How to Attract an Aries

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Aries are very free-minded creatures. They can never stay in the same spot for more than 5 minutes & their need for personal freedom is beyond anything any other sign can understand. Aries are very unstable creatures, but not because they don't have common sense or emotions like everybody else. But it's because, they have a constant desire to explore. Aries are the hardest to pin down because they are constantly on the move, constantly keep themselves busy & seem to live inside their own minds. The best way to attract an Aries is to show them up front that you understand their need for freedom. Trying to pin down an Aries is doom for you. An Aries feels as though them having their own personal independence is what makes them so unique, so it's important for their mates to show that they too, can be independent when an Aries isn't always around. An Aries can bounce all over the place, seem unstable & indecisive, yet still love you just as much as you love them. They just show their love in different ways. They constantly feel like what they have is not good enough, and like they need more in their life, which is explains an Aries constant urge to have new and more impproved things. The key to keeping an Aries interested in you is to answer your phone & come to them when they do actually call you, be there when they need you, open up to them when they need you to on THEIR time, not necessarily on your time. When they are going through an Adventurous streak, go out & be adventorous with them. Aries are dare-devils and there is nothing more attractive to them than someone who shows they are just as edgy and daring. Aries love love, but dont' necessarily need constant attention 24-7, so try not to be too possessive or straight forward with them. They are "go-with-the-flow-" type individuals & appreciate it more when their partners are more like them.
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"you look awesome" "you look fantabulous" "you are totally gorgeous" "You are amazing" "you are a total babe" "you rock" and that should just about do it, it depends I'm a Gemini. Its all about the compliments make great super great complimentations all the time, its about praise and worship constantly, kind of spooky although I can play along with this. But then its just the Alpha Rams as there are meeker lambs too.
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Keep in mind that this website is just for opinions. I'm an Aquarious & I hear alot of things people say about our sign that I feel are one-sided & not absolutely true about every single Aquarious. But I suck it up, the truth of the matter is I've been studying astrology for over 7 years & some of the things I posted today about Aries were traits & findings that I have researched for years. Yes, obviously not EVERY single Aries is this way, but the truth is some of them are. Every sign has bad things or disaggreable things said about them, some for the most part are true, and of course some are not. It's just an opinion. Take it for what it is.
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You guys crack me up. Like I said, I have been studying astrology for the past 7 years. There is soooooooooo much information out there about Aries that would take 7 years just to write out. Yes, Aquarians have been known to be 1 sided but there's a difference between what SOMEONE ELSE's research has found (my sources) & me just putting my own personal thoughts into a post. I'm pretty sure the 5,000 independent sources & researchers studying the Aries personality are NOT Aquarians so if you have a problem with the information, that's fine but go ask them. For the 6 billion people on this earth, I'm sure not everybody will agree that ALL Aries are like what I described, but I'm sure there is also alot of others who will agree that some of the things I posted about Aries is similar to what they've experienced with an Aries person or pretty accurate. There is nothing anything can be said about ANY sign that will be absolutely 100% true. Like I said, I just posted some of my findings, if you don't like it, that's fine. Go & post your own post about Aries that's better than mine instead of spending countless hours responding to my post about things that are irrelevant to the topic I posted. If it helped you, then good. If it didn't, good. But take your irrelevant comments somewhere else.
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For someone who comprehends this is an opinion board, for which every person has a different opinion .. you sure are being contridicting, and one-sided.


One side of your mouth says .. we are all free to post what we want since it's an opinion board, from a persons own perspective.

While the other side says .. take your comments somewhere else if they don't coincide with mine.




lol .. you aren't going to do very well in here if you don't know how to overlook or ignore things you don't like.
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You missed the big point. Don't for one minute think I take personally the opinions of others on this site. I signed up for this site knowing AND comprehending that not EVERYONE will agree with me. What I DON'T get is the fact that when someone creates a post about ONE thing & instead of giving feedback about rather or not it helped or didn't, people start putting out the names of other members & starting conversations that clearly diverted from the initial topic. If I create a post about How to attract an Aries & 10 new people come to my post with the mindset that they might learn something & all they see is my post & then 46 other comments that had NOTHING to do with the initial topic, then that makes it pointless for ALL of us to be on this site. When I first joined this site I clicked on a post that was supposed to be about why Libras are so indecisive. The first post was actually on topic, and when I saw that the initial post had 48 responses I got happy, thinking wow people are responding to the post either giving their own insight or agreeing or disaggreeing with the author of the post. INSTEAD, I was very disappointed when I saw the subject turn from learning about Libras to more than half of the responses from other members being about irrelevant things like food, sex, & other members being dumb, which makes this completely pointless. I came here to talk about Aries, not to make side jokes about other members, which clearly signifies you have too much time on your hands. You clicked on my post OBVIOUSLY because you wanted some insight to an Aries (after all, that is why you clicked on my post) so obviously you expected to see something that actually involved conversation about an ARIES, not other things.
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"What I DON'T get is the fact that when someone creates a post about ONE thing & instead of giving feedback about rather or not it helped or didn't, people start putting out the names of other members & starting conversations that clearly diverted from the initial topic."


It's very simple .. this isn't a private conversation, where there's a limited amount of people having a discussion .. rather, 100's of people all going about thier day, with different thoughts in their mind.

It's in human nature, when something has gotten their attention, which reminds them of something else .. that they now have a desire to discuss this something else.

It's really not that complicated of a concept, when taking into consideration that other peoples minds aren't fixed within yours.

Seriously .. if you are going to get your knickers up over people having different thoughts in there head than a controlled conversation at your direction ... then you're really not going to do well in this forum.

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yes answer the phone when they call, or they think you dont care but dont chase them,open up when they want you to,they will open up to you when their ready,dont push them just wait ,give them their freedom and they will be back,give them your love and you will get it returned
through reading on this board and astrology sites and trial and error i feel they are misunderstood,they want to be loved and liked,and can be your greatest friend and lover just be patient and go with the flow.
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Well, an Aries & Scorpio generally aren't compatible, but that doesn't mean you guys can't make it work. The reason they're generally not compatible is because a Scorpio can't stand to be with someone who's so free, or with someone who doesn't need or want them around 24-7 & their desire for control will interfere with his needs to feel safe & in control. Aries are so free flowing, they love to go out & explore, have fun & in this way you & a Scorpio will have a blast together. But when it comes to the commitment aspect of it, age has nothing to do with personality traits that are generally born to those under a specific sign. Your best bet might be to show him UP FRONT that you don't like to be tied down & that you don't mind a partner who's a little (keyword: little) big over protective, & it's important that you let them know that NOW so that there won't be any suprises. Just be prepared, it may take a Scorpio a long time before they start showing their usual signs so don't be suprised if you don't see any Scorpio traits in the beginning. Just tell him & show him how you are up front & watch his body language & his response to you when he sees/realizes it, that will tell you alot. Hope I helped 🙂
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krysrenee7 - i'm actually not one of those "running wild and free" aries🙂 actually, i'd like to know that there is someone for me 24/7. the scorp i'm with now is way more out there than me and he likes to meet new people and doesn't show any typical scorp's possesivness or jealousy. i think i'm more protective and territorial than he is. we've known each other for about 4 months by now.
"may take a Scorpio a long time before they start showing their usual signs so don't be suprised if you don't see any Scorpio traits in the beginning. Just tell him & show him how you are up front & watch his body language & his response to you when he sees/realizes it, that will tell you alot." - not sure what you mean by body language and responses. i mean, is there anything in particular i should be watching for and recognize.
it's funny but i've always been atracted to scorps. i know every horoscope says that leos are the best for aries but i never found them attractive or even interesting.
thanks
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IsabelScorpia - a friend of mine is a scorp and she's dating a guy who's an aries. they've been having some problems. i do not want to bash any scorp women by any means but she can be a bit emotionally manipulative which is a huge no-no when it comes to aries. also, she keeps very tight hold on him which is unnecessary. don't sugar coat things too much. tell him to his face but in a nice way what you like and don't like. be honest and don't play head games. also, overly dramatic performances, constant exageration, drama and etc behavior on her part usually causes a lot of friction in their relationship. aries like to be proud of their partners and can't stand to be embarassed by them. if aries really like you we'll try our best to not hurt you. also, there might be a power struggle between two of you. so, my advice is to stop it and talk about it. if you think about the whole power struggle thing- no one really has it and no one wins at the end. try to figure out what's important to both of you. also, if you have a lot of things in common will help. sometimes letting go of little things is the best way to keep someone. hope this was some help.
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it seems a lot of aries go for scorps these days... maybe its the challenge.. maybe its just good timing, either way it seems the scorp and aries are running around each other like little kids in a sandbox! krysreene i might be an aries, but also a taurus and i LOVE being over protected by my scorp. yea it is true it all depends on the person and just how it all falls together. to much of anything would be far to much for any one person to handle. life is always balanced and i love hearing everyones battle stories about what drove them nuts and what made them smile. granted i also hear a lot of bad stories with this pairing, but hey why not right? if at first you do not succeed, try and try again! or play them at their own game.

P-angel i read that post you hide... that was very brutal. Granted harsh, yet very true. Obviously you've had enough aries around you to figure them out carefully, but even if that is exactly the way to get at them... doesnt make it right. it sounds far to manipulative and cruel. Personally i've run into a lot of people who've tried all the tactics you mentioned and lucky for me... i saw right through it very quickly. i hate people who use someone elses weaknesses as there strength. i'd lose respect for anyone who'd go for me with that type of tactic, because then you're only looking to own me, not be with me.

marchgirl & ariesgirl... yea they are pompous. i've only liked one and then the second one i ever encountered, we were friends and he treated me like his show case. granted i enjoyed being shown off (hey whats wrong with a little ego trip), but he only did it to gain his fan base. trick worked and thanks me all the time.

An interesting prospect is a Sag... now thats an adventure
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"P-angel i read that post you hide... that was very brutal. Granted harsh, yet very true. Obviously you've had enough aries around you to figure them out carefully, but even if that is exactly the way to get at them... doesnt make it right. it sounds far to manipulative and cruel. Personally i've run into a lot of people who've tried all the tactics you mentioned and lucky for me... i saw right through it very quickly. i hate people who use someone elses weaknesses as there strength. i'd lose respect for anyone who'd go for me with that type of tactic, because then you're only looking to own me, not be with me."

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Yeah, I know it was brutal .. that's why it's hid 😉

Unfortunately, it comes from experience 😢 and it wasn't a fun one, as you can imagine .. though, I haven't given up hope and still looking for my Ram. 🙂
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ag402 and isabelascorp ..sorry but I have never really been romantically involved with a scorp guy. I had one co-worker flirtation once but I think it was mostly because my work was really boring. He seemed very intense thats the bulk of what Im able to recall. Thanx about the my aries symbol I got it at photobucket.com. You might want to get input from Roxi on scorp board about scorp-aries.
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isabel, you are porbably true on that. I've heard more towards the aries female and scorp male, then the latter. possably because we aries are determinded to go for someone reguardless the difficulty... or maybe its because the relationship is difficult, that we strive to make it work!

P-angel, I'm sry to hear that your experience with the aries wasnt as charming as one might have hoped for. I hear a lot of ladies being wooed by the aries male and then in the end regreting it. I've got to say i did have my share of one once, he was the truest combination of the aries and taurus male (cusp of course). He was a wonderful man... and yet the worst man. Normally i'd say i am a very independent, take on the world and screw u all kinda girl. Sadly for that relationship i did find myself a bit weak in the knee. he was perfect and horrible at the same time. i could only imagine how your relationship went, but i'd say to say mine ran much deeper than i had thought and will probably remain one of those past relationships that you question what came over you.

on a side note is it a normal aries quality to never give up? i kno we are persistant, but what is its extent? i've noticed the more difficult something is, the more interested in conqouring it i become. not saying thats a bad thing, but what about the things that arent difficult? do you ladies become easily bored with most things even if its at the point that ur holding the entire world on ur shoulders and feel like its just a beach ball?
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im just curious... is the curse of the aries to feel like nothing will ever be enough? im not just talking about relationships, but more like with anything. i find myself these days with lots to do, and yet i can easily balance everything on my head, and then i feel like my arms arent being used. so i try to tackle more things and then i still feel like 'ok... whats the next step'?
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"They constantly feel like what they have is not good enough, and like they need more in their life, which is explains an Aries constant urge to have new and more impproved things. The key to keeping an Aries interested in you is to answer your phone & come to them when they do actually call you, be there when they need you, open up to them when they need you to on THEIR time, not necessarily on your time. When they are going through an Adventurous streak, go out & be adventorous with them."

this is exactly what i am going through right now. i am seeking different employment because i know that i want to have more so i am on a mission to find that great job. as far as the phone thing, that is something i am going through with my gemini guy. i have never dated a gemini so i am still trying to get used to his ways and try to but demanding ways to the side. but, when i do call hime, i expect him to pick up. when i want to talk to him, i want him there. i have really noticed that lately.
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Har....I am a gemini female & i can tell you before you get deeper into the relationship. We will never be controlled ever, Even if it appears that way...You demanding him to pick up the phone will send him flying & you hurt.. Maybe in the charming you still process he will do anything to see you smile but after it's all said & done, He will not tolerate your bossy ways (If you are like my aries bestfriend) If not .. no problem =) Just a heads up ..Hold on & have fun!
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Yes, the challenge is taken away but temporarily. We want don't want you to do everything we want, just sometimes. Like with calling on the phone, we'll get fussy if it takes a long time for you to call us. Once you do, you can MAYBE call the next day but after that, don't call for like another week. We want to miss you and almost yearn for you. Once we get you, it completely goes away. That's why you have to give us that space to catfch us again.
If you did do everything we want, we wouldn't take advantage of you. We would just stop seeing you.
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