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Posted by sugaries
Me? ugh, I do apologize. I blocked both of them...tired of having the same bs discussion over what I said 4 f*cking months ago. Jesus Christ on a coke binge, I thought Aries' held grudges.

Posted by ardnas
My husband is an Aries and I am a Cancer; I think it is the earthy signs in his natal chart though.
He has sun in aries, moon in libra, rising gemini, venus and jupiter in taurus, mars in capricorn.
I have sun in cancer, moon and ascendant in capricorn, venus in leo, mars in gemini and jupiter in libra.
I usually don't find myself around aries men much and he's the first aries guy I dated and eventually married. I feel more in tune with him than the so-called compatible signs to my cancer sign (if we go by sun sign only). We are both doers and express feelings that way. I drew his portrait for valentine's day and made a gift basket from scratch. Every gift item had a special meaning and represented something. He made my valentine gift with his own hands too. He knows I love wolves (So does he! We have that in common). Anyway, he is following pottery/glazing classes and I was so touched when he showed me the wonderfully painted and carved pottery he made for me. He even worked on an angel figurine for my mom. I am happy that he seems to fit in right there with the family. He's very sweet and not bossy with me. I cannot speak for all aries men because I haven't had as much exposure to them. I did know one aries classmate and he was like the guy with a harem around him. A bit intimidating for a cancer woman. My aries guy is more of a home buddy... I mean the guy cooks for me! I have some food allergies and intolerances and he goes the extra mile for me. He won me over that way. Also, we have a special bond. I referred to him as my teddy bear when we first started dating and then discovered he has a bear tattoo as well as a wolf tattoo. He calls me his oracle because I often dream of things related to him and I can sense when something is wrong.
Some things I have noted with my aries guy. He checks up on me. If I am busy and did not reply to his texts or calls to my mobile while at home, he'll call my home phone. It is kind of cute because he gets annoyed if I do it. Cancer women like the attention anyway. He's very protective, impulsive, and unpredictable at times. Almost every time we have a spat, he will tell me he won't talk to me. I go silent and back off. Not even ten minutes after, he'll come to me himself. Sometimes though, I go toward him even when he's angry. He comes around fast. He listens more than he talks and i sometimes feel like I'm broadc


Posted by LoveeStoned
Cancers are just ... annoying ! they cry over every effing thing. their emotions are just too much ! it's like , suck that shit up. .. im literally getting irritated thinking about most of the cancers i know.
also they're crazy . ... i think Cancers are more likely to turn into stalkers. they (in my opinion) are the definition of fatal attraction.
Posted by GemStar05
Shouldn't pick on Cancers; you know how they'll whine that everyone is picking on them. They can't take it!
Posted by AlexiasPosted by sugaries
When I spoke for myself on the cancer board, I was a big bully and I think someone even deleted...but CC is encouraged to defend cancers (on Aries board)...bc were still big bullies. Oh, and insecure. Even though cancer is too. But don't exploit that....its mean and wah wah. Too funny. It's really not that serious. I don't treat anyone in real life differently bc of their sign.
Oh CC represents the Crabs.... That's so brave of her. I guess she got 'the water puts out fire' pep talk. I like when the crabs come at that angle, because they try to attack emotionally and we kill them mentally-
Note: Mentally an Aries will rip you apart.... Scorpio is good at this as well.click to expand
Posted by Lune
Although I have no problems with aries and have many in my life (cancers as well) I'll contribute my cancer opinion. It is humorous that you are writing a thread about whining and being a bad friend when you are essentially doing that exact thing...besides that, I personally don't share my inner feelings with many people, only those I trust. Which is only a few people. Of the cancers I know, they are the same. I also can sense whether someone is genuinely listening or gathering information. The main thing I've noticed (and what I value and love) about my aries friends, is that they are blunt and honest. That being said I am sensitive, so they are rarely the friends I go to for emotional support. My only question about the scenario is why didn't you tell them what you were really thinking? and to stop whining? I'm sure that's what they were expecting when they were telling you in the first place, trusting that as one of their close friends you would listen and be honest with them. I have noticed this is a more common aries woman trait (no offense!) to be put off by someone and shut them out, where as a man would just tell their friend to shut up and stop going on about it 🙂





Posted by CluelessCancer
Ok let's stereotype Aries:
Are you a man or a woman. Make up your mind!
Your Dirty, disgustingly ridiculously dirty.
Everything isn't about you(why you so selfish)?
Why do you scream so much?
My ears are bleeding
Why do you think you KNOW EVERYTHING (you don't, you dumb twat).
Shut the FRAK UP!


Posted by anonymousheart
Always have loved Cancers. As a Leo, I prefer them over Arians, who I find to be flighty and wildly immature. I feel bad for them a bit cause they just storm into things without thinking and are so predictable.
Cancers do whine, but for some reason it doesn't bother me. I guess because I know they are the kind of friends that will never leave your side. What more could you ask for? I think the people that don't 'get' them are missing out on some of the kindest and most loyal souls of all time.
Posted by AriesIntrovert16Posted by anonymousheart
Always have loved Cancers. As a Leo, I prefer them over Arians, who I find to be flighty and wildly immature. I feel bad for them a bit cause they just storm into things without thinking and are so predictable.
Cancers do whine, but for some reason it doesn't bother me. I guess because I know they are the kind of friends that will never leave your side. What more could you ask for? I think the people that don't 'get' them are missing out on some of the kindest and most loyal souls of all time.
You don't have to feel bad for us. We're alright..click to expand
Posted by anonymousheart
Always have loved Cancers. As a Leo, I prefer them over Arians, who I find to be flighty and wildly immature. I feel bad for them a bit cause they just storm into things without thinking and are so predictable.
Cancers do whine, but for some reason it doesn't bother me. I guess because I know they are the kind of friends that will never leave your side. What more could you ask for? I think the people that don't 'get' them are missing out on some of the kindest and most loyal souls of all time.



Posted by rockstar
I find this hilarious and quite typical of an aries to lay the blame on someone else. As a cancer, I can say this is the exact opposite of me yet, it is SPOT ON for my aries ex. He was ALWAYS complaining about something someone did and the fault was always on the other person. Or lets talk about eating out of house and home - everytime I went grocery shopping he would EAT all the food straight away. If he wasn't hungry he would invite his friends over for a feast. Or how many back rubs or back scratches he needed. If you want to talk about someone who thinks the world revolves around them, ARIES is the one. Oh, and did I mention his lies? Constant lies. Lies about everything.
Darn, it feels good to vent. Because Aries' suck.
Posted by MoonArtistPosted by rockstar
I find this hilarious and quite typical of an aries to lay the blame on someone else. As a cancer, I can say this is the exact opposite of me yet, it is SPOT ON for my aries ex. He was ALWAYS complaining about something someone did and the fault was always on the other person. Or lets talk about eating out of house and home - everytime I went grocery shopping he would EAT all the food straight away. If he wasn't hungry he would invite his friends over for a feast. Or how many back rubs or back scratches he needed. If you want to talk about someone who thinks the world revolves around them, ARIES is the one. Oh, and did I mention his lies? Constant lies. Lies about everything.
Darn, it feels good to vent. Because Aries' suck.
I wouldn't say they all suck any more than any other sign. They have assholes just like all the rest since being a jerk is universal. But I will agree that the negative traits that can flare up if they don't get a handle on them are LYING, MANIPULATING, USING, ATTENTION WHORE. My ex mother in law and my niece are both Aries and they both have the negative traits in abundance. I also know some wonderful Aries people who are full of integrity and a real joy to be around.click to expand
Posted by anonymousheart
Always have loved Cancers. As a Leo, I prefer them over Arians, who I find to be flighty and wildly immature. I feel bad for them a bit cause they just storm into things without thinking and are so predictable.
Cancers do whine, but for some reason it doesn't bother me. I guess because I know they are the kind of friends that will never leave your side. What more could you ask for? I think the people that don't 'get' them are missing out on some of the kindest and most loyal souls of all time.
Posted by AlexiasPosted by Lune
Although I have no problems with aries and have many in my life (cancers as well) I'll contribute my cancer opinion. It is humorous that you are writing a thread about whining and being a bad friend when you are essentially doing that exact thing...besides that, I personally don't share my inner feelings with many people, only those I trust. Which is only a few people. Of the cancers I know, they are the same. I also can sense whether someone is genuinely listening or gathering information. The main thing I've noticed (and what I value and love) about my aries friends, is that they are blunt and honest. That being said I am sensitive, so they are rarely the friends I go to for emotional support. My only question about the scenario is why didn't you tell them what you were really thinking? and to stop whining? I'm sure that's what they were expecting when they were telling you in the first place, trusting that as one of their close friends you would listen and be honest with them. I have noticed this is a more common aries woman trait (no offense!) to be put off by someone and shut them out, where as a man would just tell their friend to shut up and stop going on about it 🙂click to expand






Posted by LunarMaiden
This thread is an example of the Ram and Crab relationship.
The Ram is showering passion and attention on the Crab and the Crab is like, meh whatever. LOL
Cancers don't think about Aries like that.
Don't get me wrong I actually get along with Aries and look forward to having sex with one and let him do most of the work in the relationship.
But we are just not that into you. :/
This is an interesting thread because Cancers don't create threads regarding Aries.
Not even as someone to date or friends even.
I guess that's what sparked this thread, the OP was butt hurt over being ignored or pumped and dumped.
It's all gravy. 😉

Posted by AlexiasPosted by LunarMaiden
This thread is an example of the Ram and Crab relationship.
The Ram is showering passion and attention on the Crab and the Crab is like, meh whatever. LOL
Cancers don't think about Aries like that.
Don't get me wrong I actually get along with Aries and look forward to having sex with one and let him do most of the work in the relationship.
But we are just not that into you. :/
This is an interesting thread because Cancers don't create threads regarding Aries.
Not even as someone to date or friends even.
I guess that's what sparked this thread, the OP was butt hurt over being ignored or pumped and dumped.
It's all gravy. 😉
You're full of It! You wrote this detailed reply only to point out that crabs just don't care. Trust, there are more Cancers who are lost, sad, whining and crying at home right now than Aries. Face it, you folks are huge pains. Don't believe me, then just sit with yourself for a while and tell us how you really feel-
Ha! it's hard to tell. Save it Crustacean! I smell your lies mile away :*)click to expand
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So how many of ur boyfriends has dump u 4 a cancer hot chick?