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Is this normal aries
itâs not normal aries but it doesnât look to me like she means any harm. she probably doesnât have much of a filter when she talks but it seems like she wants to be friends with you. maybe an aries girl can answer this better. iâm a guy, i canât really read between lines lol as far as her trying to break up a conversation between you and another girl, i didnât really understand that either cuz i donât care who any of my friends talk to lol iâm not their dad so lol đ
but yeah i donât think she means any harm. đ
Sheâs unaware of how sheâs presenting herself
Posted by BadderBunny
Unevolved cardinal energy. She admires you and wants to be your friend, but her competitive side also can't resist the urge to one up you. I have experienced this with some Aries women. Sounds like a future frenemy. Proceed with caution.
she sounds both friendly yet rude.
i laughed awkwardly when she asked about my boobs but her face was stone serious.
this partly why i don't even try to make friends anymore, you never know what is even happening.
Posted by MyStarsShine
Sheâs unaware of how sheâs presenting herself
yeah could be, i've always seen aries as very innocent like that
Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by MyStarsShine
Sheâs unaware of how sheâs presenting herself
yeah could be, i've always seen aries as very innocent like thatclick to expand
Yes itâs a kind of naĂŻvety, very childlike
Yeah my dad's pet ram expects me to feed it all the off clippings when I'm doing yard work and it expects scratches too. They're very pushy.
Posted by BadderBunnyPosted by virgoOPPPPosted by BadderBunny
Unevolved cardinal energy. She admires you and wants to be your friend, but her competitive side also can't resist the urge to one up you. I have experienced this with some Aries women. Sounds like a future frenemy. Proceed with caution.
she sounds both friendly yet rude.
i laughed awkwardly when she asked about my boobs but her face was stone serious.
this partly why i don't even try to make friends anymore, you never know what is even happening.
She could just be awkward. And she seemed a little possessive of you as a friend. Is she someone who doesn't have many at work?click to expand
she seems to have no problem talking to other people but she only ever hangs around me for every time we get a breather. maybe she thinks everyone else acts so high school-ish too đ¤ˇđ¤ˇ
Posted by Walk_on_by
Yeah my dad's pet ram expects me to feed it all the off clippings when I'm doing yard work and it expects scratches too. They're very pushy.
aww so cute đđ. guess she's just naturally this way. was overthinking it a bit but overall, feels like out of everyone she felt the least high school-ish to me.
She may need someone to talk to.
Posted by BadderBunny
Unevolved cardinal energy. She admires you and wants to be your friend, but her competitive side also can't resist the urge to one up you. I have experienced this with some Aries women. Sounds like a future frenemy. Proceed with caution.
This
I don't see the one-up-manship some described/responded with. I had to read three times.... especially, when seeing VirgoOPPP's baby and saying she lost hers. I'm very sympathetic to things like loss of a child. If keeping score, per se, (and it's very difficult for me to even stoop to the level of the context of this post) she has a live baby so she wins.... for those seeing "competition." My lord.
If I have a problem with people, (I'm an Aries), I tell them. When she touched me, I would have said something quick and short.
She seems lonely and socially awkward.
Even though she lost her baby 4 years ago, that may be the thing that is making her fixate a little...
I was kidnapped at a couple months old by a lady who lost all her kids in a car accident. My mom left me in the car to run to the store (this is the 70's). They looked for me for hours and the lady had me behind the store just holding and rocking me.
If I have a problem with people, (I'm an Aries), I tell them. When she touched me, I would have said something quick and short.
She seems lonely and socially awkward.
Even though she lost her baby 4 years ago, that may be the thing that is making her fixate a little...
I was kidnapped at a couple months old by a lady who lost all her kids in a car accident. My mom left me in the car to run to the store (this is the 70's). They looked for me for hours and the lady had me behind the store just holding and rocking me.
Posted by Saturn_ReturnsPosted by zodiacpairWhile trying to find some common ground to form a foundation of sorts, hence the scattergun tactic during conversations.
She may need someone to talk to.
Even after becoming a mother, you're still as clueless and easily offended as always.
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as if you're not easily offended yourself
Posted by Saturn_ReturnsPosted by virgoOPPPPosted by Saturn_ReturnsPosted by zodiacpairWhile trying to find some common ground to form a foundation of sorts, hence the scattergun tactic during conversations.
She may need someone to talk to.
Even after becoming a mother, you're still as clueless and easily offended as always.
as if you're not easily offended yourself
I'm not easily offended - I just have unpopular opinions that I'm not afraid to express. Big difference.
But you carry on with your gaslighting and immature bitchiness. I predict you will be a bitter single mother within the next five years, so make the most of things while you still can.click to expand
wow and you talk about bitchiness
Posted by Saturn_ReturnsPosted by virgoOPPPPosted by Saturn_ReturnsPosted by virgoOPPPPosted by Saturn_ReturnsPosted by zodiacpairWhile trying to find some common ground to form a foundation of sorts, hence the scattergun tactic during conversations.
She may need someone to talk to.
Even after becoming a mother, you're still as clueless and easily offended as always.
as if you're not easily offended yourself
I'm not easily offended - I just have unpopular opinions that I'm not afraid to express. Big difference.
But you carry on with your gaslighting and immature bitchiness. I predict you will be a bitter single mother within the next five years, so make the most of things while you still can.
wow and you talk about bitchiness
An Aries woman, who feels alienated by the clique culture of her work group, and for reasons only known to her, gravitates to you, hoping for some kind of connection.
And what do you do? You come on here and bitch about her, like a typical two-faced Virgo woman.
As I've told you many times before, you're both immature and devoid of any self-awareness. Not only that but you love projecting your toxic traits onto others.
Next time, before posting another crappy thread, take a long, hard look at yourself in the mirror.click to expand
I can't see anywhere where I bitched about her. Literally I was wondering if I made a social error.
Posted by Saturn_ReturnsPosted by virgoOPPPPosted by Saturn_ReturnsPosted by virgoOPPPPosted by Saturn_ReturnsPosted by zodiacpairWhile trying to find some common ground to form a foundation of sorts, hence the scattergun tactic during conversations.
She may need someone to talk to.
Even after becoming a mother, you're still as clueless and easily offended as always.
as if you're not easily offended yourself
I'm not easily offended - I just have unpopular opinions that I'm not afraid to express. Big difference.
But you carry on with your gaslighting and immature bitchiness. I predict you will be a bitter single mother within the next five years, so make the most of things while you still can.
wow and you talk about bitchiness
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An Aries woman, who feels alienated by the clique culture of her work group, and for reasons only known to her, gravitates to you, hoping for some kind of connection.
And what do you do? You come on here and bitch about her, like a typical two-faced Virgo woman.
As I've told you many times before, you're both immature and devoid of any self-awareness. Not only that but you love projecting your toxic traits onto others.
Next time, before posting another crappy thread, take a long, hard look at yourself in the mirror.
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I actually agree with him and @MyStarsShine , although not as harsh as he was lol
But yeah...you know, when people are talking, they are not thinking. It's only when we get silent that we start to think.
Maybe she just doesn't want to think anymore, and she is trying her best to be more, social...Trying to change. Sometimes it's just simple as that.
And she is an Aries, I doubt she got bad intentions, like Star said..Aries naivety.
Still, you do you đ
Posted by BadderBunny
Unevolved cardinal energy. She admires you and wants to be your friend, but her competitive side also can't resist the urge to one up you. I have experienced this with some Aries women. Sounds like a future frenemy. Proceed with caution.
you were right all along. she doesn't have bad intentions but she's super arrogant and brags all day.
she unfriended me after i posted a a pic of a pig wearing lipstick on my fb. i mean lol not my problem if anyone feels personally attacked over something random like that.
told this one girl next to me how embarrassing that i'm late for 5 minutes and this aries chick heard and butted in LOUDLY with: "I've never been late ever."
uhhhh? okay good for you.
idk how long i can stand this tbh.
Aries are awkward Periodt!!!
They use their eyes more than Scorpio. Very superficial in a non judgy way. They just need optics to be on point.
They use their eyes more than Scorpio. Very superficial in a non judgy way. They just need optics to be on point.
Posted by poppyflowerPosted by virgoOPPPPosted by BadderBunnyyou were right all along. she doesn't have bad intentions but she's super arrogant and brags all day.
Unevolved cardinal energy. She admires you and wants to be your friend, but her competitive side also can't resist the urge to one up you. I have experienced this with some Aries women. Sounds like a future frenemy. Proceed with caution.
she unfriended me after i posted a a pic of a pig wearing lipstick on my fb. i mean lol not my problem if anyone feels personally attacked over something random like that.
told this one girl next to me how embarrassing that i'm late for 5 minutes and this aries chick heard and butted in LOUDLY with: "I've never been late ever."
uhhhh? okay good for you.
idk how long i can stand this tbh.
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I suspect in all cases of bragging/arrogance, she probably believes she's just making conversation and speaking her mind. I don't know if it's true for all Rams, but I know for myself, I've tried to make conversation in the past through trying to relate to what was being talked about at the current moment in time.
Like:
You were talking about being late. She doesn't have any instances of being late to relate to, so she mentions she's never being late, because being late was the topic.
Like:
Sees you with a ring. Figures you were married. She was married so husband became the topic. So she tried to relate to you by talking about her husband.
Like (I'll make an example out of thin air):
If you said like you struggle with a certain part of this project, she could be like she has done it before at blah blah blah company (therefore she knows how to do that part and you wouldn't need to worry about that part).click to expand
that happened! when i was chatting up one lady (we both came from the same industry previously, this being a shift from what we usually do), this aries butted in saying how she has been in the industry for 10 years and bringing up an even BIGGER company and how SO MUCH HARDER it was to get in there than the one we were talking about.
it's like 2 kids talking about having a freaking chocolate cake on their birthday together and some kid comes and says: "had chocolate cake on mine too but with SPRINKLES on top and Beyonce came over to greet me happy birthday."
happy for you but đđ
Posted by Naeve
I dont see it as typical aries behaviour per say, but we can be very curious and direct in our questioning, which can be inappropriate. Like a child.
How old is she?
she's 32. announced it herself loudly, proudly and unprompted to everyone as she regaled us with tales of her rad party house, crazy rich husband and how she dances with the tambourine, singing religious songs out in the open while telling people over a smoke: "i'm actually agnostic."
someone apparently borrowed money from her amongst us but she refuses to tell coz 'don't wanna make the person feel embarrassed' (she announced this loudly for everyone to hear HA!) now everyone just wants to go to her rad party house. i hope she knows the sort she's attracting with all that horn-blowing.
i really tried my best to fake it yesterday but I think my face can't do it. we were having lunch when she was bragging about something and i just kept looking away and FEEL my eyes rolling oh gawd.
lol was she homeschooled by any chance?
maybe she never really learned how to properly socialize with others and how to âread the roomâ. maybe she has a hard time reading peopleâs body language and moods.
she probably grew up in a house where people perhaps accommodated her so she never really learned to read peopleâs facial expressions and moods (for example, when you grow up in a house where your parents are like a ticking time bomb, the kids will naturally learn to âread the roomâ or read their parentsâ moods etc and they will continue to use this skill when they become adults out in society) it doesnât seem like she has that skill? but that also means she was probably loved by her parents so itâs not a bad thing lol
anyway yeah i still donât think she means any harm. sheâs just oblivious like a toddler lol but if sheâs draining you, you can slowly create distance but donât make it look like youâre obviously creating distance đ she sounds a tad bit sensitive so i would do it in a non-obvious, non-personal way.
maybe she never really learned how to properly socialize with others and how to âread the roomâ. maybe she has a hard time reading peopleâs body language and moods.
she probably grew up in a house where people perhaps accommodated her so she never really learned to read peopleâs facial expressions and moods (for example, when you grow up in a house where your parents are like a ticking time bomb, the kids will naturally learn to âread the roomâ or read their parentsâ moods etc and they will continue to use this skill when they become adults out in society) it doesnât seem like she has that skill? but that also means she was probably loved by her parents so itâs not a bad thing lol
anyway yeah i still donât think she means any harm. sheâs just oblivious like a toddler lol but if sheâs draining you, you can slowly create distance but donât make it look like youâre obviously creating distance đ she sounds a tad bit sensitive so i would do it in a non-obvious, non-personal way.
Posted by serenidad
lol was she homeschooled by any chance?
maybe she never really learned how to properly socialize with others and how to âread the roomâ. maybe she has a hard time reading peopleâs body language and moods.
she probably grew up in a house where people perhaps accommodated her so she never really learned to read peopleâs facial expressions and moods (for example, when you grow up in a house where your parents are like a ticking time bomb, the kids will naturally learn to âread the roomâ or read their parentsâ moods etc and they will continue to use this skill when they become adults out in society) it doesnât seem like she has that skill? but that also means she was probably loved by her parents so itâs not a bad thing lol
anyway yeah i still donât think she means any harm. sheâs just oblivious like a toddler lol but if sheâs draining you, you can slowly create distance but donât make it look like youâre obviously creating distance đ she sounds a tad bit sensitive so i would do it in a non-obvious, non-personal way.
she's an only child but i doubt she was homeschooled with how much of an extrovert she is.
Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by serenidad
lol was she homeschooled by any chance?
maybe she never really learned how to properly socialize with others and how to âread the roomâ. maybe she has a hard time reading peopleâs body language and moods.
she probably grew up in a house where people perhaps accommodated her so she never really learned to read peopleâs facial expressions and moods (for example, when you grow up in a house where your parents are like a ticking time bomb, the kids will naturally learn to âread the roomâ or read their parentsâ moods etc and they will continue to use this skill when they become adults out in society) it doesnât seem like she has that skill? but that also means she was probably loved by her parents so itâs not a bad thing lol
anyway yeah i still donât think she means any harm. sheâs just oblivious like a toddler lol but if sheâs draining you, you can slowly create distance but donât make it look like youâre obviously creating distance đ she sounds a tad bit sensitive so i would do it in a non-obvious, non-personal way.
she's an only child but i doubt she was homeschooled with how much of an extrovert she is.click to expand
oh ok. her being an only child kinda makes sense.
sheâs never had to share the spotlight with other siblings and is used to getting all the attention from her parents so she expects all eyes to be on her wherever she goes đ lol
not all only childs are like this but some can be.
Posted by serenidadPosted by virgoOPPPPosted by serenidad
lol was she homeschooled by any chance?
maybe she never really learned how to properly socialize with others and how to âread the roomâ. maybe she has a hard time reading peopleâs body language and moods.
she probably grew up in a house where people perhaps accommodated her so she never really learned to read peopleâs facial expressions and moods (for example, when you grow up in a house where your parents are like a ticking time bomb, the kids will naturally learn to âread the roomâ or read their parentsâ moods etc and they will continue to use this skill when they become adults out in society) it doesnât seem like she has that skill? but that also means she was probably loved by her parents so itâs not a bad thing lol
anyway yeah i still donât think she means any harm. sheâs just oblivious like a toddler lol but if sheâs draining you, you can slowly create distance but donât make it look like youâre obviously creating distance đ she sounds a tad bit sensitive so i would do it in a non-obvious, non-personal way.
she's an only child but i doubt she was homeschooled with how much of an extrovert she is.
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oh ok. her being an only child kinda makes sense.
sheâs never had to share the spotlight with other siblings and is used to getting all the attention from her parents so she expects all eyes to be on her wherever she goes đ lol
not all only childs are like this but some can be.
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I tried to make myself be friendlier and joke a bit more after a crazy expensive week our team had by saying: "let's not break our hearts by running to the bank yet. a week don't amount to much."
and instead of having a laugh together she says: "oh they gave me a big offer. might be higher than you. maybe you didn't know that?"
she gotta one up you for no reason.
like that time I told one of our colleagues all embarrassed: "I'm late for 5 minutes" *awkward laugh
and the retard that she is instead of any normal response like: "traffic?----crying 5 month old baby kept you all night?----binge watching?" literally anything that could be the equivalent of "Oh you like bread? I like bread too." she the type who'd go: "Me too but mine is gluten-free tho."
but NAH bish chose: "I have never been later ever."
so I did this experiment and decided to go the "I don't think I have enough experience to complete this project. I feel very insecure about how most people around me have so much more history in dealing with this." so I subtly planted seeds of this amongst our colleagues so she stops feeling threatened by me (coz how else can you interpret her one upmanship?) I might as well play the loser.
none of this is true ofc coz truth is none of us have truly done anything like this before. something similar but not exactly. but I was experimenting on how to stop her annoying behavior.
and you know what she did? from playing FRENEMY, she played HERO.
she'd say: "Guys, she's just suffering from post partum, let's try to understand her reservations. We're all on the same boat here, *insert my name.* You'll be fine."
she feels so alienating. if you were normal, she will try to one up you. but if you're a down on your luck, woe is me person then she will defend you, act like a hero. I think at first she thought i either suffered my solitude or was stuck up coz superiority complex. but actually I'm just really shy and I have just enough social skills to not be confined in an asylum. I really just wanted to be left alone.
srsly I feel like the only way anyone gets along with her is either be a lapdog or act like you're never good at anything than her. is that what being alpha is about?
I'm late for work and you gotta compete with me about it FFS.
Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by serenidadPosted by virgoOPPPPosted by serenidad
lol was she homeschooled by any chance?
maybe she never really learned how to properly socialize with others and how to âread the roomâ. maybe she has a hard time reading peopleâs body language and moods.
she probably grew up in a house where people perhaps accommodated her so she never really learned to read peopleâs facial expressions and moods (for example, when you grow up in a house where your parents are like a ticking time bomb, the kids will naturally learn to âread the roomâ or read their parentsâ moods etc and they will continue to use this skill when they become adults out in society) it doesnât seem like she has that skill? but that also means she was probably loved by her parents so itâs not a bad thing lol
anyway yeah i still donât think she means any harm. sheâs just oblivious like a toddler lol but if sheâs draining you, you can slowly create distance but donât make it look like youâre obviously creating distance đ she sounds a tad bit sensitive so i would do it in a non-obvious, non-personal way.
she's an only child but i doubt she was homeschooled with how much of an extrovert she is.
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oh ok. her being an only child kinda makes sense.
sheâs never had to share the spotlight with other siblings and is used to getting all the attention from her parents so she expects all eyes to be on her wherever she goes đ lol
not all only childs are like this but some can be.
I tried to make myself be friendlier and joke a bit more after a crazy expensive week our team had by saying: "let's not break our hearts by running to the bank yet. a week don't amount to much."
and instead of having a laugh together she says: "oh they gave me a big offer. might be higher than you. maybe you didn't know that?"
she gotta one up you for no reason.
like that time I told one of our colleagues all embarrassed: "I'm late for 5 minutes" *awkward laugh
and the retard that she is instead of any normal response like: "traffic?----crying 5 month old baby kept you all night?----binge watching?" literally anything that could be the equivalent of "Oh you like bread? I like bread too." she the type who'd go: "Me too but mine is gluten-free tho."
but NAH bish chose: "I have never been later ever."
so I did this experiment and decided to go the "I don't think I have enough experience to complete this project. I feel very insecure about how most people around me have so much more history in dealing with this." so I subtly planted seeds of this amongst our colleagues so she stops feeling threatened by me (coz how else can you interpret her one upmanship?) I might as well play the loser.
none of this is true ofc coz truth is none of us have truly done anything like this before. something similar but not exactly. but I was experimenting on how to stop her annoying behavior.
and you know what she did? from playing FRENEMY, she played HERO.
she'd say: "Guys, she's just suffering from post partum, let's try to understand her reservations. We're all on the same boat here, *insert my name.* You'll be fine."
she feels so alienating. if you were normal, she will try to one up you. but if you're a down on your luck, woe is me person then she will defend you, act like a hero. I think at first she thought i either suffered my solitude or was stuck up coz superiority complex. but actually I'm just really shy and I have just enough social skills to not be confined in an asylum. I really just wanted to be left alone.
srsly I feel like the only way anyone gets along with her is either be a lapdog or act like you're never good at anything than her. is that what being alpha is about?
I'm late for work and you gotta compete with me about it FFS.click to expand
âŚi see lol
from the way you described her, she does seem a bit insecure. the quote âthey wanna see you do good, but never better than themâ popped up in my mind while reading this.
you shouldnât have to shrink yourself in order to make insecure people feel comfortable. and when someone is insecure, even the smallest thing will trigger them. but guess what, other peopleâs insecurities are not your problem. these people at some point need to realize that they wonât always be number one.
thereâs always gonna be someone better at something than we are, thereâs always gonna be someone smarter than us etc. and the sooner we humble ourselves and accept that, the better.
âtrue confidence isn't thinking you're better than anyone else, itâs realizing that you have no reason to compare yourself to anyone else.â
this girl needs you to be beneath her so she can feel good about herself. thatâs not a true friend unfortunately.
Posted by poppyflowerPosted by serenidadPosted by virgoOPPPoh ok. her being an only child kinda makes sense.Posted by serenidad
lol was she homeschooled by any chance?
maybe she never really learned how to properly socialize with others and how to âread the roomâ. maybe she has a hard time reading peopleâs body language and moods.
she probably grew up in a house where people perhaps accommodated her so she never really learned to read peopleâs facial expressions and moods (for example, when you grow up in a house where your parents are like a ticking time bomb, the kids will naturally learn to âread the roomâ or read their parentsâ moods etc and they will continue to use this skill when they become adults out in society) it doesnât seem like she has that skill? but that also means she was probably loved by her parents so itâs not a bad thing lol
anyway yeah i still donât think she means any harm. sheâs just oblivious like a toddler lol but if sheâs draining you, you can slowly create distance but donât make it look like youâre obviously creating distance đ she sounds a tad bit sensitive so i would do it in a non-obvious, non-personal way.
she's an only child but i doubt she was homeschooled with how much of an extrovert she is.
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sheâs never had to share the spotlight with other siblings and is used to getting all the attention from her parents so she expects all eyes to be on her wherever she goes đ lol
not all only childs are like this but some can be.
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I'm also an only child đclick to expand
from my past observations, there seem to be two major types
the first type is like the girl thatâs being talked about in this thread lol đ
the second type is the calm, unruffled, unbothered, independent, highly self-reliant kid thatâs kinda just chilling in his/her own world lol
you could be the latter one lol
Posted by poppyflowerPosted by virgoOPPPPosted by serenidadI tried to make myself be friendlier and joke a bit more after a crazy expensive week our team had by saying: "let's not break our hearts by running to the bank yet. a week don't amount to much."Posted by virgoOPPPoh ok. her being an only child kinda makes sense.Posted by serenidad
lol was she homeschooled by any chance?
maybe she never really learned how to properly socialize with others and how to âread the roomâ. maybe she has a hard time reading peopleâs body language and moods.
she probably grew up in a house where people perhaps accommodated her so she never really learned to read peopleâs facial expressions and moods (for example, when you grow up in a house where your parents are like a ticking time bomb, the kids will naturally learn to âread the roomâ or read their parentsâ moods etc and they will continue to use this skill when they become adults out in society) it doesnât seem like she has that skill? but that also means she was probably loved by her parents so itâs not a bad thing lol
anyway yeah i still donât think she means any harm. sheâs just oblivious like a toddler lol but if sheâs draining you, you can slowly create distance but donât make it look like youâre obviously creating distance đ she sounds a tad bit sensitive so i would do it in a non-obvious, non-personal way.
she's an only child but i doubt she was homeschooled with how much of an extrovert she is.
click to expand
sheâs never had to share the spotlight with other siblings and is used to getting all the attention from her parents so she expects all eyes to be on her wherever she goes đ lol
not all only childs are like this but some can be.
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and instead of having a laugh together she says: "oh they gave me a big offer. might be higher than you. maybe you didn't know that?"
she gotta one up you for no reason.
like that time I told one of our colleagues all embarrassed: "I'm late for 5 minutes" *awkward laugh
and the retard that she is instead of any normal response like: "traffic?----crying 5 month old baby kept you all night?----binge watching?" literally anything that could be the equivalent of "Oh you like bread? I like bread too." she the type who'd go: "Me too but mine is gluten-free tho."
but NAH bish chose: "I have never been later ever."
so I did this experiment and decided to go the "I don't think I have enough experience to complete this project. I feel very insecure about how most people around me have so much more history in dealing with this." so I subtly planted seeds of this amongst our colleagues so she stops feeling threatened by me (coz how else can you interpret her one upmanship?) I might as well play the loser.
none of this is true ofc coz truth is none of us have truly done anything like this before. something similar but not exactly. but I was experimenting on how to stop her annoying behavior.
and you know what she did? from playing FRENEMY, she played HERO.
she'd say: "Guys, she's just suffering from post partum, let's try to understand her reservations. We're all on the same boat here, *insert my name.* You'll be fine."
she feels so alienating. if you were normal, she will try to one up you. but if you're a down on your luck, woe is me person then she will defend you, act like a hero. I think at first she thought i either suffered my solitude or was stuck up coz superiority complex. but actually I'm just really shy and I have just enough social skills to not be confined in an asylum. I really just wanted to be left alone.
srsly I feel like the only way anyone gets along with her is either be a lapdog or act like you're never good at anything than her. is that what being alpha is about?
I'm late for work and you gotta compete with me about it FFS.
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Yeah, she's really bad at awareness. Even reading her responses is slightly getting on my nerves. I'd ask her "why each and every time, you gotta make yourself appear better than everyone else?" I think she's due for a wake up call.click to expand
Ahhh ! Such an Aries thing to say ! "I Think she's due for a wake up call." đ
I Love saying this one to other people hehe xD
Posted by ATGR
She sounds like an idiot. Can you avoid her?
I'm trying but we're in the same department.
But whatever I'll just wait for the contract to end.
Posted by poppyflowerPosted by IamTheRamPosted by poppyflowerAhhh ! Such an Aries thing to say ! "I Think she's due for a wake up call."Posted by virgoOPPPYeah, she's really bad at awareness. Even reading her responses is slightly getting on my nerves. I'd ask her "why each and every time, you gotta make yourself appear better than everyone else?" I think she's due for a wake up call.Posted by serenidadI tried to make myself be friendlier and joke a bit more after a crazy expensive week our team had by saying: "let's not break our hearts by running to the bank yet. a week don't amount to much."Posted by virgoOPPPoh ok. her being an only child kinda makes sense.Posted by serenidad
lol was she homeschooled by any chance?
maybe she never really learned how to properly socialize with others and how to âread the roomâ. maybe she has a hard time reading peopleâs body language and moods.
she probably grew up in a house where people perhaps accommodated her so she never really learned to read peopleâs facial expressions and moods (for example, when you grow up in a house where your parents are like a ticking time bomb, the kids will naturally learn to âread the roomâ or read their parentsâ moods etc and they will continue to use this skill when they become adults out in society) it doesnât seem like she has that skill? but that also means she was probably loved by her parents so itâs not a bad thing lol
anyway yeah i still donât think she means any harm. sheâs just oblivious like a toddler lol but if sheâs draining you, you can slowly create distance but donât make it look like youâre obviously creating distance đ she sounds a tad bit sensitive so i would do it in a non-obvious, non-personal way.
she's an only child but i doubt she was homeschooled with how much of an extrovert she is.
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sheâs never had to share the spotlight with other siblings and is used to getting all the attention from her parents so she expects all eyes to be on her wherever she goes đ lol
not all only childs are like this but some can be.
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and instead of having a laugh together she says: "oh they gave me a big offer. might be higher than you. maybe you didn't know that?"
she gotta one up you for no reason.
like that time I told one of our colleagues all embarrassed: "I'm late for 5 minutes" *awkward laugh
and the retard that she is instead of any normal response like: "traffic?----crying 5 month old baby kept you all night?----binge watching?" literally anything that could be the equivalent of "Oh you like bread? I like bread too." she the type who'd go: "Me too but mine is gluten-free tho."
but NAH bish chose: "I have never been later ever."
so I did this experiment and decided to go the "I don't think I have enough experience to complete this project. I feel very insecure about how most people around me have so much more history in dealing with this." so I subtly planted seeds of this amongst our colleagues so she stops feeling threatened by me (coz how else can you interpret her one upmanship?) I might as well play the loser.
none of this is true ofc coz truth is none of us have truly done anything like this before. something similar but not exactly. but I was experimenting on how to stop her annoying behavior.
and you know what she did? from playing FRENEMY, she played HERO.
she'd say: "Guys, she's just suffering from post partum, let's try to understand her reservations. We're all on the same boat here, *insert my name.* You'll be fine."
she feels so alienating. if you were normal, she will try to one up you. but if you're a down on your luck, woe is me person then she will defend you, act like a hero. I think at first she thought i either suffered my solitude or was stuck up coz superiority complex. but actually I'm just really shy and I have just enough social skills to not be confined in an asylum. I really just wanted to be left alone.
srsly I feel like the only way anyone gets along with her is either be a lapdog or act like you're never good at anything than her. is that what being alpha is about?
I'm late for work and you gotta compete with me about it FFS.
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I Love saying this one to other people hehe xD
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Just imagine life, and not being an Aries...I mean, what else is there in life ?...
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This is very Aries behaviour and she likely felt like she wanted to bond with you but wasnât getting the right social cues from you to feel heard or something.
Pacing and then leaving, is likely because she felt left out but wanted to talk to you and signaled to you that she was outtie.
Simple. I think youâre more concerned with her being an Aries and then finding fault. So I donât think youâd blend well with an Aries, especially if theyâre more social and trying to find a way to bond and youâre naturally standoffish from the jump.
Pacing and then leaving, is likely because she felt left out but wanted to talk to you and signaled to you that she was outtie.
Simple. I think youâre more concerned with her being an Aries and then finding fault. So I donât think youâd blend well with an Aries, especially if theyâre more social and trying to find a way to bond and youâre naturally standoffish from the jump.
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This is very Aries behaviour and she likely felt like she wanted to bond with you but wasnât getting the right social cues from you to feel heard or something.
Pacing and then leaving, is likely because she felt left out but wanted to talk to you and signaled to you that she was outtie.
Simple. I think youâre more concerned with her being an Aries and then finding fault. So I donât think youâd blend well with an Aries, especially if theyâre more social and trying to find a way to bond and youâre naturally standoffish from the jump.
I agree with you on the feeling left out. But I think this Ram is misreading by a big mile here. Especially this one:
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I tried to make myself be friendlier and joke a bit more after a crazy expensive week our team had by saying: "let's not break our hearts by running to the bank yet. a week don't amount to much."
and instead of having a laugh together she says: "oh they gave me a big offer. might be higher than you. maybe you didn't know that?"
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I mean, everybody had a rough week and she says how she had a good week? I know she's just trying to talk here but the "rough week" part completely went out the window.click to expand
basically what I meant was we were all expecting money in our banks (worth 1 week) so I joked that let's not hurt ourselves by getting too excited coz it's not gonna be much coz it's only accounting for a week, not yet a full month.
which everyone can agree on except her coz she prob took offense at 'break our hearts/hurt ourselves' and instantly countered me with how she prob was offered a bigger amount than me (by that meaning the rest of us coz far as we all knew we were all promised the same amount).
so she just HAD to let me know that she could never get hurt coz hers is BIGGER.
like if this chick were a dude, he'd prob brag about how huge his penis is than any other man on earth.
Posted by poppyflowerPosted by Rimzy
This is very Aries behaviour and she likely felt like she wanted to bond with you but wasnât getting the right social cues from you to feel heard or something.
Pacing and then leaving, is likely because she felt left out but wanted to talk to you and signaled to you that she was outtie.
Simple. I think youâre more concerned with her being an Aries and then finding fault. So I donât think youâd blend well with an Aries, especially if theyâre more social and trying to find a way to bond and youâre naturally standoffish from the jump.
I agree with you on the feeling left out. But I think this Ram is misreading by a big mile here. Especially this one:Posted by virgoOPPP
I tried to make myself be friendlier and joke a bit more after a crazy expensive week our team had by saying: "let's not break our hearts by running to the bank yet. a week don't amount to much."
and instead of having a laugh together she says: "oh they gave me a big offer. might be higher than you. maybe you didn't know that?"
I mean, everybody had a rough week and she says how she had a good week? I know she's just trying to talk here but the "rough week" part completely went out the window.click to expand
If someone asks, or eludes to pay I always disclose my pay but thatâs only because Iâve worked with people who were extremely undervalued and I was being paid a vast amount more. They canât do shit if you disclose eitherâŚ
Iâd want to know. I feel like Aries are just full frontal all disclosure and very little hold back.
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