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Yeah, except I've been trying to change things for the last year and a half and nothing is happening. THAT is where my frustration lies. I've been trying to get things settled for grad school and nothing is happening.

Stale and monotonous is being forced on me and I hate it.

Posted by rockyroadicecream
Yeah, except I've been trying to change things for the last year and a half and nothing is happening. THAT is where my frustration lies. I've been trying to get things settled for grad school and nothing is happening.

Stale and monotonous is being forced on me and I hate it.

Ah! That happened to me too. Until I found another place that would take me... good luck with that I know how frustrating it can be... I was waiting for 3+ years /:

Fook, my friend has some stupid moments.

He's crushing. But he's fine with being friends. He struggles with it at times, and I've been patient and haven't made him feel bad and whatnot. I've been in his shoes, so I'm not about to be some mean bitch about it.

When it comes to talking about other guys to him, he would get really funny with me. If he knew I was going to hang out with a guy, he'd start acting weird and short with me. So I just didn't talk to him about that stuff.

Against better judgement, I vented about some issues I'm having with one at the moment. He seemed to react fine. I went ahead and talked to him about it because he'd brought up this crazy ex of his and was talking to me about her.

Now he's ignoring my messages, though he's online on social media.

I'm getting tired of being emotionally punished for his emotional issues. This is why I could never get romantically caught up with a Pisces. They're okay friends, but all that emotional manipulation shit gets old.

And what pisses me off the most is I just went into detail about how some guy is treating me, and the treatment is pissing me off enough to the point where it's either talk to him about it or drop his ass cold turkey. Then the Pisces goes and starts ignoring me like a jerk. Nevermind the double standard here.

/ vent

Fuck these last few weeks. I'm so over this shit. People are so incredibly lame.

Fuck everyone and just worry about yourself. You are stressed and it bleeding into your social life. Just take sometime to yourself. You deserve it. Do whatever it is you love. Take some time out. Drink cheap wine, take a hot bath. Listen to your favorite music. Fuck, buy yourself a bouquet of roses (who does that? I do -_-... hey but it works!).

You need it. You deserve it.

Take some time away from everyone including the internet. Unwind. It will help.

And if you need someone to vent to... I'll be here all night 🙂

Not gonna lie, I've considered deactivating social media and going into seclusion from people, haha. You and I think quite alike. :p

On the bright side, I just got all my healthcare coverage info. Thanks to Obamacare, I actually have health coverage now. 🙂


(I've gotten myself flowers, too. Just because they were pretty!)

Lol, yup! I'm always like fuck waiting for a man to buy it for me. I going to buying it my fucking self lol.

Seriously, though! Take some time to unwind and pamper yourself girl! Or else you're going to go crazy!!

If you're still reading this, WTF you doing? LOL, get your ass off DXP, turn off your computer. Step AWAY from the computer and go RELAX LOL 😄

I'm about to head off to work, haha.

LOL, well after work.

Sorry Virgo rising anal part of me... but if you can't get someone to give you a massage, stretching or working out your muscles in anyway is just as good as good for your muscles as getting a massage. That is all.

xtina, didn't you say you worked as a server?

If you still do, how is your restaurant handling the new gratuity law? Mine's taking away auto grat all together (they already had anyway) AND they're withholding all our credit card tips til pay day, as opposed to nightly. That part is total bs and so far I've seen this only with our company. The rest just aren't bothering with auto grat.

But my company is run by cheap assholes :/

Actually, since I started up school I haven't been working but I'm going to have to get a job soon. When I left though, which was only the end of last year, I did hear something about that. But I was in CA at the time I also heard they were trying to implement a required tipping of 18% ... it was through the rumor mill so not sure if that was even true or not /:

Rocky I showed this thread to the Aries.

She went "Who is this chick and what is she doing in my head?"

Thought it would amuse you 😛

Posted by rockyroadicecream

Posted by bkbella86

Posted by Damnata
Do sports. A lot of them.

I swear Aries peeps and strong Aries influence in charts => DO SPORTS.

ive been working out alot does that count?

i cant imagine what sport id pick if i had to. im very uncoordinated lol

Really? I've done a ton of sports. Soccer, a little hockey, basketball, softball/baseball, tennis, swimming, golf, track, whatever. Soccer was the one I did the most. The others I've dabbled in. An uncoordinated Aries is odd to me. :p

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Posted by aquavita
arieses drink—??

lol sometimes

im not a huge drinker tho

Meeeneither.

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no i think my watery planets make me lazy lol or maybe my venus

idk

but never did sports

my asc progressed to gemini so that explains me working out alot now. I love it.

Posted by Damnata
Rocky I showed this thread to the Aries.

She went "Who is this chick and what is she doing in my head?"

Thought it would amuse you 😛

Ha.

My Pisces friend apologized for being an asshat the last few days.

Damn, I missed all the dramallama in the other thread before it got deleted.

Posted by rockyroadicecream
Damn, I missed all the dramallama in the other thread before it got deleted.

+1 😄
I wanted to see WHO SHE WAS GONNA SHOUT AT NEXT WITH HER SCAREY CAPITALS!!!

I swear, Aries are freak magnets. :/

Posted by Damnata
There is no way this year can get any worse for me. No way. (yes God, I am aware you have a sense of humor when it comes to me, how about you stop fucking me over for once?)

-First Aura dies..I still haven't come to terms with it..am numb over it and I still think she took a plane to the Bahamas or something.
-Then I flood the 2 apartments underneath me..luckily I know some plumbing so the disaster was mainly contained in my apartment.
-Then my laptop bursts into flames..cannot be fixed, borrowed the Aries's laptop. No money for this shit.
-Then this Gemini guy friend backstabs me..I should've seen it coming but granted him acces into my life because he's smack dab on the Taurus cusp. Can you tell how biased I am with Geminis? I keep them at arms' lengths.
-Then my mom attacks her boyfriend with a knife..and gets admitted to hospital. They set her free, she pulls some shit again, still in the hospital and still refusing treatment.

Yeah, I don't even want to know what Life has in store for me this year. The only way is up.

Not stealing your thunder rocky, we corner the market on shitty circumstances I swear. Let's join forces and have a thunderstorm.

I'm really sorry this has happened to you and we're only three months into the year! I don't want to say too much so I don't jinx you but I hope everything gets better from here on out!

Smoke came pouring out..I said flames to be more dramatic. But yeah, it's dead.

Aw, you're so sweet. Once you hit rock bottom the only way is up so I am looking forward to making 2014 my personal bitch.

Freaking Pisces mood swings are starting to piss me off.

I can't look at this guy cross eyed without him getting upset for some mysterious reason. I'm not even sure why he's being moody this time unless it's just him not feeling well.

Kinda getting sick of this bs, though. :/

I made birthday plans and excluded the ex for the first time in a few years. I always included him due to mutual friends, just to avoid dramas and shit. He only really showed once- last year. This year, I don't give an eff, and I don't want him bringing wompwomp along. I'm sure it'll look like I don't want him around now that he has a girlfriend, but wtf ever. If she were a different person, one that wasn't a weirdo who made everyone uncomfortable, I wouldn't give an eff.

WE'LL SEE WHAT COMES OF THIS, EH OH EL.

I'm also excluding guy who I wanted to throat punch. At least for now. Still not sure if I should bother or not. I'm not sure if he'll care or he'll be butthurt. :/

Regardless, eff these weirdos. It's mah birfday and I'm gonna make the best of it, har.

Posted by rockyroadicecream
Freaking Pisces mood swings are starting to piss me off.

I can't look at this guy cross eyed without him getting upset for some mysterious reason. I'm not even sure why he's being moody this time unless it's just him not feeling well.

Kinda getting sick of this bs, though. :/

I made birthday plans and excluded the ex for the first time in a few years. I always included him due to mutual friends, just to avoid dramas and shit. He only really showed once- last year. This year, I don't give an eff, and I don't want him bringing wompwomp along. I'm sure it'll look like I don't want him around now that he has a girlfriend, but wtf ever. If she were a different person, one that wasn't a weirdo who made everyone uncomfortable, I wouldn't give an eff.

WE'LL SEE WHAT COMES OF THIS, EH OH EL.

I'm also excluding guy who I wanted to throat punch. At least for now. Still not sure if I should bother or not. I'm not sure if he'll care or he'll be butthurt. :/

Regardless, eff these weirdos. It's mah birfday and I'm gonna make the best of it, har.

yes rocky - you said before, aries are freak magnets lol! People like this drag you down
Just do your shit and fuck everyone else 😄

Posted by Damnata
Smoke came pouring out..I said flames to be more dramatic. But yeah, it's dead.

Aw, you're so sweet. Once you hit rock bottom the only way is up so I am looking forward to making 2014 my personal bitch.

You will Damnata... you will 😉

Posted by rockyroadicecream
Freaking Pisces mood swings are starting to piss me off.

I can't look at this guy cross eyed without him getting upset for some mysterious reason. I'm not even sure why he's being moody this time unless it's just him not feeling well.

Kinda getting sick of this bs, though. :/

I made birthday plans and excluded the ex for the first time in a few years. I always included him due to mutual friends, just to avoid dramas and shit. He only really showed once- last year. This year, I don't give an eff, and I don't want him bringing wompwomp along. I'm sure it'll look like I don't want him around now that he has a girlfriend, but wtf ever. If she were a different person, one that wasn't a weirdo who made everyone uncomfortable, I wouldn't give an eff.

WE'LL SEE WHAT COMES OF THIS, EH OH EL.

I'm also excluding guy who I wanted to throat punch. At least for now. Still not sure if I should bother or not. I'm not sure if he'll care or he'll be butthurt. :/

Regardless, eff these weirdos. It's mah birfday and I'm gonna make the best of it, har.

It's your birfday and you can punch if you want to, punch if you want to! You would punch too if these fuckers were mean to youuu!!! LOL

As for the Pisces man... trust me on this you just have to be a bitch, give in once and while here and there (give them a break occasionally from their mental whiplashing) but them Pisces men are masochists... they love being treated like shit and if you don't they will treat you like shit. I don't know why this is but that has been my experience with Pisces men. Seriously though, seriously though 😄

Okay maybe being treated like shit is an overstatement but you can't be giving in when they're being assholes... you got to give very little sweetness and then yank that damn rug from under them... give them another bit of sweetness and yank that damn rug from under them again... they fall for it every time and they come back time after time. You got to show them whos boss 😉

What makes the girlfriend so weird? How does she make everyone uncomfortable? Maybe you should try and get to know her first.

*shrug*

Posted by xtina
Okay maybe being treated like shit is an overstatement but you can't be giving in when they're being assholes... you got to give very little sweetness and then yank that damn rug from under them... give them another bit of sweetness and yank that damn rug from under them again... they fall for it every time and they come back time after time. You got to show them whos boss 😉

Never said I was tolerating it. If he's being pissy and weird, I just let him be pissy and weird and won't talk to him until he decides to stop acting like that. I'll even ask him wtf is going on and he just downplays it and says "nothing."

My irritation this time around is just not knowing wtf his problem is. But whatever. I'm just growing tired of him taking out his emotional shit on me when I've done nothing to deserve it.

Posted by AriesIntrovert16
What makes the girlfriend so weird? How does she make everyone uncomfortable? Maybe you should try and get to know her first.

*shrug*

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Long story. I already had met her prior to them dating, so it's not like she's a total stranger. Let's just say her reputation precedes her and they've already had an instance or two where they made everyone uncomfortable because of their rude and tacky behavior.

Also, with her background, I'd rather keep my distance. She's a bit of a mooch and I'd rather avoid getting to know her further. Most of our mutual friends feel the same way. She has a tendency to bring drama with her too, and this is about having fun.

So is it wrong to be a bit pissy that you've been asked to move your birthday plans back so they can go do something else instead?

"Oh, we wanted to go do this. Can you move your plans back??"


...

I would probably be a little upset.

What are these other plans?

They basically wanted me to push it back so they could go to the beach...all day. As I got more info, it was like okay so when the hell am I supposed to fit in my plans? They're talking a possible bonfire, etc. It doesn't get dark til 8. My plans were at 3.

Turns out it was only 2 people that was "everyone." I said eff them, they don't have to go, and the rest of us will meet them after ward for bonfire goodness.

The two that wanted me to alter my plans are under the age of 23-24, so I'm not surprised at such an asinine, self centered request. I thought it was incredibly rude.

You don't say yes to someone's plans, realize that you want to do something else, then have the audacity to ask them to move those plans around just for them. There are 8 other people to consider here. :/

Really? Wow... I was thinking maybe they accidently bought concert tickets or something... but a bonfire? Really?

Even if they were planning something more or not couldn't they have planned it around your plans??

Selfish *Smh*

HAPPY BIRTHDAY ROCKY!! I hope it's a great one 😄

Yeeeep.

Thanks 🙂