MizzzzM
@MizzzzM
7 Years
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Posted by Pandora101
What is the backstory? you broke up with somebody? did he break up with somebody recently?
going to his house every time he asks you... what is the backstory again?
Posted by WaterbearerwearerPosted by Ivyy
Sounds like he still likes you never ghost an Aries. Aries don't play mind games like air signs. If you like him be genuine.
Aries wrote the book on mind games. 😂🤛🏽click to expand
Posted by MizzzzMPosted by WaterbearerwearerPosted by Ivyy
Sounds like he still likes you never ghost an Aries. Aries don't play mind games like air signs. If you like him be genuine.
Aries wrote the book on mind games. 😂🤛🏽
Isn't that the truth! Especially the male Aries. LOL
Like forreal though, they do. Let’s see how long it takes for him to try to hang with me again LOLclick to expand



Posted by exsqueezemePosted by Arieschick92
I’m an Aries and if I’m really into somebody I don’t really flake very much. That said, it is one of the hallmarks of my personality. If I were you I would not demand to put a label on it, but I would still be more assertive the next time he does this. Either that, or cancel on him before. You could call him out for it but I would do it gently. Usually if people stress us out We start to see them as another responsibility and run for the hills. But there’s nothing wrong with demanding respect, he owes that to you.
Can we have this in sonnet form?click to expand

Posted by exsqueezemePosted by GemitatiPosted by exsqueezemePosted by Arieschick92
I’m an Aries and if I’m really into somebody I don’t really flake very much. That said, it is one of the hallmarks of my personality. If I were you I would not demand to put a label on it, but I would still be more assertive the next time he does this. Either that, or cancel on him before. You could call him out for it but I would do it gently. Usually if people stress us out We start to see them as another responsibility and run for the hills. But there’s nothing wrong with demanding respect, he owes that to you.
Can we have this in sonnet form?
Can we have your messages to start making sense to anyone except just you?
And if you want sonnet - write fucking sonnet or you expect someone else do it for you?
Kiss my chanclasclick to expand
Posted by AriesJo
Yeah kinda... but you're forgetting one thing everyone.. men women.. different mentality. Aries men don't usually cancel, you might be his backup bird.. but I'm guessing from the level of chatting you guys are doing.. then he is kinda young. As most grown up men don't chat all night when sex is there in front of them. Back to my original point.. women make decisions and cancel all the tim, cos their feelings change and feelings are a big factor when it comes to what women do, hence women are flakey and men expect this. Men make a decision and then stick with it regardless of how they feel, as a man, his word is his oath... so maybe he's young, maybe he has you as a backup, or maybe the plans were not 100% definitely.. how apologetic is he when he cancels, and reason given please?
And there are no mind games here, maybe again women have different mind games.. but if a meet-up is on the table, then the guy takes it... hmmz a maybe he's gay? Lots of chatting, not eager to have sex? .. just saying

Posted by boxcarmirnta
So....whats happened?

Posted by GemitatiPosted by exsqueezemePosted by Arieschick92
I’m an Aries and if I’m really into somebody I don’t really flake very much. That said, it is one of the hallmarks of my personality. If I were you I would not demand to put a label on it, but I would still be more assertive the next time he does this. Either that, or cancel on him before. You could call him out for it but I would do it gently. Usually if people stress us out We start to see them as another responsibility and run for the hills. But there’s nothing wrong with demanding respect, he owes that to you.
Can we have this in sonnet form?
Can we have your messages to start making sense to anyone except just you?
And if you want sonnet - write fucking sonnet or you expect someone else do it for you?click to expand
Posted by EvatheDiva52Posted by GemitatiPosted by exsqueezemePosted by Arieschick92
I’m an Aries and if I’m really into somebody I don’t really flake very much. That said, it is one of the hallmarks of my personality. If I were you I would not demand to put a label on it, but I would still be more assertive the next time he does this. Either that, or cancel on him before. You could call him out for it but I would do it gently. Usually if people stress us out We start to see them as another responsibility and run for the hills. But there’s nothing wrong with demanding respect, he owes that to you.
Can we have this in sonnet form?
Can we have your messages to start making sense to anyone except just you?
And if you want sonnet - write fucking sonnet or you expect someone else do it for you?
You seem to forgot little one, that Aries is a FIRE sign. What does that mean? Duh! They move FAST! I have been reading all along from the beginning to the end (not much work today for me as the LTC (P) is on leave until Saturday (8 Sep 18); so I am looking busy at my end by taking a peek at DXP (rare for me!). With that said, I feel you don't keep much to yourself. What do I mean by this? Well, from the beginning when you were menstruating you told him you were on your period and couldn't do the deed. Next time, when you're on your period and making out with a man "just go with the flow". Men normally sexually touch a woman downstairs and start taking off her clothes. This is when you can inform him you're on your period...100% of the time men don't care (yeah, your dude sounds young). Okay, with that said, he told you he's not interested in just sex with you. You haven't informed us how "good or bad" your first sexual encounter was. Which tells me you don't care otherwise either. Pretty strange as Aries men are FIRE (so is their hunger for sex with a woman); I should know. My dad was Aries and my mom informed me how my dad was always after my mom from the get go, got married, and was VERY sexually active with my mom. You called him "flakey" since you keep mentioning his moon, Venus, and retrograde. Uh, does that necessarily mean with the Retrograde that changes a man from being a sexual beast to a lamb? No, I don't think so. What you have found is a man that has met a woman and is ready for a commitment (boyfriend/girlfriend); AKA exclusive. Lucky you. Yet you're confused to the max. You're use to a man dropping his fruit of the looms in a heartbeat, but this one is different. Aries......March or April? My dad was an April Aries.
How much more attention do you want from this man? He likes what he sees. Kinda sorta informing you the moral of the story: 1) don't think too much 2) don't always tell a man you're on your period (none of their business); AKA you talk too much, too.![]()
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Evaclick to expand

Posted by MizzzzMPosted by EvatheDiva52Posted by GemitatiPosted by exsqueezemePosted by Arieschick92
I’m an Aries and if I’m really into somebody I don’t really flake very much. That said, it is one of the hallmarks of my personality. If I were you I would not demand to put a label on it, but I would still be more assertive the next time he does this. Either that, or cancel on him before. You could call him out for it but I would do it gently. Usually if people stress us out We start to see them as another responsibility and run for the hills. But there’s nothing wrong with demanding respect, he owes that to you.
Can we have this in sonnet form?
Can we have your messages to start making sense to anyone except just you?
And if you want sonnet - write fucking sonnet or you expect someone else do it for you?
You seem to forgot little one, that Aries is a FIRE sign. What does that mean? Duh! They move FAST! I have been reading all along from the beginning to the end (not much work today for me as the LTC (P) is on leave until Saturday (8 Sep 18); so I am looking busy at my end by taking a peek at DXP (rare for me!). With that said, I feel you don't keep much to yourself. What do I mean by this? Well, from the beginning when you were menstruating you told him you were on your period and couldn't do the deed. Next time, when you're on your period and making out with a man "just go with the flow". Men normally sexually touch a woman downstairs and start taking off her clothes. This is when you can inform him you're on your period...100% of the time men don't care (yeah, your dude sounds young). Okay, with that said, he told you he's not interested in just sex with you. You haven't informed us how "good or bad" your first sexual encounter was. Which tells me you don't care otherwise either. Pretty strange as Aries men are FIRE (so is their hunger for sex with a woman); I should know. My dad was Aries and my mom informed me how my dad was always after my mom from the get go, got married, and was VERY sexually active with my mom. You called him "flakey" since you keep mentioning his moon, Venus, and retrograde. Uh, does that necessarily mean with the Retrograde that changes a man from being a sexual beast to a lamb? No, I don't think so. What you have found is a man that has met a woman and is ready for a commitment (boyfriend/girlfriend); AKA exclusive. Lucky you. Yet you're confused to the max. You're use to a man dropping his fruit of the looms in a heartbeat, but this one is different. Aries......March or April? My dad was an April Aries.
How much more attention do you want from this man? He likes what he sees. Kinda sorta informing you the moral of the story: 1) don't think too much 2) don't always tell a man you're on your period (none of their business); AKA you talk too much, too.![]()
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
I DO TALK A LOT, but I’m a Gemini! I’m mercury dominant as well, so sverything just flies outta my mouth (or my fingers). Anyway, we had sex the second time we hung out and it was B O M B. We had sex for 2 hours straight until 4 am, but I had to go to bed because I worked in 3 hours. And the next morning we had a quickie. We also hung out for a few hours after that, just during the day. Didn’t do anything sexual, just chatted. And after that was when he started to be flakey. Like he was tired one night that we were supposed to hang out and tells me this AS I’m getting ready to go over. So I was a little peeved and said “well if you didn’t want me to come over you just could have said so since I asked you multiple times if you wanted me to come another day” and he told me that he didn’t want me to think he’s ignoring me. Anyway, I didn’t message him back and that’s when he posted a status about me throwing major shade. But anyway, we hung out this passed weekend, had a good time, I stayed the night but we didn’t even kiss or anything. So Sunday night is when he spilled the beans about liking me. Here’s my thing though, when we hung out this passed weekend, all we did was talk about how we have sex all the time with other people. And even when he was telling me how much he likes me he’s like “girls ask me to hang out all the tjme but I only wanna hang out with you” like ok dude I get it. He also told me that he’s cheated on a lot of girls he’s been with. So of course, when he told me he likes me and stuff I’m like “you’re a playa playa” and he’s like “I know but I don’t want to be anymore”click to expand
Posted by EvatheDiva52Posted by MizzzzMPosted by EvatheDiva52Posted by GemitatiPosted by exsqueezemePosted by Arieschick92
I’m an Aries and if I’m really into somebody I don’t really flake very much. That said, it is one of the hallmarks of my personality. If I were you I would not demand to put a label on it, but I would still be more assertive the next time he does this. Either that, or cancel on him before. You could call him out for it but I would do it gently. Usually if people stress us out We start to see them as another responsibility and run for the hills. But there’s nothing wrong with demanding respect, he owes that to you.
Can we have this in sonnet form?
Can we have your messages to start making sense to anyone except just you?
And if you want sonnet - write fucking sonnet or you expect someone else do it for you?
You seem to forgot little one, that Aries is a FIRE sign. What does that mean? Duh! They move FAST! I have been reading all along from the beginning to the end (not much work today for me as the LTC (P) is on leave until Saturday (8 Sep 18); so I am looking busy at my end by taking a peek at DXP (rare for me!). With that said, I feel you don't keep much to yourself. What do I mean by this? Well, from the beginning when you were menstruating you told him you were on your period and couldn't do the deed. Next time, when you're on your period and making out with a man "just go with the flow". Men normally sexually touch a woman downstairs and start taking off her clothes. This is when you can inform him you're on your period...100% of the time men don't care (yeah, your dude sounds young). Okay, with that said, he told you he's not interested in just sex with you. You haven't informed us how "good or bad" your first sexual encounter was. Which tells me you don't care otherwise either. Pretty strange as Aries men are FIRE (so is their hunger for sex with a woman); I should know. My dad was Aries and my mom informed me how my dad was always after my mom from the get go, got married, and was VERY sexually active with my mom. You called him "flakey" since you keep mentioning his moon, Venus, and retrograde. Uh, does that necessarily mean with the Retrograde that changes a man from being a sexual beast to a lamb? No, I don't think so. What you have found is a man that has met a woman and is ready for a commitment (boyfriend/girlfriend); AKA exclusive. Lucky you. Yet you're confused to the max. You're use to a man dropping his fruit of the looms in a heartbeat, but this one is different. Aries......March or April? My dad was an April Aries.
How much more attention do you want from this man? He likes what he sees. Kinda sorta informing you the moral of the story: 1) don't think too much 2) don't always tell a man you're on your period (none of their business); AKA you talk too much, too.![]()
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
I DO TALK A LOT, but I’m a Gemini! I’m mercury dominant as well, so sverything just flies outta my mouth (or my fingers). Anyway, we had sex the second time we hung out and it was B O M B. We had sex for 2 hours straight until 4 am, but I had to go to bed because I worked in 3 hours. And the next morning we had a quickie. We also hung out for a few hours after that, just during the day. Didn’t do anything sexual, just chatted. And after that was when he started to be flakey. Like he was tired one night that we were supposed to hang out and tells me this AS I’m getting ready to go over. So I was a little peeved and said “well if you didn’t want me to come over you just could have said so since I asked you multiple times if you wanted me to come another day” and he told me that he didn’t want me to think he’s ignoring me. Anyway, I didn’t message him back and that’s when he posted a status about me throwing major shade. But anyway, we hung out this passed weekend, had a good time, I stayed the night but we didn’t even kiss or anything. So Sunday night is when he spilled the beans about liking me. Here’s my thing though, when we hung out this passed weekend, all we did was talk about how we have sex all the time with other people. And even when he was telling me how much he likes me he’s like “girls ask me to hang out all the tjme but I only wanna hang out with you” like ok dude I get it. He also told me that he’s cheated on a lot of girls he’s been with. So of course, when he told me he likes me and stuff I’m like “you’re a playa playa” and he’s like “I know but I don’t want to be anymore”
The phrase is THIS PAST weekend (not PASSED weekend)....hook, line, and sinker!!![]()
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Evaclick to expand
Posted by MizzzzM
Thanks guys! I appreciate it. He told me from the beggining that he really liked me. And the one time I was supposed to come over I said “I’ll be on my period, so I probably shouldn’t come over” and he’s like “why...” and I’m like “uh cause we won’t be able to do the dirty” and he’s like “I thought you knew that I wanted you for more than just sex....” and I kind of ghosted him after he said that until the next day. But after that happened is when he started acting weird. Idk, maybe I kind of started it, but I’m not looking for a relationship, just don’t leave me hanging 🙂

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