JEALOUSY - GET WITH IT

lol ok ok - here's the thing - are aries men in general very jealous?

my aries guy told me before he's an extremely jealous guy - here's the thing i have alot of guy friends - they are nothing more to me and sometimes i hang out wit dem.

now my aries guy is in the bahamas and i'm in canada(yea far i know rite!) i'm from the bahamas - anyway i was goin bike riding yesterday with a guyfriend, who i went to college with and who happens to live a few houses down from me - anyway so i was online chattin away wit my aries - he wanted to kno who i was goin wit - when he heard it was a guy - he was annoyed - i had to go thru such an explaination to make him feel at ease - told him there was nothing to worry bout dat this guy was like my big bro cus he watches out for me n he has never tried anything on me - which is kinda tru

so gosh how do i deal wit such jealousy? i mean he's jus paranoid, i wudn't cheat on him - i harmlessly flirt but he doesn't kno that - lol but the thing is i am loyal girl - but how do i deal with a jealous aries man - any ideaS———??

You don't say you are with anybody Missy!
Botttom-line!

That's true Alana . . . tell him what he wants to hear to pacify him. The thing is, at least it would be for me . . why is the truth not good enough? Oh well, sometimes a fib is a good thing, I guess.

Not a Aries-thing to be yealous.

I don't get yealous if someone would be dancing with my gf...
i don't have one 😄

You dont' have one?

Well, what if he was dancing with your boyfriend, would you get jealous then?

I'm not even sure that I understand the benefit in the emotion: Jealousy

It seems like a hypocritical emotion, really.

Scenereo: A girl is caught with another man holding hands, by her boyfriend. The boyfriend loses his mind with jealous rage and wants to beat up, verbally assault, because of this insecurity of being jealous. Having that reaction because of anger, would be justifiable. So, why is he jealous? Why would anyone be jealous? The answer being, because this girl belongs to this boy and he would defend anyone who tried to take her away . . yet, she wasn't sitting there in handcuffs . . wasn't being forced to be with another boy. So, what is the reason for the jealousy, exactly?

I mean, to display an emotion like this . . doesn't the other person have to be worth it? Are people jealous over another who would forsake their honor, betray them? Doesn't there seem like there should be a quality of faithfulness in the partner to even want to be jealous over them?

I don't get it, and perhaps, I never will. But, if my partner wanted to be with another person . . I'd walk away. What would my jealousy do, if I displayed that? Would my reason for doing this be because I wanted to attempt to force the other to like me? Is that real like, if you have to force another, or play with their feelings, trick them, pit them against someone . . whatever . . to get them to like you?

Jealousy is something I don't quite understand.

as P-angel hqs said, no needto feel jeallouss,,,,,,it's aninscurity in one' self. I

cancer 12, aries is jealous/possessive whatever u call it! about ur harmless flirting bit - if he finds out - he aint goin to be interested in u very long.

ingo, he's never goin to find out - trust me but i totally agree that sometimes u need to tell ppl wut they wana hear - i mean dis guy i went riding wit is harmless - i'm not interested yet my aries feels jealous - yep i think he feels that way because he's insecure plus aries usually seem to think that they shud be the center of attention to their loved ones - my aries prob feels he shud be the only guy i get close wit

anyway here's another question: for ingo and aries ppl

doesn't a tiny bit of jealousy help keep the relationship interesting - i mean jus a tiny bit once in a while thing - ever so slight - or maybe dis doesn't work for aries—

So, you like the jealousy . . I thought you didn't?

i like when a guy likes me dat much dat he gets jealous SOMETIMES- but i know that the fact remains that i do have alot of guy friends over here and it will bother him that i hang out wit them - i jus hate that if i am honest wit him n say "hey i'm goin out wit a guyfriend" he will get upset - but his reason for being upset is not even a good reason cus these guys r jus friends to me - we hav fun together doing regular friend shit - SO i feel like i have to lie to him jus so he won't get annoyed n shit - wow this is a new things for me cus when in relationships i've always been honest so this is a new experience for me - not necessarily bad jus different i guess

see wut he doesn't understand is if he and i were in the same country - i would spend most of my time wit him - but we're in 2 dif countries so i guess he's afraid of wut he can't see - guess he figures "well i can't see wut she does or doesn't do" - guess it's a trust thing

So, you two only get to see each other once in a while? That must be tough to deal with. How often do you get to see each other?

gosh it hasn't been that long - it's a fresh romance -

"but I do like it when a guy gets jealous once in awhile...it can be a turn-on."

haha aprilbaby u got the idea - as long as the jealousy doesn't become overbearin i don't mind a little - but see i was in a relationship with another guy for 3 yrs n he wasnever the jealous type so thats y this is so new for me - thanx alot! 😄

yeah, cause girls are never jealous...

jealousy is not based on astrology or gender. its human nature.

Jealousy can also rip a couple apart, because if it's allowed to exist in a relationship then it only gets worse once the "Honeymoon" is over.

I'm with you crisp, it's according to each individual person and how much they respect their partner, rather than sign or gender.

Jealousy is not inherent.
The Green Monster only moves in when one?s trust and love has been abused repeatedly.
Hard to heal - hard to tolerate - but that?s basically what it is.

Correction: that?s basically WHY it is.
Sorry for that -🙂