He seems absolutely fine now and I checked in with him again on that topic-he's said that he thinks it may have just been the "breakdown" that everyone had mentioned to him was coming. He is off on vacation in a few days for 2 weeks, well overdue!
Okay cool but if he is a Pisces moon know that they are people pleasers who would sacrifice themselves before they do or say anything they feel would hurt someone. I love my friend but this part of him annoys me because being that way is not forthcoming it is deceiving in a way. He would often take sick days when his spouse and child were at work, pretend like he was leaving for work and take the day off so he could rest by himself at home.
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Geez that is nuts. That kind of behaviour would definately bother me.
Posted by Ram416
Yes.Especially if they have water mars/moon.
He is Pisces moon...just what I thought also after posting this...
He has told you what he wants without telling you. They are very passive aggressive (pisces moon). He is not happy. Can I ask you a serious question? Are you clingy? My closest friend is a pisces moon and he uses work to escape clingy people.
I'd say he is the clingy one but I dont push him away ever...I actually think he may be Aries moon-different sites giving me different results. Thanks for your insight it definately entered my mind already work might just be an escape. He seems absolutely fine now and I checked in with him again on that topic-he's said that he thinks it may have just been the "breakdown" that everyone had mentioned to him was coming. He is off on vacation in a few days for 2 weeks, well overdue!
Do you have his birth time, Libra? Aries and Pisces moon are very very different
My first guess is that he is Pisces moon though...we shall see
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I actually may have to take that back now ive read about the aries moon also, either could possibly apply...I'd have to be given a situation and how the aries vs pisces moon would respond maybe. I guess I really have out his birth time.
Sounds awesome. Who doesnt need time alone.
Yes they can but it's rare .. they have to really be in love with u & they still will have a me first attitude .. not so much selfish, more like self absorbed but very caring at the same time. He sounds like he needs space & more than he's letting u know about. This isn't necessarily a bad thing , he just needs to figure stuff out in his Aries head lol
Posted by Ram416
Yes.Especially if they have water mars/moon.
He is Pisces moon...just what I thought also after posting this...
He has told you what he wants without telling you. They are very passive aggressive (pisces moon). He is not happy. Can I ask you a serious question? Are you clingy? My closest friend is a pisces moon and he uses work to escape clingy people.
I'd say he is the clingy one but I dont push him away ever...I actually think he may be Aries moon-different sites giving me different results. Thanks for your insight it definately entered my mind already work might just be an escape. He seems absolutely fine now and I checked in with him again on that topic-he's said that he thinks it may have just been the "breakdown" that everyone had mentioned to him was coming. He is off on vacation in a few days for 2 weeks, well overdue!
Okay cool but if he is a Pisces moon know that they are people pleasers who would sacrifice themselves before they do or say anything they feel would hurt someone. I love my friend but this part of him annoys me because being that way is not forthcoming it is deceiving in a way. He would often take sick days when his spouse and child were at work, pretend like he was leaving for work and take the day off so he could rest by himself at home.
Lol that's awful. So when she asks him how work was what will he say? "oh same same". 😛
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Pretty much. He is the sweetest person ever but not very vocal about how he feels when he needs a break from everyone.
Posted by Ram416
Yes.Especially if they have water mars/moon.
He is Pisces moon...just what I thought also after posting this...
He has told you what he wants without telling you. They are very passive aggressive (pisces moon). He is not happy. Can I ask you a serious question? Are you clingy? My closest friend is a pisces moon and he uses work to escape clingy people.
I'd say he is the clingy one but I dont push him away ever...I actually think he may be Aries moon-different sites giving me different results. Thanks for your insight it definately entered my mind already work might just be an escape. He seems absolutely fine now and I checked in with him again on that topic-he's said that he thinks it may have just been the "breakdown" that everyone had mentioned to him was coming. He is off on vacation in a few days for 2 weeks, well overdue!
Do you have his birth time, Libra? Aries and Pisces moon are very very different
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1:15am moon is in Pisces oooooooh!
I believe aries can sacrifice a lot if they truly love you I'm aries domninant and looking back on my past relationships my dumb ass sacrificed a lot when it wasn't necessary
Posted by Ram416
Yes.Especially if they have water mars/moon.
He is Pisces moon...just what I thought also after posting this...
He has told you what he wants without telling you. They are very passive aggressive (pisces moon). He is not happy. Can I ask you a serious question? Are you clingy? My closest friend is a pisces moon and he uses work to escape clingy people.
I'd say he is the clingy one but I dont push him away ever...I actually think he may be Aries moon-different sites giving me different results. Thanks for your insight it definately entered my mind already work might just be an escape. He seems absolutely fine now and I checked in with him again on that topic-he's said that he thinks it may have just been the "breakdown" that everyone had mentioned to him was coming. He is off on vacation in a few days for 2 weeks, well overdue!
Do you have his birth time, Libra? Aries and Pisces moon are very very different
1:15am moon is in Pisces oooooooh!
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Aries sun with Pisces moon......very sensitive
Posted by Ram416
Yes.Especially if they have water mars/moon.
He is Pisces moon...just what I thought also after posting this...
He has told you what he wants without telling you. They are very passive aggressive (pisces moon). He is not happy. Can I ask you a serious question? Are you clingy? My closest friend is a pisces moon and he uses work to escape clingy people.
I'd say he is the clingy one but I dont push him away ever...I actually think he may be Aries moon-different sites giving me different results. Thanks for your insight it definately entered my mind already work might just be an escape. He seems absolutely fine now and I checked in with him again on that topic-he's said that he thinks it may have just been the "breakdown" that everyone had mentioned to him was coming. He is off on vacation in a few days for 2 weeks, well overdue!
Do you have his birth time, Libra? Aries and Pisces moon are very very different
1:15am moon is in Pisces oooooooh!
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We have the same sun and moon placements. Nice.
I bet his moon feels comfortable with yours.
When an aries is being selfish, they don't usually realize they are being selfish. It's not their intention to do so. If they feel like they are being used in the relationship, they might put themselves first. But when an Aries loves someone, they will do whatever it takes and can be extremely selfless.
Yes, BUT--not if it will hurt them in the long run, or if it's a long paying sacrifice. We aren't cancers, we will sacrifice just as any human would but we aren't going to lose an arm and leg for ya.
Hold up! YES WE CAN. And if any Aries is truly honest with themselves, we've ALWAYS been self-sacrificing. HOWEVER--it's in different areas, which subsequently also fuels our needs.
For example: mom nags because you're never around. We'll spend more time with the family so mom doesn't nag anymore. Two birds - one stone.
But when it comes to LOVE... this is an entirely different ballgame, I'm afraid.
First off, if we chose to have a relationship with you [yes, WE CHOSE], then that's self-sacrificing right off the bat as we don't need a relationship.
Posted by jdugan
Hold up! YES WE CAN. And if any Aries is truly honest with themselves, we've ALWAYS been self-sacrificing. HOWEVER--it's in different areas, which subsequently also fuels our needs.For example: mom nags because you're never around. We'll spend more time with the family so mom doesn't nag anymore. Two birds - one stone.
But when it comes to LOVE... this is an entirely different ballgame, I'm afraid.
First off, if we chose to have a relationship with you [yes, WE CHOSE], then that's self-sacrificing right off the bat as we don't need a relationship.
Totally get this that they dont need it. Definitely find he needs freedom within the relationship which suits me perfectly. I'm raised in a family where all the couples are living in each others pockets-totally not healthy for me and not something id ever want. I love to miss him and hear about his day/s.
Is it true though that Aries decide overnight if they dont want to be with someone anymore, like you wont see it coming (reading this everywhere)-this kinda worries me lol! But mines doesnt seem like this even in past relationships its more like hes strung it out longer than he should have when it was broken.
Posted by LibraLovesHim
Dealing with a teary eyed Aries this morning 😢
No and Never! In that order!
I am married to an Aries and he just couldn't bear it if Anything got in the way of his life. Even me!
yes I can.
I like to please my partner, and seeing them happy makes me really happy and love. To me, harmony and stability in a relationship is really important and I guess there isn't really anything that I would place more emphasis on other than my own family.
I guess maybe this has got to do with my rising and venus. I am a aries sun, rising cancer and venus taurus.
I know I am not a typical Aries though.
Posted by LibraLovesHim
Dealing with a teary eyed Aries this morning 😢
Yes we can, it does happen, but if we do it, it means we love you to the ends of earth.
Posted by LibraLovesHim
Dealing with a teary eyed Aries this morning 😢
Yes and they would rather it was this way..they do it selflessly
I think when it comes to their children they will sacrifice for them and put them first.
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Do you have his birth time, Libra? Aries and Pisces moon are very very different