LibraJackson
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Oh boy..
stop trying to figure out what to say - you owe it to yourself and him to tell him how you feel and that is that - put it out there because that is what it is - with no expectations of getting anything back
nothing he says will change how you feel so just put it out there - tell him everything and get it off your chest
put the egg in his basket
that will give him the opportunity to express himself - it doesn't sound like you have any idea how he really feels but I suspect he feels the same way although things have changed a bit - you don't talk to someone every day and have a good thing - that sort of thing doesn't happen often so hold on to what you can if you can
work it out Libra - you know the way - but you will need to be open and vulnerable and take tiny steps in the right direction and stop trying to hide to so call save him - he needs to "feel" as well
and you need to know where he stands
deep breaths and god speed
nothing he says will change how you feel so just put it out there - tell him everything and get it off your chest
put the egg in his basket
that will give him the opportunity to express himself - it doesn't sound like you have any idea how he really feels but I suspect he feels the same way although things have changed a bit - you don't talk to someone every day and have a good thing - that sort of thing doesn't happen often so hold on to what you can if you can
work it out Libra - you know the way - but you will need to be open and vulnerable and take tiny steps in the right direction and stop trying to hide to so call save him - he needs to "feel" as well
and you need to know where he stands
deep breaths and god speed
Posted by tctapYeah I'm going to talk to him. You're right. I'm just so afraid of getting hurt and now I'm hurting both of us. I'll definitely try to talk to him later about it.
stop trying to figure out what to say - you owe it to yourself and him to tell him how you feel and that is that - put it out there because that is what it is - with no expectations of getting anything back
nothing he says will change how you feel so just put it out there - tell him everything and get it off your chest
put the egg in his basket
that will give him the opportunity to express himself - it doesn't sound like you have any idea how he really feels but I suspect he feels the same way although things have changed a bit - you don't talk to someone every day and have a good thing - that sort of thing doesn't happen often so hold on to what you can if you can
work it out Libra - you know the way - but you will need to be open and vulnerable and take tiny steps in the right direction and stop trying to hide to so call save him - he needs to "feel" as well
and you need to know where he stands
deep breaths and god speed
Posted by LibraJacksonI know, it is hard - especially when it's so good between you when you are together - but you have to know what direction to take so you can move on with your life - cause you stuck right now ...Posted by tctapYeah I'm going to talk to him. You're right. I'm just so afraid of getting hurt and now I'm hurting both of us. I'll definitely try to talk to him later about it.
stop trying to figure out what to say - you owe it to yourself and him to tell him how you feel and that is that - put it out there because that is what it is - with no expectations of getting anything back
nothing he says will change how you feel so just put it out there - tell him everything and get it off your chest
put the egg in his basket
that will give him the opportunity to express himself - it doesn't sound like you have any idea how he really feels but I suspect he feels the same way although things have changed a bit - you don't talk to someone every day and have a good thing - that sort of thing doesn't happen often so hold on to what you can if you can
work it out Libra - you know the way - but you will need to be open and vulnerable and take tiny steps in the right direction and stop trying to hide to so call save him - he needs to "feel" as well
and you need to know where he stands
deep breaths and god speed
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Libras are just over thinkers...
It should be fine as long as you don't make it worse. Cancer moon 50% can make people overly emotional.
I am Aries sun.
Piscesmoon
It should be fine as long as you don't make it worse. Cancer moon 50% can make people overly emotional.
I am Aries sun.
Piscesmoon
Posted by LibraJacksonWell,I think is good that you post here if it helps you. I know some times is nice to get advice and see what people think without them knowing you 😉
So I think I messed this up. I'm such an overthinker, It pisses me sometimes.
Two days ago was my birthday, my Aries forgot about it and just didn't make much effort at all. He said sorry few times and I'm willing to get over it.
But it made my blood boils, I was so upset. He's in NY and he moved there last month. He's been texting me every day. We've been seeing each other before he moved away for almost a year. I'm going to visit him in December.
Anyway. He brings the best out of me. When I'm around him I want to be a better person. I know this sounds so cheesy but it's true. He's blunt and honest and I don't speak what's on my mind a lot. That's why I'm writing it down here lol 😛
I got so mad and I told him I was mad and now he's mad because I said he never cared. Technically speaking we haven't labelled ourselves. Oh boy...like he's soooo mad that I kept it this long to tell him that when he first ended things in May it made me insecure about how he truly feels about me.
I don't know what to do. I just told him that things were so good. I didn't feel the need for him to reassure my feelings and a big ALSO. He was going away, I wanted to be there for him and be supportive not pouring my heart out and tell him I love him and that would just make things harder as well.
He's so mad that he said he'll talk to me tomorrow. So shit !! what am I going to say —
I think all is good. He in upset because you didn't tell him how you felt before you left... now he knows how you feel, let him have the time to get his head around, don't push the situation anymore and I think everything is going to work out well.
With Aries men it seams that the best is to chill out and let everything flow, but tell them exactly what you think with out any pressure.
Relax and he will come to you. You have done your bit for now 😊
I will be so mad if he forgets my birthday, so in my book it's only normal that you got upset with him. He probably knows that he messed up and he is not happy about it.
Maybe he just got trouble with keeping dates in mind, and wasn't deliberate. He feels guilty and care about you hence trying. Trust me, if he doesn't care he don't try at all.
I am pretty sure he doesn't care about his own birthday either. Maybe just because I don't? 🙂
Sometimes i forget birthday 3times on the actual day while busy with something not because it's not important but it was in that moment needed to be sorted so the priority was responsibility over duties.
I am pretty sure he doesn't care about his own birthday either. Maybe just because I don't? 🙂
Sometimes i forget birthday 3times on the actual day while busy with something not because it's not important but it was in that moment needed to be sorted so the priority was responsibility over duties.
Posted by RozaeonThis is why of dealing with things. You are not being, you are entitled to your own opinions.
I don't mean to be rude but you're starting to get really annoying with this story
Grow up and take some time to think instead of panicking and posting here everytime something is bothering you
Like I'm entitled to vent here, I obviously like this site and I love getting feedbacks because I'm an overthinking for sure. I know I can be annoying, If it annoys you personally you don't need to read it just ignore it.
Posted by SheeverHe doesn't care about his birthday at all. It's all sorted now, but I need to tell him how I feel from now on. He's so straight forward and blunt and I'm just not 😢 ha
Maybe he just got trouble with keeping dates in mind, and wasn't deliberate. He feels guilty and care about you hence trying. Trust me, if he doesn't care he don't try at all.
I am pretty sure he doesn't care about his own birthday either. Maybe just because I don't? 🙂
Sometimes i forget birthday 3times on the actual day while busy with something not because it's not important but it was in that moment needed to be sorted so the priority was responsibility over duties.
aries shut down and get rude when they're caught up in something they did wrong. so you need to confront him 100% with "I feel like ____" and because "you did this i think ____" instead of you did this and you're wrong for this because etc
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