My Aries is on dating sites handing out his number

So met this Aries end of last year and we have been going along really, really well, something caught my eye on his iPad thingy so I did a bit of investigating and he's on a site called Badoo, and chatting to girls of Asian nationalities, which he seems to have a fondness for by going on his FB friends listing and teeing up lunches and dinners and handing out his mobile number.

WTF

So should I call him up on this and see whats going on, or is he just a typical Aries player that doesn't realise he has a good thing right in front of him yet seeks to have these Asian ladies for the fact they are submissive.

Or walk away.

I think it's time back away from this one emotionally and add other guys to your list of options. Clearly he's got some side thing going that includes other women that don't even look like you. Based on what you said you have only been dating for 4 -5 months right? So it's not like you two have had a long-term exclusive relationship. He is keeping his options open and/or looking for the type of woman he really wants. He could just be flirting, but in my experience Aries men need other women around them. They may or may not sleep with these women. What is your gut telling you?

Well as of this afternoon and his profile steadily says he's single and looking for the right one, my gut instincts are telling me I'm not the one and he's definately got something going on the side.

Do I do the confronting thing or just ignore him until he goes away?

Posted by Hails26
So met this Aries end of last year and we have been going along really, really well, something caught my eye on his iPad thingy so I did a bit of investigating and he's on a site called Badoo, and chatting to girls of Asian nationalities, which he seems to have a fondness for by going on his FB friends listing and teeing up lunches and dinners and handing out his mobile number.

WTF

So should I call him up on this and see whats going on, or is he just a typical Aries player that doesn't realise he has a good thing right in front of him yet seeks to have these Asian ladies for the fact they are submissive.

Or walk away.

I think you're being a bit harsh with the "typical Aries player."
What's a typical Aries? I am pretty typical but am definitely not a "player" (I am assuming when you use the word player you mean ignorant disloyal pondscum who can't keep their pants on.)

lol at Badoo. I think that sums everything up nicely. I would delete him from your life. Next.

**sometimes girls think they are a "good thing" and they really aren't.
If they were so "good" they would be spoken for already.

Posted by Hails26
Well as of this afternoon and his profile steadily says he's single and looking for the right one, my gut instincts are telling me I'm not the one and he's definately got something going on the side.

Do I do the confronting thing or just ignore him until he goes away?

Set up a profile and send him a message with your phone number only in it. Then walk away.

Posted by Hails26
So should I call him up on this and see whats going on

Yes

One quick comment...

The Internet has ruined relationships and dating.

RNAP..Not true...my guess is she is a good thing and he's a jerk...sometimes women are not taken because we are "choosey" and we have gotten wise to this type of man....

Oh I forgot..Celtic ha ha great answer!

That's a good as a drink thrown in his face....

Asian women are by no means submissive that is just a stereotype.

@ReallyNiceAries person I agree with sunshine. Why u always baggin on the comments made about Aries we all know you guyz rock! Heck im in love with one! Lol. But its no secrete that Aries men are known to roam the playground, not exactly whores tho they are very choosey. They just like to play before they settle. The say the same thing about my libra males. Lol. That they are liars and love to disappear which they do, but only when they are NOT in love, and unsure if the person is the one. If they think you??re the one, then cupid themselves wont be more sweet. To the Original Poster read that again because this is what Aries and Libra have in common to be the opposite sign in the zodiac. They both tend to dable in this and that, be there, leave come back, no strings, not sure if I want that, Aries just makes up their mind quicker and there's no changing it. Libra on the other hand ehhh, a little persuasion sweet talking, confidence, funny jokes and you MIGHT get yourself back in the phone book.

To the original poster, If an Aries has not cut off their options for you yet, then surely that's a sign that they are either unsure about you, still evaluating you, or you are simply just not "the one" but not being the one doesn't mean they won't have a little fun with you, if your cool people your cool. They just wont commit to you. My guess is he's just having fun with the internet, however if he was satisfied there would be no need becuase Aries CAN and WILL commit to that special one. I've seen it happen, and there's nothing like it when they do. Its like a damn fairytale. But if your not the one, RUN! I would definitely back off. He is heartbreak waiting to happen girl. Don't take it personal tho. And yes confront him! Shoot, this is not some guy you kicking it with, he was your man. You have a right to go off. WTF. Besides if the shoe was on the other foot Aries wouldn't hesitate to check a mate when they are wrong. Do him the same way.

CONFRONT.BE FIRM. AND DUMP HIM. EFF THAT. If yall were just kicking it i'd tell you to be cool. But if your my man then thats a whole other story and its on, especially if i've been 100% faitful and good to you. Whether im the one or not you WILL respect me. Dont let him get away with it.

Posted by sunshine222
One quick comment...

The Internet has ruined relationships and dating.

RNAP..Not true...my guess is she is a good thing and he's a jerk...sometimes women are not taken because we are "choosey" and we have gotten wise to this type of man....

She may well be. You are quite right.

Don't forget those guys we think are jerks also think they are "good things."

Posted by starlover
Shame him in some way

Burst his egotistical bubble, if you dont, he will do it to the next victim

I'm just about to do this with an email with screen shots of his conversation with one of the girls he politely told he was single and still looking.

I instantly cut my ties with him, bestest quickest decision this little libra has done for months lol.

Now he wants to come over for the Easter longweekend, just because he deleted his account from the dating site. How freakin' stupid does he think I am? You delete one account doesn't mean you won't be firing up a new one and being even more elusive about it.

Another penny that dropped with me was when we went out for dinner one night he kept getting phone calls claiming it was "his work" and removed himself from the table, so another reason why do ditch this dude because no doubt those calls are merely his other women calling.

So I'll fire off the email with the evidence on it and here's hoping he'll get the clear message once and for all that he doesn't deserve me what so ever and I don't deserve that shyte either.

ummmmmmmmmmmmmmmm hellloooooooooooooooooooooo, this board is no better than the Libra board right now. smh. sheesh!

Aries are not players if they are serious about you and are capable of faithfulness and devotion. If your aries was serious about you, he wouldnt be handing out his number. Find another aries, we really are great people :p

Posted by ariesbabie
Aries are not players if they are serious about you and are capable of faithfulness and devotion. If your aries was serious about you, he wouldnt be handing out his number. Find another aries, we really are great people :p

It hasn't turned me off Aries what so ever, I've grown up with the best Aries, my dad, and he's been devoted to my mum for 40 odd years, so I know that they are good, loving, kind people.

I just happen to stumble across one that isn't so, and he wasn't serious about me, just wish he had of spoken up months ago instead of wasting my time and me catching him out on dating websites. It was the bulltwang he was spinning to me that I've disliked the most.

Thank you bluemoon 🙂 I think the capricorn rising grounds us quite nicely.